9 year old pervert "Scary Sexor"

[britneypablo]

So last night my 9 year old girl cousin spent the night at my house...at first all this nonsense was funny but as it carried on i realized it was a problem...

a liftetime movie poison ivy 2 came on and when i said i dont know if this is appropriate she said she had already seen it...she carried on about how she also knows about crotch-less panties, she asked me if i wear bras where my nipples show, she asked if my boyfriend takes off all his clothes and if i "lick his weener"...etc.

i said where did you get all these ideas....she said he mormon friend's parents...those adults also told her it is completely normal if she sees he mom licking her dads weener in the shower...just very weird weird stuff to be sharing with a 9 year old, especially one that is not yours

i had to tell her mom (my aunt) this morning about the very uncomfortable night...
her mom said she knew about it and that it happened over a year ago....but she didnt know it was in so much detail that this 9 year old knew...

my aunt cried about it because she doesnt know what to do to end this problem...what do you all suggest be done to calm my pervert cousin down...she obviously knows lots of things about sex and foreplay...she understands what it is and what its about...she knows people do it to make babies and she knows people do it for fun because it feels good. She claims her favorite movies are scary movies where people do it in the movie as well...she calls herself "A Scary Sexor"
she knows its not something she should be talking about because she doesnt talk about it in front of her mom or any other adult for that matter....

how does a person go about handling this so that this child does not end up losing friends because parents wont want their kids hanging out with the "scary sexor" and also just so she fits in with other kids her age...shes in third grade for craps sake!

Help!

[Doctor Z]

What's her number?! Wakka wakka!

Is that allowed in this forum?

[SatCam]

she sounds like a member of this site

[jonyrotn]

Build her a mini stripper pole so she can practice..
And hand down your first copy of Pour some sugar on me..







EDIT: Thanks for not posting in the cofessional thread..I can't afford another demerit..

[drjoek]

Well since you're her cool aunt who she can confide in it would be good if you try to rein her in a bit. If shes not comfortable around her mom with such things find out what Mom would like to see done and be that person to settle her down.
Otherwise get her to start posting

[britneypablo]

im her cousin but i see what ur saying drjoek....the only thing is i think my aunt (her mom) doesnt even know what she wants to be done

and as for you mr. rotn.....this cousin of mine is a darn minnie me....she probably already has a pole installed next to her bed and im pretty sure i saw at least the song on her ipod

[Thebazile78]

The kid needs some counseling. It sounds like she's dealing with information overload combined with confusion about what's acceptable behavior, etc. Also, in some of the articles I used to read about incest and sexual abuse, this kind of acting-out behavior is a warning sign. (Not that I think this is the case without having met your cousin OR having any psychological training ... also, the articles I was reading were in housefrau magazines, so they were written in total scare-tactic mode. The kid could just be weird.)

A counselor can help her work through the confusion and how to handle the information (graphic as it is) she has collected about sex, etc.

It doesn't have to be costly and it should be mostly covered by most health insurance (although you usually have to get pre-qualified.)

[britneypablo]

about the counselor, i was thinkin that would be a good idea...i hadnt spent anytime looking it up but i was going to suggest to my aunt we go that road...im glad u mentioned insurance should hopefully cover it...i tried to explain to my aunt that i think my cousin has some pent up feelings and confusion bc all she knew about the situation was that she wasnt allowed to talk about it....but i was kinda thinking she probably needs to talk about it so that she doesnt end up acting out later on in life getting pregnant as a teenager or something....my aunt really didnt understand that kind of concept but ill figure out a way to keep trying to explain it...

so thanks im glad i have backup on that idea...im going to have to formulate a way to explain to my aunt that having her go to get help is nothing to be ashamed of and it is def needed

[BlackSpider]

Ummm,
has her mom talked to the mormon friends parents?
That's kind of fucked up telling a 9 yr. old that it's ok if she sees her mom licking her dad's "weiner" (ugh) in the shower? are you sure they aren't pedos?
That falls under contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
I just can't imagine someone saying that to a child. very creepy.

[jonyrotn]

Hey Brit, every generation needs it's own Jennna Jamison, you may be witnessing the beginings of a bright future..
I say nurture this behavior, take her under your wing let her be your mini minx.. Have you ever had a protege?
Do something for the children for christ's sake, don't be so selfish..

[Sue_Bender]

This whole thing is just fucked up and weird.


Find her help.


Or buy her some crotchless panties.

[AKA]

The kid needs some counseling. It sounds like she's dealing with information overload combined with confusion about what's acceptable behavior, etc. Also, in some of the articles I used to read about incest and sexual abuse, this kind of acting-out behavior is a warning sign. (Not that I think this is the case without having met your cousin OR having any psychological training ... also, the articles I was reading were in housefrau magazines, so they were written in total scare-tactic mode. The kid could just be weird.)

A counselor can help her work through the confusion and how to handle the information (graphic as it is) she has collected about sex, etc.

It doesn't have to be costly and it should be mostly covered by most health insurance (although you usually have to get pre-qualified.)

What she said.

