Ok...I work with a 26 year old pill popper.

[Justice4all]

I work at a company that deals with members and guests all day long. At the front is a girl who is 26, has (according to her) a shitty relationship with her husband who she is separated from.
But she admitted that she keeps percosets in a safe in her home (she admitted this to just about all the sales staff). Along with that she also said she can't go without taking them for more then 2 days. If she does she gets jittery.
Today, while up at the front desk, she took two pills about 30mins before she was going to leave. She does NOT have a doctor prescribing these pills to her. She told me these are her cousins' pills.

This chick is seriously deep in her own drama. She also slept with one of my co-workers and bragged about it. She doesn't do her work, is on the phone with facebook updates, catty drama and stuff like that.
My question is this...do I mention anything to my co-workers or boss about what happened?

[Snoogans]

useless without pics

[Snoogans]

sorry, i didnt notice that this was in the forum. I apologize and for some reason it wont let me edit

[disneyspy]

sometimes the only way some people will get help with their addiction is if consequences for their actions are put into their faces,not knowing the situation thats about all i can add

[sailor]

other than her not doing her job, it's none of their business.

[spoon]

I work at a company that deals with members and guests all day long. At the front is a girl who is 26, has (according to her) a shitty relationship with her husband who she is separated from.
But she admitted that she keeps percosets in a safe in her home (she admitted this to just about all the sales staff). Along with that she also said she can't go without taking them for more then 2 days. If she does she gets jittery.
Today, while up at the front desk, she took two pills about 30mins before she was going to leave. She does NOT have a doctor prescribing these pills to her. She told me these are her cousins' pills.

This chick is seriously deep in her own drama. She also slept with one of my co-workers and bragged about it. She doesn't do her work, is on the phone with facebook updates, catty drama and stuff like that.
My question is this...do I mention anything to my co-workers or boss about what happened?

Catty would be getting involved. Let it figure itself out, stay the fuck out of it Crime Dog.

[Justice4all]

Catty would be getting involved. Let it figure itself out, stay the fuck out of it Crime Dog.

Thanks professor. But if it keeps her from doing her job, thereby effecting mine and everyone else's???

[Tenbatsuzen]

Thanks professor. But if it keeps her from doing her job, thereby effecting mine and everyone else's???

Management will notice it. If they don't, then bring it up, but for right now, stay out of it.

[spoon]

Thanks professor. But if it keeps her from doing her job, thereby effecting mine and everyone else's???

Never mind you're right, send her a picture of your cock and tell her you're messing with the wrong guy. Getting involves seems to be your forte and has worked out so well in the past.

[Justice4all]

Never mind you're right, send her a picture of your cock and tell her you're messing with the wrong guy. Getting involves seems to be your forte and has worked out so well in the past.


wow you're so fucking funny! Call next comic standing and tell them the wrong guy won.

Seriously, I am not kidding. Her job is effecting mine and everyone else's to the point where we are doing her work. But just stand by and say nothing.
Ok.....

[Justice4all]

Management will notice it. If they don't, then bring it up, but for right now, stay out of it.

Catty would be getting involved. Let it figure itself out, stay the fuck out of it Crime Dog.



wow....if I can get you two to agree on something........I wonder what else I can do (DON'T ANSWER THAT SPOON)

Ok....consider me staying out of it. It just annoys the fuck out of me that someone who is so obvious in her inability to do work stay employed where there is about 5 people I know who would love to have her job and hours.

[PapaBear]

Next time she talks about her pills, just be open. Say, "I don't really give a fuck what kind of pills you do, but I'm getting tired of doing your job." If you aren't willing to do that, then stay out of it, and let her spiral out of control on her own (if she's really bad enough to eventually crash, that is).

[Justice4all]

sorry, i didnt notice that this was in the forum. I apologize and for some reason it wont let me edit

No worries Snoogs. It was actually funny what you wrote.

[TripleSkeet]

Seriously, I am not kidding. Her job is effecting mine and everyone else's to the point where we are doing her work. But just stand by and say nothing.
Ok.....

What exactly is your job? I mean it sounds like she could be working the front desk of anywhere from a country club to a Dave and Busters. I mean, if thats the case youre not exactly curing cancer. Stay out of it and let the dumb bitch kill herself. Eventually shell be gone anyway.

