It's official...

[Kris10]

I'm divorced!!!!! Goodbye asshole!

:drunk::clap::bye::lol:

I have primary custody of our daughter (he gets no overnights, & has to pay $229/week child support), I have everything in the house, we are selling the house. I get to keep my 401K, shares & penison and I won't get anything he MAY get from his workman's comp case. Our daughter will be getting my maiden name added on to her father's name so she'll be Rouski-XXXXXXXX. Rouski is my maiden name guys incase anyone didn't know. He has to get life insurance, I already have it. Ugh, I can't think, I'm just so excited and already changed my driver's license. But I wanted to thank everyone for their support and cheering me on during the past few months. I appreciate and love everyone on here!

[lleeder]

Thats great news. Let the creepy Ronfez.net hitting on you commence.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

nice score in the divorce

looks like a 1st Round KO

good luck moving on, you have us and our sillyness to cheer you up

[topless_mike]

hot single milfs....



j/k

congrats on freedom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[drjoek]

All the happiness in the world to you

[MadMatt]

Congratulations!!!

Divorces suck and it is (almost) always a relief when they are over. I know I was tremendously happy when my divorce proceedings were complete.

Best of luck Budday!!!

:clap:

[Team_Ramrod]

I'm happy that you are happy. As a male I am not so sure in general, but I do not know your circumstances. Therefore I am happy for you.

So...... what are you doing on Saturday night?




























please don't be washing your hair, please, please, please.......

[Jughead]

Congrats big time Ive been married 33 years hope I never have to go thru that.....Have Fun...Ps I like your tat's...that is tattoo...for the common folk

[jauble]

Im glad to hear that things worked out for you.

[earthbrown]

Dont people stay married anymore? or do they all just run away from their problems?

Obviously problems like abuse are acceptable....

[IamPixie]

go paint the town red, Rouski! :drunk:

[RhinoinMN]

Dont people stay married anymore? or do they all just run away from their problems?

Obviously problems like abuse are acceptable....

http://www.ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?t=52177

please read.



BTW. Happy for you Rouski.

[mikeyboy]

Dont people stay married anymore? or do they all just run away from their problems?

Obviously problems like abuse are acceptable....

What is your problem?

[lleeder]

What is your problem?

He's married.

[jonyrotn]

I'm divorced!!!!! Goodbye asshole!

:drunk::clap::bye::lol:

I have primary custody of our daughter (he gets no overnights, & has to pay $229/week child support), I have everything in the house, we are selling the house. I get to keep my 401K, shares & penison and I won't get anything he MAY get from his workman's comp case. Our daughter will be getting my maiden name added on to her father's name so she'll be Rouski-XXXXXXXX. Rouski is my maiden name guys incase anyone didn't know. He has to get life insurance, I already have it. Ugh, I can't think, I'm just so excited and already changed my driver's license. But I wanted to thank everyone for their support and cheering me on during the past few months. I appreciate and love everyone on here!

Baby girl Rouski-Spitzer rolls right off the tongue..Congratulations..You wanna get married? I already have life insurance, and your, I mean MY, step daughter can have my last name too..

[ChrisTheCop]

Remember back a few threads, when I made your nipples hard?

...............

That was AWESOME!

http://us.ent3.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/tv_pix/nbc/saturday_night_live_episode_photos/_group_photos/chris_farley15.jpg


Seriously though, I wish you the best in dealing with the inevitable pain that accompanies the sheer joy. I'm sure the joy will win out!:thumbup:

[MadMatt]

Remember back a few threads, when I made your nipples hard?

...............

That was AWESOME!

http://us.ent3.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/tv_pix/nbc/saturday_night_live_episode_photos/_group_photos/chris_farley15.jpg


Seriously though, I wish you the best in dealing with the inevitable pain that accompanies the sheer joy. I'm sure the joy will win out!:thumbup:

OK - did you choose the picture including Sir Paul on purpose? If so, nicely done!

[Kevin]

Congrats, nobody should ever stay in a situation or place that they do not feel comfortable in, Good for you.

