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[keithy_19]

Just to let you know, i just downed my thrid pint of sangria in an hiours times. im feelig really good right niow though its only because of a real sucky situation that i drank.simply pit, my relationship of has just ended. its odd feeling like i do. im not in tears or anythng, im just hrut deep down low. i guess its part of growing up. and thats fine. i guess i jsut hoped that relatonships would mature and being rejected would feel better as time went on. i dont want to feel like i did when i was in high school. and i dont. i just feel this hurt hat is hard to describe. i know all of you have gone through it, but i just needed to vent. i thought i had soemthing special, but apparently it was nly special to me. or very specil to me. im sorry that i started another threa about bullshit. i just needed to vent.

[Furtherman]

No one buys the "I'm drunk so I can't type" shtick. http://www.ronfez.net/forums/images/skins/rf_blue/editor/spelling.gif

Yea, it sucks and you'll be wearing the hurt hat for a while, but you have something here that most of us did not. A thread where you can see many of us telling you how it would end. Learn from it. You'll do better next time, and that's the truth.

And have a beer. A fruity drink will just give you a killer hangover tomorrow.

[Fezticle98]

Vent away.

Mix in a pint of beer. :drunk:

[keithy_19]

to adress furtherman, i saw that i had typing mistakes and i jsut didnt feel like going bac and fixing them. and i didnt feel up to drinking the beer in th ehouse when there wa s awhole untouched bottle of sangria.

life goes on thiugh. im just trying to keep this in perspective, its jsut har. so i drink which somehow betters the situation? i know it really doesnt but it would be good if it eeally did.

[Furtherman]

i know it really doesnt but it would be good if it eeally did.

Yes, it eeally would.

[DarkHippie]

Sangria? Are you at Beefsteak Charlie's?

Buck up little buddy. All the bad shit that happens to you is just material to write about.

[keithy_19]

Sangria? Are you at Beefsteak Charlie's?

Buck up little buddy. All the bad shit that happens to you is just material to write about.

That's true. But weren';t some of the best writers cauht up in the hooch? Hemminway, Fitzgeald, Poe...

Alohol i not ameans to an end, but its something to get you there quicker.

[JPMNICK]

so i am assuming she ended it? either way, give yourself until friday night to get over it, and then be over it. by saturday you need to be somewhere else having fun and trying to bang other chicks. and if you think i am wrong, go reread your other 11 threads about how hurt you where when the girl dumped you and then how great it was when you found someone else.

[Drunky McBetidont]

this reminds me of the time i skipped the homecoming dance to drink bartles and james in the parking lot. i kissed my date and her sister by accident.:drunk:

[mikeyboy]

so i am assuming she ended it? either way, give yourself until friday night to get over it, and then be over it. by saturday you need to be somewhere else having fun and trying to bang other chicks. and if you think i am wrong, go reread your other 11 threads about how hurt you where when the girl dumped you and then how great it was when you found someone else.

An excellent point. If you find some of us less than sympathetic, it's because you've been doing the same thing over and over for the last four years on this board. "I met this girl. I think she's really great. I think I love her." Then "we broke up, I hurt so bad". Then "I met this girl. I think she's really great. I think I love this one." Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

I feel for you -- breaking up sucks, but I'm finding it hard to sympathize anymore. You're like the boy who cried wolf. You're still a young kid, but you really don't seem to learn anything from your past pitfalls. I find it hard to believe at this point in time that every relationship is the greatest you've ever known, and every breakup is the worst pain anyone has ever experienced. Buck up, down't wallow in your own misery, and don't think that every one of your emotions needs to be broadcast to everyone here. We all feel pain in a breakup, but it's not always necessary to start thread after thread on this stuff.

I know I'll come off as the consummate prick to many here, but I honestly think Keithy needs a kick in the ass sometimes. You're not some dopey emo teen anymore, so maybe it's time to grow up a little.

This probably isn't what you want to hear when you're drinking, but maybe you'll give my words some thought when you sober up.

[Bossanova]

I don't think mikey saw which forum this was in. Admin you say:nono:

[grlNIN]

An excellent point. If you find some of us less than sympathetic, it's because you've been doing the same thing over and over for the last four years on this board. "I met this girl. I think she's really great. I think I love her." Then "we broke up, I hurt so bad". Then "I met this girl. I think she's really great. I think I love this one." Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

I feel for you -- breaking up sucks, but I'm finding it hard to sympathize anymore. You're like the boy who cried wolf. You're still a young kid, but you really don't seem to learn anything from your past pitfalls. I find it hard to believe at this point in time that every relationship is the greatest you've ever known, and every breakup is the worst pain anyone has ever experienced. Buck up, down't wallow in your own misery, and don't think that every one of your emotions needs to be broadcast to everyone here. We all feel pain in a breakup, but it's not always necessary to start thread after thread on this stuff.

I know I'll come off as the consummate prick to many here, but I honestly think Keithy needs a kick in the ass sometimes. You're not some dopey emo teen anymore, so maybe it's time to grow up a little.

This probably isn't what you want to hear when you're drinking, but maybe you'll give my words some thought when you sober up.

This is exactly what i would have typed to Keith if i gave a crap about his "relationships".

[keithy_19]

It's more complicated than I put it earlier. And I'm not a teenager anymore. I didn't mope around. I drank an went out of with a few friends tonight. I don't want to mope, therefore I don't plan too.

It was more of a place for me to vent, rather than seeking advice. I know that life moves on and I'm not going to be stuck feeling sorry for myself. No matter how much I think this sucks and no matter how I feel. It's not worth it.

[JPMNICK]

It's more complicated than I put it earlier. And I'm not a teenager anymore. I didn't mope around. I drank an went out of with a few friends tonight. I don't want to mope, therefore I don't plan too.

