View Full Version : I am getting engaged this weekend
Holes
03-11-2008, 01:56 PM
I am pretty sure of how it is going to happen.
Any other suggestions? What to say? Box or no box? etc...
jonyrotn
03-11-2008, 01:58 PM
Box or no box? etc...If your gonna marry this woman she better give you some box..
King Hippos Bandaid
03-11-2008, 02:00 PM
insure the ring, first is first
time square is hack
I had 2 ways of proposing that were kinda cool
Plan A is involving having a friend at Fed Ex DHL (Amy) or UPS
Hangout with your gf during the day, then the door rings with a Fed Ex Package for your Girl, (all legit , so you have to know the person sending it to you) She opens it, and the ring is there waiting for her
Plan B: Come home from work to hangout with her, with a takeout Pizza Box, tell her to go heat up the Pizza for you while you wash up, She opens the box, and sees the ring
DolaMight
03-11-2008, 02:00 PM
If your gonna marry this woman she better give you some box..
boooooo
http://wrongcrowd.com/albums/misc/no_jokes_please.jpg
IamPixie
03-11-2008, 02:03 PM
Plan B: Come home from work to hangout with her, with a takeout Pizza Box, tell her to go heat up the Pizza for you while you wash up, She opens the box, and sees the ring
i would never say yes with that scenario.
Holes
03-11-2008, 02:04 PM
I am not into the gimmick thing. I guess I would be more old-fashioned.
We are going to be away together for the weekend. Does anyone know if I can get through airport security with it in my pocket?
TheGameHHH
03-11-2008, 02:07 PM
ive never done it but if/when i do it'll be by two rules. 1) it'll be romantic and 2) im gonna be myself, no phony shows or spectacles.
MadMatt
03-11-2008, 02:15 PM
I am not into the gimmick thing. I guess I would be more old-fashioned.
We are going to be away together for the weekend. Does anyone know if I can get through airport security with it in my pocket?
You will have to take it out of your pocket, unless it is made of plastic, ceramic, or some other non-metallic material.
Unless you can separate yourself from your GF while going through security or have some type of "disguise" for the ring (stashed in a coin purse, taped inside folded money, etc.) she will likely see the box.
Not trying to be a buzzkill - just giving you the info. :bye:
Badinia
03-11-2008, 02:16 PM
I think the Fed-Ex delivery is kinda cute.
I wouldn't like my ring to be in, near, or on food.
Be yourself, be sincere, I agree that trying to get on the fricking Jumbotron or whatever is hacky, just take her to a special place for the both of you- maybe the bar or restaurant where you had your first date, or another spot that has significance.
You should pack a bag and stow it in there. The odds that they'll want to know what the lump in your pocket is are too great.
Although that would be hilarious if you had to pop the question shoeless on a rubber mat. Frickin' memorable.
Congratulations on finding your first wife!
Holes
03-11-2008, 02:40 PM
You will have to take it out of your pocket, unless it is made of plastic, ceramic, or some other non-metallic material.
Unless you can separate yourself from your GF while going through security or have some type of "disguise" for the ring (stashed in a coin purse, taped inside folded money, etc.) she will likely see the box.
Not trying to be a buzzkill - just giving you the info. :bye:
Thanks for the info, Matt. I wasn't going to go with the box at all. Can I just put it in my carry-on for the screening and take it back out after I get through?
We are going to be in Charleston, SC (a place I have never been) and I am going to do it there. Nothing hacky.
Tenbatsuzen
03-11-2008, 02:50 PM
Look, do what feels right.
You don't need a gimmick to pop the question. When I did it, I recreated our first date. I found the place we had our first kiss. I told her to close her eyes, and there you go.
jonyrotn
03-11-2008, 02:51 PM
I am not into the gimmick thing. I guess I would be more old-fashioned.
We are going to be away together for the weekend. Does anyone know if I can get through airport security with it in my pocket?
