Holiday Blues

[keithy_19]

<p>This is the first year that the holidays have really taken a toll on me. I guess it's coupled with growing up, my girl friend being far, money being tight for me. I just can't get in the Christmas spirit and the lights an Christmas programs just upset me.</p><p>I chose to post this here, cause I don't want to stop people from making jokes or whatever. Maybe it'll cheer me up. </p>

[Don Stugots]

<p>dude, i have been down in the dumps for weeks now.&nbsp; its not just you.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>plus, you are still going through puberity.&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

well you still have that huge cock

[BoondockSaint]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />well you still have that huge cock <p>He sold it.</p><p><img src="http://www.corsonh.com/images/photo/photos/roadsidecurios/29%20One%20big%20Chicken%20CaveCty%20KY.jpg" border="0" width="350" height="526" /></p>

[Bulldogcakes]

Maybe deep down you're Jewish.

[FUNKMAN]

only 362 days till the next christmas

[MadMatt]

<p>Working in retail for several Christmas seasons burned the Christmas spirit right out of me.&nbsp; I have never been able to get it back.&nbsp; However, this year seems even worse than normal.&nbsp; I'm not even excited about seeing my family or eating a good meal.</p><p>It's OK Keith - you are among friends.&nbsp; But apparently we are all a bunch of bitter bastards.</p>

[MCSRNKA]

<p>Hey, you could be homeless like Fez.&nbsp; </p><p>Seriously,&nbsp;it's a strange year (for the young and old).&nbsp; It seems hard to be happy when you see all the garbage going on around you.&nbsp; Stay strong - maybe go do something good for someone and stop being&nbsp;a little cry baby <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/bye.gif" border="0" width="26" height="18" />&nbsp;Jersey Boy (maybe that's why you're sad)</p>

[Don Stugots]

backoff noob, keith isnt a cry baby.&nbsp; the fucking guy was in a car accident a week ago and has to find a way to pay to fix the other persons car with out any help.&nbsp;

[reeshy]

WHAT???????????....You ain't helping him??????????????????????????????

[Don Stugots]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br />WHAT???????????....You ain't helping him??????????????????????????????<p>&nbsp;helping who with what?????????????????????????????????????????????? ?????///</p>

[DarkHippie]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />well you still have that huge cock <p>You can give someone a 'dick in a box'</p>

[Tall_James]

<p>Depressed?&nbsp; You're not alone.&nbsp; Why they're even writing children's books about it...</p><p><img src="http://www.headinjurytheater.com/emo%20emu%20jared%20hindman.jpg" border="0" width="357" height="620" /></p><p>Seriously, you're a good kid and just going through a rough patch.&nbsp; I've been there.&nbsp; It will pass.</p><p>Believe me, it will pass.&nbsp; Stay strong and try and look for the silver&nbsp;lining, even in the stupidest of things.</p>

[mendyweiss]

As Grandma Weiss used to say &quot; THis too shall pass &quot;

[Fezticle98]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />only 362 days till the next christmas <p>Say what? Am I doesn't get the bit guy on this one? Bad math or bad bit?</p><p>My advice, drink and/or smoke heavily. The holidays will be over soon enough.</p>

[Gvac]

<p>My grandfather had a favorite saying that he'd use whenever I was upset at something, and I think about it now at this stage of my life more than ever - &quot;A hundred years from now it won't make a bit of difference.&quot; </p><p>It really puts into context how inconsequential the things that we worry about really are. &nbsp;</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>Don, it's not just that. But it is part. I guess the fact I can't buy presents for people cause my money is going into paying off the lady. (I swear the car had a knick in it. Smaller then a figner nail.)</p><p>My girlfriend basicly went into a vow of celebacy. (If I mispelled it or used it wrong, I'm sorry. She doesn't want sexuala ctivities anymore) I don't blame her. She's thinking smart and it's not a big deal but due to my lack of self esteem or whatever I feel like I wasn't pleasing her, though she swears I was.</p><p>My grandpa is sick. And I see how it's affecting my dad and it sucks. I'm in a job I don't like, and I can't afford to get out of it. </p><p>I'm going to college and I don't really like it much. Probbaly cause I'm going to a community college (I'm not knocking them, I just may be better off going to a four year school) and I have no clue what I'm doing with my life.</p><p>I'm exhausted all the time. I have trouble sleeping so I self medicate and when I wake up I don't feel refreshed at all. </p><p>I guess it's all just hitting me right now.</p>

[johnniewalker]

<strong>fezticle98</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />only 362 days till the next christmas <p>Say what? Am I doesn't get the bit guy on this one? Bad math or bad bit?</p><p>My advice, drink and/or smoke heavily. The holidays will be over soon enough.</p><p>&nbsp;You'd think a guy with a master's would get that...ehhh<br /> </p>

