Who should make the first move?

[ShelleBink]

Guy or girl?

[Don Stugots]

it doesnt matter.  if you want something, go get it. 

[PapaBear]

The girl has made the first move in almost every relationship I've had. They usually have to make several moves, as I'm a dope that doesn't get it the first couple of times.

[Ritalin]

<p>Yeah, it depends on the circumstances. When I kissed my now wife for the first time, it was five weeks after I had met her. Her response? &quot;It's about time&quot;.</p>&lt;&gt;&nbsp;There's nothing wrong with holding off when you think it's important. <br />

[Crispy123]

I don't grab some tit until I throw food down her throat, like a gentleman.

[Bob Impact]

Always the guy, he's got to roll down the passenger side window.

[Justice4all]

<strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br />it doesnt matter.&nbsp; if you want something, go get it.&nbsp; <p>Stu is a brilliant man.</p>

[johnniewalker]

It doesn't hurt for it to be the girl every once in a while.&nbsp;&nbsp; Do girls realize if you really like a guy just ask?

[spoon]

<strong>Ritalin</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Yeah, it depends on the circumstances. When I kissed my now wife for the first time, it was five weeks after I had met her. Her response? &quot;It's about time&quot;.</p>&lt;&gt;&nbsp;There's nothing wrong with holding off when you think it's important. <br /><p>Damn, I wouldn't wait that long for sex!&nbsp; And what the hell is a &quot;my now wife&quot;!?&nbsp; That one cracked me up kid!</p>

[ralphbxny]

I have made the first move in most of my relationships and I use that term losely. My current lady love did make the first move on me as I didnt want to cross into the friendzone...and how we guys end up there is still a freakin mystery.

[FUNKMAN]

<p>you should be able to tell from the eye contact and it should be simultaneous</p><p>but you never know</p><p>before i was married i sat on a couch with a woman on a first date and for an hour or so she tried to explain to me how easy american girls were (she was portugese) so i figured &quot;no nookie tonight&quot;. i then leaned over to and give her a kiss &quot;expecting nothing&quot; and the first thing she does is grab my junk</p><p>still make me giggle</p>

[reeshy]

<p>&quot;the first thing she does is grab my junk&quot;</p><p>What was her name....Fred Sanford?????????</p>

[sailor]

<strong>PapaBear</strong> wrote:<br />The girl has made the first move in almost every relationship I've had. They usually have to make several moves, as I'm a dope that doesn't get it the first couple of times.<p>&nbsp;<font size="2">thankyou for not making me have to type out this exact response.&nbsp; :)<br /></font></p>

[Fezticle98]

Girl on girl.

[EliSnow]

<p><font face="arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="3">I agree that it depends upon the circumstances, and that it can be the guy or girl who makes the first move.&nbsp;&nbsp; I was once out with my brother, his gf, and his gf's cousin, and we were all drinking and I was flirting with the cousin all night.&nbsp; I was wondering if it would turn into something, and at 12:30 I got my answer when she asked me:&nbsp; &quot;So are we going to fuck?&quot;&nbsp; Classy girl, that one.&nbsp; </font></p><p><font face="Arial" size="3">I always liked a girl making the first move, and always dreamed of a girl leaning over, and unzipping my fly and ... well you can figure the rest.&nbsp; Since I'm married, this will likely never happen, unless my wife and I do some role-playing.&nbsp;&nbsp; Actually, that's not a bad idea.&nbsp; </font></p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by EliSnow on 12-14-06 @ 9:24 AM</span>

[JerryTaker]

<p>In my case, I couldn't make the first move. Within an hour there's the animal control van and the guys with nets yelling, &quot;What is that thing?&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>...definatley not worth it&nbsp;</p>

[reillyluck]

im not afraid to make the first move.&nbsp; depends on the moment. if its right, i'll do it.&nbsp;

[angelinad128]

<strong>reillyluck</strong> wrote:<br />im not afraid to make the first move.&nbsp; depends on the moment. if its right, i'll do it.&nbsp; <p>Exactly what I was going to say. You beat me to it!!&nbsp; But that's the truth. If you feel it's right go for it!</p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<p>who ever wants it. but i like a girl who makes the first move!</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Dan 'Hampton]

I was wicked timid but put a pint in me and things went fine.&nbsp; That and constant reasurement that she liked me.

[reillyluck]

<strong>dschef</strong> wrote:<br />I was <strong>wicked</strong> timid but put a pint in me and things went fine.&nbsp; That and constant reasurement that she liked me. <p>i love that word. i dont know why but i do.&nbsp; makes me think of &quot;pak ya Ca in Havad Yad&quot; </p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[El Mudo]

<p>I think it depends a lot on context.&nbsp; You can't just fling yourself at a person, but if you've known them long enough and feel that its the right move to make, go for it.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I personally am too shy to do anything but talk.&nbsp; Sorry ladies, its on you.&nbsp;</p>

[TheVHD]

Whenever your in a situation where there is sexual tention or you want to hook up... there is a time when your eyes will lock and you both knows what it means... it's at that point that the move is to be made... if she doesn't do it then you HAVE to go for yours... because if you miss that moment you will be playing catch-up for the rest of the night... and when you make the move usually you are rewarded handsomely.

[A.J.]

