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foodcourtdruide

01-31-2007, 10:16 PM

So.. It's late and I can't sleep. I thought this would be the perfect time to tell what is, by far, my best story. For those of you keeping score at home, this is not the woman I think is cheating on me.So a few years back I went on a date with a woman I met on match.com. We met at a starbucks in Manhattan and we clicked right away. Our taste in movies was similar, we were able to talk to each other and I thought she was very attractive. We spent about 4 hours together and I took the subway home with her to Queens (I lived in Queens too at the time, and didn't have my car yet). We made out a little in the subway station before we left each other. She called me when I got home to make sure I got home OK, and we talked a little and decided we wanted to see more of each other, so she came over that same night! She took a cab and we spent the night together (no sex). From that point we saw more and more of eachother. Her life was amazing. She was the CEO of a company (at the age of 26) and her parents were both lawyers. She grew-up in an affluent neighborhood in Manhattan and went to school oversea's. She graduated with a MA from Columbia and was good friends with Rupert Murdoch's children. She also had royal blood in her family and her real mother was a b-movie star or something in California.As we got to know eachother better, we began meeting one anothers families. She was living in Flushing for the time being because her Grandmother was sick and she was between apartments. Her family home was a pretty decently sized house in Flushing and she had her own apartment in the basement, she really lived in Chelsea though. Her car situation was similar, she had a BMW SUV that was in the shop and for now she was using the families 4 year old mini-van. Our relationship was great! Intimacy was never a problem and we got along really well. She loved doing fun and spontaneous things (we went up to Boston just for Lobster once) and she liked my friends. I really liked her family, and I got to know them more and more because I was spending more and more time at her place. Eventually though, I started realizing strange things about her. For example, she was NOT getting her BMW SUV back. It just sounded strange that it would need to be in the shop for 3 months. Also, what was the deal with her apartment? The basement she was living in at her parents place looks like she lived there all her life. And one day I stumbled upon an honors certificate from a Queens High School, though she claimed she went overseas for high school. Needless to say, things were getting a bit strange.I slept at her place a lot, and her Mother (not the movie star, her other Mother, the one that was married to her father) was really nice to me. One day I woke up late for work and I was rushing out. Her Mother was sitting outside reading a book and offered me a ride to the subway. During the ride, I explained to her how I was always late and they were going to fire me one day. She told me I should get a union job like she had, because they never fire people. I asked, "Wait, you're a lawyer with a union job? That's strange" and she looked really confused. She told me that she worked at the post office and she sorted mail. She asked me if my girlfriend had told her otherwise, and I kinda just changed the subject and ran to catch my train. That day I e-mailed my then girlfriend and asked her what was going on. She gave me some insane story about how her "other" Mother was ashamed of her financial success and often pretended she worked at a post office to humble herself to others. This was 5 months into the relationship and I was really falling hard for her so I half-bought the story and decided to move on cautiously.One day we were hanging around her place and i grabbed her wallet and started looking through it. She was there at the time and she completely freaked out when I grabbed it and told me to never do that again. At this point, it was clear that she was hiding som

Team_Ramrod

01-31-2007, 10:25 PM

Are you surprised?The one thing I know about women is that they will fight a 'false' fight with you instead of admitting they lied. I've never met a girl who was like this, sounds like she has some problems but a lie is nothing new.Except for the rf.net girls, I think they are all upstanding females who would face any situation head on using nothing but the the truth.

StupidGirlllll

02-01-2007, 01:41 AM

The strangest part of the story was when you thought she was tryong to steal your identity. She has deep problems. Someone does not live in this type of fantasy world for nothing. Something really crazy had to have happened to her. Did she have an imcle in the attic? If I was you i would not worry about her stealing your identity, she does not even know who she is.

Poochie

02-01-2007, 02:24 AM

Oddly, I knew within the first couple paragraphs this girl was lying. 26 and a CEO?? That should have been the first clue, but understandable if you were blinded by your feelings for her. It sounds like she has some serious delusions of grandeur (related to schizophrenia and the like). When you confront someone like that they do have the 'what the hell are you talking about' look because they really do believe it is all true, that she is much greater and more powerful and influential than she really is. I would not worry about the ID theft, she is too focused on herself and her fantasy life to pull off something like that.