[MadMatt]

<strong>fezticle98</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />only 362 days till the next christmas <p>Say what? Am I doesn't get the bit guy on this one? <strong>Bad math</strong> or bad bit?</p><p>For some reason, I am laughing so hard that my ribs hurt and tears are rolling down my face...&nbsp; I have no idea why.</p><p>Love 'ya Funkman!</p>

[johnniewalker]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Don, it's not just that. But it is part. I guess the fact I can't buy presents for people cause my money is going into paying off the lady. (I swear the car had a knick in it. Smaller then a figner nail.)</p><p>My girlfriend basicly went into a vow of celebacy. (If I mispelled it or used it wrong, I'm sorry. She doesn't want sexuala ctivities anymore) I don't blame her. She's thinking smart and it's not a big deal but due to my lack of self esteem or whatever I feel like I wasn't pleasing her, though she swears I was.</p><p>My grandpa is sick. And I see how it's affecting my dad and it sucks. I'm in a job I don't like, and I can't afford to get out of it. </p><p>I'm going to college and I don't really like it much. Probbaly cause I'm going to a community college (I'm not knocking them, I just may be better off going to a four year school) and I have no clue what I'm doing with my life.</p><p>I'm exhausted all the time. I have trouble sleeping so I self medicate and when I wake up I don't feel refreshed at all. </p><p>I guess it's all just hitting me right now.</p><p>&nbsp;Maybe it'd be good to get away from some of it.&nbsp; Maybe next year go off to a new college, and take out some loans and enjoy life a bit.&nbsp; That's what i've been doing for 5 years now.&nbsp; </p>

[Snacks]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Don, it's not just that. But it is part. I guess the fact I can't buy presents for people cause my money is going into paying off the lady. (I swear the car had a knick in it. Smaller then a figner nail.)</p><p><font style="background-color: #ffff00">My girlfriend basicly went into a vow of celebacy. (If I mispelled it or used it wrong, I'm sorry. She doesn't want sexuala ctivities anymore) I don't blame her. She's thinking smart and it's not a big deal but due to my lack of self esteem or whatever I feel like I wasn't pleasing her, though she swears I was.</font></p><p>My grandpa is sick. And I see how it's affecting my dad and it sucks. I'm in a job I don't like, and I can't afford to get out of it. </p><p>I'm going to college and I don't really like it much. Probbaly cause I'm going to a community college (I'm not knocking them, I just may be better off going to a four year school) and I have no clue what I'm doing with my life.</p><p>I'm exhausted all the time. I have trouble sleeping so I self medicate and when I wake up I don't feel refreshed at all. </p><p>I guess it's all just hitting me right now.</p><p>Sorry about your gramps hopefully he feel better for the holidays. Your too young to be so upset do something to make yourself happy. Money isnt everything, trust me this is coming from your boy Snacks who is by far the most shallow person on this board. As for your accident, stop harping on it, whats done is done. Do what you have to do and move on. The moe your think about it the more it is bringing you down. Are you working? if so as long as you dont buy shit you dont need you will be back from paying this in no time.</p><p>Why does your girl not want sex anymore? What is she being smart about by doing this?</p><p>Good luck, cheer up. If you only knew all the shit I'm going through you wiould be happy you dont have my life. I'm just hopeful that things will get better</p>

[Brad_Rush]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Don, it's not just that. But it is part. I guess the fact I can't buy presents for people cause my money is going into paying off the lady. (I swear the car had a knick in it. Smaller then a figner nail.)</p><p>My girlfriend basicly went into a vow of celebacy. (If I mispelled it or used it wrong, I'm sorry. She doesn't want sexuala ctivities anymore) I don't blame her. She's thinking smart and it's not a big deal but due to my lack of self esteem or whatever I feel like I wasn't pleasing her, though she swears I was.</p><p>My grandpa is sick. And I see how it's affecting my dad and it sucks. I'm in a job I don't like, and I can't afford to get out of it. </p><p>I'm going to college and I don't really like it much. Probbaly cause I'm going to a community college (I'm not knocking them, I just may be better off going to a four year school) and I have no clue what I'm doing with my life.</p><p>I'm exhausted all the time. I have trouble sleeping so I self medicate and when I wake up I don't feel refreshed at all. </p><p>I guess it's all just hitting me right now.</p><p>First off, it sounds like you need to get away from the girl, at least for a while.&nbsp; It can be hard to figure out who you are and get yourself some self esteem when you are trying to define yourself around someone else.&nbsp; She probably sees that in you and that is why she has started this 'celibacy' thing.&nbsp; When I was younger I was in a similar situation and it was the hardest thing to get myself to move out of the relationship even though I knew I needed to.&nbsp; Trust me though, no regrets afterwards.</p>

[keithy_19]

She doesn't want sex because she feels guilty after. That's what she says at least.

