Dear Westside,

[#1FanofESD]

<p>I would like to give you some advice about this man you love.</p><p>I have been in a few relationships where I was completely in love and for whatever reason the issues between me and my love made it impossible to stay together.</p><p>So I have some experience and&nbsp;I am not talking out of my ass here.</p><p>I have listened to&nbsp;him&nbsp;on the 'radio' here since he was brought into the mix and not once did I ever think he was not a loving and caring person towards you. He constantly talks about how you are the one for him. His&nbsp;intentions on the radio are never to degrade himself or shit on you in any way shape or form. You seem to think he should revolve his life around not doing things that you would find offensive in some way. I think it's time for you to hear some things and I hope you understand that I am only telling you in this manner because it's about time you hear this.</p><p>You need to get over yourself. Who decided that you were so high and mighty that anything he does is in such bad taste that you can't love him? The reality of who you are is skewed in some ways and it's about time you realize this. So what that your man is not the next JFK Jr. and that he has blemishes in his character like the rest of the people in this world. He is who he is and the more he tries to be the person you want him to be&nbsp;the more you are lowering his will to live a happy and fulfilling life.</p><p>Now I know I don't know you personally, but from what I do know I can tell you seem to be a little snooty and self centered. I heard a story about one time where you and he had a fight and you made him sleep on the chair in his apartment when he had work in the morning. When I heard that I started to see you in a negative light. Why? Because I was in that same situation once and I was the guy sleeping&nbsp;in the chair. I realized after a little more seasoning in life that only a person who wants to satisfy their own needs would be that cold hearted. No matter what the fight was about that night&nbsp;life is still going forward no matter what happens and him getting a good nights sleep is a bigger issue. Let's face it, you knew you could get away with shit like that and that's why you do it. You need to&nbsp;grow up and act like a mature woman and stop acting like a teenage girl who has the class&nbsp;clown all in love with her.</p><p>I would really like to tell him that he should move on and find a woman that will just take him for what he is, but then that's selling you short as well. I think the bigger issue is about you. The more time you spend in this world acting like a spolied brat the more time&nbsp;you will spend later on in life wondering why no one takes you seriously. You are finding faults in this man that most women around your age have seemed to gotten over with in their teenage years. Stop acting like you deserve the greatest man in the world because no such man exists. We are all just people and the beauty of love is that it's never the same between two people. Some people find love&nbsp;by just being comfortable around&nbsp;each another. Some people find love by feeding off of each others accomplishments in life. Some people find love just by the fact that they have the animal attraction thing going on.</p><p>There are a million ways to love someone and yet you are looking for reasons not to love someone who would do anything possible within the realm of man to make you happy.</p><p>Maybe it's time you understand that the love you and he have is not going to have any&nbsp;structure.&nbsp;Could it be that this is the way that you two are going to love each other? If so, then so be it.</p><p>I was once a person&nbsp;who thought like you in many ways. I had a girlfriend and she always seemed to do things that pissed me off and I constantly was getting annoyed at her. I now realize that she was just trying to be herself and for some reason I was wanting her to be the person I had envisioned her to be because of the love I felt for her. I think it's s

[patsopinion]

