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dereckfishboy
11-02-2007, 01:13 PM
So there's this chick I know... I've known her for a few years now.... We were always kinda sweet on one another, but I was always tied up in a horrible relationship.... but anyways, we've been real cozy with each other lately.... we've both had a kid since then, grown up a lot... so things seem like they're going pretty good.... we talk a lot.... we musta talked for eight or so hours the other night.... so then she drops on me that she has Herpes..... So I don't know what the fuck to think....
http://www.drugs.com/images/pills/mmx/t106521f/valtrex.jpg
Furtherman
11-02-2007, 01:20 PM
You don't know what to think about her or what to think about the herpies?
I'm sure there are people with that who have successful relationships but I'd think you would consult with a doctor first.
But if you have a problem with her having it - then that is a different story.
dereckfishboy
11-02-2007, 01:23 PM
You don't know what to think about her or what to think about the herpies?
I'm sure there are people with that who have successful relationships but I'd think you would consult with a doctor first.
But if you have a problem with her having it - then that is a different story.
Oh no, I the last thing I would do is judge her.... some asshole boyfriend never told her he had it back when she was sixteen, so I'd be an asshole to not give her a shot based on that.... I just don't want to get herpes..... I tried talking to her about it, but it's a real sensitive issue with her at the little bit we talked about it had her crying fiercely..... Man, I dig this girl, but the thought of possibly catching something permanent scares the shit out of me...
Furtherman
11-02-2007, 01:25 PM
Oh no, I the last thing I would do is judge her.... some asshole boyfriend never told her he had it back when she was sixteen, so I'd be an asshole to not give her a shot based on that.... I just don't want to get herpes..... I tried talking to her about it, but it's a real sensitive issue with her at the little bit we talked about it had her crying fiercely..... Man, I dig this girl, but the thought of possibly catching something permanent scares the shit out of me...
Ok. That's good of you to consider a relationship, but I totally understand the fear.
Talk with a doctor, if it's possible to be safe, then bring it up.
PapaBear
11-02-2007, 01:29 PM
If the L bomb comes into the picture, then the H bomb should be something that can easily be dealt with. Look at it this way. If you turn down a woman who may be the love your life and has herpes, you may end up with a woman who is a bitch, and doesn't tell you she has herpes.
dereckfishboy
11-02-2007, 01:30 PM
http://www.drugs.com/images/pills/mmx/t106521f/valtrex.jpg
Heh....That makes me feel a little better, but I have a 17 month-old as proof that pills don't always work..... Herpes is just as permanent as a kid, but I imagine a lot less fun.... Even with the pill and condoms, I think I'd always be worrying (which tends not to make for the best sex).... Fuck, someone tell Doctor Steve to do another show quick.....
Furtherman
11-02-2007, 01:31 PM
you may end up with a who is a bitch, and doesn't tell you she has herpes.
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PapaBear
11-02-2007, 01:44 PM
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led37zep
11-02-2007, 04:11 PM
If the L bomb comes into the picture, then the H bomb should be something that can easily be dealt with. Look at it this way. If you turn down a woman who may be the love your life and has herpes, you may end up with a woman who is a bitch, and doesn't tell you she has herpes.
Well said Papabear! If you have serious feelings for this girl then herpes is something that can be dealt with. Talk to you doctor, figure out the risks go along from there.
dereckfishboy
11-02-2007, 04:17 PM
Well said Papabear! If you have serious feelings for this girl then herpes is something that can be dealt with. Talk to you doctor, figure out the risks go along from there.
Yeah, but i wouldn't say serious.... This would pretty much be a short term relationship based on sex.... I dunno how serious i can feel about a chick anymore... all that aside, i feel weird making a doctor appointment to talk to him about someone elses disease....
Hottub
11-02-2007, 04:19 PM
Yes, but if not careful, it could in turn be your disease. Unless you really feel some sort of connection, I, personally, would think twice.
led37zep
11-02-2007, 04:20 PM
Well its to prevent it from becoming yours.
You can always go here if you don't want to talk to your doc.
http://www.webmd.com/
Hottub
11-02-2007, 04:41 PM
Yes, but if not careful, it could in turn be your disease. Unless you really feel some sort of connection, I, personally, would think twice.
Sorry. The dog NEEDED to go out. Anyway, as mentioned previously, if you do feel a real connection happening (not just sexual) medication and precautions can make it work. It has happened for many people.
Good Luck!
TeeBone
11-02-2007, 05:21 PM
Oh no, I the last thing I would do is judge her.... some asshole boyfriend never told her he had it back when she was sixteen, so I'd be an asshole to not give her a shot based on that.... I just don't want to get herpes..... I tried talking to her about it, but it's a real sensitive issue with her at the little bit we talked about it had her crying fiercely..... Man, I dig this girl, but the thought of possibly catching something permanent scares the shit out of me...
Run you fucking maniac, RUN!!!!!
People that say they don't judge are in fact making a judgment!!!!!
Life is too short.....RUN!!!!!
dereckfishboy
11-02-2007, 11:35 PM
Run you fucking maniac, RUN!!!!!
People that say they don't judge are in fact making a judgment!!!!!
Life is too short.....RUN!!!!!
Eh..... I have my own scars from stupid mistakes.... I can't imagine being as young as she is and having that cross to bare...... I dunno if I want to be guy #104 that bailed on her for being honest when it'd be real easy to keep it to herself.....
TeeBone
11-03-2007, 04:17 AM
Eh..... I have my own scars from stupid mistakes.... I can't imagine being as young as she is and having that cross to bare...... I dunno if I want to be guy #104 that bailed on her for being honest when it'd be real easy to keep it to herself.....
Perhaps I was a little harsh but if you stay with this girl; you will become closer, you will become intimate and you most likely WILL GET THE HERPS.
dereckfishboy
11-04-2007, 01:06 PM
Perhaps I was a little harsh but if you stay with this girl; you will become closer, you will become intimate and you most likely WILL GET THE HERPS.
Most likely.... Yeah, I'd better ask my doctor... on paper, this chick looks like bad news.... 20 year old with two kids and herpes, a history of neglectful controlling boyfriends, and severe emotional issues involving her father coming out of the closet and leaving both her and her mother when she was young..... Yeah, a whole shit-ton of baggage there....
On the plus side, she's a hot twenty year old......
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