She is definitely trying to process something - and talking with you she is trying to get a gauge of what's "normal."

[sr71blackbird]

I would think if her parents were aware that this kind of talk from a young girl like this could get them in some kind of trouble, they might chose to rein her in themselves. It makes me sick to think about a parent willing to allow their child access to such knowledge knowing it ruins the childs innocence. A long time ago, aunts and uncles and especially the immediate family would gather around because they felt obligated to aid in the corrective behavior of errant young parents. People used to have respect for their parents and be ashamed if they did things to bring shame upon their family, because it is reflective on them as kin.

[TheMojoPin]

So last night my 9 year old girl cousin spent the night at my house...at first all this nonsense was funny but as it carried on i realized it was a problem...

a liftetime movie poison ivy 2 came on and when i said i dont know if this is appropriate she said she had already seen it...she carried on about how she also knows about crotch-less panties, she asked me if i wear bras where my nipples show, she asked if my boyfriend takes off all his clothes and if i "lick his weener"...etc.

i said where did you get all these ideas....she said he mormon friend's parents...those adults also told her it is completely normal if she sees he mom licking her dads weener in the shower...just very weird weird stuff to be sharing with a 9 year old, especially one that is not yours

i had to tell her mom (my aunt) this morning about the very uncomfortable night...
her mom said she knew about it and that it happened over a year ago....but she didnt know it was in so much detail that this 9 year old knew...

my aunt cried about it because she doesnt know what to do to end this problem...what do you all suggest be done to calm my pervert cousin down...she obviously knows lots of things about sex and foreplay...she understands what it is and what its about...she knows people do it to make babies and she knows people do it for fun because it feels good. She claims her favorite movies are scary movies where people do it in the movie as well...she calls herself "A Scary Sexor"
she knows its not something she should be talking about because she doesnt talk about it in front of her mom or any other adult for that matter....

how does a person go about handling this so that this child does not end up losing friends because parents wont want their kids hanging out with the "scary sexor" and also just so she fits in with other kids her age...shes in third grade for craps sake!

Help!

I'll bet serious money that there's not a single person that actually exists mentioned in this entire post.

Any takers?

[RoseBlood]

This whole thing is just fucked up and weird.


Find her help.

It's pretty bad when Sue_Bender says it's fucked up and weird. :blink:


Or buy her some crotchless panties.

Why? She'll probably never wear 'em anyway! :ohmy:



I'll bet serious money that there's not a single person that actually exists mentioned in this entire post.

Any takers?

Party Pooper Mojo!!! :thumbdown::tongue:

[IrishAlkey]

I'll bet serious money that there's not a single person that actually exists mentioned in this entire post.

Any takers?

She now exists in my mind and will forever.

[jonyrotn]

I'll bet serious money that there's not a single person that actually exists mentioned in this entire post.

Any takers?I'll take that bet..
Dead money spends at the same rates as any other money..


You won't be paying me from your mom's panty drawer will you?



EDIT: I forgot to call you a sucker...Sucker!

[Drunky McBetidont]

fucking mormons. its too late for this one. change your number and just don't let her in your house again. :)

http://pysih.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/chris-hanson-nice-to-see-you.jpg

[OneEyeJack]

keep her away from Pal Talk.....

[Enabler]

she asked me if i wear bras where my nipples show, she asked if my boyfriend takes off all his clothes and if i "lick his weener"...etc.




Just answer the questions :wink:. Question-dodger.

Seriously, its weird for Mormon parents to talk about that shit in front of kids. Be the cool cuzin and let her know that there is plenty of time for crotchless panties down the road.

[sr71blackbird]

I'll bet serious money that there's not a single person that actually exists mentioned in this entire post.

Any takers?


Huh? Why would she lie about something like this? I dont get it, Mojo. I hope you are kidding!

[ADF]

My guess is that she's doing it to get a rise out of people. She sees how people react and takes it from there. Obviously, she's seen some things she shouldn't have, but I'd ignore it for a while and see if it goes away. If it doesn't, then it's time to talk to someone.

[DarkHippie]

My guess is that she's doing it to get a rise out of people. She sees how people react and takes it from there. Obviously, she's seen some things she shouldn't have, but I'd ignore it for a while and see if it goes away. If it doesn't, then it's time to talk to someone.

I dont think ignoring it is the way to go. If she is doing it to get a rise out of people, ignoring it will just make her do something worse.

I think your aunt should confront this directly, tell her what is acceptable and what isnt. She seems to want to act like an adult, so speak to her like an adult.

[ADF]

She's nine years old. Ignore the negative attention-seeking behavior and provide positive reinforcement whenever possible.

[Sue_Bender]

She's nine years old. Ignore the negative attention-seeking behavior and provide positive reinforcement whenever possible.


And get her a gift card to Victoria's Secret.

[LaBoob]

Explain that it's uncomfortable to have to hear about that kind of stuff. She sounds like she's vocalizing what should be the inner monologue of most girls her age knowing what she knows about sex.

