When is it time to move on

[keithy_19]

<p>I've been in my relationship for over a year. I've never been as happy as I have been with her. With that being said though, it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?</p><p>What are the signs that it's over.</p>

[reeshy]

How old are you?

[walking joint]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I've been in my relationship for over a year. I've never been as happy as I have been with her. With that being said though, it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?</p><p>What are the signs that it's over.</p><p>i believe this means you are ready for marriage now.&nbsp; congrats.</p>

[sailor]

<font size="2">that's a normal relationship arc.&nbsp; everyone goes thru that.&nbsp; not that great of a reason to break up with someone you love. </font>

[Don Stugots]

<strong>walking joint</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I've been in my relationship for over a year. I've never been as happy as I have been with her. With that being said though, it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?</p><p>What are the signs that it's over.</p><p>i believe this means you are ready for marriage now. congrats.</p><p>&nbsp;or three of them.&nbsp; <br /> </p>

[RoseBlood]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I've been in my relationship for over a year. I've never been as happy as I have been with her. With that being said though, it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. <font style="background-color: #00ffff">And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?</font></p><p>What are the signs that it's over.</p><p>don't confuse lonliness and love</p>

[lleeder]

<strong>walking joint</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I've been in my relationship for over a year. I've never been as happy as I have been with her. With that being said though, it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?</p><p>What are the signs that it's over.</p><p>i believe this means you are ready for marriage now.&nbsp; congrats.</p><p><font size="3">Thats funny I was thinking the same think</font></p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>You've only been in it for a year... about now the crazy sex is settling down, you are not cuddling as much and she doesn't stare at you when your driving anymore. You are most likely just entering a new phase of your relationship where you will need to find out if there are other things in your relationship that you can share as a common interest. Ther perverbial honeymoon is over and it will be in the next 2 or 3 months that you will find out whether you can last or not.</p><p>I'd suggest that you take it day by day, try not to think about losing interest too much because you may convice yourself that you have when in fact that isn't the case. Focus on the areas of her and your relationship that bring you happiness. Don't jump to any decisions because if you are afraid that seeing her with another guy will hurt you then it will.</p><p>It sounds like you aren't prepared to leave her yet.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Unless she mentions marriage, don't listen...just run.</p>

[Zorro]

<font size="2">A year is really good time to move on. The reality is there will always be other chicks and if you're not feeling &quot;it&quot; better to end the thing then let it drag on. </font>

[Bulldogcakes]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<p>What are the signs that it's over?</p><p>When you start saying things like&nbsp;</p><p>&quot;it's starting to get old. I still love her, but I'm not feeling the attraction as much anymore. I'm jus afraid that fi I end it I won't find someone else, or she I'll see her with someone else. And, what if I suddenly, while being alone, realize how much I really care about her and want her in my life?&quot;</p><p>And people, please. He's 19 years old. Lets go easy on the marriage talk. </p><p>Kiethy, I'd chalk this up to a learning experience and move on. Fear is a lousy reason to do or not do&nbsp; anything. If you want to be a scumbag about, start looking around before you break up with her. If you want to do the right thing, just be honest with her. You may be suprised to learn she may feel the same way, or already knows how you feel.&nbsp; </p>

[keithy_19]

I talked to her. Just awhile ago. I told her the truth. Now she's lying down to think about thing. I know I'm not the only one to go through stuff like this. I know that. But it does hurt a lot.