Now I Know What Ron Meant When He Said...

[Doctor Z]

I remember a few years back, when Ron & Fez were talking about heartbreak, and I'll never forget when Ron said "I would rather lose a pinky than feel heartbreak." I was never really sure how true that was until recently. Believe me, I've dealt with my share of shitty situations with girls, but I've never felt true heartbreak like this until now. I've been a complete fucking wreck for the last 72 hours and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. I feel catatonic.

Right now, there's no doubt I would trade my left pinky for this.

[JPMNICK]

wow man that sucks, so sorry to hear it. you will never forget it, but it will get better. right now you just have to maintain and try to keep your head above water.

[weekapaugjz]

sorry to hear about it budday. i went through very similar things about three years ago when i broke up with my first love. it lasted for close to a year, i was miserable. its the main reasons i hate opening up to woman anymore. it does get better, but it is a shitty situation when you are in the middle of it. i recommend heavy doses of self medication.

[Fezticle98]

Has to be one of the worst feelings in the world. Nothing to do but ride it out, I guess. Good luck, bro.

[Kevin]

Yea, Like Fezickle said.. It just may be the worst feeling in the world.. I have gone through it a few times.. Just ride it out bro, it gets better. I also like Weeka have a hard time opening up to women because of past experiences.. You just have to be really careful because once the feelings start, it is hard to stop em. Just keep your head up.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

sorry to hear bro...


:king:

[ChimneyFish]

I know I'm not the only one to say that I've been there, budday. Keep your head up. I can't really give too much advice, since I just drank until I numbed it out, but like Ronnie says, you'll have to deal with it when you come down anyway. It's going to take some time, just stick through it.

And here I went a got myself in a situation where I'm just waiting for it to happen all over again.
It's like standing on the beach, just staring at a tidal wave coming in.
It's just a matter when.:surrender:


Hope you feel better soon, my friend.

[ScottFromGA]

I remember a few years back, when Ron & Fez were talking about heartbreak, and I'll never forget when Ron said "I would rather lose a pinky than feel heartbreak." I was never really sure how true that was until recently. Believe me, I've dealt with my share of shitty situations with girls, but I've never felt true heartbreak like this until now. I've been a complete fucking wreck for the last 72 hours and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. I feel catatonic.

Right now, there's no doubt I would trade my left pinky for this.

doctor Z needs a group hug....

its ok bud, time heals all wounds and you will get better!!

[envirogator]

Originally Posted by Doctor Z View Post
I remember a few years back, when Ron & Fez were talking about heartbreak, and I'll never forget when Ron said "I would rather lose a pinky than feel heartbreak." I was never really sure how true that was until recently. Believe me, I've dealt with my share of shitty situations with girls, but I've never felt true heartbreak like this until now. I've been a complete fucking wreck for the last 72 hours and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. I feel catatonic.

Right now, there's no doubt I would trade my left pinky for this.

Unfortunately its the one feeling that everyone on the planet shares at one point in their lives. Hang tough Z

[Dingbat_Charlie]

I can't add to anything anybody has said, but hang in there. It's a terrible feeling and it might last a while, but it does eventually get better. sorry you're going thru it.

[AngelAmy]

I'll piggy back off of what everyone else has said in here.

Most of us have been through it and I know there is nothing that will make you feel better so just hang in there.

Sorry you're going through this.

[spoon]

Shit Z think of it this way. By the time you get a new peep in your life, gay marriage will be legal in New York. So sorry to hear you and Snoogans didn't work out, but I guess that Sox Yankee thing doomed you both from the start.

Here's a real idea, come out and hang at the VIP tonight and I'll personally donate to the get over her fund by getting you a nice dance buddy. So, you coming! Ha!

[keithy_19]

It seems that we're going through the same exact thing right now. It's been over a month for me and I still don't want to get out of bed. I'm not the ebst for advice other than I know what you're going through. And I really hope that what everyone says is true. We just have to hang in there.

[spoon]

Keithy it only makes you smarter for when you find your true love. Best advice is to realize it's time to move on and keep busy. Next thing you know, you'll always love her but you've moved on with your life.

[keithy_19]

Keithy it only makes you smarter for when you find your true love. Best advice is to realize it's time to move on and keep busy. Next thing you know, you'll always love her but you've moved on with your life.

I started writing a play to pass my time. I hope that doesn't make me gay or something. She always encouraged me to write. So even in that she's there. Oh well.

[sailor]

I started writing a play to pass my time. I hope that doesn't make me gay or something. She always encouraged me to write. So even in that she's there. Oh well.

really sorry to hear what you're both going thru. i really don't miss the times i was going thru that stuff myself.

(and throwing out such a softball line like the above in this forum...that's just mean.)

[buzzard]

My 1st wife made me feel exactly the way you've talked about Doc...so much in fact that I served her with divorce papers on our 5th anniversay and stayed absolutely single for 10 years.time is the only distance that matters @ this point.feel what you need to and don't deny yerself anything.:smile: