where do I go to meet women?

[keithy_19]

I'm looking for dates and such, and I have not the faintest idea where to go to look for girls. I can talk to them fine if I meet them, but it's the meeting them part that ruins me.

So hellp a brotha' out.

[epo]

Keithy at your age there should be girls everywhere......

School
Bars
Grocery Stores
Laundromats
Parties
Coffee Shops

That's the beauty of life, you never know when you are going to meet a great woman.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

not a bar

Id say a coffee house or if you are lucky through a friend

[Furtherman]

If you go out actively looking, women will sense that and look the other way.

Just allow life to happen, they will come along.

[keithy_19]

If you go out actively looking, women will sense that and look the other way.

Just allow life to happen, they will come along.

If I build it they will come...

[Furtherman]

If I build it they will come...

If you have money to build anything, yea, they'll come alright.

[drjoek]

Stay close to Church related social activity

[keithy_19]

Stay close to Church related social activity

Will they give me head for Christ?

[weekapaugjz]

not a bar

Id say a coffee house or if you are lucky through a friend

Wow some decent advice without whoring it up. I completly agree. I met my chick through a mutual friend on a random night.

[keithy_19]

Wow some decent advice without whoring it up. I completly agree. I met my chick through a mutual friend on a random night.

My circle of friends has grown thin as of late.

[Sinestro]

Keithy at your age there should be girls everywhere......

School
Bars
Grocery Stores
Laundromats
Parties
Coffee Shops

That's the beauty of life, you never know when you are going to meet a great woman.

Join some type of social group or something. Aren't there some clubs at your college you could join? For your age group I would say school is your #1 place to look for chics. Attend some school or church social functions. Go to some parties and also get some of your friends to hook you up. Then there's the internet.........just make sure you don't end up on Dateline: To catch a predator.

[chubbyknuckles]

not a bar

Id say a coffee house or if you are lucky through a friend

c'mon why not a bar? It's an ideal meeting place, and the drinking is always a boost.

Dude are you a shy type of guy or just really not getting to the right places?

[Ritalin]

Will they give me head for Christ?

Yeah, I don't know HOW you could have any trouble meeting chicks.

[Sinestro]

And if you work, works a good place to meet women. Not sure if you have a part time job or something.

Then there's those board events. From what I read, seems like people hook up alot from them.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

c'mon why not a bar? It's an ideal meeting place, and the drinking is always a boost.

Dude are you a shy type of guy or just really not getting to the right places?

Im married, but I have all single friends

people here who know me, know im the opposite of shy

but at a bar, you get women who are on guard, they are looking to deny you before you speak to them ( was just at Deko a Club in Jersey (yuck) , my friend complimented a girl on how she danced, her friend said she was not interested and slapped my friend in the face, a fight ensued,)women are always getting hit on in bars, its an awful place to go to find someone

you wont meet the right woman there, If you are looking for a hookup then hit a bar and try to get lucky

[Gmann]

Get a job as a bartender.

Friend of mine told me before I started working as one...and I quote..."you automatically go up 30% in the hotness factor when you work behind a bar". Where she got that number I have no idea, but its true.

[keithy_19]

Yeah, I don't know HOW you could have any trouble meeting chicks.

I make up for my terribly awkward sense of humor with my boyish good looks and my charm.

[keithy_19]

Get a job as a bartender.

Friend of mine told me before I started working as one...and I quote..."you automatically go up 30% in the hotness factor when you work behind a bar". Where she got that number I have no idea, but its true.

Don't you have to go to bartending school? Is me dishing out money I don't have worth maybe meeting some girl?

[Sinestro]

scared money don't make money. Same thing goes for girls.

[Ritalin]

Get a job as a bartender.

Friend of mine told me before I started working as one...and I quote..."you automatically go up 30% in the hotness factor when you work behind a bar". Where she got that number I have no idea, but its true.

Gmann, you must be up to your armpits in chubby drunken Irish chicks, because that's all I see in the neighborhood when I walk the dog at night.

Come to Sunnyside, Keithy. If you have any game at all, you can score with the Irish lasses. Love that accent.

[donnie_darko]

go to the short hills mall and sit in the food court with your balls exposed.

worked for me.

[LaBoob]

Join some type of social group or something. Aren't there some clubs at your college you could join? For your age group I would say school is your #1 place to look for chics. Attend some school or church social functions. Go to some parties and also get some of your friends to hook you up. Then there's the internet.........just make sure you don't end up on Dateline: To catch a predator.

I think you have a real advantage still being in college... I met the majority of guys I dated in classes. It's the easiest place to stike up conversation because there's so much to talk about and girls don't usually have their guard up as much as they would at a bar.

[angrymissy]

DUH

I'm surprised no one has said it:

INTERNETZ!

[Team_Ramrod]

DUH

I'm surprised no one has said it:

INTERNETZ!

Yah, the internet is good.

So is a junior high.

[keithy_19]

I think you have a real advantage still being in college... I met the majority of guys I dated in classes. It's the easiest place to stike up conversation because there's so much to talk about and girls don't usually have their guard up as much as they would at a bar.

I could attempt to strike up conversation. It's jsut hard cause there's no real conversation going on in my classes. I feel awkward going up to a random girl and trying to start up conversation. And yes, that goes totally against what I said in the first post. But you gotta take baby steps I suppose.

[keithy_19]

Yah, the internet is good.

So is a junior high.

I could be one of those guys who is 24 and dates the hot 17 year old. Granted I'm 19 so it's not as creepy and sad.

[Team_Ramrod]

I could be one of those guys who is 24 and dates the hot 17 year old. Granted I'm 19 so it's not as creepy and sad.

Well, then try a preschool. That would be creepier.

[sr71blackbird]

Just go where people are and when you see a pretty girl, smile at her. If she smiles back, she is attracted to your smile and she will be curious about you. Then, summon the courage to approach her and say Hi, and see where it goes. You will know very quickly if you crossed a line, and if so, make a graceful exit. If she seems open, start a conversation, maintain eye contact and smile a lot.

[Sinestro]

I could attempt to strike up conversation. It's jsut hard cause there's no real conversation going on in my classes. I feel awkward going up to a random girl and trying to start up conversation.

Who says they want to talk about something that went on in class. Your "IN" is that the chic is taking the same class as you, you can talk about other stuff not related to school. Start out with a couple of friendly greetings or smiles in class. You see her outside of class or on campus and greet her or say hello. Throw in some small talk and topical conversations and take it from there. Heck, she might even try to set you up with one of her friends. It happens.:lol:

[LaBoob]

I could attempt to strike up conversation. It's jsut hard cause there's no real conversation going on in my classes. I feel awkward going up to a random girl and trying to start up conversation. And yes, that goes totally against what I said in the first post. But you gotta take baby steps I suppose.

Baby step #1: Just talk to women without the intention of picking them up. If you're too intimidated to start conversation, guess what?... You'll miss a LOT of opportunities. And practice makes perfect.

Find the confidence to make that first move. If a girl gets annoyed or creeped out by your friendliness, who cares? I'm sure that's not the kind of girl you're trying to meet anyway.
Putting yourself out there isn't something that comes naturally to everyone. It took me YEARS of being awkward and uncomfortable before I realized I have a lot to offer and if someone doesn't see that it's their loss. It's something my mother told me for years and I wish it had clicked earlier.

[Sinestro]

And if you have a Nintendo, you can tell her if she wants to play with your Wii.:ohmy:

[Bulldogcakes]

Baby step #1: Just talk to women without the intention of picking them up. If you're too intimidated to start conversation, guess what?... You'll miss a LOT of opportunities. And practice makes perfect.

Find the confidence to make that first move. If a girl gets annoyed or creeped out by your friendliness, who cares? I'm sure that's not the kind of girl you're trying to meet anyway.


Often the women who aren't open to a casual conversation already have a boyfriend. If she's single, its much more likely she'll be receptive.

Putting yourself out there isn't something that comes naturally to everyone. It took me YEARS of being awkward and uncomfortable before I realized I have a lot to offer and if someone doesn't see that it's their loss. It's something my mother told me for years and I wish it had clicked earlier

Bingo. Your Mom is a smart woman.

The biggest problem I had when I was Kiethy's age is taking all this stuff way too seriously. Caring too much about what other people think of you. Best advice I ever got was "Just go out and have some fun" whatever that means.

Also, think of what attracts YOU to someone. Chances are its someone who seems happy to see you, friendly, easy to get along with. Guess what? It works on women too. Self conscious introverts get lots of sympathy, and very little action.

[Kris10]

Get a job as a bartender.

Friend of mine told me before I started working as one...and I quote..."you automatically go up 30% in the hotness factor when you work behind a bar". Where she got that number I have no idea, but its true.

Free drinks. End of story.

[damainer]

Duct tape and rope

[Gmann]

Gmann, you must be up to your armpits in chubby drunken Irish chicks, because that's all I see in the neighborhood when I walk the dog at night.

Come to Sunnyside, Keithy. If you have any game at all, you can score with the Irish lasses. Love that accent.

Yeah I get my share of the fresh off the boat Irish lasses, but lately its been all 21yr old+ college chicks. The past couple of weeks Ive looked forward to going to work.

[Gmann]

Free drinks. End of story.



Well yeah....but only to those "special" ones.

[eeroomnhoj]

I'm looking for dates and such, and I have not the faintest idea where to go to look for girls. I can talk to them fine if I meet them, but it's the meeting them part that ruins me.

So hellp a brotha' out.

Met my wife in school. If a troll like me can meet a woman then I am convincecd anyone can.

[grlNIN]

Where i used to work must be haunted by a golden matchmaker. That place was fucking crazy.

Besides my relationship (We met at this job and were friends for a year before dating-now have been together for year+ and live together) there were 3 other couples that started at the job. I know that 2 of them live and are still together.

So basically, get a job.

[ralphbxny]

Social Activities. Softball, dodge ball, your college events. but its been said many times. Dont look for it, but also be confident. Women hate insecurity and desperation!

[SyndicateParish]

In a college town the laundry mat. That way even if you don't get anywhere, you still get to see their panties. :thumbup:

[outlawfrank]

Have you tried a prison?

[Ritalin]

Yeah I get my share of the fresh off the boat Irish lasses, but lately its been all 21yr old+ college chicks. The past couple of weeks Ive looked forward to going to work.

College chicks? Where are they coming from, LaGuardia College? Maybe the DeVry down the street.

[topless_mike]

dood.

nothing is sexier than confidence. but it is a fine line that is shared with arrogant/cocky, so becareful not to cross over.

if you are out, and it doesnt matter where, be confident enough to strike up a conversation.
and, as Laboob said, with no intentions. you'll give off this "friendly" vibe that only women and tranny's will pick up on.

also
the hottest and coolest chicks are only found at rf.net (and said events).

[Drunky McBetidont]

craigs list. don't go for anything under 125 roses though as they are sure to be pigs.
http://newyork.craigslist.org/search/cas/?query=w4m

[joethebartender]

Get a job as a bartender.

Friend of mine told me before I started working as one...and I quote..."you automatically go up 30% in the hotness factor when you work behind a bar". Where she got that number I have no idea, but its true.

SSSSSSShhhhhhhhhhhhh!...you wanna flood the job market?!

[topless_mike]

hey,
if big aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa can do it, why not you?

[Gmann]

College chicks? Where are they coming from, LaGuardia College? Maybe the DeVry down the street.



Ive gotten sororities from Queens College and St.Johns coming in. Like I said...its been a fun past couple weeks.

[milliehatchett]

Wow! Two pages and the MOST obvious was missed!

Keithy - in EVERY public building there is a room....the door to that room says "Ladies". Sometimes it says "Women" sometimes even "Gauchas". If you stand right in front of that door - you will see women (or ladies or gauchas) walking in and out of there ALL DAY and NIGHT. You're SURE to find someone acceptable!