[keithy_19]

I don't want to get away from her. She makes me happy. She's one of the thigns that makes me happy right now.

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>MadMatt</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>fezticle98</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />only 362 days till the next christmas <p>Say what? Am I doesn't get the bit guy on this one? <strong>Bad math</strong> or bad bit?</p><p>For some reason, I am laughing so hard that my ribs hurt and tears are rolling down my face...&nbsp; I have no idea why.</p><p>Love 'ya Funkman!</p><p>yeah i'm good like that and i'm certainly not the sharpest tool in the shed...&nbsp; why 356 popped in my head i'm not sure</p><p><img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wacko.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" /></p>

[Snacks]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br />She doesn't want sex because she feels guilty after. That's what she says at least. <p>what is there to feel guilty about? How old is she? Religious reason? &nbsp;That sounds weird, were you her first and only or has she been with other guys before , after etc. </p><p>I know these are personal questions but maybe we can help you. It does sound a little out of the ordinary.</p><p>Any other women on this board feel guilty after sex?</p>

[keithy_19]

She's 16. I'm her first, as she is mine. She's religious, but, not overly religious.

[keithy_19]

We also don't have sex very often. At this point, 4-5 times a year. It's not a big deal. I understand there's more to risk for her. But, I use protection, and I don't finish. In her or at all. I'm sexually frustrted too. Add that to the list.

[MCSRNKA]

<p><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">Well StuGUTS may assume we know all about you but we don't.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I'm glad&nbsp; you expanded on whats got you down.&nbsp; </font></p><p><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That is a full plate you've got but it's not the end of the world.&nbsp; Aside from your grandpa (sorry to hear that) everything else is just not important....it will all pass.&nbsp; That doesn't make it easier but just know we've all been there and it does get better.&nbsp; Community college is a great place because you can try different studies and see what turns you on and it won't cost you as much as the 4 year college.&nbsp; I know tons of people who went to Brookdale and are VERY successful today.</font></p><p><font face="Courier New" size="2">Stop with the self medication -they are depressants - they only add to depression.&nbsp; Listen to old Ron and Fez shows instead.&nbsp; Surround yourself with funny ..and ps it's totally normal to be sad around the holidays so don't let it get to you.</font></p>

[Brad_Rush]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br />We also don't have sex very often. At this point, 4-5 times a year. It's not a big deal. I understand there's more to risk for her. But, I use protection, and I don't finish. In her or at all. I'm sexually frustrted too. Add that to the list. <p>Wow, that really does sound pretty bad... I think it is better not to have sex then to have unfullfilling half-sex anyway though so maybe you are better off with her celibate.</p>

[Snacks]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br />She's 16. I'm her first, as she is mine. She's religious, but, not overly religious. <p>oh wow you 2 are young. Give her, her space and understand that this is all part of what happens when you first have sex. You feel bad like you did something wrong. As you both get older and understand you willsee she will feel less guilty. Just know that shes going through some similar stuff that you are and you guys just need to be there for eachother. I hope it all works out for you, I know you dont want to hear about age like we are talking down to you, but as you get older things will get better. You will always have issues in life, right now these are your issues. As you get older you will look back on this and it wont bother you. But you will have other issues to deal with. Just know it gets harder, but it always make you stronger. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Good luck pal!</p>

[Don Stugots]

<strong>MCSRNKA</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">Well <strike>StuGUTS</strike> <strong>STUGOTS</strong> may assume we know all about you but we don't. I'm glad you expanded on whats got you down. </font></p><p><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That is a full plate you've got but it's not the end of the world. Aside from your grandpa (sorry to hear that) everything else is just not important....it will all pass. That doesn't make it easier but just know we've all been there and it does get better. Community college is a great place because you can try different studies and see what turns you on and it won't cost you as much as the 4 year college. I know tons of people who went to Brookdale and are VERY successful today.</font></p><p><font face="Courier New" size="2">Stop with the self medication -they are depressants - they only add to depression. Listen to old Ron and Fez shows instead. Surround yourself with funny ..and ps it's totally normal to be sad around the holidays so don't let it get to you.</font></p><p>&nbsp;fixed it.</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>I know it'll pass and I'll look back and think &quot;what was I so bummed for.&quot; </p><p>She is young. I'm not mad that she doesn't want to. Having sex with someone hwo isn't into it is really sucky. I'm not going to rpessure her or anything. When she wants to she can. I'm just 18 and my hormones are raging. Though lately they have been going down. I also have a condition which could cause erectile disfunctiona s I get older which may be why I want to have sex while I can without any complications.</p><p>Community college isn't bad. I just don't want to be around people from high school anymore. </p>