Need a little help

[NickyL0885]

Ok, im 21, never had a g/f but this girl im interested in likes me the same way i like her. so, like.....where do i go from here? ive heard from just hang with her a couple of time to take her out to a nice place to eat. she is 19. we both clearly like each other. part of me think that we should go out an that i should make a move or something.

[Justice4all]

Well, if you do like her, a movie or something simple. Like Pizza and maybe mini golf, where you can both do something together and spend some time talking to each other. That way you can kinda get a good vibe from her. A movie is nice but for 2 hours you spend the time looking at the screen, and not at her.

If you like her, ask her out. Just say "hey (so and so). I was wondering if you wanted to grab a bite if you are not busy on/at (fill in the blank)"

What is the worst that could happen...she says NO?

Don't worry about it. Go and have fun!

and remember...
look her in her eyes....
Make sure you talk alot about HER
and be sincere when you are interested in her.


good luck buddy! Hope it works out for you.

[Ritalin]

Nicky, 2 words: Roofies.

[Jennitalia]

what he said. im also not a fan of the first/date movie thing, more so because it doesnt really give you the chance to talk and get to know each other more or see if you are really clicking. Is there something you both enjoy doing that is fun, like bowling, gambling, hiking, museums, baseball games? perhaps you'd be more comfortable in a day date as a first date, and if the date is going well and you're vibing and whatnot, suggest dinner.

[PapaBear]

Every successful relationship I've ever had, started out with just "hanging out". Like what was said above... just do things you both like doing. Don't call it a "date". Just make sure it's activities that allow for a lot of talking, laughing, and looking each other in the eyes.

[Justice4all]

what he said. im also not a fan of the first/date movie thing, more so because it doesnt really give you the chance to talk and get to know each other more or see if you are really clicking. Is there something you both enjoy doing that is fun, like bowling, gambling, hiking, museums, baseball games? perhaps you'd be more comfortable in a day date as a first date, and if the date is going well and you're vibing and whatnot, suggest dinner.

Jenn...excellent suggestion.

Nicky....take her advice on this one. It makes alot of sense!

Oh yes...and if you go somewhere, make it a place where you would not be interrupted (like a place where alot of your or her friends hang out)

[weekapaugjz]

if the girl seems into you, definitely ask her out. jennitalia's advice on lunch as a first date is a great idea, if things go well, you have the rest of the day to do something else. i wish i was in the same boat. im stuck hanging out with a girl i am really into and pretty sure she just wants to be friends, very frustrating. take a chance and take her out.

[Reephdweller]

what he said. im also not a fan of the first/date movie thing, more so because it doesnt really give you the chance to talk and get to know each other more or see if you are really clicking. Is there something you both enjoy doing that is fun, like bowling, gambling, hiking, museums, baseball games? perhaps you'd be more comfortable in a day date as a first date, and if the date is going well and you're vibing and whatnot, suggest dinner.

Well said, I also agree about the first date movie thing. Things the two of you can do together that you like is generally a good way to go. All of the suggestions above are great.

[Devo37]

from the Ronnie B dating guide: Ether rag.