Why cant you be like her?

[dolemyte]

IS it just me?

Or have you/do you get irrationally mad at your s/o because they arent someone else? They dont have such and such features, or they wont do for you sexually what you think someone else would do for you?

You truely love them, yet you cant shake these feelings from time to time, to the detriment of your relationship?

I know this is a completely selfish way to feel, but every relationship ive had has had these issues. Its not as bad as feeling that you settled, but almost...

[King Hippos Bandaid]

Yes its just You

I love my wife , I am attracted to her

I dont think with my Dick when it comes to her

If you start judging based on looks, you will never be satisfied.

:king:

[Snacks]

I understand what your saying and have felt this way too. But... once you break up you usually only remember the good and then think to youself not everyone is perfect and wish the little things didnt bother you.

Now if these things are little things and they are very important to you then you will never stop thinking about them.