Have her paged to the white courtesy phone at the airport..When she picks it up,have the airline rep. pop the question for you...If she turns to you, screams and says "yes", you're golden.. If she slams the phone, turns to you and says,"not a chance"..You can say you had know idea it was gonna happen and you're gonna make a complaint to the airline.. Then leave her at ass at the Grand Canyon..
Badinia
03-11-2008, 03:03 PM
Look, do what feels right.
You don't need a gimmick to pop the question. When I did it, I recreated our first date. I found the place we had our first kiss. I told her to close her eyes, and there you go.
That's sweet. This gal's wellin' up.
silera
03-11-2008, 03:13 PM
Knock her up.
Wait a month and offer to buy the pregnancy test, then put the ring on the test!
Badinia
03-11-2008, 03:27 PM
Knock her up.
Wait a month and offer to buy the pregnancy test, then put the ring on the test!
Oh, see? Romance *and* practicality!
SyndicateParish
03-11-2008, 03:27 PM
Do yourself a favor and secretly ask her pop's first. I brought some 18 year old scotch and poured a glass and asked if I could become a member of the family. Two things will happen, you will get good father-in-law karma, and she will figure out something is up. It will be a week or so of glowing while you play coy and she waits to see if she is gonna get engaged.
I planned a whole day, rented a decent car, packed a picnic. We went wine and cheese tasting, then I took her to one of our memorable date spots to ask her on bended knee. After the yes and a bit of champagne, I produced a tree to plant on the very spot where we got engaged.
Now its fun to go back every couple of years to look at the spot where we got engaged and the now dead tree we planted..
Ritalin
03-11-2008, 03:40 PM
Thanks for the info, Matt. I wasn't going to go with the box at all. Can I just put it in my carry-on for the screening and take it back out after I get through?
We are going to be in Charleston, SC (a place I have never been) and I am going to do it there. Nothing hacky.
FedEx the ring to yourself at the hotel, and call the hotel management to arrange to pick it up from them. Then all you have to do is insure the package. A hundred years of mazel!
Chigworthy
03-11-2008, 03:54 PM
Congrats, and don't let anyone give you the anti-marriage shit. You are doing the right thing.
For the ring, maybe you can just put it in your carry-on, wallet or your sunglasses case and put it on the conveyor at the metal detector. I don't think my ring has ever set off the detector, but you probably don't want to risk just having it in your pocket.
Also, as far as popping the question, just be sincere. I doubt it has to be a super big production to make her happy.
Tenbatsuzen
03-11-2008, 04:02 PM
Knock her up.
Wait a month and offer to buy the pregnancy test, then put the ring on the test!
You are... NOT the father!
Tenbatsuzen
03-11-2008, 04:03 PM
That's sweet. This gal's wellin' up.
Yeah. I heard Sheepy's screams throughout the state.
Kris10
03-11-2008, 04:39 PM
Congratulations on finding your first wife!
Am I the only one who saw this?! LMAO! Your so bad Badinia! lol
Badinia
03-11-2008, 04:40 PM
Am I the only one who saw this?! LMAO! Your so bad Badinia! lol
Shhh! Don't get me in trouble!
grlNIN
03-11-2008, 06:00 PM
i would never say yes with that scenario.
Me either and honestly, i'd be kinda sad that there were no pizza.
Dude!
03-11-2008, 06:04 PM
Do yourself a favor and secretly ask her pop's first. I brought some 18 year old scotch and poured a glass and asked if I could become a member of the family. Two things will happen, you will get good father-in-law karma, and she will figure out something is up. It will be a week or so of glowing while you play coy and she waits to see if she is gonna get engaged.
I planned a whole day, rented a decent car, packed a picnic. We went wine and cheese tasting, then I took her to one of our memorable date spots to ask her on bended knee. After the yes and a bit of champagne, I produced a tree to plant on the very spot where we got engaged.
Now its fun to go back every couple of years to look at the spot where we got engaged and the now dead tree we planted..
damn
id marry you
cougarjake13
03-11-2008, 06:27 PM
If your gonna marry this woman she better give you some box..
winner .. winner .. chicken dinner
Holes
03-11-2008, 06:30 PM
Do yourself a favor and secretly ask her pop's first. I brought some 18 year old scotch and poured a glass and asked if I could become a member of the family. Two things will happen, you will get good father-in-law karma, and she will figure out something is up. It will be a week or so of glowing while you play coy and she waits to see if she is gonna get engaged.