<p>White makes the first move.</p><p><img src="http://www.chessmazeinternational.com/getpic.php?id=722&amp;size=170" border="0" width="170" height="216" /></p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>A.J.</strong> wrote:<br /><p>White makes the first move.</p><p><img src="http://www.chessmazeinternational.com/getpic.php?id=722&amp;size=170" border="0" width="170" height="216" /></p><p><img src="http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f207/birch_t_fied/ani_difranco.jpg" border="0" width="240" height="298" /></p>

[Furtherman]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br /><p>&quot;the first thing she does is grab my junk&quot;</p><p>What was her name....Fred Sanford?????????</p><p>Hahahaha.&nbsp; Props for that one Reeshy!!!</p>

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br /><p>&quot;the first thing she does is grab my junk&quot;</p><p>What was her name....Fred Sanford?????????</p><p>Esther</p>

[MONICA5579]

<p>If I'm into the guy I'll wait for a little bit, but then I've got to go for it if they don't.&nbsp; You never know if a guy is scared of getting shot down or having charges filed against them!!</p>

[boeman]

<p>My wife is the only one that I didn't make the first move on... </p><p>Surprisingly, I've never been accused of sexual misconduct.</p>

[IamFogHat]

I think it's incredibly hot when a woman is assertive and makes the first move, and I think a lot of guys feel the same way but a lot of woman don't know it.

[K.C.]

<p>I don't think there's any protocol to it at this point. </p><p>Me personally, I usually feel I should do it, not because I'm a guy, but it just feels that if I do it, I've basically placed my cards on the table and in there's a certain sense of comfort in knowing that it's the end of that whole game, even if it doesn't end the way I want. </p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>Although, at the same time, I like a chick who initiates as well. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>So...I think the moral of my story is I feel I should do it, but if the girl does it, I dig that too. </p>

[FUNKMAN]

<p>when i was a young teen the worst thing you could have done was ask a girl if she wants to make out. me and a buddy are at a girls house with her friend and the girl i was supposed to &quot;be with&quot; went into the bathroom and i followed her in.&nbsp; </p><p>she's combing her hair and i'm standing behind her. like an idiot i ask her if she wants to make out. she just got quiet and walked out.</p><p>the next week no lie my other friend got anal from her</p><p>life's tough lessons, nice guys jerk off</p>

[ShelleBink]

Well, the reason I ask is, considering the person in question has only gotten a hug from me, when I see him next I have a feeling I might rape him.&nbsp; Ok, ok, maybe not rape, but I seriously see myself attempting to make out with him and inevitably looking like an ass in trying to do so.

[MONICA5579]

<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />Well, the reason I ask is, considering the person in question has only gotten a hug from me, when I see him next I have a feeling I might rape him.&nbsp; Ok, ok, maybe not rape, but I seriously see myself attempting to make out with him and inevitably looking like an ass in trying to do so. <p>But at least you'd know if he's interested in you the same way.&nbsp; I met a guy that was really shy and nervous, but after I made the first move it made things a lot more relaxed.&nbsp; For me, it's worked out great so far!!&nbsp; Good luck Shelle!!!!!!&nbsp; Let us know what happens!!!!!</p>

[K.C.]

I'd go for it, Shelle...if the guy doesn't have a chick or any kind of girlphobia, I can't really see why he'd reject the move.

[guttersnipe]

<p>Even if he <em>does</em> have a chick, he probably won't reject you.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[ShelleBink]

no, no girlfriend.&nbsp; we've been chatting back and forth for a while, went on a date too.

[MONICA5579]

Go for it!&nbsp;&nbsp; I'd do it!!

[ShelleBink]

i think the sad thing is he'll probably read this.

[MONICA5579]

Then he'll be prepared!!!

[ShelleBink]

haha i've already warned him a bit, still doesn't make me any less nervous

[SatCam]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br><p>when i was a young teen the worst thing you could have done was ask a girl if she wants to make out. me and a buddy are at a girls house with her friend and the girl i was supposed to "be with" went into the bathroom and i followed her in. </p><p>she's combing her hair and i'm standing behind her. like an idiot i ask her if she wants to make out. she just got quiet and walked out.</p><p></p>

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"soooo... wanna get a room?"

[Fezticle98]

<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />Well, the reason I ask is, considering the person in question has only gotten a hug from me, when I see him next I have a feeling I might rape him.&nbsp; Ok, ok, maybe not rape, but I seriously see myself attempting to make out with him and inevitably looking like an ass in trying to do so. <p>Who could it beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?</p>

[ShelleBink]

<strong>fezticle98</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />Well, the reason I ask is, considering the person in question has only gotten a hug from me, when I see him next I have a feeling I might rape him. Ok, ok, maybe not rape, but I seriously see myself attempting to make out with him and inevitably looking like an ass in trying to do so. <p>Who could it beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?</p><p>&nbsp;lmao.</p>

[Don Stugots]

<strong>Justice4all</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br />it doesnt matter. if you want something, go get it. <p>Stu is a brilliant man.</p><p>&nbsp;justice, i would be brilliant if i had learned and believed that when i 18.&nbsp; truth be told i didnt do either until 3 years ago.&nbsp; i see my life change by leeps and bounds once i did.&nbsp; i try to tell my nephews do live like this and&nbsp; a friend that has no game with women, my nephews grasp it 100% and are trying to live by it, not so much luck with my friend.&nbsp; he actually told another friend of ours that resents that credo. &nbsp; </p>

[sailor]

<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />no, no girlfriend. we've been chatting back and forth for a while, went on a date too.<p>&nbsp;<font size="2">if he's still hangin' around with you, he's interested.&nbsp; trust me.&nbsp; jump the poor fool!<br /></font></p>

[Dirtybird12]

<p>I like it when a chick makes the first move. </p><p>The only time I make the first move is when:</p><p>1-&nbsp;she's unconscious</p><p>2- I pay upfront</p><p>3- she signs&nbsp;a waiver</p><p>4- when there are 2 or more witnesses around</p><p>&nbsp;</p>