i am seriously considering...

[Dougie Brootal]

...throwing in the towel, moving out west and working in a kitchen. im completely fed up with my entire family, all of my bullshit friends and the entire cast of characters in my life. i dont care about making alot of money, i dont care about keeping my family business going, i dont care about disappointing my dad or anyone else. i dont care about losing touch with anyone. ive been feeling this way for a while and trying to bury it thinking it would eventually go away, but it hasnt.

i just wanna get away from everyone and everything i know and start over.

does any one else ever feel like this? what do you do when you start to feel this way? is it best to try and work through it, or should i follow this impulse?

[KingGeno]

i feel like this right now, and I wanna get away also. Can't stand my fam at all, my friends are kinda boring now, etc. I would love to move away, but I am trapped in a shitty military contractor job, in a bad economy looking for a replacement job for the past 8 months. I feel stuck, and I'd disappear in a heartbeat if it wasn't for my chick and my god daughter.

[ChrisTheCop]

Bruce Willis' character on Moonlighting supposedly left New Jersey for LA and created a new life for himself, leaving everything he knew behind... I always thought that would be so cool. But for me, my mother always gets in the way; couldnt do that to her.

[Marc with a c]

i did it, and i'm happy with my new career, but now i have no friends.

i say go for it, it might be tough at first but will be worth it in the end.

[MacVittie]

sounds like you've got nothing to lose. and nothing to gain by staying where you are. looks like a pretty straightforward decision to me.

[nate1000]

don't let your hair's death be meaningless.

[drjoek]

Maybe a whole new start is just what you need right now.
GO FOR IT

[Freitag]

i did it, and i'm happy with my new career, but now i have no friends.

i say go for it, it might be tough at first but will be worth it in the end.

I'll be your friend.

And if it's any consolation, your move did create a legendary thread.

[RoseBlood]

Do it!

If you're going to Cali.. take me with youuuuuu!!!!!!!!

Please.

[drjoek]

Do it!

If you're going to Cali.. take me with youuuuuu!!!!!!!!

Please.

and you are complaining about your sad life (http://ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?t=80476) WHY???

Take the offer Doug!

[Dougie Brootal]

Do it!

If you're going to Cali.. take me with youuuuuu!!!!!!!!

Please.

you serious? cuz i was really thinking of going to LA....

[RoseBlood]

you serious? cuz i was really thinking of going to LA....

Finally gonna get that threesome documented?

San Diego.

[Furtherman]

i did it, and i'm happy with my new career, but now i have no friends.

You had some?

[Dougie Brootal]

Finally gonna get that threesome documented?

San Diego.

i can work with that!

[ToiletCrusher]

I heard that West Coast chicks like threesomes.

[RoseBlood]

Seriously it's worth it.

If things don't work out, you can always move back right?

Sometimes I think of starting over too. I do love most of my family and friends here, but I have nothing else here holding me back: Husband/Child.. No, House.. No, Great Job.. No.

I have less than a year and a half left to finish my Masters and who knows then? I'll probably go wherever the job market takes me. But I'd prefer warm climated area, with no snow.

And don't worry about money Doug.. you can add your threesome thread to your resume if you decide to go into "film". :wink:

[hammersavage]

I would do this. I should do this. If I had my debts paid, I would just pick up and leave. I'll see my family eventually.

[Judge Smails]

...throwing in the towel, moving out west and working in a kitchen. im completely fed up with my entire family, all of my bullshit friends and the entire cast of characters in my life. i dont care about making alot of money, i dont care about keeping my family business going, i dont care about disappointing my dad or anyone else. i dont care about losing touch with anyone. ive been feeling this way for a while and trying to bury it thinking it would eventually go away, but it hasnt.

i just wanna get away from everyone and everything i know and start over.

does any one else ever feel like this? what do you do when you start to feel this way? is it best to try and work through it, or should i follow this impulse?

Sounds like someone has a case of the Mondays.

[Dude!]

By 'out west'
do you mean Hagerstown?

[hammersavage]

One day I want to come to your house to pick you up, and you just not be there. And a note saying 'had to see about a girl.'

[Dougie Brootal]

Seriously it's worth it.

If things don't work out, you can always move back right?

Sometimes I think of starting over too. I do love most of my family and friends here, but I have nothing else here holding me back: Husband/Child.. No, House.. No, Great Job.. No.

