When is it love? [Archive] - RonFez.net Messageboard

ShelleBink

12-14-2006, 04:40 PM

I'm curious, coz I've made the mistake before of thinking I loved someone when it wasn't the case.  So to those who have a special someone and have for quite some time, whats the tell tale sign?

spoon

12-14-2006, 04:43 PM

You just know.  It's beyond lust, newness and a good relationship........It's just different.

FUNKMAN

12-14-2006, 04:47 PM

when you start farting in front of each otheri think Spoon hit the nail on the head " you just know " although that may not help you much. a very tough thing to put into words...

torker

12-14-2006, 04:49 PM

When keithy gives you the whole 10 inches.

johnniewalker

12-14-2006, 04:55 PM

When its boring and you don't care.

Team_Ramrod

12-14-2006, 04:58 PM

When you get butterflies when you talk about themWhen you smile at the very thought of themWhen you keep seeing those eyes staring back at you... even when you are alone.When you just left and can't wait to see them againWhen you just said goodbye and can't wait to talk to them againWhen you can openly say you are going to take a shit

watson

12-14-2006, 05:39 PM

you stop thinking about her younger sister or big breasted best friend in a perverted way

Tenbatsuzen

12-14-2006, 05:52 PM

You can deal with the fact that her brother openly makes fun of you on a public website dedicated to a national radio show

Marc with a c

12-14-2006, 06:39 PM

johnniewalker wrote: When its boring and you don't care. he's right.

Marc with a c

12-14-2006, 06:40 PM

Tenbatsuzen wrote: You can deal with the fact that her brother openly makes fun of you on a public website dedicated to a national radio show he's right.

A.J.

12-15-2006, 04:48 AM

FUNKMAN wrote: when you start farting in front of each otherFunny you say that.  When I first started dating an ex, I asked her "would you love me even if I ever farted in front of you?"  She said "yes" and I proceeded to blast one then and there.

Poochie

12-15-2006, 04:59 AM

Sadly, i'm 28 and i don't think i have ever been in love..it sounds nice though.

angelinad128

12-15-2006, 05:59 AM

You will just know. And he will know too, it jut sucks when him knowing gets him scared.

Don Stugots

12-15-2006, 06:25 AM

Marc with a c wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote: You can deal with the fact that her brother openly makes fun of you on a public website dedicated to a national radio show he's right. Horsepants is right.

Don Stugots

12-15-2006, 06:27 AM

Marc with a c wrote: johnniewalker wrote: When its boring and you don't care. he's right. Horsepants is right.  seriously, you just know.  there is no light that goes on or a buzzer.  you just know.  just becareful not to think you know, but to know you know.

PapaBear

12-15-2006, 06:45 AM

watson wrote: you stop thinking about her younger sister or big breasted best friend in a perverted way Yeah... If you're GAY!To tell the truth, I know I've been in love, but I have no idea how to explain the feeling. It's sort of like being sick... but in a good way.

Death Metal Moe

12-15-2006, 06:50 AM

When their pain hurts you too.

Don Stugots

12-15-2006, 06:56 AM

watson wrote: you stop thinking about her younger sister or big breasted best friend in a perverted way you are gay or brain washed. big t_ted women never get looked at in any way but a perverted one.  wife or no wife, sex 10 times a day or once a week.

FUNKMAN

12-15-2006, 04:23 PM

A.J. wrote: FUNKMAN wrote: when you start farting in front of each otherFunny you say that.  When I first started dating an ex, I asked her "would you love me even if I ever farted in front of you?"  She said "yes" and I proceeded to blast one then and there.  lock the thread up! the answer to the "age old/always elusive" question "what is love" has just been answered

lintpit

12-15-2006, 04:46 PM

Love is fighting with your spouse . hating their guts. and then realizing that you are so very thankful  that they are there to hate.and forgive.

keithy_19

12-15-2006, 04:56 PM

torker wrote: When keithy gives you the whole 10 inches. No. That's when you know you're alive.

AnomalisticAnna

12-15-2006, 06:17 PM

Sure.. love is definitely all those things listed prior to my post. Missing them even though they're right next to you. Lying in bed and wishing you could just melt into them in some non-gross form of osmosis. Cracking jokes and being able to just look at each other and know what the other person is thinking.. and then bursting out into laughter for the very same reason. Having a partner in crime, a budday, and someone to listen to Ron & Fez with after midnight while sitting in a makeshift tent that you set up in your living room. But its been my experience that really loving someone is knowing them first. Being friends and learning about what makes them tick.. or ticked off. At this stage in my life, though, overcoming adversity has become the pinnacle and deciding factor about a person. Whether you're a platonic friend or the object of my afffections, I need to know that you possess the strength to help me through the toughest day in my life. Everyday I encounter assholes, morons, and situations that make me want to rip every last hair out of my head.. and the person I love the most is the first person I think of when trying to eradicate negativity. I've been blessed with a best friend that knows the me that I didn't even know existed.. and that's because I am a better version of myself when we're in each others company. Now to me, that is love.Oh, and knowing their BM's. That's pretty damn important, too.

Bulldogcakes

12-15-2006, 06:57 PM

Team_Ramrod wrote: When you get butterflies when you talk about themWhen you smile at the very thought of themWhen you keep seeing those eyes staring back at you... even when you are alone.When you just left and can't wait to see them againWhen you just said goodbye and can't wait to talk to them againWhen you can openly say you are going to take a shitThat's a perect description of infatuation. "You'll just know" has been said so many times, I'll try to add something else. When someone does something that used to drive you nuts, but somehow you dont care anymore.