[underdog]

Dont people stay married anymore? or do they all just run away from their problems?

Obviously problems like abuse are acceptable....

What is your problem?

If its a constant thing, is it still considered a problem?

Congrats Rouski!

[Hottub]

Great news Rouski!:thumbup: He didn't deserve you and the girl anyway. Now move on with your life and "I hope tomorrow you'll find better things."

[JerseyRich]

Sweet! Welcome to the Club!:clap:

[Caseyelan]

Grats!

[Jujubees2]

I don't know if congratulations is the right word but I'm happy that the ordeal is finally over for you. I've been married 14 years and couldn't imagine going through a divorce. That and the fact that living in NYC I couldn't afford child support (for two kids) and rent!

Enjoy your newfound singleness

[mendyweiss]

Good Luck On Your Fresh Start !!!

[Dude!]

i wonder if your kid is celebrating

my parents got divorced when i was 7
they were both happy to be divorced
i wasnt

16 years later and i am still bitter

[MobCounty]

Grats.

Do your kid a favor and back them up with a real last name that they like best.

I'm the product of divorce, last name bitterness. My social security was all f'ed up, my passport was a pain to get, and I have a lot of misunderstandings over alias's.

When I was in school I did not feel like having a different name than the family I lived with. It sucked to be "X" living at the "Y's" house.. At 6 I started to call myself my mom's last name. My dad took offence and registered me with social services under his last name. My stupid families still call me by different last names over 30 years later... My resentful fathers side also calls my wife with the wrong last name.. and she kept her own last name when we got married!

[JerseyRich]

i wonder if your kid is celebrating

my parents got divorced when i was 7
they were both happy to be divorced
i wasnt

16 years later and i am still bitter

It was probably your fault.

[DiabloSammich]

Oh Rouski, this is such refreshing news. I know it was easy for a while to get down on how things were unfolding, but this is really good to hear. Now, focus on that beautiful daughter of yours and make sure she grows up a very cool human being.

:clap::clap:

[led37zep]

Congrats on your freedom!

[Tall_James]

It was probably your fault.

This is why I'm voting for you.


Congrats Rouski - if 70's sitcoms taught me anything, single Mom's kick ass.

Just don't take that job in Phoenix at Mel's Diner.

[EffMeBoobs]

happy to hear it, go out and celeb!

[Hottub]

************
:nono:

The That's Life forum is
meant a medium between those in pain looking for answers and those with
the life experiences to help guide them through it. This is not a
forum for humorous, sarcastic or otherwise caustic replies, as most
people posting in this forum are seeking actual assitance or advice.

Anyone
violating this policy may be banned without prior warnings. The length
of said "vacation" is dependent on the severity of the violation and
prior history of violations.

[jonyrotn]

It was probably your fault.
:lol: Do you volunteer at a suicide hotline? :lol:

[FUNKMAN]

Congrats and Best Wishes!

[Snacks]

i wonder if your kid is celebrating

my parents got divorced when i was 7
they were both happy to be divorced
i wasnt

16 years later and i am still bitter

in all seriousness, he is right. i didnt realize until my 20's how much my parents divorce fucked me up. i was lucky my parents became best friends within a year of their divorce. they both realized they had 2 children to raise and it was best to work it out rather then fight and make things worse. its got to be horrible with divorced parents that hate each other?



Grats.

Do your kid a favor and back them up with a real last name that they like best.

I'm the product of divorce, last name bitterness. My social security was all f'ed up, my passport was a pain to get, and I have a lot of misunderstandings over alias's.

