RogerPodacter
04-28-2007, 11:54 AM
OK so i'm just venting here. but since i came to the west coast i've been unable to find a decent girlfriend, or even date. i had a longterm relationship back east but when we split i decided to relocate, since the work out here in my field is really good. but i cant find any decent "normal" girls who just wanna meet someone normal. everything, i mean EVERYTHING is a fashion show out here. i'm not ripped or huge, and it seems to work against me. i'm not our of shape, i just dont care to be huge. 6ft 1 about 185 lbs, but apparently most girls want the eye candy. i'm just frustrated. back east i could get the standard "date" to go out to a movie or bar or dinner. but here it seems women are so immature they dont want a working professional, stable guy with good income. they all want the crazy hollywood type shit. maybe its me. but i'm decent looking, just not an idiot meat head. anyone got any advice? west coasters chime in here?