BLZBUBBA

12-15-2006, 07:11 PM

Jack to that special someone.  Run a batch.  Use your imagination.  Then after jacking imagine they're still hanging around.  Do you still want them around?  Or better yet...Imagine they're bitching about you cleaning up your place or something like that.  Imagine them waiting for you to get home from work and taking your check.  THEN decide.  Do I really need this person around all the time?  Or will a whore suffice?  Then repeat.

Snacks

12-15-2006, 07:19 PM

I think you will know, its hard to explain. I have been in love 2 times and both times I knew it, but they were different feelings. Good luck and if its love hold on to it.

DarkHippie

12-19-2006, 05:45 PM

keithy_19 wrote: torker wrote: When keithy gives you the whole 10 inches. No. That's when you know you're alive. It surrrrrrre is

Gvac

12-19-2006, 05:48 PM

When you cook him dinner and bring it to him at work.

Tall_James

12-19-2006, 05:49 PM

Death Metal Moe wrote: When their pain hurts you too.Actually when their pain makes you want to hurt whoever is causing it.

ShelleBink

12-19-2006, 05:51 PM

Gvac wrote: When you cook him dinner and bring it to him at work. Its very "Clerks"

Fezticle98

12-19-2006, 05:51 PM

When you can afford to buy an expensive diamond engagement ring, or can't but do it anyway.

Landblast

12-19-2006, 05:56 PM

ShelleBink wrote:  whats the tell tale sign?warmth, trust.  i think there is no quick sign . there never is. just my opinion.it takes time.

Gvac

12-19-2006, 05:56 PM

ShelleBink wrote: Gvac wrote: When you cook him dinner and bring it to him at work. Its very "Clerks"Actually, it's very <a href="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm/forum/69/topic/54757/page/Personal_Reaction,_Mainly_For_Guys.htm" target="_blank">grlNIN. </a>

narc

12-19-2006, 06:25 PM

For me, it's when you see their faults, and you find them endearing instead of annoying.

ShelleBink

12-19-2006, 06:28 PM

Gvac wrote: ShelleBink wrote: Gvac wrote: When you cook him dinner and bring it to him at work. Its very "Clerks"Actually, it's very <a href="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm/forum/69/topic/54757/page/Personal_Reaction,_Mainly_For_Guys.htm" target="_blank">grlNIN. </a> hoo hoo she's rippin kevin smith off.

FUNKMAN

12-19-2006, 06:40 PM

When is it love? when you can share the same tooth brush

ShelleBink

12-19-2006, 10:22 PM

When they dont get mad about board gossip... <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/happy.gif" border="0" />

Poochie

12-19-2006, 10:44 PM

My question is, how long before this love thing kicks in? Is there a time when you feel as though you should have felt 'it' by now? I am so clueless.

keithy_19

12-19-2006, 10:49 PM

Hmm...The guy in Dark Hippies avatar got my ten inches. In the worst way.

Doctor Z

12-19-2006, 10:51 PM

Anal.

HBox

12-19-2006, 11:23 PM

When you can take a dump in front of someone with no shame. And I'm not talking regular dumps, I'm talking tough, sweltering constipated dumps or melty, liquid diarrhea ass explosions.

Poochie

12-19-2006, 11:42 PM

ok, so I have gathered from this thread that love comes when you can securely dump in front of your partner? i am starting think you are all right, as I never have been able to do that! i love you guys.

Fezticle98

12-20-2006, 07:43 AM

Poochie wrote: ok, so I have gathered from this thread that love comes when you can securely dump in front of your partner? i am starting think you are all right, as I never have been able to do that! i love you guys. I'm startin' to fill up over here. Hot!

IamFogHat

12-20-2006, 07:47 AM

<img src="http://www.sptimesphotos.com/blogs/80s/uploaded_images/hagar-762608.jpg" border="0" width="150" height="185" />It'll last foreverwhen it's loveyou can feel it...yeah!

angrymissy

12-20-2006, 07:50 AM

HBox wrote: When you can take a dump in front of someone with no shame. And I'm not talking regular dumps, I'm talking tough, sweltering constipated dumps or melty, liquid diarrhea ass explosions. Hbox speaks the truth.  I will often go into the bathroom and offer Jeff moral support when nessecary.

FUNKMAN

12-20-2006, 07:52 AM

When is it love? when you can pick your nose up to the knuckle and she says " oh you're so cutesie"...

DJEvelEd

12-20-2006, 07:57 AM

When I go to bed with headphones on to catch up on O&A, R&F since they offend her. She's older than me so I'm not going to force my profane shows on her. I enjoy shock jocks and horror movies and she doesn't. It our only difference really. We're getting married this spring regardless because she is really awesome. Love is great. We always talk about how little time we will have together on this Earth. I'm 38 and she's 43.(I have tried to turn her on to Ron & Fez but every time I turn on XM, Ronnie is saying "fuck" or "rape" within a MINUTE of me turning it on. I just can't win! I wish I knew my Sweety when R&F were on WNEW because she would be hooked and would probably overlook the profanity used willy nilly now)I'm so happy to find a beautiful, classy girl with high moral standards that cares about me and my feelings. I just hope she NEVER comes to this messageboard. I'd be in trouble! Oh boy!

ralphbxny

12-20-2006, 08:10 AM

When you do things to just be nice for them and sex isnt the main reason. I say main reason cause it always is there.

Crippler

12-20-2006, 08:20 AM

When a boring Saturday on the couch, as long as she's there, is just as fulfilling as tickets to your favorite sporting event, dinner at your favorite resaurant, or any other 'night on the town' type of event.But, more to the point..."I can't tell you, but it lasts forever"