Sex isn't unacceptable, but a 9 year old talking about it is. She is a little young to even be thinking about it, but maybe she's really curious and overly-"mature" for her age. Engaging this conversation in any way besides informing her she's being inappropriate might just encourage her to talk about it with more people.

[Sue_Bender]

Explain that it's uncomfortable to have to hear about that kind of stuff. She sounds like she's vocalizing what should be the inner monologue of most girls her age knowing what she knows about sex.

Sex isn't unacceptable, but a 9 year old talking about it is. She is a little young to even be thinking about it, but maybe she's really curious and overly-"mature" for her age. Engaging this conversation in any way besides informing her she's being inappropriate might just encourage her to talk about it with more people.

Why do you have to be so logical and informative?


You know it makes a lot of us look bad. :wink:

[LaBoob]

Why do you have to be so logical and informative?


You know it makes a lot of us look bad. :wink:



:lol: I was originally going to post this:

http://i208.photobucket.com/albums/bb312/kittikat_photos/kitti_02.jpg

[Sue_Bender]

:lol: I was originally going to post this:

http://i208.photobucket.com/albums/bb312/kittikat_photos/kitti_02.jpg

Unfortunately, this is gonna soup up some keyboards.





Fucking Milk Snakes. :huh:

[britneypablo]

thank you all for giving you opinions and your entertainment....i think im going to go with the try to get my aunt to get my cousin some counseling and also to get my aunt to speak to her like an adult about it...

i def agree with you Laboob on that thing about sexual behavior not being unacceptable because it is, its just i guess we need to explain to her some how that its only appropriate talk for adults because it is a dangerous thing if you dont know what your doing (some of you still dont know what your doing im sure...)

and just to clear up a few things again
the mormons are former friends of the family/kid....when my aunt found out this happened she confronted the parents and asked what had been going on thats when the parents said they "talk freely" and my aunt pretty much said "how dare you" and it ended with neither the parents or children speaking again (until softball season came around and they were on the same team) my aunt thought it was over but apparently this is something that stuck in the kids mind....she never voiced it back out to my aunt....my opinion is she knows its not appropriate so she finds power in talking about it behind my aunts back and its knowledge that her friends dont have...so her friends are intrigued by her...but ultimately this will lead to parents not letting their kids hang out with her

as far as these characters not exsisting....i ask you, jonyrotn, to please vouch for me in knowing that the strange shit that happens to in my family and to me really happens...im creative but i couldnt make this crap up...i will consider your accepting the bet as clear support for story ;) and with me being a money hungry bitch you should know i would steer you wrong, but i do want half and a nice seafood dinner (real seafood not vagina)

and as far as the crotchless panties go, she mentioned something about trying to stealing them but she accidently took just a regular thong and she wore it but that her mom never knew about it

she was supposed to stay the night the rest of the week with me but i said NO WAY i cant deal with it with all the things i have going on....i didnt even have time to kid proof my place....when she came over the first time she asked me why i had a box of thongs in the livingroom...i didnt even think anything of it, it was just laundry ...but now im seeing how its all weird

[jonyrotn]

as far as these characters not exsisting....i ask you, jonyrotn, to please vouch for me in knowing that the strange shit that happens to in my family and to me really happens...im creative but i couldnt make this crap up...i will consider your accepting the bet as clear support for story ;) and with me being a money hungry bitch you should know i would steer you wrong, but i do want half and a nice seafood dinner (real seafood not vagina)
Men and women of RF.net, please heed my words?
Britney Pablo is a real, live, 100% beautiful women..The crazy stuff that she posts that seems to unreal to happen to anyone that's not in a sitcom, is just the tip of the iceberg..This crazy bitch walks into more wild shit then forest Gump..She lives like a rock star and will probably meet her demeez like a rap star..

So boys, if you ever find yourself in North Catalacka just follow the black cloud and look up Britney, you're sure to find a real woman with a real vagina and about 6 different personalities..

I love you Brit! anything else I can do..:smile:

[jonyrotn]

:lol: I was originally going to post this:

http://i208.photobucket.com/albums/bb312/kittikat_photos/kitti_02.jpg
:ohmy: Oh my fucking god!

[hammersavage]

]So boys, if you ever find yourself in North Catalacka just follow the black cloud and look up Britney, you're sure to find a real woman with a real vagina and about 6 different personalities...

YYYEESSSSS!!!!!!!!! i knew it.

[britneypablo]

thank you :wub: jonyrotn :wub: for not only being sexy but for validating me ...i love you from the not only within my folded lady parts but also right through my bowels

and thank you hammersavage for believing in me...the surgery to remove the penis was a difficult one but since my main organs are girl i choose to keep the vagina and you choose to believe

BOX LUNCHES FOR EVERYONE!

[Sue_Bender]

thank you :wub: jonyrotn :wub: for not only being sexy but for validating me ...i love you from the not only within my folded lady parts but also right through my bowels

and thank you hammersavage for believing in me...the surgery to remove the penis was a difficult one but since my main organs are girl i choose to keep the vagina and you choose to believe

BOX LUNCHES FOR EVERYONE!

I bet there's enough to go around!