When I was in school I did not feel like having a different name than the family I lived with. It sucked to be "X" living at the "Y's" house.. At 6 I started to call myself my mom's last name. My dad took offence and registered me with social services under his last name. My stupid families still call me by different last names over 30 years later... My resentful fathers side also calls my wife with the wrong last name.. and she kept her own last name when we got married!

when my parents got divorced we all kept the name we had, including my mother. she said she would only change it if she was remarried (she never did) her reason was it was easier for us as a family to keep the same last name. she also said she didnt want our friends to feel uncomfortable or weird if they call her mrs x because it was our last name and not hers. to tell you the truth it was nice have a mother and father with the same last name.

like i said up top, i had a respectful, easy divorce seeing both parents everyday and it screwed me up a little. dont let your hate for your ex husband hurt your child. everyone seems to be supporting of you and i am too for your happiness. but im telling you from experience make it as easy and normal as possible for your child.

[Ritalin]

Oh man.

Just-got-divorced-sex.

wow.

[cougarjake13]

congrats

[joethebartender]

Does this mean that you're going to get a realtor's license and hang out at hotel bar/nightclubs? (If so let me know where.)

[TheMojoPin]

Please remember which forum this thread is in.

[Kris10]

LOL I love the negativity from the assholes on here but to each their own.

My ex and I agreed it would be in the best interest of our daughter to give her both of our last names that way she can choose which she wanted to use down the road. I didn't do it out of spite, it was a mutual decision.

2nd, I wasn't going to stay with a man WHO FILED FOR DIVORCE FROM ME. After the proceedings were underway, he asked if there was a chance I would take him back and there wasn't a shot in hell. I was completely out of love, we've moved on in our lives since he's gotten out of the military in Nov 2005 (2 combat tours in Iraq will do that to a family), and I wasn't going to stay with someone for the sake of our child. I'm showing our daughter you don't need to stay with someone JUST because you have a child together. My daughter would like to be a big sister someday and there wasn't a prayer of that happening with my ex and I, now there is a chance of it happening if I was to re-marry. I have been emotionally uncommitted to my ex for 2 yrs, I've been numb to our marriage, a marriage, imo shouldn't be like that. He filed for divorce, I didn't fight it. The end.

3rd, He filed for divorce on Dec 17 the absolute only reason it was so quick was because he didn't want it to be nasty, he wanted it to end on good terms for the sake of our daughter. I have NEVER kept him from seeing his daughter, I've ENCOURAGED it. Hell, I INVITED him to dinner tonight but he declined because he had other plans. We do not dislike each other, he gets on my damn nerves over the stupid shit he does, but he is still my daughter's father.

So if anyone else has a problem with my divorce shove it up your ass cause I honestly don't give a shit. This goes out mostly to earthbrown, shitbrown, whatever the fuck your name is.

Everyone else, thanks again!

[Kris10]

Grats.

Do your kid a favor and back them up with a real last name that they like best.

I'm the product of divorce, last name bitterness. My social security was all f'ed up, my passport was a pain to get, and I have a lot of misunderstandings over alias's.

When I was in school I did not feel like having a different name than the family I lived with. It sucked to be "X" living at the "Y's" house.. At 6 I started to call myself my mom's last name. My dad took offence and registered me with social services under his last name. My stupid families still call me by different last names over 30 years later... My resentful fathers side also calls my wife with the wrong last name.. and she kept her own last name when we got married!

Thats why I made sure we agreed on everything, she can decide what she wants to use when she gets older. I'm in the process of getting her a new birth certificate and social security card. I'll update her medical records and my health insurance. She'll be starting K in Sept so I won't have to worry about changing school records thankfully.

My ex is happy I didn't want to drop his last name and I said I would never do that because he is a part of her but she is also a part of me, thats the only reason why I took my ex's last name (my daughter came before my marriage did).

[underdog]

LOL I love the negativity from the assholes on here but to each their own.

Don't let the negativity stand out. Almost every single post here is a congrats to you. Focus on the positive, newly single mom!

[Kris10]

Don't let the negativity stand out. Almost every single post here is a congrats to you. Focus on the positive, newly single mom!

You missed the part on the bottom where I said this was mostly directed to earthbrown. *wink, wink*

I really do appreciate the congrats! A huge weight as been taken off my shoulders.