[Gutter]

don't be so concerned about if your bosses know what SHE is or isn't doing......but make an effort to make sure that they know what YOU are doing. eventually they will figure out that you're doing her job. Figure out ways to mention it passively......"oh, hey, i took care of that issue we had with blah blah blah......" eventually they'll start saying, "wait, isn't that pill heads job?" and you can be all, "yea it is, but she wasn't around to fix it, so i just got it done". it can't come back on you because you didn't rat her out for anything which would cause major drama and b.s., and it also allows your bosses to reach the conclusion themselves that she's useless. If they fire her, they've got to think it was all their idea. if you go running to the bosses about her not doing her part and slacking off, 9 times out of 10 when that happens in any workplace, management looks at both parties under the microscope.

[Gutter]

also, don't even think about mentioning ANYTHING about her popping pills while shes at work or being under the influence of any substance......that is a MAJOR MAJOR legal issue that IMMEDIATELY forces your bosses to begin a course of action that basically opens all the flood gates......if you've got an HR dept where ever it is you work, they've got to get involved, the bosses need information from you to cover their asses from being sued, she get removed from her position effective immediately, Police may be involved because as you said she's not on a perscription......basically its a giant shit storm that you have no idea the scope of and all you did was mention to a boss that she's poppin pills on the clock. its a big big mess and a big fuckin headache you don't need.

[Sinestro]

If you got a suggestion box at your work, write an anonymous letter and put it in there.

Are the bosses keeping this lady for her looks? Then you won't win until she messes up their profit margins.

[JPMNICK]

she is not a nurse or doctor, let it go. she is slowing down the entire office, not just you so it is equal suffering. they will eventually figure it out

[Contra]

Even though you may think saying something is the right thing to do it may not work out. Actions like that tend to backfire and blow up in your face. "office politics" can be a bitch. The safest option is to let the higher ups take notice.

[IamFogHat]

If she's not effecting your job then no, if she is then yes.

[furie]

i say let the supervisor do his job. it's not for you to worry over her work or life

[DJEvelEd]

Do her work and make yourself shine in front of the bosses. Use her as just another rung on your stepladder to success.

[newport king]

this girl has got to be ridiculously hot. don't do her work and hang her out to dry, but don't narc on her.

[Justice4all]

What exactly is your job? I mean it sounds like she could be working the front desk of anywhere from a country club to a Dave and Busters. I mean, if thats the case youre not exactly curing cancer. Stay out of it and let the dumb bitch kill herself. Eventually shell be gone anyway.

I work in a Members only purchasing club, so the first person our members see when they come in the door is her (when she isn't away from her desk on the phone or smoking). Also the guests who wish to become members see her when they come in for their appointments.

She mentioned how she crashed the second she got home last night, I told her "It was most likely due to the two percs you took" and she didn't even REMEMBER taking them at the desk until I reminded her of the moment.

[Justice4all]

also, don't even think about mentioning ANYTHING about her popping pills while shes at work or being under the influence of any substance......that is a MAJOR MAJOR legal issue that IMMEDIATELY forces your bosses to begin a course of action that basically opens all the flood gates......if you've got an HR dept where ever it is you work, they've got to get involved, the bosses need information from you to cover their asses from being sued, she get removed from her position effective immediately, Police may be involved because as you said she's not on a perscription......basically its a giant shit storm that you have no idea the scope of and all you did was mention to a boss that she's poppin pills on the clock. its a big big mess and a big fuckin headache you don't need.

No HR department at our club. It's a franchise. And it did cross my mind to mention the pills but it was for a split second, then the whole legal thing came into my head so yea, I choose to not say anything.

[TripleSkeet]

I work in a Members only purchasing club, so the first person our members see when they come in the door is her (when she isn't away from her desk on the phone or smoking). Also the guests who wish to become members see her when they come in for their appointments.

She mentioned how she crashed the second she got home last night, I told her "It was most likely due to the two percs you took" and she didn't even REMEMBER taking them at the desk until I reminded her of the moment.

Ok, so if these guests dont become members or dont like the way she does her job, do their complaints in any way get you in trouble? If the answer is no then you should definitely stay out of it. You never want to be the guy that people look at as the one thatll rat to the bosses and get you fired if you arent doing everything the right way. NOBODY likes that guy.

