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erinmoran
11-22-2001, 09:44 AM
Would you break off a friendship if your friend was seeing a guy/girl you didnt approve of or had proof he/she was no good.
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Alice S. Fuzzybutt
11-22-2001, 11:32 AM
In a way, I guess it depends
on your relationship: if
he/she is a close friend I'd
stick around (if the BF/GF was
that awful the relationship
probably wouldn't last that
long anyway!!) Your friend will
need a shoulder to cry on if
something awful happens. Be
there, and hold your tongue
even tho you want to
say, "I told you so!"
If the friend tosses you aside
and takes the side of the
awful BF/GF, then I wouldn't
stick around. If a few months
goes by and you get a late
night phone call from your
friend after the BF/GF has
done something awful, then
decide how you feel. You may
or may not want to still be
friends with this person!
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TheGameHHH
11-22-2001, 02:09 PM
Absolutly not. My best friend in the entire world is seeing a girl that I know is no good for him. She has cheated on him many times, and worst of all he knows about it. However, he is crazy about her and won't tell her to hit the road. But, as much as I hate her, she makes my best friend happy. I know he would be better off in the long run without her, but it isn't my decision. Therefore I tell him how I feel about her, but I support him with whatever choice he makes. Plus, I would NEVER wanna lose such a great friend over such a lousy person like her.
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CruelCircus
11-25-2001, 11:05 PM
I wouldn't desert my friend like that. As has been said, they may need you if/when it ends, and even during to give some perspective. My friend was twice engaged to a guy I thought was just a mess for her. The second time, I kept my disapproval silent, and when it ended again, she asked me why I hadn't discouraged her. She wanted me to be that unpleasant reminder.
On the other side, I also would never leave a friend because a girlfriend didn't like him/her or wanted me to. In fact, I would have serious questions about anyone who would ask you to get rid of friends for her. Definite character statement there.
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