My friend needs advice from the guys

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Take it away, Grace!

Hi guys! I'm Grace and I'd like your opinion on something. There is a guy that I met on New Years Eve and we kind of hit it off pretty well. He gave me my New Year's kiss and asked me to stay until he was off work for a better kiss. I did but then he asked if he could go back to my place. He wasn't offensive about it but I just gave him a hug and told him I'm not the one night type. Anyway, I was back at the same bar last friday night with a group of friends and he and I started talking again. Long to short, he is leaving for Saudi Arabia (he is in the National Guard) in about 10 days. He gave me a pen and paper and asked for my e-mail address but said his last days here would be spent with his little child-- he is divorced.
Friday night will be the last night he works at that bar before he leaves. I don't want him to forget me but I don't want to appear pushy either. Should I stop in to see him or should I stay away and see if he e-mail's me while he is gone?
Opinions?



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[TooCute]

Do what you want! Stop in if
you feel like stopping in -
who cares??

and I have NEVER been
accused of being a stalker.
LOL.


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[Zipgun]

I'd say give him your email, and see what happens from there. If he really does want to pursue something, you can at least get to know a bit about each other through the written word. And if he is a man of honor, he can wait until he gets home before getting his hands on all your naughty bits.

Of course if you just want a good toe curlin' roll in the hay before he leaves, go for it.

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[Havenostaples]

You should do what your heart tells ya too. If you think you want to develop something in the future im sure you will give him or get info from him. Good luck with whatever you choose.


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[gone]

id go for it.. you never know if youre passing up "the one" god im corny

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[JerryTaker]

Ever see the Moive "singles"? (early ninties, directed by Cameron Crowe) this situation sounds familiar.....

-JerryTaker

"I remember now. I remember how it started. I can't remember yesterday, I just remember doing what they told me"

[Sheeplovr]

and I have NEVER been
accused of being a stalker.


Till now i officaly accuse u of being a stalker

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[F1Gm3nT]

i say DO HIM. never know if the guy will come back

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[Captain Rooster]

Go see the guy...but don't put any pressure on the situation....if he seems distant...pop smoke and run away...fast

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[Bron Yur Stomp]

Whats the rush?
email him but keep playing the field. If something works out of it then it does. Otherwise you will be stuck in those silly long distance relationships, and lament every day on how much you want to see him. yadda yadda yadda.
email him but still live your life.

Dude, how may times did you fart in the van?
None.
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ewwww farting nuns

[JustJon]

I say go for it. What's the worst that can happen? A night of drinking and another hug?

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

I say go for it. What's the worst that can happen? A night of drinking and another hug?


Grace likes this advice the best!!

Actually, the worst that can happen is that he acts distant and she has to pop smoke and run!

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[Tall_James]

I think that if he is truly interested, he will email. Think about it, he'll be in Saudi Arabia, a place where a camel can win a beauty contest.

Email him and wait and see. I am pretty sure that he will email you back frequently. A soldier waiting for a letter from a girl from back home may be a cliche...but its also pretty damn romantic.

The real question is...can you have a serious relationship with a man who has kids? If not, don't do it.

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[TheGameHHH]

Just go see him. I think the guy deserves a going away present, and you should be the one to give it to him. The situation is out of your control, you might as well make the best of it.

IT'S TIME TO PLAY THE GAME-AHHH!

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