[Justice4all]

If you got a suggestion box at your work, write an anonymous letter and put it in there.

Are the bosses keeping this lady for her looks? Then you won't win until she messes up their profit margins.


That's the funny part, she isn't even the least bit hot. Cute maybe. The problem is my boss only responds to kiss-asses. And this girl has been kissing my bosses ass for years. And my boss is very passive-aggressive when it comes to dealing with things like this. My boss is a woman by the way.

Now today she had to do the work she has always had to do but is complaining about the workload. I felt like saying to her "awww what a shame, how dare they actually expect you to do your JOB"

I'm not going to say anything, and if she keeps asking for help in doing her job I will eventually say NO to her but keep doing MY job. I don't work in a typical office environment, so it's difficult to explain how it works there.

[Justice4all]

Ok, so if these guests dont become members or dont like the way she does her job, do their complaints in any way get you in trouble? If the answer is no then you should definitely stay out of it. You never want to be the guy that people look at as the one thatll rat to the bosses and get you fired if you arent doing everything the right way. NOBODY likes that guy.

No she had nothing to do with the guests-become-members process MOST of the time. She only does that when directors (like me) are outnumbered by the guests.
But she greets them as SOON as they walk in the door. And there have been many a time when we got ready for the guests and she was there with a pissy look on her face because she couldn't leave her personal drama at the door and kept on going on and on about it.

Most of the people who are in my department (for lack of a better way to put it) all say the same thing...she craves attention. Good or bad.

[sailor]

I work in a Members only purchasing club

the jackets?

[jennysmurf]

the jackets?

Ha!:laugh:

[Philly Franko]

I love them members only jackets...Say nothing,just do Your Job...

[PapaBear]

the jackets?

I love them members only jackets...Say nothing,just do Your Job...
I guess I might as well bring THIS (http://www.ronfez.net/forums/showthread.php?p=1248976#post1248976) up again...

[NickyL0885]

To quote the great Cornel West, "The only way to cure Addiction is with Courage, Love and Conviction!"

[Philly Franko]

To quote the great Cornel West, "The only way to cure Addiction is with Courage, Love and Conviction!"

OR according to Mansers have a Hot chick in Leather Whip you with a Whip until your Addiction is gone ! This was on Spike TV (can't make sheet up that good):drunk:

[KingModem]

If you ignore the addiction problem, there are usually dozens of people at everyone's jobs that seem to complicate your job. Eventually, as true addicts do, she will take two percs at the wrong time, and do something disastrously stupid and it will cost her the job. In my opinion, as long as that stupid deed will not harm anyone but herself, i think you need to let her set her own demise...which wont be long as you described.

Good luck budday, hang in there.

[TripleSkeet]

Most of the people who are in my department (for lack of a better way to put it) all say the same thing...she craves attention. Good or bad.

While I dont doubt that at all, if you go to your bosses and get this girl fired dont be surprised if instead of pats on the back you find your other co-workers show alot less trust around you.

[angrymissy]

None of your business. Don't rat to HR.

[Crispy123]

None of your business. Don't rat to HR.

This.

[Justice4all]

Nope....not going to say anything. But I'll keep everyone posted as to how things turn out.

[spoon]

I can't wait until you post here how you felt sorry for the girl, banged her and fed her pills anally for more effect.

[JPMNICK]

maybe she crashed on the parkway 5 years ago and these are for pain

[Justice4all]

I can't wait until you post here how you felt sorry for the girl, banged her and fed her pills anally for more effect.

Ummm...does your girl know you post these things? I think you might need to talk to a professional about these fantasies you have.

And I wouldn't bang her if my fucking life depended on it.

[Justice4all]

maybe she crashed on the parkway 5 years ago and these are for pain

Nope. These are just taken recreationally. She admitted these are her cousins' and not prescribed by a doctor.

[spoon]

Ummm...does your girl know you post these things? I think you might need to talk to a professional about these fantasies you have.

And I wouldn't bang her if my fucking life depended on it.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Not only does my "girl" know I post these things, I just hired her to proof my work so I don't hurt your delicate southern sensibilities. I do recall, Justice has got the vapors.