By the way - it sure helps if you lick your eyebrows as you stand there.

[Dougie Brootal]

go to the local elementary school, like me and judge smails!

[Aaron Rodgers]

Become the starting quarterback for a storied NFL franchise.

[topless_mike]

hang out with sheepy.
he claims mad bitches.

[milliehatchett]

hang out with sheepy.
he claims mad bitches.

Sheepy's bitches are only mad because he doesn't put out.

[topless_mike]

Sheepy's bitches are only mad because he doesn't put out.

:p

[foodcourtdruide]

I'm looking for dates and such, and I have not the faintest idea where to go to look for girls. I can talk to them fine if I meet them, but it's the meeting them part that ruins me.

So hellp a brotha' out.

I met my wife on match.com. I really liked internet dating, it's definitely not only weirdo's and commitment freaks. Internet dating is so mainstream that you find lots of average people on there. I'm not a shy guy, but I HATE approaching women in social settings, so breaking the ice online was ideal.

When I was single I definitely used the internet to the best of my capabilities.

Here's how I saw it:

one night stands: myspace and yahoo
relationship types: match.com

[CountryBob]

The Grocery Store is the best. Hang out in produce in the cucumber isle and watch the devilish ones feel em up, approach and say "that is exactly the size of my cock". It works everytime.:devil2:

[riverofpiss]

Try holding the door for girls. They love that kind of stuff.

[riverofpiss]

Ask your chick friends to hook you up. They know which one of their friend is in the same position as you and getting recomended by another girl is a bonus for you.

[jonyrotn]

The Grocery Store is the best. Hang out in produce in the cucumber isle and watch the devilish ones feel em up, approach and say "that is exactly the size of my cock". It works everytime.:devil2:
Wasn't that a "Happy Days" episode..? I think if you were to try a gynocoligist's office you would be rather pleased with the amount of females you find there..Your also forgetting the most obvious place to meet ladies.. THE LADY'S ROOM.. They're all over the place..

[midwestjeff]

If you don't mind a few tears, try an abortion clinic.

[silera]

Get a chick friend to pretend to be your girlfriend at bars and spend most of the night ignoring you.

That's a chick magnet.

[riverofpiss]

Get a chick friend to pretend to be your girlfriend at bars and spend most of the night ignoring you.

That's a chick magnet.

Or a wedding ring, those work great.

[milliehatchett]

Your also forgetting the most obvious place to meet ladies.. THE LADY'S ROOM.. They're all over the place..

Seriously????

Today 03:16 PM
milliehatchett Wow! Two pages and the MOST obvious was missed!

Keithy - in EVERY public building there is a room....the door to that room says "Ladies". Sometimes it says "Women" sometimes even "Gauchas". If you stand right in front of that door - you will see women (or ladies or gauchas) walking in and out of there ALL DAY and NIGHT. You're SURE to find someone acceptable!

By the way - it sure helps if you lick your eyebrows as you stand there.

[BoondockSaint]

Halfway house for unwed pregnant teens. Them chicks are desperate.

[cougarjake13]

bars work if you looking to get laid and arent too picky


otherwise


go to church

[topless_mike]

get a puppy. chicks dig puppies.

not one of those pocket rats- those are for women and gay men.

[topless_mike]

bars work if you looking to get laid and arent too picky




http://wdfw.wa.gov/wlm/game/cougar/graphics/cougar4.jpg

[CountryBob]

get a puppy. chicks dig puppies.

not one of those pocket rats- those are for women and gay men.

Damn that brings back memories. I was attending VA Tech years ago and I brought (borrowed for a few weeks) a puppy from home and would hang out on the "drill" field. It was a huge amount of lawn in the center of campus. Tons of chicks crossed that field everyday and many would stop to pet the pup. I had alot of sex those days - now I get hardly any. Now I am sad.