It was more of a place for me to vent, rather than seeking advice. I know that life moves on and I'm not going to be stuck feeling sorry for myself. No matter how much I think this sucks and no matter how I feel. It's not worth it.

whatever you do, do not get back with her.

[ZigZagBigBag]

maybe crashing outside where she lives for a few days would help. going through their trash shares how you feels well.

[ChrisBrown]

maybe crashing outside where she lives for a few days would help. going through their trash shares how you feels well.

I couldn't agree more. When someone breaks up with me, I usually follow her around at a safe distance for a month or so. Stalking is underrated and persistence pays off.

[Furtherman]

I know I'll come off as the consummate prick to many here, but I honestly think Keithy needs a kick in the ass sometimes. You're not some dopey emo teen anymore, so maybe it's time to grow up a little.

QFT.

[JPMNICK]

maybe crashing outside where she lives for a few days would help. going through their trash shares how you feels well.

I couldn't agree more. When someone breaks up with me, I usually follow her around at a safe distance for a month or so. Stalking is underrated and persistence pays off.

while this thread is redundant, this is still a forum where jokes are not allowed. if you have serious advice for Keith i am sure he would appreciate it

[ChrisBrown]

while this thread is redundant, this is still a forum where jokes are not allowed. if you have serious advice for Keith i am sure he would appreciate it

sorry about that. I'm still fairly new and didn't realize no jokes allowed. hope you're feeling better, Keith. sounds like you might have a hell of a hangover.

[angrymissy]

whoa whoa whoa, no one has noticed the true problem here, BOTTLED sangria.

[Furtherman]

whoa whoa whoa, no one has noticed the true problem here, BOTTLED sangria.

I was going to call crap on that too... but I figured just one ass kicking at a time.

[sr71blackbird]

Keith, please stop this before it turns into a substance abuse issue. You talked about acid in another thread and now this. Live life like 98% of the world and just enjoy existence without additives.

[keithy_19]

sorry about that. I'm still fairly new and didn't realize no jokes allowed. hope you're feeling better, Keith. sounds like you might have a hell of a hangover.

Actually no hang over at all. Sangria doesn't get to me.

I'm not turning into an alcoholic. I, I suppose foolishly, turned to liquor in a tough spot. I spent the night with friends and wasn't antisocial or anything.

What will be will be. I'm not miserble, I'm just hurt. It's what it is. I'll be fine, since I already feel a lot better. I just needed to vent the other day.

You can lock this up if you want.

[led37zep]

Locking this up would be a big mistake...you're obviously a very sensitive guy who isn't used to the bullshit that trying to "fall in love" will bring you.

You're a male romantic, deal with that. For some reason you think ( and hope) every relationship you get in will be your last. Coming from a guy who lived in that world for a bit just accept the fact that its not true. Sometimes a hook up is just that...a hook up and that every break up makes you stronger.

I'm glad you vent here, I think its healthy to have an outlet like this. Just listen to what people say...because regardless of how you feel, you're not alone...trust me.

[keithy_19]

Locking this up would be a big mistake...you're obviously a very sensitive guy who isn't used to the bullshit that trying to "fall in love" will bring you.

You're a male romantic, deal with that. For some reason you think ( and hope) every relationship you get in will be your last. Coming from a guy who lived in that world for a bit just accept the fact that its not true. Sometimes a hook up is just that...a hook up and that every break up makes you stronger.

I'm glad you vent here, I think its healthy to have an outlet like this. Just listen to what people say...because regardless of how you feel, you're not alone...trust me.

Thanks, but you're sadly mistaken. I'm going to marry this girl and spend the rest of my life with her. There's no way I'm not...


:bye:


What will be will be. It wasn't just a hook up, and it's not over. It's just bullshit issues that arise and make me feel inadequete. I'm not though. So just let whatever will be, be.

[ADF]

I know you won't listen, but here's my advice--- Have fun. Don't take things so seriously. Unless someone's pregnant, no relationship at your age (or almost any age, for that matter) is worth the emotional turmoil you seemingly go through on a regular basis. It seems to me that the turmoil (and being able to talk about it) is what you find attractive, rather than the relationship itself. Once you're in a relationship where you're just yourself, rather than in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship (and all of the emotional issues you seem to enjoy), you might be a little more successful.

[Melrapuo]

Thanks, but you're sadly mistaken. I'm going to marry this girl and spend the rest of my life with her. There's no way I'm not...


:bye:


What will be will be. It wasn't just a hook up, and it's not over. It's just bullshit issues that arise and make me feel inadequete. I'm not though. So just let whatever will be, be.

Ok buddy. I know that I've posted in another thread about my own relationship problems atm. Reading you talk about drinking and substance abuse or whatever...that is no way, shape or form making things any better. All you're doing is drowning your sorrows and temporarily making yourself feel better. Take it from me - drinking consistently can only make things worse.

You have to take a step back and reevaluate the situation. For over a week I've been a complete wreck over whats happened to me. I thought I was gonna marry my girlfriend. Move in with her, have kids, spend the rest of my life with her. But shit just happened in a matter of only a few days that turned everything upside down. And it began to make me think - can I trust her again? Can things ever be the same between us? I've tried to be realistic. I've weighed the pros and cons of waiting or breaking it off early. I've determined what I want, and what would be in my best interest. I have to give it time to figure itself out. If it works out, then we give it a second shot. If not, then I just walk away. Until then though, I have to rediscover myself, and make myself better.

I stopped drinking, I'm eating more, I'm gonna start working again next week. Everything falls into place. Re-evaluate what you really want in life. And when you find it out, everything will work out.