Should I take my Cheating Girlfriend Back?

[DIRTY_MEX]

i need some advise if i should take my girl back that cheated on me?

i'm a Marine stationed in Va and i'm getting out of the Marines this month. i was going to move in with her in Pa. she cheated on my with an ex-boyfriend and was caught by her sister. this happened 2 months ago and from that day i found out, i broke up with her. for the past two months she been sorry for what she's done and how she hurt me. she wants me to take her back. i've forgiven her for what she has done. i still love her and she did make me happy...

my dilemma is if i should take her back and move to Pa with her?
OR
move on with my life and move where ever i want and start new and fresh?

[reeshy]

Stay on your side of the fence for awhile....see what happens in the future!!

[Fezticle98]

Do not take her back! This is the perfect opportunity to move on and eventually find a girl that respects you. You already know that leaving her is the right decision. It also happens to be the harder decision right now, but the best one in the long run. Kick her to the curb, you can do better!

[Bossanova]

Start fresh bro. You have two things you will encounter if you take her back. She will either cheat again, or you will drive your self crazy waiting for her to cheat again. Its not worth pain. You did the tough part by walking away. Don't go back

[J.Clints]

Start fresh bro. You have two things you will encounter if you take her back. She will either cheat again, or you will drive your self crazy waiting for her to cheat again. Its not worth pain. You did the tough part by walking away. Don't go back

i agree with boss

[Fat_Sunny]

Start fresh bro. You have two things you will encounter if you take her back. She will either cheat again, or you will drive your self crazy waiting for her to cheat again. Its not worth pain. You did the tough part by walking away. Don't go back

Ditto To That!

[DIRTY_MEX]

Stay on your side of the fence for awhile....see what happens in the future!!

thank you reeshy

[Tall_James]

Bossanova summed it up perfectly. Start over. Chicks dig Marines.

Semper Fi.

[DIRTY_MEX]

Do not take her back! This is the perfect opportunity to move on and eventually find a girl that respects you. You already know that leaving her is the right decision. It also happens to be the harder decision right now, but the best one in the long run. Kick her to the curb, you can do better!

thank you fezticle......it is hard for me

[DIRTY_MEX]

Start fresh bro. You have two things you will encounter if you take her back. She will either cheat again, or you will drive your self crazy waiting for her to cheat again. Its not worth pain. You did the tough part by walking away. Don't go back

thank you Bossanova....you're right

[Bossanova]

thank you Bossanova....you're right

No problem bro. trust me, my last chick did the same to me and I went back. It was hell, living with that shit

[DIRTY_MEX]

No problem bro. trust me, my last chick did the same to me and I went back. It was hell, living with that shit

yeah but the sex was sooooo fucking good. it was like pornstar sex

[Bossanova]

yeah but the sex was sooooo fucking good. it was like pornstar sex

I know man. My ex was Mexican, and she could fuck. Prob the best sex I had, but its not worth the mind trip. You will regret it. My chick now makes me feel like a king, no sex beats that.

[cougarjake13]

you already have the clean slate, you're broken up with her and it'll always be in the back of your mind if she's still cheating

[Bossanova]

Seriously, there are alot of women who can fuck like a whore. Move on, and find one. The best part is you can fuck around till you find one.

[DIRTY_MEX]

you already have the clean slate, you're broken up with her and it'll always be in the back of your mind if she's still cheating

but the funny thing is that its not on my mind. if i'm there full time, this shit will not happened. i can move on with the cheating. i've cheated on plenty of girls b4.

but with her cheating on me hurt me but i really don't care that she did it. it was just for sex.

[Bossanova]

Well then if you are dead set on going back, quit wasting my time player. j/k

You know what I think, but I will never changer your mind

[cougarjake13]

but the funny thing is that its not on my mind. if i'm there full time, this shit will not happened. i can move on with the cheating. i've cheated on plenty of girls b4.

but with her cheating on me hurt me but i really don't care that she did it. it was just for sex.

you cant be there all the time

you're gonna work when you get out no ???

and how do you know it was just sex ?? just b/c she said it ???

i say get out now, its easy and already done, there's plenty of new places and people out there

[DIRTY_MEX]

trust me i'm not dead set to go back with her. i know i can get a better girl. i'm just wondering if i can put things aside and see if its the smart thing to do

[Bossanova]

trust me i'm not dead set to go back with her. i know i can get a better girl. i'm just wondering if i can put things aside and see if its the smart thing to do

Again, from my experience. I thought I could and it didn't work, she played me then it fucked with me. Not worth the heartache

[cougarjake13]

trust me i'm not dead set to go back with her. i know i can get a better girl. i'm just wondering if i can put things aside and see if its the smart thing to do

well how long have you been with her ???

[DIRTY_MEX]

well how long have you been with her ???

a little over a year

[cougarjake13]

a little over a year

so a lil over a year is enough time to truly know a person and let her do this to you and take her back ???

if you said anything over 5 years i'd maybe give it some thought to patching things up

but a year ?? c'mon and who knows if that was the only guy, thats the only one she got caught with

[nevnut]

From my experience with myself and friends around me, once a cheater - always a cheater.

Move on.

[Bulldogcakes]

I know man. My ex was Mexican, and she could fuck. Prob the best sex I had, but its not worth the mind trip. You will regret it. My chick now makes me feel like a king, no sex beats that.

Personally, I think Dominican girls are the best lays I've ever had. By far.

If you two were married with kids, this would be complicated. But you're not, so its not.
The boyfriend/girlfriend thing is over. If you still want to fuck her, then just be straight with her about what your intentions are about the relationship. Keep it casual, and keep your freedom. No rules. Knowing most girls, she'll probably think you're just saying that, because of what happened. But you should say it and mean it, thats really all you can do. Could be an opportunity for you. Bang your ex a few times a week and hang with the boys on weekends looking for someone else. Beats going without, and you might find you do much better at bars knowing you have plan B in your back pocket.

[Fez4PrezN2008]

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You'll thank us later...

[DIRTY_MEX]

what would i do without you guys from RF.net

thank you

[cougarjake13]

what would i do without you guys from RF.net

thank you

just listen to your sig pic

[moochcassidy]

are you fuckin insane?

i cant be arsed reading this thread to see if this is a joke.

but if this is real, youve gotta be the biggest pussy in the world if you take some whorebucket back after banging some other dude... everytime you looked at her face you'd see his sweaty ballsack.

no...dont do it.

[Cockstrong]

Personally, I think Dominican girls are the best lays I've ever had. By far.


Amen to that.

[cupcakelove]

Just move on. Its been two months, and if its still an issue for you, then it probably always will. You don't want to be in that relationship, I've done that before, and it just gets worse and worse until one day you completely hate each other, and you're stuck trying to pay all the rent and bills by yourself (at least thats how it went for me).

[Dougie Brootal]

im not even gonna read the thread, im just gonna answer your question... no.