Lumber

02-01-2007, 04:05 AM

[quote]foodcourtdruide wrote: So.. It's late and I can't sleep. I thought this would be the perfect time to tell what is, by far, my best story. For those of you keeping score at home, this is not the woman I think is cheating on me.So a few years back I went on a date with a woman I met on match.com. We met at a starbucks in Manhattan and we clicked right away. Our taste in movies was similar, we were able to talk to each other and I thought she was very attractive. We spent about 4 hours together and I took the subway home with her to Queens (I lived in Queens too at the time, and didn't have my car yet). We made out a little in the subway station before we left each other. She called me when I got home to make sure I got home OK, and we talked a little and decided we wanted to see more of each other, so she came over that same night! She took a cab and we spent the night together (no sex). From that point we saw more and more of eachother. Her life was amazing. She was the CEO of a company (at the age of 26) and her parents were both lawyers. She grew-up in an affluent neighborhood in Manhattan and went to school oversea's. She graduated with a MA from Columbia and was good friends with Rupert Murdoch's children. She also had royal blood in her family and her real mother was a b-movie star or something in California.As we got to know eachother better, we began meeting one anothers families. She was living in Flushing for the time being because her Grandmother was sick and she was between apartments. Her family home was a pretty decently sized house in Flushing and she had her own apartment in the basement, she really lived in Chelsea though. Her car situation was similar, she had a BMW SUV that was in the shop and for now she was using the families 4 year old mini-van. Our relationship was great! Intimacy was never a problem and we got along really well. She loved doing fun and spontaneous things (we went up to Boston just for Lobster once) and she liked my friends. I really liked her family, and I got to know them more and more because I was spending more and more time at her place. Eventually though, I started realizing strange things about her. For example, she was NOT getting her BMW SUV back. It just sounded strange that it would need to be in the shop for 3 months. Also, what was the deal with her apartment? The basement she was living in at her parents place looks like she lived there all her life. And one day I stumbled upon an honors certificate from a Queens High School, though she claimed she went overseas for high school. Needless to say, things were getting a bit strange.I slept at her place a lot, and her Mother (not the movie star, her other Mother, the one that was married to her father) was really nice to me. One day I woke up late for work and I was rushing out. Her Mother was sitting outside reading a book and offered me a ride to the subway. During the ride, I explained to her how I was always late and they were going to fire me one day. She told me I should get a union job like she had, because they never fire people. I asked, "Wait, you're a lawyer with a union job? That's strange" and she looked really confused. She told me that she worked at the post office and she sorted mail. She asked me if my girlfriend had told her otherwise, and I kinda just changed the subject and ran to catch my train. That day I e-mailed my then girlfriend and asked her what was going on. She gave me some insane story about how her "other" Mother was ashamed of her financial success and often pretended she worked at a post office to humble herself to others. This was 5 months into the relationship and I was really falling hard for her so I half-bought the story and decided to move on cautiously.One day we were hanging around her place and i grabbed her wallet and started looking through it. She was there at the time and she completely freaked out when I grabbed it and told me to never do

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 04:07 AM

StupidGirlllll wrote: The strangest part of the story was when you thought she was tryong to steal your identity. She has deep problems. Someone does not live in this type of fantasy world for nothing. Something really crazy had to have happened to her. Did she have an imcle in the attic? If I was you i would not worry about her stealing your identity, she does not even know who she is. I've heard sooooooooo many stories about people being ripped off by con-artists doing something similar to what she was doing. At the time, everything was so crazy.. I guess I was just looking for a way to explain what she was doing.Edit: Also.. you think my slightly paranoid reaction was stranger than a person who completely lied about who she was?!

This message was edited by foodcourtdruide on 2-1-07 @ 8:16 AM

Lumber

02-01-2007, 04:07 AM

The Midnight Ramrod wrote:  The one thing I know about women is that they will fight a 'false' fight with you instead of admitting they lied.            This drives me absolutely insane.

