Should I be mad or sorry?

[Dougie Brootal]

Story:
around march, my chick and i had a disagreement and broke up for a weekend. during this weekend, i had dinner with an ex. nothing happened and i got out of there as soon as possible after realizing how much i disliked her.

couple days later and things were better with my chick. so i didnt mention the dinner. no reason to, in my mind.

last nite my chick tells me she broke into my email and she knows about the dinner.


so should i be mad at her for breaking into my email (for the 2nd time) or should i be apologizing to her for going to dinner with an ex, even tho we were broken up and nothing happened?

[Don Stugots]

you didnt do anything wrong, dont be sorry.

[Misteriosa]

as you didnt do anything, and you were "broken up" at the time, it shouldnt matter. be pissed for her breaking into your shit... again. thats a serious problem to me.

[Furtherman]

A girl who breaks into your email twice shouldn't be your girl in the first place.


Get a trustworthy one. You did nothing wrong.

[Sue_Bender]

You're in the clear, Dougie.


Going through your email account twice is two times too many.

[disneyspy]

she sounds lovely,you should be happy that she kept an eye on you and didnt go off and fuck some guy oer throw a beer stein at your head

[foodcourtdruide]

I don't think you did anything wrong, even if you had dinner with the ex and didn't tell her while you were together. Is having dinner with someone cheating? I don't understand why people think being in a relationship with someone means you're entitled to control their every thought and action.

[Kevin]

she sounds lovely,you should be happy that she kept an eye on you and didnt go off and fuck some guy oer throw a beer stein at your head



What if she threw Ben Stein at his head?

You should be mad at her and yourself..

Her for invading your privacy, and you for coming up with dumb easy to find out email passwords... TWICE!

[Sue_Bender]

What if she threw Ben Stein at his head?

You should be mad at her and yourself..

Her for invading your privacy, and you for coming up with dumb easy to find out email passwords... TWICE!

Truth bomb?

[Dougie Brootal]

What if she threw Ben Stein at his head?

You should be mad at her and yourself..

Her for invading your privacy, and you for coming up with dumb easy to find out email passwords... TWICE!

i keep changin em and im trying really hard!

[disneyspy]

i keep changin em and im trying really hard!

maybe you shouldn't leave the note that says "my password" right next to your computer

and password is not a good password

[JPMNICK]

A girl who breaks into your email twice shouldn't be your girl in the first place.


Get a trustworthy one. You did nothing wrong.

exactly.

also use fucking harder passwords dummy

[Dougie Brootal]

maybe you shouldn't leave the note that says "my password" right next to your computer

and password is not a good password

come on man! how did you find that out??

[Furtherman]

Seriously, you're in for a lifetime of mistrust and agony if you stick with a girl who has done that - twice?! Even once.

[CYYYFYYY]

If you are angry that means you feel you did something wrong. My chick has my e-mail password becuase I have nothing to hide. Look at whatever the heck you want I say. You did not mention it becuase you did not want a headache but as you said you did nothing wrong. If I were you I would say I should have told you but I myslf would not be all that sorry or mad.

[SatCam]

you two sound perfect for each other

if you cant be with the one you love
love the one youre with

[King Hippos Bandaid]

I voted Mad...

without Trust there is no Relationship


boot her unless sick deranged chicks turn u on...... if they turn you on... email others just to fight and make up

[KingModem]

Should be sorry. As in I feel sorry for you that you put yourself through this.

[Fallon]

We were on a break!!

http://www.thewb.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/ross.jpg

[ralphbxny]

Dude your all clear.

[tanless1]

Now wait a minute. Nobodys asked Dougie if he orchestrated the break-up in order to have the opportunity to date. Sorta like starting an argument so you can have the bed to yourself.

...are your passwords to lame that she can figure them out, or do you talk in your sleep. If you've stored your password, then its just being inconsiderate, not " breaking in "

[tanless1]

...not enough information.

[Kevin]

We were on a break!!

http://www.thewb.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/ross.jpg



The fact that you have any idea what you are talking about involving Friends is pretty sad...

You should be sorry for this..

[spoon]

Seriously this is just stupid. First off, I wouldn't be with a chick checking my email unless I didn't care as someone else stated here. I do the same shit and get emails from ex's all the time (bc we're still friends) and my girl can read them all she wants. If she doesn't trust me, see ya. It's a reflection on her and you that you hide shit and she is extremely jealous and sneaky. She's probably the one with bad intentions out there or you have already been labeled a cheater.

