View Full Version : Are you rude to solicitors?
I live in a condo development where there are sign posted everywhere that there is no soliciting. However, it's near impossible to enforce this rule. Last night 2 college kids rang my bell looking for money for like a YMCA or a Kids club and I just say "Did you read the sign that says 'No Soliciting'?" To where they say "Look we're just trying to help out the kids y'know?" to which I close the door as they're still talking. Pretty much anyone that comes to my door asking for a donation or some bullshit I slam the door in their face. (I make exceptions for kid who are selling candy or something for a school fundraiser)
So last night I was thinking, what if they were legit and trying to do the right thing. Does the money they're trying to raise outweigh breaking the no soliciting policy?
drjoek
06-16-2009, 04:41 AM
Never get solicitors at home. Hang up on phone solicitors instantly.
ToiletCrusher
06-16-2009, 04:58 AM
Only if they are pushy.
Nothing Sound
06-16-2009, 05:30 AM
I live in a gated community. I have to call security for anyone to get in.
When I first moved here a neighbor knocked on my door to ask me to move
my car. I can just about guarantee that they will never knock on my door again.
Only if they are pushy.
I was 1 minute from "Marge, get my gun"
Which would've been confusing to my wife as her name is not Marge.
instrument
06-16-2009, 06:06 AM
Only jehovas witnesses
, and I calmly let them know that I can't have anything to do with a religion that makes it impossible for prince to get a hip replacement.
Only jehovas witnesses
, and I calmly let them know that I can't have anything to do with a religion that makes it impossible for prince to get a hip replacement.
Don't blame religion. The real problem is that there isn't anybody hip enough to replace Prince...
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drjoek
06-16-2009, 06:12 AM
I live in a gated community. I have to call security for anyone to get in.
When I first moved here a neighbor knocked on my door to ask me to move
my car. I can just about guarantee that they will never knock on my door again.
Mr Fancypants!
I live in a gated community. I have to call security for anyone to get in.
When I first moved here a neighbor knocked on my door to ask me to move
my car. I can just about guarantee that they will never knock on my door again.
Mr Fancypants!
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Freitag
06-16-2009, 06:23 AM
Last night 2 college kids rang my bell looking for money for like a YMCA or a Kids club and I just say "Did you read the sign that says 'No Soliciting'?" To where they say "Look we're just trying to help out the kids y'know?" to which I close the door as they're still talking.
Hearing this, and their response, I think you did the right thing. There's a lot of scam artists out there who are using "it's for the kids" as a pushback to people who say no.
Legitimate fundraisers will usually accept a pushback from the person they are selling to and keep going.
RhinoinMN
06-16-2009, 06:35 AM
I usually am pretty rude, but the last time I said "take you fucking cookies elsewhere you little cunts!" I caught a lot of flak.
Dude!
06-16-2009, 06:37 AM
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:innocent:
a prison is also
a gated community
boosterp
06-16-2009, 06:50 AM
I give them 15 seconds then ask them to leave. This is a no soliciting community, I will allow the girlscouts though, love them cookies.
RhinoinMN
06-16-2009, 06:51 AM
I give them 15 seconds then ask them to leave. This is a no soliciting community, I will allow the girlscouts though, love them cookies.
What about the boyscouts and their wreathes?
King Hippos Bandaid
06-16-2009, 06:53 AM
When I have time
I love engaging them until the time they feel they have the sale, tell I them to go fuck themselves and that I would never buy anything from a pathetic piece of scum over the phone
in person I just lay the role of buyer , and then have cold feet, make them waste time and get NO SALE
When I don't have time
:click: on Phone :slam: if in person
MacVittie
06-16-2009, 07:02 AM
I politely close the door or hang up. There's no reason to be rude.
razorboy
06-16-2009, 07:13 AM
I really try not to be. If I'm in a bad mood It's been known to happen every once in a while.
TripleSkeet
06-16-2009, 07:35 AM
Ive had to do door to door sales and Ive worked at a telelmarketing company doing surveys over the phone.
I had to stop both jobs because it was getting to the point where people were such cocks that I would have murdered one eventually. Its one thing if you think you are being scammed. Its another when its just some guy trying to make a living. Its pretty fucked up to think a 30 second interruption of you sitting on your fat ass gives you the right to treat another person like garbage.