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 04:08 AM

[quote]Lumber wrote: [quote]foodcourtdruide wrote: So.. It's late and I can't sleep. I thought this would be the perfect time to tell what is, by far, my best story. For those of you keeping score at home, this is not the woman I think is cheating on me.So a few years back I went on a date with a woman I met on match.com. We met at a starbucks in Manhattan and we clicked right away. Our taste in movies was similar, we were able to talk to each other and I thought she was very attractive. We spent about 4 hours together and I took the subway home with her to Queens (I lived in Queens too at the time, and didn't have my car yet). We made out a little in the subway station before we left each other. She called me when I got home to make sure I got home OK, and we talked a little and decided we wanted to see more of each other, so she came over that same night! She took a cab and we spent the night together (no sex). From that point we saw more and more of eachother. Her life was amazing. She was the CEO of a company (at the age of 26) and her parents were both lawyers. She grew-up in an affluent neighborhood in Manhattan and went to school oversea's. She graduated with a MA from Columbia and was good friends with Rupert Murdoch's children. She also had royal blood in her family and her real mother was a b-movie star or something in California.As we got to know eachother better, we began meeting one anothers families. She was living in Flushing for the time being because her Grandmother was sick and she was between apartments. Her family home was a pretty decently sized house in Flushing and she had her own apartment in the basement, she really lived in Chelsea though. Her car situation was similar, she had a BMW SUV that was in the shop and for now she was using the families 4 year old mini-van. Our relationship was great! Intimacy was never a problem and we got along really well. She loved doing fun and spontaneous things (we went up to Boston just for Lobster once) and she liked my friends. I really liked her family, and I got to know them more and more because I was spending more and more time at her place. Eventually though, I started realizing strange things about her. For example, she was NOT getting her BMW SUV back. It just sounded strange that it would need to be in the shop for 3 months. Also, what was the deal with her apartment? The basement she was living in at her parents place looks like she lived there all her life. And one day I stumbled upon an honors certificate from a Queens High School, though she claimed she went overseas for high school. Needless to say, things were getting a bit strange.I slept at her place a lot, and her Mother (not the movie star, her other Mother, the one that was married to her father) was really nice to me. One day I woke up late for work and I was rushing out. Her Mother was sitting outside reading a book and offered me a ride to the subway. During the ride, I explained to her how I was always late and they were going to fire me one day. She told me I should get a union job like she had, because they never fire people. I asked, "Wait, you're a lawyer with a union job? That's strange" and she looked really confused. She told me that she worked at the post office and she sorted mail. She asked me if my girlfriend had told her otherwise, and I kinda just changed the subject and ran to catch my train. That day I e-mailed my then girlfriend and asked her what was going on. She gave me some insane story about how her "other" Mother was ashamed of her financial success and often pretended she worked at a post office to humble herself to others. This was 5 months into the relationship and I was really falling hard for her so I half-bought the story and decided to move on cautiously.One day we were hanging around her place and i grabbed her wallet and started looking through it. She was there at the time and she completely

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 04:09 AM

Poochie wrote: Oddly, I knew within the first couple paragraphs this girl was lying. 26 and a CEO?? That should have been the first clue, but understandable if you were blinded by your feelings for her. It sounds like she has some serious delusions of grandeur (related to schizophrenia and the like). When you confront someone like that they do have the 'what the hell are you talking about' look because they really do believe it is all true, that she is much greater and more powerful and influential than she really is. I would not worry about the ID theft, she is too focused on herself and her fantasy life to pull off something like that. In retrospect EVERYTHING she said sounded completely made up. Royal blood? Her real mother was a hollywood starlet? It's all ridiculous. However, it was just beyond me that someone could look you right in the eyes and LIE like that.

cupcakelove

02-01-2007, 04:16 AM

That's too funny.  I had an ex that lied about everything too.  Except it was usually to make things in her life seem 100000x worse than they actually were, and get people to feel sorry about her.  We started having problems when I found out she was making up things about me that made me look like a drunk and abusive asshole.  Ok, maybe she didn't lie soo much about the drunk part, but she did tell her friends some really fucked up things about me that were not even remotely grounded in reality.