[jonyrotn]

Thats why I made sure we agreed on everything, she can decide what she wants to use when she gets older. I'm in the process of getting her a new birth certificate and social security card. I'll update her medical records and my health insurance. She'll be starting K in Sept so I won't have to worry about changing school records thankfully.

My ex is happy I didn't want to drop his last name and I said I would never do that because he is a part of her but she is also a part of me, thats the only reason why I took my ex's last name (my daughter came before my marriage did).
You don't owe anyone here or anywhere else an explanation or an apology..You are a strong single mother now..Stay on task and keep focused..Your only concern now is your daughter's well being..Fuck tha ex-asshole of your's..He failed you in the worst way, so you don't owe him shit..Sure you don't wanna get married?

[Kris10]

You don't owe anyone here or anywhere else an explanation or an apology..You are a strong single mother now..Stay on task and keep focused..Your only concern now is your daughter's well being..Fuck tha ex-asshole of your's..He failed you in the worst way, so you don't owe him shit..Sure you don't wanna get married?

LOL It would be a really long engagement.

[JerseyRich]

3rd, He filed for divorce on Dec 17 the absolute only reason it was so quick was because he didn't want it to be nasty, he wanted it to end on good terms for the sake of our daughter. I have NEVER kept him from seeing his daughter, I've ENCOURAGED it. Hell, I INVITED him to dinner tonight but he declined because he had other plans. We do not dislike each other, he gets on my damn nerves over the stupid shit he does, but he is still my daughter's father.

So if anyone else has a problem with my divorce shove it up your ass cause I honestly don't give a shit. This goes out mostly to earthbrown, shitbrown, whatever the fuck your name is.

Everyone else, thanks again!

Making it quick and painless is the best thing for all involved...

And ending it before your daughter has to grow up with two unhappily married parents is very thoughtful.

Kudos.

[Justice4all]

LOL I love the negativity from the assholes on here but to each their own.

My ex and I agreed it would be in the best interest of our daughter to give her both of our last names that way she can choose which she wanted to use down the road. I didn't do it out of spite, it was a mutual decision.

2nd, I wasn't going to stay with a man WHO FILED FOR DIVORCE FROM ME. After the proceedings were underway, he asked if there was a chance I would take him back and there wasn't a shot in hell. I was completely out of love, we've moved on in our lives since he's gotten out of the military in Nov 2005 (2 combat tours in Iraq will do that to a family), and I wasn't going to stay with someone for the sake of our child. I'm showing our daughter you don't need to stay with someone JUST because you have a child together. My daughter would like to be a big sister someday and there wasn't a prayer of that happening with my ex and I, now there is a chance of it happening if I was to re-marry. I have been emotionally uncommitted to my ex for 2 yrs, I've been numb to our marriage, a marriage, imo shouldn't be like that. He filed for divorce, I didn't fight it. The end.

3rd, He filed for divorce on Dec 17 the absolute only reason it was so quick was because he didn't want it to be nasty, he wanted it to end on good terms for the sake of our daughter. I have NEVER kept him from seeing his daughter, I've ENCOURAGED it. Hell, I INVITED him to dinner tonight but he declined because he had other plans. We do not dislike each other, he gets on my damn nerves over the stupid shit he does, but he is still my daughter's father.

So if anyone else has a problem with my divorce shove it up your ass cause I honestly don't give a shit. This goes out mostly to earthbrown, shitbrown, whatever the fuck your name is.

Everyone else, thanks again!


Wonderful! Awsome! Bravo!:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap: I agree with you 1000%. I think children are so much smarter then we give them credit for. If you are unhappy and stick it out, that might send the wrong message to kids. "Hey...you get ONE shot...fuck it up...and you have to live with it"

BUZZ! Sorry...wrong answer!

What you did for the reasons you did them were right. IMHO.

I know how long you waited for this and how much of a burden it was. Not to mention the emotional hell. I am glad it is done and you can start you life anew again. Congrats and many years of happines with your daughter lay ahead of you.

[nate1000]

Congrats Rouski.

It is amazing to me how much people project their own bullshit onto other people's situations.

