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Poison Ivy
01-26-2002, 05:27 AM
HK,

What is the criteria for obtaining one? Is proof of harrassment needed? If the person in question lives in a different state what are the steps? What type of behavior is needed for a restraining order to be nesessary? Just curious...thanks!

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Wolf!
01-26-2002, 05:31 AM
Former boyfriend of yours pookie?

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windowlck
01-26-2002, 06:23 AM
I said i was sorry... come on can't we be just freinds... I was going through your garbage as a way to just get to know you better... i swear i don't know how those panties got in my pocket? :)

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irishkb
01-26-2002, 06:39 AM
All there really needs to be is fear for your endangerment. if feel that this man or woman could possible pose a threat to you can pretty much get a restraining order. they will most likely ask for some instance that have happened to show why you would request such a thing. most times if a person lives out of state then you have to go to that state to have the paper work filled out. for example if a person continously writes out checks that bounce to pay for bills his business gets you can takes certain actions. but problem is if his bank is say in york, pa and you are in nj you have to go out to york and take with their police about what you can do..
think about this hard because that restraining order will follow that person around for his or her life.. it almost happed to me because of an ex girlfriend's parents. i will explain my situation if you would like just email. it is available on my info...

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Poison Ivy
01-26-2002, 06:56 AM
Windowlck sweetie you can stalk me anyday you little hottie you ;) :) ;)



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impactplayer2k1
01-26-2002, 09:46 AM
damn, i guess im in trouble now!

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Icebox
01-26-2002, 12:36 PM
What are you talking about Ivy? I'm already 150 feet away from you at all times...and I have big feet!!! ;P

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gone
01-26-2002, 12:56 PM
**rolls her eyes**


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CYYYFYYY
01-26-2002, 02:38 PM
I don;t know how those 12 dead
roses end up on your doorstep
every day....... Just because
it has my name on it prooves
nothing!!!!!!!!!


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LtBoogaloo
01-26-2002, 02:41 PM
Try getting a "temporary order of protection"...at the moment, the criteria escapes me but generally they're issued to protect people in immediate threat or from the potential of harm.

I don't think that answered the question.



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FiveB247
01-26-2002, 04:01 PM
So what's the big deal if I like watching you post and reply? I enjoy watching the way you type. Hey look at your window...see I'm waving :)

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NurseMira
01-26-2002, 04:35 PM
I got a restraining order against my ex-boyfriend a few years ago. He threatened my life on voicemail so I had rock-hard proof that he was a psycho. In New York, you need proof, which sucks because not everyone is so lucky. After I filed a complaint, they looked up his records and found out he had a previous arrest in Florida for beating his girlfriend. So, the police were allowed to arrest him again. I had to go to court and was assigned a lawyer by the court. We showed up at different times and were always kept separated. It was a very scary experience...I hope you don't have to go through it.

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HordeKing1
01-26-2002, 08:13 PM
Here is an excellent site with good practical information.

http://www.opdv.state.ny.us/about_dv/fss/orderprt.html

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JerryTaker
01-27-2002, 12:17 AM
Restraining orders, bah! I just send someone else with a camera and...

hm, um, I mean...never mind...

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legroommusic
01-27-2002, 08:29 AM
Oh get over yourself Ivy, I'm stalking someone else now. I don't need to hang outside your window crying anymore(play gloria gaynoy here).

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Poison Ivy
01-27-2002, 02:32 PM
LMAO Legroom..that was some funny shit!

In all actuality, it really is just curiosity. A friend and I were discussing the topic and we were just wondering what kind of details were involved. I've never had a problem personally with an ex, I usually ignore them....

And Mira, that was an awful story. I hope everything is better for you now! You're too sweet to have to deal with such bullshit.

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gone
01-27-2002, 05:33 PM
I've never had a problem personally with an ex, I usually ignore them....

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JerryTaker
01-28-2002, 07:07 AM
I've never had a problem personally with an ex

me neither, especially if they're asleep, and there's plenty of room to swing the shovel...

did I ever mention how much I loved the meadowlands?

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EQ
01-29-2002, 01:39 PM
Great Website info, Horde King! Hi, Poison Ivy, I would like to add that you should consider documenting everything (almost like a journal..a timeline of sorts). Even if it this feels horrible to do, keep a daily record. Save all, or any "threats" that come by way of voicemail, email, or good old fashioned mail(how archaic). Be as honest and objective with the police as you can, and don't let it rattle you if they seem less than empathetic. Also, Domestic Violence laws and stalking of another nature (a co-worker, an aquaintance, a stranger)are VERY different. In most states, the police may want you sign papers that give them access to YOUR life. DO NOT sign anything, at least until you know more. You will have more "homework" to do, but this will be worth it. Good luck! (not that I know what I'm talking about..LOL. wink, wink )


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Poison Ivy
01-30-2002, 02:13 AM
Wow, I gotta say...reading this information on the website was a lot better than having it explained to me by 3 police officers at 4:30 this morning http://www.plauder-smilies.de/errrr.gif

Well now I know why my friend brought this discussion up the other day....My neighbor (whom some of you got to meet tonight) and the rest of my building were awaken at 4:30 am to the sounds a very large, drunk and angry man pounding on her door....she fianlly opened the door (about 5 minutes before the cops showed up) and all I heard was screaming. That was just about the scariest thing that I have ever witnessed in my life. I really cannot even imagine what that must be like. Unfortunaltely she decided not to fill out the paperwork for a temporary restraining order, but I'm hoping she'll change her mind. I guess we'll see.

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furie
01-30-2002, 08:49 AM
just remember Ivy, he can make you love him.



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