I am never rude to thse guys because I know just how hard the work really is. I dont usually give any money but I let them say their piece and I usually offer them a bottle of water before I turn them down.
styckx
06-16-2009, 07:38 AM
I'm usually pretty just blunt with them when they walk in my store.
You can spot them a mile away. Suit, Tie, holding some sort of day planner and all cheerily say "Hey how's it going today, business good?"
I just ask right after that "Ok, what are you sellin?"
"Ohh, I'm not selling anything, you like baseball?"
"Get out of here"
Ive had to do door to door sales and Ive worked at a telelmarketing company doing surveys over the phone.
I had to stop both jobs because it was getting to the point where people were such cocks that I would have murdered one eventually. Its one thing if you think you are being scammed. Its another when its just some guy trying to make a living. Its pretty fucked up to think a 30 second interruption of you sitting on your fat ass gives you the right to treat another person like garbage.
I am never rude to thse guys because I know just how hard the work really is. I dont usually give any money but I let them say their piece and I usually offer them a bottle of water before I turn them down.
If it's legit, i got no problem. But if they pass a "No Soliciting" sign and ignore it... fuck them. I give telemarketers shit because I get 3 calls a day from them at all hours and I'm on a do not call list.. so I get as vicious as I want.
biggirl
06-16-2009, 07:42 AM
When I had an anger management problem years ago, yes, I was rude. Now that I am a normal, happy girl, I usually mess with them. When people call or come to the door for magazines I ask for porn. The other week some people came to talk about my lawn and I about (pretended) cried. I asked and said "Does my lawn look really bad? My husband breaks his back over this yard every night. We were soooo proud of it."
Sometimes, I just ignore the knocking on the door and pretend I am not home. This backfired last year when Burkely kept telling me to answer the door. I told him I didn't want their crap they were selling. His sister's window was opened. While I was on the phone he yelled to the kid "Go away, we don't want your crap that you are selling, but you have a really cool skateboard!"
Aggie
06-16-2009, 07:42 AM
No. They annoy me but I usually hear them out and try to be plesant even though I never buy anything. My husband is in sales now and in high school worked as a telemarketer so we are sympathetic.
I get hassled with them constantly at work either by phone or coming into our office building that has a no soliciting sign on the front door then every office has their own sign. I could be an ass if I wanted to but unless they are, I'm a lady. :innocent:
Misteriosa
06-16-2009, 07:46 AM
im not rude unless i have to be. i will politely decline the offers, but if the solicitor keeps pressing me the i will tell them to gtfo or will hang up.
TripleSkeet
06-16-2009, 07:51 AM
I'm usually pretty just blunt with them when they walk in my store.
You can spot them a mile away. Suit, Tie, holding some sort of day planner and all cheerily say "Hey how's it going today, business good?"
I just ask right after that "Ok, what are you sellin?"
"Ohh, I'm not selling anything, you like baseball?"
"Get out of here"
Thats what I had to do. It was the worst. But honestly if you go to a decent amount of baseball games those packages are way worth it. Too bad they were always selling for the Orioles and never the Phillies.
KatPw
06-16-2009, 07:56 AM
I don't answer my door if I don't recognize the person ringing the bell. Don't know if that is rude or not but it works. Same thing with the phone.
I don't even open the door.
cougarjake13
06-18-2009, 06:01 PM
i jyust fuck with them
Death Metal Moe
06-18-2009, 06:06 PM
I know I'm gonna jinx myself now but I haven't had one to the door in like a decade. But when they start coming again, they are getting my full on contempt.
CofyCrakCocaine
06-18-2009, 06:17 PM
Never get solicitors at home. Hang up on phone solicitors instantly.
For all your alleged and confirmed cumminess, this really is the best wisest policy for dealing with phone-line ass grabbers.
CofyCrakCocaine
06-18-2009, 06:18 PM
I generally don't make it policy to be rude to people, especially when they know where I live now.
STC-Dub
06-18-2009, 08:06 PM
Hard to say. I open the door and politely say "no thanks" and close the door again. I guess that could be considered rude.
jennysmurf
06-18-2009, 09:39 PM
I always use the excuse that I'm just the nanny, and that my employers aren't home. Works every time. (It's the truth by the way--the truth will set you free.)
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