[Jayw]

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Not only does my "girl" know I post these things, I just hired her to proof my work so I don't hurt your delicate southern sensibilities. I do recall, Justice has got the vapors.

HAH!

It took me a second to figure it out. But posts like this make me not so ashamed I somehow have your dbag tag in my modqoute.

[Contra]

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Not only does my "girl" know I post these things, I just hired her to proof my work so I don't hurt your delicate southern sensibilities. I do recall, Justice has got the vapors.

Ok this was pretty good

[Sinestro]

Is she anything like that coke sniffing brunette that you all talked about in the last poker thread? a long long time ago.

[Contra]

Is she anything like that coke sniffing brunette that you all talked about in the last poker thread? a long long time ago.

Link it bitch

[Justice4all]

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Not only does my "girl" know I post these things, I just hired her to proof my work so I don't hurt your delicate southern sensibilities. I do recall, Justice has got the vapors.


I tell a joke, YOU get serious about it and I'm the one who's sensitive...right.
Sometimes I wonder if you think "trying to come across as a dick= funny" works all the time.

I'm thinking not.


Vapors?

[Justice4all]

Is she anything like that coke sniffing brunette that you all talked about in the last poker thread? a long long time ago.

Oh HELL no. This isn't her. This is a co-worker. The chick you're thinking of was someone I knew from mutual friends. I have not heard from her or her Mr. Clean looking boyfriend since that party...or right around then.


Update: Pill Popper did it again...while at the desk she pulls out her coin purse and says : "Oh HERE'S my candy!" And she pulls out her percs...and says"I call them my candy because they're so yummy"

I asked her if she takes them because she was in a car accident or injured herself and she said "nope...just like the buzz"

I rolled my eyes and walked away

[Justice4all]

Link it bitch

Oh shit man it will take a while to find THAT link...that poker party was several years ago. At least 3 or 4

[Jayw]

Update: Pill Popper did it again...while at the desk she pulls out her coin purse and says : "Oh HERE'S my candy!" And she pulls out her percs...and says"I call them my candy because they're so yummy"

I asked her if she takes them because she was in a car accident or injured herself and she said "nope...just like the buzz"

I rolled my eyes and walked away

The way that she flaunts it is just strange. Maybe she thinks if she talks about it then it is not such a bad thing and she isn't doing anything wrong. Maybe she is seeking approval from you or some sort. And since you seem to approve she thinks its alright. Just what you need is her talking about them and taking them and a higher up sees you both.

If your going to take pills at work at least do it privately. Unless you are doing them with the person I don't see what possible positive comes from just telling someone about using. Seems arrogant and selfish. What a dumb bitch.

[JPMNICK]

The way that she flaunts it is just strange. Maybe she thinks if she talks about it then it is not such a bad thing and she isn't doing anything wrong. Maybe she is seeking approval from you or some sort. And since you seem to approve she thinks its alright. Just what you need is her talking about them and taking them and a higher up sees you both.

If your going to take pills at work at least do it privately. Unless you are doing them with the person I don't see what possible positive comes from just telling someone about using. Seems arrogant and selfish. What a dumb bitch.

i agree, it is very odd to promote taking pills at work, even if they were prescribed. she sounds like a nut. not only would i not go to HR, I would not even associate with her or engage her in a conversation. you never know what type of accusations will come out of her down the road.

[spoon]

I tell a joke, YOU get serious about it and I'm the one who's sensitive...right.
Sometimes I wonder if you think "trying to come across as a dick= funny" works all the time.

I'm thinking not.


Vapors?


Wow, way to say exactly what you yourself just did. It was the dukes, it was the dukes.

[dereckfishboy]

My personal opinion, as a lifelong addict bouncing from one drug to another, is that any attention you pay to it will feed the addiction. I'd just move on with your life. She's (once again, in my opinion) trying to sell the idea that she's addicted to pills so that everyone knows how much pain she is in. She's obviously going through a hard time and I'd wager she just doesn't feel like anyone appreciates or sympathizes with that enough so she's making her suffering more immediate and noticeable.

[Justice4all]

The way that she flaunts it is just strange. Maybe she thinks if she talks about it then it is not such a bad thing and she isn't doing anything wrong. Maybe she is seeking approval from you or some sort. And since you seem to approve she thinks its alright. Just what you need is her talking about them and taking them and a higher up sees you both.