[Franklyn]

I'm looking for dates and such, and I have not the faintest idea where to go to look for girls. I can talk to them fine if I meet them, but it's the meeting them part that ruins me.

So hellp a brotha' out.

Meet women in the places you are interested in. If you like reading meet them at a book store. Moives...private screenings. You already have that in common.

[topless_mike]

Moives...private screenings. You already have that in common.

just not peep booths..




actually, cum to think of it....

[LaBoob]

get a puppy. chicks dig puppies.

not one of those pocket rats- those are for women and gay men.

If a guy showed up at my door with a German Shepherd puppy... well let's just say that's all it would take.
http://www.germanshepherd-1.com/images/pup2.jpg
:wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub: :wub::wub::wub::wub::wub::wub:

[topless_mike]

really ?

hmmmmmmmm

[Drunky McBetidont]

check the obituaries

http://www.hotflick.net/flicks/2005_Wedding_Crashers/Thumb/005WDC_Will_Ferrell_005.jpg

[Thebazile78]

Cosmo just announced that the best place for women to meet men is the Apple Store. (http://tech.yahoo.com/blogs/hughes/23977) (Linked because I truly wish I was making this up.)

So, if you're looking for a shallow, superficial type who reads Cosmo, maybe the Apple Store will work for you.

[topless_mike]

great club to meet women at in cent jersey.
the collisium

[Dougie Brootal]

I had alot of sex those days - now I get hardly any. Now I am sad.

arent you banging jessica simpson?

[Furtherman]

Cosmo just announced that the best place for women to meet men is the Apple Store. (http://tech.yahoo.com/blogs/hughes/23977) (Linked because I truly wish I was making this up.)

You won't meet me there ladies.... but I will meet you in an apple orchard. An out of the way apple orchard. And don't tell anyone you're going.

[Thebazile78]

You won't meet me there ladies.... but I will meet you in an apple orchard. An out of the way apple orchard. And don't tell anyone you're going.

Funny you should mention an apple orchard.... (http://www.crimelibrary.com/notorious_murders/family/mills/1.html)

[LaBoob]

Funny you should mention an apple orchard.... (http://www.crimelibrary.com/notorious_murders/family/mills/1.html)

Why would you do that??? I got sucked in and now I'm going to have to read the whole damn thing!!
:annoyed:

[SatCam]

Why would you do that??? I got sucked in and now I'm going to have to read the whole damn thing!!
:annoyed:

I spent about a half hour reading that earlier :wallbash:

[Thebazile78]

Why would you do that??? I got sucked in and now I'm going to have to read the whole damn thing!!
:annoyed:

I am evil.

I spent about a half hour reading that earlier :wallbash:

I got sucked into the case one day, while I was answering an e-mail for my college job almost 10 years ago.

At Special Collections and University Archives at the Archibald Stevens Alexander Library at Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey's New Brunswick regional campus, they have what's left of the evidence, including the dress, stockings, hat and shoes from one of the victims. It's creepy.

One of the Librarians was doing some sort of a thesis on the case and she pointed me to a TON of information that I used to answer the e-mail.

Heck, it was one of the two "Crimes of the Century" that took place in New Jersey.

[IrishAlkey]

I'm glad I wasn't aware of this case when I used to wander around drunk on Easton Ave.

[Furtherman]

You won't meet me there ladies.... but I will meet you in an apple orchard. An out of the way apple orchard. And don't tell anyone you're going.

Funny you should mention an apple orchard.... (http://www.crimelibrary.com/notorious_murders/family/mills/1.html)

:ohmy:

Hey, in 1922, I was in South America. I have alibis!!

[keithy_19]

:ohmy:

Hey, in 1922, I was in South America. I have alibis!!

Your voice says you're innocent, but your eyes show that you're guilty. :smoke:

[topless_mike]

Your voice says you're innocent, but your eyes show that you're guilty. :smoke:

with this, perhaps you should look to meet women in san francisco...

[Furtherman]

Your voice says you're innocent, but your eyes show that you're guilty. :smoke:

You just made the list!!!