I have less than a year and a half left to finish my Masters and who knows then? I'll probably go wherever the job market takes me. But I'd prefer warm climated area, with no snow.

And don't worry about money Doug.. you can add your threesome thread to your resume if you decide to go into "film". :wink:


im almost convinced i should do it, i just dont have any idea how to plan it or go about actually doing it.

[Dougie Brootal]

Sounds like someone has a case of the Mondays.

http://movies.infinitecoolness.com/27/officespace18.jpg

By 'out west'
do you mean Hagerstown?

NO.
FUCKING.
WAY.

[RoseBlood]

Har Har Har.. nice.. who's responsible for the tag? :annoyed:

[britneypablo]

...throwing in the towel, moving out west and working in a kitchen. im completely fed up with my entire family, all of my bullshit friends and the entire cast of characters in my life. i dont care about making alot of money, i dont care about keeping my family business going, i dont care about disappointing my dad or anyone else. i dont care about losing touch with anyone. ive been feeling this way for a while and trying to bury it thinking it would eventually go away, but it hasnt.

i just wanna get away from everyone and everything i know and start over.

does any one else ever feel like this? what do you do when you start to feel this way? is it best to try and work through it, or should i follow this impulse?

<font color="deeppink"> feel like this all the time.....which i am probably one manic attack away from packin up anything my jeep can carry and going somewhere anywhere ...but who knows..?!

[RoseBlood]

One day I want to come to your house to pick you up, and you just not be there. And a note saying 'had to see about an asian tranny.'

Fixed.

[Furtherman]

I did it years ago. Quit my job and moved up here to the NYC area. I had a place to stay, so that made it much easier. That's what I would do - make sure you have a place or a friend you can split bills with becuase that will make it easier.

[Marc with a c]

I'll be your friend.

i like sheepy to much to do that.

And if it's any consolation, your move did create a legendary thread.

oh god. i'm going to have to go read that one again next time i'm alone on a saturday night watching iron chef eating a bagel.

[boosterp]

I would say yes, but with this economy it would be tough. If you did, Cali has a weak economy and I can't recommend moving there. Texas is still strong, I will be coming out of retirement soon and getting a job in a petrochemical lab (if they accept me). It is less money but chances of moving up are great.

Texas may be the place for Doug and Rose. :king:

[Devo37]

i've briefly thought about packing up and moving to Seattle, or somewhere out there (i'd actually like the weather out there), but a few things pretty much over-ride the idea:

- better job-availability in nyc
- waking up at 10am on a sunday to watch football games
- i'd constantly feel 3 hours behind 'normal' time

[NickyL0885]

I have a plan for moving out. If everything goes right, Id like to be out by 2011. 2012 at the latest. I plan on going to school next year for a one year LPN program. I then would maybe move to San Diego and go to school there to become an RN.

I would try to come home for at least Thanksgiving and X-Mas. Only issue would be friends since i'm socially inept. I have friends now but if I moved, I'm not one to go to a bar or something and meet people. Even when I go to school to be an RN, I'll never talk to people. I always kept to my self in school. Minded my own business.

[Kevin]

i like sheepy to much to do that.



oh god. i'm going to have to go read that one again next time i'm alone on a saturday night watching iron chef eating a bagel.

Sooooo. you will be reading it this sat night.. SWEET!

[hammersavage]

See, I could meet friends easy. I just go to a bar and have a few shots, then I'll be buddies with anyone.

especially Asian trannies

[Marc with a c]

Sooooo. you will be reading it this sat night.. SWEET!

i think this saturday i'm going to have pizza bagels.

[Furtherman]

See, I could meet friends easy. I just go to a bar and have a few shots, then I'll be buddies with anyone.

especially Asian trannies

Slut!

[hammersavage]

i think this saturday i'm going to have pizza bagels.

Good change

[SatCam]

the tags on this thread are great

[mikeyboy]

Har Har Har.. nice.. who's responsible for the tag? :annoyed:

Dr. Cummy

[hammersavage]

Dr. Cummy

I don't like this new power.

Even though someone fixed it

[King Hippos Bandaid]

starting over should include leaving this site and facebook


we are all dead weight in the new and improved Douglas Grasso

[Marc with a c]

we are all dead weight in the new and improved Douglas Grasso

some of us more than others pig breath.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

some of us more than others pig breath.