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 06:14 AM

cupcakelove wrote: That's too funny.  I had an ex that lied about everything too.  Except it was usually to make things in her life seem 100000x worse than they actually were, and get people to feel sorry about her.  We started having problems when I found out she was making up things about me that made me look like a drunk and abusive asshole.  Ok, maybe she didn't lie soo much about the drunk part, but she did tell her friends some really fucked up things about me that were not even remotely grounded in reality. It's extremely painful to be lied to and lied about. However, don't you find it fascinating that someone has the capability to do so?  I always want to know why my ex lied.

cupcakelove

02-01-2007, 06:16 AM

foodcourtdruide wrote: cupcakelove wrote: That's too funny. I had an ex that lied about everything too. Except it was usually to make things in her life seem 100000x worse than they actually were, and get people to feel sorry about her. We started having problems when I found out she was making up things about me that made me look like a drunk and abusive asshole. Ok, maybe she didn't lie soo much about the drunk part, but she did tell her friends some really fucked up things about me that were not even remotely grounded in reality. It's extremely painful to be lied to and lied about. However, don't you find it fascinating that someone has the capability to do so? I always want to know why my ex lied.Yeah that drove me nuts when I was going through it, and I would constantly give her the benefit of the doubt because I did not understand what she could gain from lying.  I finally just accepted that she's screwed up in the head, and all her lying had nothing to do with me.  No matter nice or good I was to her, she was going to keep it up.  I can look back now and laugh at how nutty she was.

angelinad128

02-01-2007, 07:39 AM

The Midnight Ramrod wrote: Except for the rf.net girls, I think they are all upstanding females who would face any situation head on using nothing but the the truth.So the truth!

angelinad128

02-01-2007, 07:49 AM

Seriously though, it's sad that she lied about her whole life to have people like her.  Hopefully is getting the help she needs to deal with reality.

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 07:51 AM

angelinad128 wrote: Seriously though, it's sad that she lied about her whole life to have people like her.  Hopefully is getting the help she needs to deal with reality. The funny thing is I really liked her and I thought all the high society stuff was silly. I was totally happy with her for who she was. I doubt she's getting the help she needs though, I still e-mail her every now and then and she tells me the most insane B.S. stories about her life.

shittyhambrgers

02-01-2007, 08:04 AM

anyone else find this strangely hot?

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 08:07 AM

shittyhambrgers wrote: anyone else find this strangely hot? lol, I'm glad you can get half a chubby off my misery.

undressa

02-01-2007, 08:11 AM

Take it from me, it takes a lot of hard work to be a nutty ex girlfriend!

Badinia

02-01-2007, 09:41 AM

That's aMAZing.  What I like about the story most is how you were so nutty in for her that you overlooked a series of weird lies about har actress mother, and how she wound up in a basement apartment in Flushing, NY.  I feel bad for her, but I feel worse for you, losing a crazy girl like that.

keithy_19

02-01-2007, 01:08 PM

So, what Food Court are you from? I like Menlo Park Mall's food court.  Oh...um...she sure does sound crazy. But, ya know, women with their hormones. <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/happy.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" />

narc

02-01-2007, 01:27 PM

I bet the crazy girl sex was amazing though.

ralphbxny

02-01-2007, 01:43 PM

foodcourtdruide wrote: shittyhambrgers wrote: anyone else find this strangely hot? lol, I'm glad you can get half a chubby off my misery. Id hate to agree with Shittyhambrgers but I too found it hot cause I have been in relationships based on lies. Usually meet someone at the shore or Las Vegas. The woman is on Vacation with girlfriends...not married...I am a detective on a case so secret I cant tell you what it is....god what men wont do for ass, and what a women wont do to keep it from her husband.

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 05:54 PM

narc wrote: I bet the crazy girl sex was amazing though. It was! I'll be the first to admit.. I'm awful in bed, but it was porn movie sex!

