Ex-Wife!!!!

[reeshy]

<p>As some of you know....I lost my wife, Karola, to cancer in on Christmas eve, 1999.</p><p>Since then, I have been seeing my first wife on and off....she has been married and divorced 3 times....I was the first....</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>We've been getting serious for the last 6 months.....dating, catching up...whatever!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Now she tells me she loves me again.....I don't know what to say....I still love my second wife.....I think about her all the time.....but Judy (the first wife) wants to know what my intentions are....she wants me to move in with her etc. etc.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>What the fuck do I do? &nbsp; I don't even know if I love her anymore!!!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I hate being pressured....but I still want to get laid for free!!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>What the hell do I do????????&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

use the big head and be honest with her how you feel. then spend a little time apart and see where it takes the two of you. just be prepared to not having her anymore but hopefully feel okay with her finding something that will make her happy...

[reeshy]

<p>Funkie,</p><p>I have told her that I'm not in love with her....she laughs when I say that and gives me a BJ!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Jesus Christ...I'm only human!!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And it makes me sad afterwards...no shit!!!&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Funkie,</p><p>I have told her that I'm not in love with her....she laughs when I say that and gives me a BJ!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Jesus Christ...I'm only human!!!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And it makes me sad afterwards...no shit!!!&nbsp;</p><p>i apologize but i've got to steal Gvac's line &quot; i am so fucking horny right now &quot;&nbsp; <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" width="20" height="20" /></p><p>i don't know reesh, maybe she says one thing and means another. maybe it will take her a little time and she'll either realize you don't love her and she'll leave the relationship or she'll just settle for you not loving her realizing love may be just too hard to find elsewhere</p><p>when i say &quot;settle for you&quot; i don't mean that negatively. i'm sure you have alot of qualities(other than actually loving her)&nbsp;that she appreciates...</p>

[reeshy]

Yea..I got a bug cock...and I can tell jokes!!!!!

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br />Yea..I got a <strong>bug</strong> cock...and I can tell jokes!!!!! <p>what's that lice?</p><p><img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/tongue.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" /></p>

[reeshy]

Teehee...I love typos!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>Just from my experience;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>My wife and I split October 31, 2005. I moved out and got a place with my bro. On December 9, 2006 she told me she wanted me back. I was seeing a wicked chick and I ended up breaking things off with her to go back with my wife.</p><p>It was about 5 months into the 'reconcilliation' and she took off her rings, started being bitchy and has said she wants me out an average of every 3rd day. I will take 95% blame for the first split but I can only be held accountable for 1% this time. </p><p>What I'm saying is that the thing that split us up the first time wasn't yet dealt with so it reared it's ugly head this time. </p><p>I can't speak for you, but if it ever came time for me to reconcile with an ex... I'd be out. </p><p>Take your time Reeshy, if you aren't yet ready for a relationship then don't do it. When you're ready you won't have to ask this question... You'll just know.</p>

[Don Stugots]

i dont think i can answer this since it is in the that's life forum.&nbsp;

[boeman]

There's a reason she's an ex... keep that in mind.

[reillyluck]

the second time around is probably the hardest.&nbsp; dont be pressured into the whole &quot;love&quot; word.&nbsp; if you enjoy her company right now, then just enjoy it.&nbsp; life is too short to rush into anything.&nbsp; if it didnt work out the first time for the both of you, maybe this time is a &quot;second chance&quot;.&nbsp; i truly believe that everything happens for a reason.&nbsp; whether the relationship might only be temporary, take it as a learning experience now and enjoy the ride.&nbsp;

[angelinad128]

Next time she tells you she loves you and or she wants to move in, be honest and tell her she can laugh all she wants but it's not goona happen that way. You just want company for now and then say good bye.&nbsp;

[spoon]

<p>Two takes on this one:</p><p>1) If you don't want to, simply don't.&nbsp; Keep&nbsp;it going the way it's working right now and let her know how it's great this way for now and it wasn't when we lived together last time.&nbsp; Basically, keep a good thing going.&nbsp; </p><p>2) If you do move in/get back with her, set some shit straight with her day 1.&nbsp; Go in with an iron clad plan that if it gets messy at all, or she reverts back to the shitty ways of old, you're gone in a second.&nbsp; Short of saying it's my way or done.&nbsp; She's been divorced 3 times for a reason Reesh, what makes you think she won't ruin this one too.&nbsp; I'd go with option #1 as long a possible.&nbsp; The old cow/milk theory.</p>