I am god's dead weight

[Dirtbag]

Its possible to do that without any money? I've wanted nothing more since I left high school than to just start going until I hit either an ocean or Canada and start over but I really have no intentions of living in my car.

[Dougie Brootal]

Its possible to do that without any money? I've wanted nothing more since I left high school than to just start going until I hit either an ocean or Canada and start over but I really have no intentions of living in my car.


i guess we can find out together, dirtbag.

[hammersavage]

i guess we can find out together, dirtbag.

Easy with the personal attac.....oh wait. forget it.

[Kris10]

I would love to pick up and leave but my daughter prevents me. She'd rat us out in a heartbeat.

[cougarjake13]

...throwing in the towel, moving out west and working in a kitchen. im completely fed up with my entire family, all of my bullshit friends and the entire cast of characters in my life. i dont care about making alot of money, i dont care about keeping my family business going, i dont care about disappointing my dad or anyone else. i dont care about losing touch with anyone. ive been feeling this way for a while and trying to bury it thinking it would eventually go away, but it hasnt.

i just wanna get away from everyone and everything i know and start over.

does any one else ever feel like this? what do you do when you start to feel this way? is it best to try and work through it, or should i follow this impulse?


i have

i did


i moved to florida

[jennysmurf]

I did it--moved from Connecticut to San Francisco. But, I had a job here before I moved. That made it alot easier. Come on over--we've got lots of Asian trannies here!

[hammersavage]

My alert for the phrase 'asian trannies' went off. I knew it'd be you!

[jennysmurf]

My alert for the phrase 'asian trannies' went off. I knew it'd be you!

Well, I do like to give the people what they want.

[Slumbag]

If you move, but change nothing about yourself, won't there be the same results?

I don't like using AA talk or whatever, but I personally think if you want to change shit, running away won't help. If you don't like your life, a change of scenery isn't gonna do shit.


You're just gonna feel incomplete in a different place.

[biggirl]

I have been seriously considering a big move in my life...I just haven't figured it all out yet.

[Marc with a c]

we should get a ronfez.net house on each coast so people can test out moving different places.

[hammersavage]

I hope the west coast version has hayrides.

[Marc with a c]

ouch with that tag. well done.

[Marc with a c]

gayrides are more likely.

[hammersavage]

Only the mods know

[RoseBlood]

If you move, but change nothing about yourself, won't there be the same results?

I don't like using AA talk or whatever, but I personally think if you want to change shit, running away won't help. If you don't like your life, a change of scenery isn't gonna do shit.


You're just gonna feel incomplete in a different place.

Truer words have never been typed.

[Dougie Brootal]

im already gone... ;)

[hammersavage]

And like that, phew, he's gone..........

[lleeder]

Dougs going back to Cali? - yea y'all, I don't think so

[Dougie Brootal]

since rose shot me down im thinking florida.

[disneyspy]

since rose shot me down im thinking florida.

cool,you can hook up with sue bender

[Dougie Brootal]

cool,you can hook up with sue bender

PRECISELY!

[brettmojo]

I feel the exact same way right now. In fact I've told my fiance to go ahead and look for a transfer out of state, preferably to North or South Carolina, so we can go ahead and get the hell out of NY as soon as possible. I was gonna' wait until I found a new job somewhere down there but I can't take this place, the people or the way everyone treats one another on a daily basis... Especially at my work. I can get a good job doing anything so we might as well stop procrastinating about it and go.

[britneypablo]

I feel the exact same way right now. In fact I've told my fiance to go ahead and look for a transfer out of state, preferably to North or South Carolina, so we can go ahead and get the hell out of NY as soon as possible. I was gonna' wait until I found a new job somewhere down there but I can't take this place, the people or the way everyone treats one another on a daily basis... Especially at my work. I can get a good job doing anything so we might as well stop procrastinating about it and go.

<font color="deeppink"> north carolina huh? u can both come stay with me...ill feed and water you for a visit

[led37zep]

you serious? cuz i was really thinking of going to LA....

Going to LA is an awful idea.

Head North my bi sexual friend..The Bay Area is the place to go if you really want to start over.

[biozombie]

I said "fuck all this shit" & got a 1 way ticket to the desert last August and it's working out well so far.