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Tall_James
08-19-2008, 03:05 PM
And I need just a moment to vent so please bear with me.

It started 7/28 when I had a minor gall bladder attack. No problem, I get them occasionally. I wasn't too worried because I had laproscopic surgery to remove my gall bladder scheduled for August 14. So this was just a blip on my radar, a symptom of a condition that I would cease to have after the damn rock-filled, sludge-infested thing was removed from my body shortly thereafter. 7/29 came and I felt no better. 7/30 came and I felt worse. I called my primary care physician after self-diagnosing on the Internet and he told me to get some blood work done that day. Turns out I missed my calling as a doctor because what I thought was happening actually was. I got a call 2 hours after the blood test telling me to admit myself immediately to Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital in Boston. A rogue gallstone decided that he wasn't going to go without a fight and escaped my gall bladder. However the fat fuck got himself stuck in my common bile duct and as a result I was becoming jaundiced and a dangerous amount of biliurubin was backing up into my system. The pain was excruciating. I had endoscopic surgery the next day to remove the gallstone and to open up my bile duct some more. I never have had surgery before and was hoping that they could take out the gall bladder also while I was there but no can do, it was too inflamed. So I left there, diseased gall bladder intact and a lovely shade of yellow.

Now, as a lot of you know, I'm a stay at home Dad taking care of a 6 year old and 4 year old and thank God I have great in-laws because they really came through for me in watching my kids while this all went down. My wife took off from work as well but this all happened during a national conference that she was coordinating. (Sorry hon :sad:) Good thing though is that after I was in the hospital for 3 days, I was pretty much recovered in a week. However if another doctor puts me on Cipro for an antibiotic I will punch him/her in the throat.

Jump ahead to 8/14, day of the original scheduled gall bladder surgery. I'm not worried because laproscopic gall bladder surgery is a pretty easy thing. Procedure takes about an hour, they do it using 4 small holes that they put into your body and recovery is generally a day or two. No overnight stay required. Now by this time, my wife is working on an infection of her own and the Cipro that she was prescribed was kicking her ass. I'm not worried because I'm going to be up and out in no time. I'll take over the workload and you can get some well deserved rest.

Wrong.

I wake up from surgery 5 hours later. They couldn't do the procedure laproscopically due to inflammation and had to open me up the old-fashioned way. I felt like a bus ran over me. I looked down and saw that I had these 25 staples across a gigantic gash on my stomach. In the hospital for another three days of abject pain and misery and then I was finally able to come home. I got home on Saturday and thank God my folks came up from Florida to help out with the kids and everything. Did I mention yet how they had to leave early because their home was due to be hit by a hurricane? Yeah, FUCK YOU MOTHER NATURE!

As I mentioned before, I have the greatest in-laws in the world. My sister in law took my kids to Cape Cod for the week to my mother in law's house. This is her vacation mind you and she spending it making my recovery more peaceful by taking my kids out of the equation. However I am lonely and miss them so much now that it hurts. I'm taking short walks to build up my strength and lung capacity. I'm finally eating again. I can't sleep well at night but this will soon pass. I NEVER want to go through something like this again. This is what they call an "eye opening experience".

FUCK YOU AUGUST! I can't wait for September to get here and drop dead leaves all over your sorry ass. What do you expect from a month named after the fat kid from "Willy Wonka"?

Thank you for listening to me vent. I'm going to take a Dilaudid and call my kids to tell them that I love them and miss them.

mikeyboy
08-19-2008, 03:09 PM
Sorry, T_J. That really sucks. At least September is coming!

GreatAmericanZero
08-19-2008, 03:12 PM
and if september sucks you can say "wake me up, when September ends" and at least you'll have a shitty song to go with your pain

~Katja~
08-19-2008, 03:14 PM
September IS usually a good month. Hope it will be for you as well.

Sue_Bender
08-19-2008, 03:14 PM
and if september sucks you can say "wake me up, when September ends" and at least you'll have a shitty song to go with your pain

If he sees September. :glurps:

Tall_James
08-19-2008, 03:19 PM
and if september sucks you can say "wake me up, when September ends" and at least you'll have a shitty song to go with your pain

Great. A Green Day song. As if I haven't been through enough already.

~Katja~
08-19-2008, 05:27 PM
Great. A Green Day song. As if I haven't been through enough already.

you can always hope for blue october

Thebazile78
08-19-2008, 05:30 PM
J - This really sucks, but I am so thankful that your in-laws are so willing to take your kids off your hands so you can recover!

I am thinking only good thoughts for you. Feel better soon!

Misteriosa
08-19-2008, 05:32 PM
and i thought august was bad for me... :o

you are very lucky to have such a supportive and flexible family. good luck to you and your family, and hopefully your healing process will be speedy.

DarkHippie
08-19-2008, 05:45 PM
Man, sounds like you got hit with a truck full of awful. Hope everything works out. And remeber, it could be worse, you could be tied to a bed and have to watch Murder She Wrote all day long, while three midgets poke your balls with a salad fork.

DiabloSammich
08-19-2008, 07:27 PM
The next time I see August I'm gonna kick it in the balls.

That'll teach it to fuck with the TJ.

A.J.
08-20-2008, 04:20 AM
Sorry for the shit sandwich you had to take a bite from, TJ. Hope you're feeling better.

mendyweiss
08-20-2008, 05:03 AM
Hope It Wasn't Those Five Ice Cream Sandwiches That Did You In !!! J/K !!

Get Well Soon !!

CYYYFYYY
08-20-2008, 05:34 AM
AS bad as the month was you keep realizing the good in your life which is quite impressive. Most people would have been sick and not realized that they had amazing inlaws. If you take the bad so well, I can only imagine how well you take the good. I also alwys appreciate when someone says they miss there kids rather than I FINALLY GOT SOME PEAE AND QUIET! I feel the second thing should be a given but sadly in these times they are not. Best of luck. Sounds like you are a great guy.

Lil oc
08-20-2008, 06:05 AM
Sorry to hear about that. Pretty much same thing happened to my boyfriend, went to sleep thinking would be quick, woke up stapled having been opened from mid-chest to underarm. It was a pretty long recovery, with lots of pain meds. A couple of years later and he still gets occasional weird pain under the scar, doctors said it's scar tissue that has attached on other organs.

Best of luck and a speedy recovery to you. It's so much harder when there are little children running around.

Freitag
08-20-2008, 06:10 AM
FUCK YOU AUGUST! I can't wait for September to get here and drop dead leaves all over your sorry ass. What do you expect from a month named after the fat kid from "Willy Wonka"?


You just put the visual of Chris Noth swimming in a river of chocolate in my head. And you claim Boston isn't evil.

JPMNICK
08-20-2008, 06:36 AM
wow that is a crazy story. It is nice that you have a supportive family. Good luck with a quick recovery