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 05:54 PM

keithy_19 wrote: So, what Food Court are you from? I like Menlo Park Mall's food court.  Oh...um...she sure does sound crazy. But, ya know, women with their hormones. <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/happy.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" />I like to think of myself as America's food court :)

Bulldogcakes

02-01-2007, 06:06 PM

angelinad128 wrote: Seriously though, it's sad that she lied about her whole life to have people like her. Hopefully is getting the help she needs to deal with reality.And the funny part is, he did like her alot before he found out she was lying who she was. Though the person he thought he liked was a complete lie, so maybe he wouldn't have liked her as much without all the fake stuff. Or maybe he would have. She'll never know. If this is a scheme, its very poorly thought out.

RoseBlood

02-01-2007, 06:50 PM

angelinad128 wrote: Seriously though, it's sad that she lied about her whole life to have people like her.  Hopefully is getting the help she needs to deal with reality. I'd question her motives for lying. I mean who really knows why she made up all those stories and continues to do so but I'm not even sure it's simply to have people like her. That would be using rationale to explain an irrational person. I worked with a lady who was constantly telling everyone how she's being stalked and robbed. She'd come in saying how 'they' snuck into her apt. again to steal her hairclips, photos and other miscellaneous items. She had a million different stories and it obviously grew tiresome and annoying. I really think this woman was paranoid szichophrenic and didn't tell these tales simply for attention. In her crazy mind, these things really happened to her. I dunno, this may be the case for crazy ex-girlfriend, who knows, I'm just saying.

foodcourtdruide

02-01-2007, 07:12 PM

RoseBlood wrote: angelinad128 wrote: Seriously though, it's sad that she lied about her whole life to have people like her.  Hopefully is getting the help she needs to deal with reality. I'd question her motives for lying. I mean who really knows why she made up all those stories and continues to do so but I'm not even sure it's simply to have people like her. That would be using rationale to explain an irrational person. I worked with a lady who was constantly telling everyone how she's being stalked and robbed. She'd come in saying how 'they' snuck into her apt. again to steal her hairclips, photos and other miscellaneous items. She had a million different stories and it obviously grew tiresome and annoying. I really think this woman was paranoid szichophrenic and didn't tell these tales simply for attention. In her crazy mind, these things really happened to her. I dunno, this may be the case for crazy ex-girlfriend, who knows, I'm just saying.Rose, I just find it so fascinating! How could someone do that?! I'm seroiusly thinking about quitting my job and going for a psych masters.

K.C.

02-01-2007, 08:40 PM

You said she wouldn't admit it, so how much, if any of the REAL truth did you find out before you broke up with her?Because I'd be pretty damn curious what the real her is, given all the gimmicks she was running. ...not curious enough that I'd hang around after being outright lied to on a level like that, but curious nonetheless.  I wouldn't feel bad about it. Everyone lies to a certain degree when meeting someone new...she probably just had enormously blown out of proportion self-esteem issues where she thought the real her was completely worthless to where she had to manufacturer a new persona. I've heard of it happening before. In fact, I've semi-experienced it, except nowhere to the degree you did.

Gaia

02-01-2007, 08:55 PM

Thats just plain fucked up.

F1Gm3nT

02-02-2007, 10:10 AM

I will admit that I lied to my girl friend about allot of shit at first.She caught me on my liesI don't know why I lied... I guess I have a compulsive liar in me.Since then I have stopped lying.But I do agree that it is some fucked up shit. I don't know at first I guess I did it to impress her I guess... I don't know... but I just kept on digging a deeper and deeper hole and really couldn't get out of it at one point. It's sucks how she felt.... I mean badly... I don't want to get into it anymore but all I want to say is that I am glad she caught me

Gaia

02-02-2007, 01:03 PM

Oh MY GOD!!!! IS IT REALLY YOU FIGGY??? My Figgy!!!!!!

Badinia

02-02-2007, 01:19 PM

I remember Figment!  But I thought it was in my head...