[quote]<strong>#1FanofESD</strong> wrote:<br /><p style="background-color: #ffff00">I would like to give you some advice about this man you love.</p><p style="background-color: #ffff00">I have been in a few relationships where I was completely in love and for whatever reason the issues between me and my love made it impossible to stay together.</p><p>So I have some experience and I am not talking out of my ass here.</p><p><span style="background-color: #ffff00">I have listened to him on the 'radio' here since he was brought into the mix</span> and not once did I ever think he was not a loving and caring person towards you. He constantly talks about how you are the one for him. His intentions on the radio are never to degrade himself or shit on you in any way shape or form. You seem to think he should revolve his life around not doing things that you would find offensive in some way. I think it's time for you to hear some things and I hope you understand that I am only telling you in this manner because it's about time you hear this.</p><p><span style="background-color: #ffff00">You need to get over yourself. </span>Who decided that you were so high and mighty that anything he does is in such bad taste that you can't love him? The reality of who you are is skewed in some ways and it's about time you realize this. So what that your man is not the next JFK Jr. and that he has blemishes in his character like the rest of the people in this world. He is who he is and the more he tries to be the person you want him to be the more you are lowering his will to live a happy and fulfilling life.</p><p>Now I know I don't know you personally, but from what I do know I can tell you seem to be a little snooty and self centered. I heard a story about one time where you and he had a fight and you made him sleep on the chair in his apartment when he had work in the morning. When I heard that I started to see you in a negative light. Why? Because I was in that same situation once and I was the guy sleeping in the chair. I realized after a little more seasoning in life that only a person who wants to satisfy their own needs would be that cold hearted. No matter what the fight was about that night life is still going forward no matter what happens and him getting a good nights sleep is a bigger issue. Let's face it, you knew you could get away with shit like that and that's why you do it. You need to grow up and act like a mature woman and stop acting like a teenage girl who has the class clown all in love with her.</p><p><span style="background-color: #ffff00">I would really like to tell him that he should move on and find a woman that will just take</span> him for what he is, but then that's selling you short as well. I think the bigger issue is about you. The more time you spend in this world acting like a spolied brat the more time you will spend later on in life wondering why no one takes you seriously. You are finding faults in this man that most women around your age have seemed to gotten over with in their teenage years. Stop acting like you deserve the greatest man in the world because no such man exists. We are all just people and the beauty of love is that it's never the same between two people. Some people find love by just being comfortable around each another. Some people find love by feeding off of each others accomplishments in life. Some people find love just by the fact that they have the animal attraction thing going on.</p><p><span style="background-color: #ffff00">There are a million ways to love someone</span> and yet you are looking for reasons not to love someone who would do anything possible within the realm of man to make you happy.</p><p>Maybe it's time <span style="background-color: #ffff00">you understand that the love </span>you and he have is not going to have any structure. Could it be that this is the way that you two are going to love each other? If so, then so be it.</p><p><span style="background-color: #ffff00">I was once a person who thought like

[MilkmanDann]

<p>I think I'm going to throw up.</p>

[StupidGirlllll]

<font size="3">I think she is in love with another, a mask gentleman, some call the MIDNIGHT RIDER. </font>

[zman]

<p>&nbsp;</p><p>How do you know Westside actually loves Dave? Maybe she's hooked a ride onto the Midnight Gravy Train.</p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off the pheromones of awesomeness that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake&nbsp;but I can only go off experience.</p>

[FezPaul]

<strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off <strong><font size="5">the pheromones of awesomeness</font></strong> that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake&nbsp;but I can only go off experience.</p><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That would a great name for a band.</font></strong></p>

[riverofpiss]

Wretch, puke, gargle...

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>FezPaul</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off <strong><font size="5">the pheromones of awesomeness</font></strong> that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake&nbsp;but I can only go off experience.</p><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That would a great name for a band.</font></strong></p><p>i call dibs!!</p>

[FezPaul]

<strong>douggrasso</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>FezPaul</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off <strong><font size="5">the pheromones of awesomeness</font></strong> that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake&nbsp;but I can only go off experience.</p><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That would a great name for a band.</font></strong></p><p>i call dibs!!</p><p><img src="http://reds.enquirer.com/2002/06/23/dibble_150x200.jpg" border="0" width="150" height="200" /></p>

[ralphbxny]

We have all been the guy in the chair, or sleepin in a car. Doing something just to get some sleep and get away from the crazy bitch. This has happend to be twice and oddly enough its been when I dated someone who didnt have a job or only had a weekend job...much like Westside. Dave needs to get away from her till she grows up...maybe this will make her grow up..or maybe she will just blow another chef.

[TheVHD]

I gotta know... how long did it take you to write that F'ing Essay???&nbsp; That is the longest post I have ever seen here... and I didn't even read it.

[CarpeCerevisi]

i just read that essay and i really dont know what to say, w couldent believe it.... that was fucking beautiful sir. most elequently stated if i do say so..you out did ur self once again. Keep up the good work nobel poet

[sailor]

<strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off the pheromones of awesomeness that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake but I can only go off experience.</p><p>&nbsp;<font size="2">not likely.&nbsp; their last break-up was the mirror image of this, in all aspects.<br /></font></p>

[reeshy]

Fuck her...bang a crack whore!!!!