Just the mere fact that you'd post this on a board (and I'm not trying to run u down Doug, just my advice) shows you aren't in control of your relationship at all. If it was me, I'd confront her on it and make a call based on how she responds. Tell you the truth, I'd never get this far into this mess, she would have been gone a long time ago. I have no time for this type of stupid drama and soap opera bullshit. You need to just lay it out there and not be mad or sad, just put it out there in control. Show she hasn't rattled you in the least and that she in fact made you more determined to end this shit once and for all or you're done with her. If not, like others said here, you're in for one hell of a fucking train wreck relationship.

[TjM]

Damn she went Davey Mac on ya.

Just talk to her about it. She might have inadequacy issues. Just talk to her. Ask about WHY she did that

[Contra]

Seriously this is just stupid. First off, I wouldn't be with a chick checking my email unless I didn't care as someone else stated here. I do the same shit and get emails from ex's all the time (bc we're still friends) and my girl can read them all she wants. If she doesn't trust me, see ya. It's a reflection on her and you that you hide shit and she is extremely jealous and sneaky. She's probably the one with bad intentions out there or you have already been labeled a cheater.

Just the mere fact that you'd post this on a board (and I'm not trying to run u down Doug, just my advice) shows you aren't in control of your relationship at all. If it was me, I'd confront her on it and make a call based on how she responds. Tell you the truth, I'd never get this far into this mess, she would have been gone a long time ago. I have no time for this type of stupid drama and soap opera bullshit. You need to just lay it out there and not be mad or sad, just put it out there in control. Show she hasn't rattled you in the least and that she in fact made you more determined to end this shit once and for all or you're done with her. If not, like others said here, you're in for one hell of a fucking train wreck relationship.


In other words show no fear, but don't look directly into her eyes so not to turn to stone

[Zorro]

Seriously, you're in for a lifetime of mistrust and agony if you stick with a girl who has done that - twice?! Even once.

Every chick breaks into your email. The good ones don't tell you.

[Dougie Brootal]

Thanks for the advice buddays, but to clarify, I wasn't hiding it as much as I just didn't mention it because it didn't seem like an issue to me. But I did tell her today that she can't be reading my emails. She claims I left it up, but I don't know about that...

[Dougie Brootal]

Damn... almost had a %100 poll.

[disneyspy]

Damn... almost had a %100 poll.

we'll never see one of those unless you ask if you should suck scott's dick

[brettmojo]

If she didn't tell you anything about what she did that weekend, you owe no apology.

Then all that's left is anger about the intrusion on your emails.

[furie]

you should be mad
dump her or keep her only after honest repentance.

[Misteriosa]

Every chick breaks into your email. The good ones don't tell you.

ive never done that.

[Contra]

ive never done that.

That's because you are a good egg

[keithy_19]

Apologize. She's the light of your world..

:flush:

[Dougie Brootal]

Apologize. She's the light of your world..

:flush:

Now I know I'm right. Poll closed! :tongue:

[keithy_19]

Now I know I'm right. Poll closed! :tongue:

Trust is key in a relationship. Granted, communication is also key.

This could turn out to work in you and your relationships favor.

[ScottFromGA]

Story:
around march, my chick and i had a disagreement and broke up for a weekend. during this weekend, i had dinner with an ex. nothing happened and i got out of there as soon as possible after realizing how much i disliked her.

couple days later and things were better with my chick. so i didnt mention the dinner. no reason to, in my mind.

last nite my chick tells me she broke into my email and she knows about the dinner.


so should i be mad at her for breaking into my email (for the 2nd time) or should i be apologizing to her for going to dinner with an ex, even tho we were broken up and nothing happened?

its time to dump that broad, Dougie. If shes breaking into your e-mail twice and then gets pissed at you for something that happened while you two were broken up, then she's clearly got trust issues with you to begin with. You should be mad that she would break into your personal belonging anyways.

[CountryBob]

Why would a chick want to sneak a peek at your email? Sounds like she is waiting for something to happen that will make this relationship fail. I have alot of experience dealing with psyched out girls and ya better cut the cord on this one. Sure, the sex is awesome - most crazy bitches give great sex but being with a paranoid, jealous, nosey chick is no relationship I want to be in.