I planned a whole day, rented a decent car, packed a picnic. We went wine and cheese tasting, then I took her to one of our memorable date spots to ask her on bended knee. After the yes and a bit of champagne, I produced a tree to plant on the very spot where we got engaged.
Now its fun to go back every couple of years to look at the spot where we got engaged and the now dead tree we planted..
I have already asked her father and he gave me his (and her mother's) blessing.
What you did sounds really nice. Quite impressive!
FUNKMAN
03-11-2008, 06:37 PM
i purposely didn't give my now ex-wife a birthday present, i knew she'd be upset. she held it in pretty good but i knew it was buggin her. a week later I had two wrapped boxes, one little jewelery box and a very big box. I placed the ring in the bottom of the very big box under alot of tissue paper.
i gave her the small jewelery box first thinking she would be thinking it was an engagement ring BUT it was a pair of earrings my Mom bought for her. Then as she opened the big box and kept taking out tissue paper after tissue paper she started to get upset thinking it was just an empty box and I was playing a dumb joke. I told her to keep going and then she found the engagement ring box at the bottom
keithy_19
03-11-2008, 10:30 PM
I say you make sure the ring will go off while going through the emtal detector. Make sure she's behind you. Then when you go through and it beeps take off your belt. Go through again. When it beeps take something else and put it there. And the third time you go through and it beeps when you go back kneel down and pop the question. She'll have to say yes or else be a party pooper.
Though I'm positive she'll say yes no matter how you do it. :smile:
Ritalin
03-12-2008, 06:00 AM
I say you make sure the ring will go off while going through the emtal detector. Make sure she's behind you. Then when you go through and it beeps take off your belt. Go through again. When it beeps take something else and put it there. And the third time you go through and it beeps when you go back kneel down and pop the question. She'll have to say yes or else be a party pooper.
Though I'm positive she'll say yes no matter how you do it. :smile:
And he wonders why he can't find chicks. The ol' Airport Security bit. It just melts your heart.
keithy_19
03-12-2008, 11:49 AM
And he wonders why he can't find chicks. The ol' Airport Security bit. It just melts your heart.
I have a chick thank you very much. And she loves when I go against airport security, MAN
ScottFromGA
03-12-2008, 11:53 AM
If your gonna marry this woman she better give you some box..
word....
better yet, take the ring and put it on your own finger.....its more fun that way.
Justice4all
03-14-2008, 03:38 PM
Plan B: Come home from work to hangout with her, with a takeout Pizza Box, tell her to go heat up the Pizza for you while you wash up, She opens the box, and sees the ring
Not surprising you found a way to work food into the deal.
She gets a ring, you get a slice.
ive never done it but if/when i do it'll be by two rules. 1) it'll be romantic and 2) im gonna be myself, no phony shows or spectacles.
Best advice. Run with that one.
Congratulations on finding your first wife!
As opposed to wife #3???:blink:
Then as she opened the big box and kept taking out tissue paper after tissue paper she started to get upset thinking it was just an empty box and I was playing a dumb joke. I told her to keep going and then she found the engagement ring box at the bottom
That part made me chuckle. A younger Funk making his wife work for her ring. And still being a smarty pants. Thank god you never changed. :clap:
All jokes aside, HHH put it best. Just be yourself. Make sure she is smiling before you pop the question. Don't act out-of-the-ordinary. Just be the guy she fell in love with.
You will know when the moment will be. It will come to you . I hope everything turns out exactly how you wanted it to be.
Good luck buddy!
Holes
03-14-2008, 03:47 PM
Not surprising you found a way to work food into the deal.
She gets a ring, you get a slice.
Best advice. Run with that one.