And for the record, forcing yourself to remain in a marriage that isn't working, or is unhealthy, can be just as damaging to a child as divorce.

So get over it. Or if you can't at least keep your bullshit to yourself.

[Melissa the Accountant]

Wonderful! Awsome! Bravo!:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap: I agree with you 1000%. I think children are so much smarter then we give them credit for. If you are unhappy and stick it out, that might send the wrong message to kids. "Hey...you get ONE shot...fuck it up...and you have to live with it"

BUZZ! Sorry...wrong answer!

What you did for the reasons you did them were right. IMHO.

This is so true. I just kept reading and was hoping someone would point this out. My parents have suffered through their miserable marriage for 30 years, and I can't understand why they never got a divorce. I think everyone would have benefited from it. Instead, they preferred a life of constant sniping punctuated with occasional screaming matches. I know it's easy for me to take the grass-is-always-greener approach and say that it would have been better if they had split, but it's hard not to feel that it wouldn't have been better not to spend our childhoods walking on eggshells. I guess what I mean is, the people who argued against divorce are not wrong, but neither are the people who support it. No one solution, divorce or no divorce, is one-size-fits-all. What worked for one won't work for another.

Obviously I don't know you, Rouski, but from what I have read here, it seems like you made the right decision for yourself and for your child. I just wanted to say that I hope you won't worry that you're going to mess up your daughter's life with the divorce - it would have been worse to send her the message that people have to stay in relationships that are detracting from their lives, or to put her through the stress of living with a deteriorating marriage. Good luck to you, and congratulations on your positive outlook about this situation. :)

[Kris10]

This is so true. I just kept reading and was hoping someone would point this out. My parents have suffered through their miserable marriage for 30 years, and I can't understand why they never got a divorce. I think everyone would have benefited from it. Instead, they preferred a life of constant sniping punctuated with occasional screaming matches. I know it's easy for me to take the grass-is-always-greener approach and say that it would have been better if they had split, but it's hard not to feel that it wouldn't have been better not to spend our childhoods walking on eggshells. I guess what I mean is, the people who argued against divorce are not wrong, but neither are the people who support it. No one solution, divorce or no divorce, is one-size-fits-all. What worked for one won't work for another.

Obviously I don't know you, Rouski, but from what I have read here, it seems like you made the right decision for yourself and for your child. I just wanted to say that I hope you won't worry that you're going to mess up your daughter's life with the divorce - it would have been worse to send her the message that people have to stay in relationships that are detracting from their lives, or to put her through the stress of living with a deteriorating marriage. Good luck to you, and congratulations on your positive outlook about this situation. :)

Thanks!!!! I appreciate it, especially coming from another chick. :)

[chubbyknuckles]

I don't know what's hotter , your attitude or your tats. Congrats and best of luck! Get a babysitter and let your freak out for a night!

[Jujubees2]

This is so true. I just kept reading and was hoping someone would point this out. My parents have suffered through their miserable marriage for 30 years, and I can't understand why they never got a divorce. I think everyone would have benefited from it. Instead, they preferred a life of constant sniping punctuated with occasional screaming matches. I know it's easy for me to take the grass-is-always-greener approach and say that it would have been better if they had split, but it's hard not to feel that it wouldn't have been better not to spend our childhoods walking on eggshells. I guess what I mean is, the people who argued against divorce are not wrong, but neither are the people who support it. No one solution, divorce or no divorce, is one-size-fits-all. What worked for one won't work for another.

My situation as a kid was similar. My parents fought and fought right up until the day my father died. But my mother would never consider a divorce (a result of being Catholic) much to the dismay of the kids. My wife's parents divorced when she was in college and she was devastated. I couldn't understand.

[Kris10]

I don't know what's hotter , your attitude or your tats. Congrats and best of luck! Get a babysitter and let your freak out for a night!

lol thanks!