F1Gm3nT

02-02-2007, 04:39 PM

shhhh dont tell too many people... i like my hiding faze

high fly

02-05-2007, 05:45 PM

Bennington is great on the subject of crazy chicks and how you don't forget them.Let's see, you were banging the chick regularly, found out she was lying, confronted her and stopped getting laid.Hmmmmm.

F1Gm3nT

02-07-2007, 04:51 AM

because you know it's all about getting laid. forget about honesty... ITS LL ABOUT THE ASS... who needs the truth... . yeah gotta have that pathological lieing ass I say...High Fly your relationship history must be great...

This message was edited by F1Gm3nT on 2-7-07 @ 9:15 AM

PhishHead

02-07-2007, 04:53 AM

F1Gm3nT wrote: because you know it's all about getting laid. forget about honesty... ITS LL ABOUT THE ASS... who needs the truth... . yeah gotta have that pathological lieing ass I say...High Fly you relationship history must be great... Figment is one of the best posters on this board and this is why I wish he would post more. he just speaks words of truth.

foodcourtdruide

02-07-2007, 05:17 AM

F1Gm3nT wrote: because you know it's all about getting laid. forget about honesty... ITS LL ABOUT THE ASS... who needs the truth... . yeah gotta have that pathological lieing ass I say...High Fly your relationship history must be great...This message was edited by F1Gm3nT on 2-7-07 @ 9:15 AM I agree F1G, getting laid really means very little when you're an adult. It's much harder to find qualities like honesty and integrity rather than some chick that'll just spread her legs.

ShelleBink

02-07-2007, 08:44 AM

Figgy's just bitter.

LordJezo

02-07-2007, 10:16 AM

foodcourtdruide wrote: narc wrote: I bet the crazy girl sex was amazing though. It was! I'll be the first to admit.. I'm awful in bed, but it was porn movie sex! I can agree with that.  I had a crazy girl / liar / false life kind of girl senior year of college and it was the most intense porn style stuff ever. But besides that..So after you broke it off with her, has she tried contacting you since?  Ever check to see if she was still on match.com looking for dates while you were together?  She could easily have been playing you and a bunch of other guys at the same time.

BrooklynKat

02-07-2007, 10:52 AM

Foodcourtdruide, i think i know this crazy girl of yours.  Well i went to HS with an equally crazy girl who also graduated Laguardia CC (or so she claimed, who knows). This girl was pathological liar and it was kind of scary/ funny to hear what new contradicting thing she would tell me each day.

Tenbatsuzen

02-07-2007, 01:02 PM

match.com was your first clue.

Andomray

02-07-2007, 01:08 PM

I bet about 90% of the guys on this board would still want to do her. ...as well as 75% of the ladies.

This message was edited by Andomray on 2-7-07 @ 5:08 PM

foodcourtdruide

02-07-2007, 01:13 PM

LordJezo wrote: foodcourtdruide wrote: narc wrote: I bet the crazy girl sex was amazing though. It was! I'll be the first to admit.. I'm awful in bed, but it was porn movie sex! I can agree with that.  I had a crazy girl / liar / false life kind of girl senior year of college and it was the most intense porn style stuff ever. But besides that..So after you broke it off with her, has she tried contacting you since?  Ever check to see if she was still on match.com looking for dates while you were together?  She could easily have been playing you and a bunch of other guys at the same time. Well, the thing was we were together ALL the time. I don't doubt for a second that she was probably hooking up with other guys at odd hours, her e-mail kinda confirmed that. I didn't need to look on match.com I iguess. We still talk every now and then. If anyone wants me to tell her anything I'd be more than happy to post her responses here!

foodcourtdruide

02-07-2007, 01:13 PM

BrooklynKat wrote:  Foodcourtdruide, i think i know this crazy girl of yours.  Well i went to HS with an equally crazy girl who also graduated Laguardia CC (or so she claimed, who knows). This girl was pathological liar and it was kind of scary/ funny to hear what new contradicting thing she would tell me each day.lol did her first name start with an N? Was she Chinese? :)