As opposed to wife #3???:blink:
That part made me chuckle. A younger Funk making his wife work for her ring. And still being a smarty pants. Thank god you never changed. :clap:
All jokes aside, HHH put it best. Just be yourself. Make sure she is smiling before you pop the question. Don't act out-of-the-ordinary. Just be the guy she fell in love with.
You will know when the moment will be. It will come to you . I hope everything turns out exactly how you wanted it to be.
Good luck buddy!
Thank you for the kind words. It is going down tomorrow. I will post an update when I get back.
Kris10
03-14-2008, 06:11 PM
Thank you for the kind words. It is going down tomorrow. I will post an update when I get back.
Good luck!
midwestjeff
03-14-2008, 07:50 PM
Just got off of the phone with my best friend, he asked his chic to marry him yesterday. Must be something in the air.
Kris10
03-15-2008, 06:56 PM
I'm wondering how it went...... where's the update???? guess he's busy getting some!
Justice4all
03-17-2008, 12:17 PM
Just got off of the phone with my best friend, he asked his chic to marry him yesterday. Must be something in the air.
My sister's brother-in-law just asked his woman to marry him....and she said yes...I think you might be right!
Jujubees2
03-17-2008, 12:21 PM
My sister's brother-in-law just asked his woman to marry him....and she said yes...I think you might be right!
Has anyone ever known of anyone who got rejected on a marriage proposal?
Fallon
03-17-2008, 12:43 PM
Has anyone ever known of anyone who got rejected on a marriage proposal?
Oooh sorry.
<object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Ac3AzaDohd0&hl=en"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Ac3AzaDohd0&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>
<object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0PsB8HuRLiA&hl=en"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0PsB8HuRLiA&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>
Jujubees2
03-17-2008, 12:48 PM
Wow, that guy at the Rockets' game looked like Turtle from Entourage. And it looked a little set-up. But at least Tracy McGrady got a good laugh.
Holes
03-18-2008, 05:26 PM
I'm wondering how it went...... where's the update???? guess he's busy getting some!
Everything went great...and she said YES!
Badinia
03-18-2008, 05:28 PM
Congratulations to you both!
Kris10
03-18-2008, 06:00 PM
Awwww! Congrats Holes and soon to be Mrs Holes!!!!
Hottub
03-18-2008, 06:41 PM
Everything went great...and she said YES!
Great news. Congrats!
http://www.mediabistro.com/unbeige/original/Champagne%20POP.jpg
Badinia
03-18-2008, 07:12 PM
Awwww! Congrats Holes and soon to be Mrs Holes!!!!
Yes, may you be blessed with many little Holes!
Who may one day all go to the Albert Hall!
Hottub
03-18-2008, 07:14 PM
Yes, may you be blessed with many little Holes!
Who may one day all go to the Albert Hall!
http://www.mustangmods.com/data/10900/brilliant.jpg
TeeBone
03-18-2008, 07:17 PM
Box or no box?
Does he like boxes?
Congratulations, by the way.
FUNKMAN
03-18-2008, 09:03 PM
Congrats and Best Wishes!
keithy_19
03-18-2008, 10:15 PM
Awesome news, sir! Congrats to you and your lucky fiance!:clap::clap:
Justice4all
03-19-2008, 06:50 AM
Oooh sorry.
<object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Ac3AzaDohd0&hl=en"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Ac3AzaDohd0&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>
<object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0PsB8HuRLiA&hl=en"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0PsB8HuRLiA&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>
Fallon that bottom one looked staged. The top one looked real though, poor guy.
Yes, may you be blessed with many little Holes!
Who may one day all go to the Albert Hall!
Someday that will be just another day in the life with him.:wink:
Holes....congrats! Glad it all worked out for you.:clap:
Jujubees2
03-19-2008, 06:56 AM
Congrats Holes! Marriage is a great institution!
Holes
03-20-2008, 08:39 AM
Thanks everybody. Now comes the next stressful part of planning everything.
Dingbat_Charlie
03-20-2008, 08:48 AM
Everything went great...and she said YES!
congrats budday!
vBulletin® v3.7.0, Copyright ©2000-2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.