[jonyrotn]

lol thanks!I can be in in Atlantic City by midnight

[Kris10]

I can be in in Atlantic City by midnight

I live 45 mins north of Atlantic City

[Bellyfullasnot]

I've always heard about the "my divorce is final limo ride parties" from other drivers. Can't say I've ever driven one. HINT- HINT...I hope you and your daughter have many years of happiness.

[jonyrotn]

I've always heard about the "my divorce is final limo ride parties" from other drivers. Can't say I've ever driven one. HINT- HINT...I hope you and your daughter have many years of happiness.
I love the name BellyFullaSnot..Is it native American? By the way can I co-pilot on Rouski's night of debauchery..I'm very helpful..

[jonyrotn]

I'm divorced!!!!! Goodbye asshole!

:drunk::clap::bye::lol:

I have primary custody of our daughter (he gets no overnights, & has to pay $229/week child support), I have everything in the house, we are selling the house. I get to keep my 401K, shares & penison and I won't get anything he MAY get from his workman's comp case. Our daughter will be getting my maiden name added on to her father's name so she'll be Rouski-XXXXXXXX. Rouski is my maiden name guys incase anyone didn't know. He has to get life insurance, I already have it. Ugh, I can't think, I'm just so excited and already changed my driver's license. But I wanted to thank everyone for their support and cheering me on during the past few months. I appreciate and love everyone on here!
I think I'm gonna marry this woman..Are You a cutter..

[TheMojoPin]

I think I'm gonna marry this woman..Are You a cutter..

This is not the forum for those kind of comments. (http://ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?t=52177)

[Team_Ramrod]

This is not the forum for those kind of comments. (http://ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?t=52177)

That warning seems to be a common occurence in these threads....

[Kris10]

lol It's ok guys, I'm sure he's kidding.

I know of no such limo rides! :blink:

[Thebazile78]

My situation as a kid was similar. My parents fought and fought right up until the day my father died. But my mother would never consider a divorce (a result of being Catholic) much to the dismay of the kids. My wife's parents divorced when she was in college and she was devastated. I couldn't understand.

My parents are cradle Catholics and they are divorced.

Their marriage lasted almost 18 years and the divorce was very hard on me as the oldest of four.

But, the thing that was worse was seeing them in their misery before then. They're now happy in their own ways, so it was ultimately good for them.

If their proceedings hadn't involved a lot of nastiness and bitterness that had built up over the years in addition to dual custody suits, it might have gone more smoothly.

To tell the truth, the thing that pissed my father off more than the divorce was my mother's annulment request.

[Justice4all]

My parents are cradle Catholics and they are divorced.

Their marriage lasted almost 18 years and the divorce was very hard on me as the oldest of four.

But, the thing that was worse was seeing them in their misery before then. They're now happy in their own ways, so it was ultimately good for them.

If their proceedings hadn't involved a lot of nastiness and bitterness that had built up over the years in addition to dual custody suits, it might have gone more smoothly.

To tell the truth, the thing that pissed my father off more than the divorce was my mother's annulment request.


Which reminds me....I have to start looking into getting one for ME.
From what I hear, they are pretty expensive.

[jonyrotn]

This is not the forum for those kind of comments. (http://ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?t=52177)
Sorry,AGAIN..I keep getting my threads inverted..And I have alot of trouble being serious..Just trying to keep things light hearted..Good job calling me on the carpet, and I humbly accept my admonishment..But it's still posted on your post..One more time, I would like to say sorry to the most beautifulest girl in the world..Now, would you marry me?

[jonyrotn]

That warning seems to be a common occurence in these threads....
You're right it does happen more then it should..But tha's what Mods are for..

[ChrisTheCop]

You're right it does happen more then it should..But tha's what Mods are for..

http://www.steviewonder.org.uk/SongsOfWonder/AHelpingHand/thats_4.jpg

[Thebazile78]

Which reminds me....I have to start looking into getting one for ME.
From what I hear, they are pretty expensive.

PM JerseyRich. He just worked his out.

[Justice4all]

PM JerseyRich. He just worked his out.

I'll do one better and call him. (I hope he returns my call!) :wink: Thanks Liz.


