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Souter Fell
03-26-2010, 07:59 PM
So tomorrow I have a "first date" for the first time in roughly a decade. It's not that I haven't been getting mine. Just I've been a serial friend dater. This is the first time in forever that I haven't been out with some one i've known for years. Figure pick her up, some live but still talkable music, good eats and some nice pub drinks down by NYU. Any tips?
weekapaugjz
03-26-2010, 08:01 PM
don't focus on yourself during the conversation, show interest in her.
and, be a gentleman.
Doctor Z
03-26-2010, 11:15 PM
don't focus on yourself during the conversation, show interest in her.
and, be a gentleman.
Immediately followed by:
http://img16.imageshack.us/img16/4715/gordonsigbz9.jpg
Hilarious.
But, given the forum, I'll just say good luck, and take a play-it-by-ear approach. Feel her out. If she seems like the type who's looking to get fucked, take action. But if she seems serious and datable, take it slow and relaxed. Just make sure she's comfortable.
Sinestro
03-27-2010, 01:46 AM
Have some condoms ready so you don't have to make that stop at the drug store.
What's a serial friend dater? You go out with you female friends and pick up the tab? Or you go out on dates but in the end the lady only wants to be your friend?
Good luck.
Souter Fell
03-27-2010, 02:01 AM
What's a serial friend dater? You go out with you female friends and pick up the tab? Or you go out on dates but in the end the lady only wants to be your friend?
Every pretty female friend I have is either married or I've dated her. It makes sense. I've already gotten to know them and enjoy their company so eventually it just happens.
This new chick, I met her last week when I was visiting my sister. Among other things, I think I was attracted to the fact we didn't rush into things. Since my last serious break-up, had a string of one nighters for the first time. Can honestly say that overall, I don't like 'em.
Anyway, my body didn't realize it was saturday. Going back to sleep.
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05-10-2010, 08:18 PM
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Serpico1103
05-11-2010, 05:22 AM
Roofies.
TripleSkeet
05-11-2010, 07:39 AM
Every pretty female friend I have is either married or I've dated her. It makes sense. I've already gotten to know them and enjoy their company so eventually it just happens.
This new chick, I met her last week when I was visiting my sister. Among other things, I think I was attracted to the fact we didn't rush into things. Since my last serious break-up, had a string of one nighters for the first time. Can honestly say that overall, I don't like 'em.
Anyway, my body didn't realize it was saturday. Going back to sleep.
I think weve found your problem. Youre gay.
J/K Good luck.
Dan 'Hampton
06-20-2010, 04:45 AM
I'd be bummed wearing a cheap jersey too. You think the bots would get their acts together.
ZigZagBigBag
06-23-2010, 12:26 PM
Plaid is the new black.
razorboy
07-05-2010, 11:01 PM
J4, indeed.
midwestjeff
07-12-2010, 04:18 PM
Had a first date over the weekend, well, technically second because we hung out for a bit thursday but saturday was a planned thing so it counts as the first.
Went a little something like this;
She came over, we walked to the park, walked through the muddy trails to the train bridge, a little drinkin', a little highin', swam, jumped of off a tree, came home, went to a friend's house, grilled, played guitar, slept on my floor and fu..well, I'd better keep it classy.
This chic is awesome so far. I'm going to be disappointed when she turns crazy like they always seem to do. I might even start a heartbreak thread while taking klonopin and drinking long island iced teas.
LordJezo
07-17-2010, 07:04 PM
pics?
Furtherman
08-09-2010, 12:57 PM
I got a number this past weekend. It's been so long I got a number I'm just staring at it like Hurley staring at his lottery numbers.
I got a number this past weekend. It's been so long I got a number I'm just staring at it like Hurley staring at his lottery numbers.
Are you going to do the "wait until Wednesday to call"?
Furtherman
08-10-2010, 05:50 AM
Are you going to do the "wait until Wednesday to call"?
No, I don't play that game. I called last night for a date this Wednesday.
No, I don't play that game. I called last night for a date this Wednesday.
Furtherman got digits! He's all growns-up!
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