[blakjeezis]

That post is seriously a lot of commitment to someone else's relationship. Like waaaaaaaaaaay too much. You need to relax, bro.

[BoondockSaint]

<strong>sailor</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off the pheromones of awesomeness that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake but I can only go off experience.</p><p>&nbsp;<font size="2">not likely.&nbsp; their last break-up was the mirror image of this, in all aspects.<br /></font></p><p>Ummm....didn't Dave dump her last time?</p>

[SPeeDy_Freak]

<p>Not to defend Westside or Dave because I know neither one.....</p><p>the situation may have been more of her not wanting to be part of the radio storyline and after hearing what Dave had done in his past I am sure there was a level of embarrassment on her part. </p><p>Will she return? I have no freakin' idea. Again with his alledgedly keeping secrets from her, that is not the basis of a good relationship.</p>

[terry1979]

<p>Dear&nbsp;#1ESDfan,</p><p>You have some serious women hating issues.&nbsp; Sounds like you are the one that needs to get over yourself.&nbsp; That was the biggest load of crap I have ever read and the great part is you have re-read to yourself multiple times and congratulated yourself over how profound you are.</p><p>Think about it.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<strong>douggrasso</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>FezPaul</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. It's always the way it goes and it becomes the guys decision whether to take them back or not.</p><p>That's my experience anyway.</p><p>I've been left 4 times. All 4 times they come back. Usually after they find out I'm with another chick but they do come back. The only one I accepted back was the person I'm married to.</p><p>I don't expect that Dave gives off <strong><font size="5">the pheromones of awesomeness</font></strong> that I do, which is what leads to them realizing their mistake&nbsp;but I can only go off experience.</p><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">That would a great name for a band.</font></strong></p><p>i call dibs!!</p><p>I've watched Gene Simmons Family Jewels before, I know the importance of copyrights.</p><p>I have the name copyrighted, therefore I call ROYALTIES!</p>

[rooter]

<p>I think Dave should go blow a chef.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>That'll learn 'er.&nbsp;</p>

[tele7]

<a href="http://www.putfile.com/telecaster7"><img src="http://img1.putfile.com/main/2/3303281165.jpg" border="0" alt="Uploaded picture" width="634" height="444" /></a>

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>Telecaster, I need some explaination. How does that pic relate to the thread?</p>

[watson]

Isnt that the same thing? <strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br />Fuck her...bang a crack whore!!!!<p>&nbsp;</p>

[FezPaul]

<strong>telecaster7</strong> wrote:<br /><a href="http://www.putfile.com/telecaster7"><img src="http://img1.putfile.com/main/2/3303281165.jpg" border="0" alt="Uploaded picture" width="634" height="444" /></a> <p><img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" width="28" height="30" /></p>

[lleeder]

<p><font size="3">Thats a long ass post. Anyone who care about another persons relationship that much must have issues</font></p>

[ShowerBench]

<strong>The Midnight Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><p>All girls do this.</p><p>She'll be back, they always come back. </p><p>Only the ugly or desperate ones.&nbsp; The female has to be chased.&nbsp; Always.&nbsp; </p><p>Doesn't work the other way for either one.</p>

[FartyPneumonia]

has ESD been on Paltalk yet?

[samnyc]

If Westside dumped Dave for the Midnight Rider Dave would be celebrating his 1 year anniversary with the ultimate radio bit.&nbsp; Good ol' Paul E Dangerously style booking!!&nbsp; Any chance it will play out that way?

[conman823]

<strong>blakjeezis</strong> wrote:<br />That post is seriously a lot of commitment to someone else's relationship. Like waaaaaaaaaaay too much. <font style="background-color: #ffff99">You need to relax, bro.</font> <p>Amen, blakjeeziz....amen</p>

[striker]

<p>Dave got what he deserved, she warned him once that she didn't want him talking about their relationship and he kept at it.&nbsp; It was just a matter of time.&nbsp; Maybe now she'll find a smart, witty, and hung chef to blow, and Dave, well Dave can go find a new Husky to befriend, I'm sure there are some at the pound.</p>

[angrymissy]

Not getting enough attention over at wackbag Striker?&nbsp; Even over there, they think you're obsessed with Dave a bit much.