Hey Rich?:help:

[Team_Ramrod]

You're right it does happen more then it should..But tha's what Mods are for..

I never said it happens more than it should.... just that it's happening more frequently.

[pennington]

Do your daughter a favor and only speak nicely about her father. My parents got divorced in 1974, my father died in 1999. My mother still complains about him. Constantly. To everyone. It never ends.


Also, watch out for this guy:

http://www.vincekeenan.com/uploaded_images/harrington-725920.jpg

[One Dead Fred]

I've been divorced over a year and it's hard to not fall back in to those patterns that lead to it. Good luck on the re-set.

[Bellyfullasnot]

I know of no such limo rides! :blink:

Me neither. I've heard them described as "full contact bachelorette parties"!

[JerseyRich]

I'll do one better and call him. (I hope he returns my call!) :wink: Thanks Liz.


Hey Rich?:help:

Hi.

Actually. I only got an annulment through the Church.

We got a legal divorce. The annulment would have actually cost a little more and taken more time(Plus I would have had to get a lawyer). For the annulment, I believe things had to be proven. Which neither of us were looking to do at the time.

So yea.

Annulment in the Church.
Divorce in the court.

[Snacks]

annulments are laughable. it is one more example of why religion is idiotic. if you are married, then you have been married and thats it. the fact that the church will "pretend " like it never happend for money is sickening. there are suppose to be reasons for a annulment and most people lie about the reason just to get the annulment. its horse shit.

tom you got married and divorced like 7 or 8 years ago. why waste the money? dont pay off the church to turn a blind eye.

first marriage $1000 "donation" to the church (hahaha)
annulment $2000 bribe to the church
2nd marriage another $1000 "donation" to the church.

[Justice4all]

annulments are laughable. it is one more example of why the religion is idiotic. if you are married, then you have been married and thats it. the fact that the church will "pretend " like it never happend for money is sickening. there are suppose to be reasons for a annulment and most people lie about the reason just to get the annulment. its horse shit.

tom you got married and divorced like 7 or 8 years ago. why waste the money? dont pay off the church to turn a blind eye.
first marriage $1000 "donation" to the church (hahaha)
annulment $2000 bribe to the church
2nd marriage another $1000 "donation" to the church.

Ant, I do not think it is a waste of money. I agree where it is disgusting how much they expect me to pay out to get my marrige annuled. But you do need an excuse. And she did not want to have kids. Something I did want. In the churchs' eyes that is a reason for an annulment.

Rich I know the church does the annulment I just wanted to see what you had to go thru in order to get it done (and how much you had to pay out)

I do want one. So when/if I marry again. It will be for the last time. I will get it right and do it the way I want to.

In a church.

Some of you may not agree with that. That's fine. You have your views, I have mine.

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Ant, I do not think it is a waste of money. I agree where it is disgusting how much they expect me to pay out to get my marrige annuled. But you do need an excuse. And she did not want to have kids. Something I did want. In the churchs' eyes that is a reason for an annulment.

Rich I know the church does the annulment I just wanted to see what you had to go thru in order to get it done (and how much you had to pay out)

I do want one. So when/if I marry again. It will be for the last time. I will get it right and do it the way I want to.

In a church.

Some of you may not agree with that. That's fine. You have your views, I have mine.

tom all you are paying for is for them to turn a blind eye. your are suppose to have reasons but can lie. you can say she didnt want kids and if she doesnt respond to the church then after sometime the church will grant you the annulment (for a lot of cash)

and doing it the right way doesnt mean marrying in church. follow the bible and do all that the right way before making a show in church.

so many people say they are christian or believe in the bible but they dont follow any of the teachings. im not directing that at you but... aw fuck it, yes i am and all the people who say they are christian but dont live a christian life. im not perfect, but im also not a hypocrite like many "religious" people are. i dont preach the bible and then do the opposite.

i ate some mcdonalds today and loved it. if there is a god im sure he really doesnt give 2 shits what i eat. wow i really hate religion, sorry for the rant just speaking my mind.