DJEvelEd

02-07-2007, 02:35 PM

There's nothing better than going through all this awful crap(like I did) and then finally finding a real nice girl(like I did). I appreciate my chick so much more because of the experience I had with lots of crazy broads out there. I started dating the chick I'm with now because she is beautiful and funny. I'm marrying her because I trust her.It depends on what your motives are. Do you want to just fuck, suck, grope, drip and lick? Who cares if she lies? Just bang her!Do you want a meaningful relationship? Run for the hills and find someone better than this psycho. Those internet romances rarely work out. Life is too short to waste time with liars.

foodcourtdruide

02-08-2007, 05:25 AM

This all happened years ago. I'm obviously no longer with her.Why all the hatred for finding people to date online? I think it's the perfect way to find potential dates. Match.com was really helpful. I work about 12 hours a day, in a mostly male profession, and HATE meeting people at bars or clubs.I met some really nice women on there. If I became single again I'd use their service again.

jeffdwright2001

02-08-2007, 06:39 AM

Tenbatsuzen wrote: match.com was your first clue. You e-harmony snobs are all alike. ;) If you haven't done it already, perhaps some phone number changes would be in order.Although, I'm a little disappointed that you didn't even think to give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her if she was really a superhero and had created several secret identities.Is she still on match.com?  Did you notify them about what happened or are you letting some other guy discover the thrills of Cybil?

BrooklynKat

02-08-2007, 01:52 PM

foodcourtdruide wrote: BrooklynKat wrote:  Foodcourtdruide, i think i know this crazy girl of yours. Well i went to HS with an equally crazy girl who also graduated Laguardia CC (or so she claimed, who knows). This girl was pathological liar and it was kind of scary/ funny to hear what new contradicting thing she would tell me each day.lol did her first name start with an N? Was she Chinese? <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/images/smile.gif" border="0" />  Alas, not the same girl... I was hoping it was cause i have crazy stories too! <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/lol.gif" border="0" />

foodcourtdruide

02-08-2007, 06:58 PM

BrooklynKat wrote: foodcourtdruide wrote: BrooklynKat wrote:  Foodcourtdruide, i think i know this crazy girl of yours. Well i went to HS with an equally crazy girl who also graduated Laguardia CC (or so she claimed, who knows). This girl was pathological liar and it was kind of scary/ funny to hear what new contradicting thing she would tell me each day.lol did her first name start with an N? Was she Chinese? <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/images/smile.gif" border="0" width="15" height="15" />  Alas, not the same girl... I was hoping it was cause i have crazy stories too! <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/lol.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" /> Do share my friend! I have a funny story about her I just thought about...She was Chinese, but she claimed she grew up mostly in Paris and the U.S. so she never learned Chinese. She never spoke any language other than English around me.One day, we were going to the beach with her two cousins who had come to visit the States from China. Between the two of them they barely spoke a word of English. On the way to the beach, the two of them were having some problems with swim goggles and being REALLY annoying about it. They started to argue a little about them, and suddenly my ex turns around and starts screaming and them in what appeared to be perfect Chinese! It was like.. a 4 minute scolding!I was like, "uh.. thought you didn't speak Chinese" and she responded, "that was really bad Chinese <giggle>"

foodcourtdruide

02-08-2007, 06:59 PM

jeffdwright2001 wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote: match.com was your first clue. You e-harmony snobs are all alike. <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/images/smilewink.gif" border="0" width="15" height="15" />  If you haven't done it already, perhaps some phone number changes would be in order.Although, I'm a little disappointed that you didn't even think to give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her if she was really a superhero and had created several secret identities.Is she still on match.com?  Did you notify them about what happened or are you letting some other guy discover the thrills of Cybil?I never mentioned it to match.com. lol, you know sometimes I do that that I may be the crazy one and her stories were completely logical :)

LordJezo

02-09-2007, 06:04 AM

I just realized that this thread is missing pics.

foodcourtdruide

02-11-2007, 06:35 PM

lol I am not posting pics. I like the anonymity of a message board. Pictures of the participants is just too... personal.