If your going to take pills at work at least do it privately. Unless you are doing them with the person I don't see what possible positive comes from just telling someone about using. Seems arrogant and selfish. What a dumb bitch.

Pretty much nailed it right there.

[Justice4all]

My personal opinion, as a lifelong addict bouncing from one drug to another, is that any attention you pay to it will feed the addiction. I'd just move on with your life. She's (once again, in my opinion) trying to sell the idea that she's addicted to pills so that everyone knows how much pain she is in. She's obviously going through a hard time and I'd wager she just doesn't feel like anyone appreciates or sympathizes with that enough so she's making her suffering more immediate and noticeable.

I agree. Which is why I rolled my eyes and walked away instead of just standing there like I agreed with what she was doing.

She had her daughter with her about an hour later (her kid came into the club).
I really think this chick needs serious help.

[dereckfishboy]

I agree. Which is why I rolled my eyes and walked away instead of just standing there like I agreed with what she was doing.

She had her daughter with her about an hour later (her kid came into the club).
I really think this chick needs serious help.

I hear ya there. Saddest part of this kind of shit. It's one thing to move on with your life when someone is just fucking up theirs. It's definitely a lot harder when the collateral damage is visible.

[Justice4all]

I hear ya there. Saddest part of this kind of shit. It's one thing to move on with your life when someone is just fucking up theirs. It's definitely a lot harder when the collateral damage is visible.

Could not agree more. I agree with everyone here who said 'stay out of it and don't say anything' but when I see someone popping pills and then see their kid walking around holding their hands I wonder the kind of future this kid will have.

[TripleSkeet]

Could not agree more. I agree with everyone here who said 'stay out of it and don't say anything' but when I see someone popping pills and then see their kid walking around holding their hands I wonder the kind of future this kid will have.

Probably a fucked up one. But ratting them out and getting them fired wont help. All you can do is eventually hope the bitch wakes up in time to not ruin her kids life.

[Justice4all]

Probably a fucked up one. But ratting them out and getting them fired wont help. All you can do is eventually hope the bitch wakes up in time to not ruin her kids life.

Yea...but the odds on that fact that she'll wake up and see how selfish and fucked up she really is would be.........?

[TripleSkeet]

Yea...but the odds on that fact that she'll wake up and see how selfish and fucked up she really is would be.........?

Going by experience Id say 50/50. The other half saying she chokes to death on her own vomit in her sleep.

[Justice4all]

Going by experience Id say 50/50. The other half saying she chokes to death on her own vomit in her sleep.

If she were a heroin addict maybe but from percs?

[TripleSkeet]

If she were a heroin addict maybe but from percs?

Ive seen 3 people die from pills that way. Usually in conjunction with drinking. What happens is they pass out, throw up in their sleep, but the pills have them so unconcious they cant wake up and wind up asphyxiating.

[Tenbatsuzen]

The thing is, you don't know if she's actually taking percs. She could be lying to get attention.

[Justice4all]

The thing is, you don't know if she's actually taking percs. She could be lying to get attention.


That's a good point BUT she actually pulled up a photo on google of a percoset pill and compared it to the one in her hand and it matched up. That's how stupid she is.
Had she not done that I would have thought the same thing you did.

[disneyspy]

i bet it was a tylenol

[sailor]

i bet it was a tylenol

Maybe she's allergic to the dog?

[Dell]

Maybe she's allergic to the dog?

she just needs a couple thousand a month for daycare...

[spoon]

Could not agree more. I agree with everyone here who said 'stay out of it and don't say anything' but when I see someone popping pills and then see their kid walking around holding their hands I wonder the kind of future this kid will have.

percway jesus is born!

[Justice4all]

percway jesus is born!

Ok that was pretty clever. This is why I say you're pretty smart.

And it's almost P.J. again....but not quite there. I would say he was born (resurrected if you will) if I DID say something to someone. But I'm not. This time I am just going to sit back and watch.

[Zorro]

Ive seen 3 people die from pills that way. Usually in conjunction with drinking. What happens is they pass out, throw up in their sleep, but the pills have them so unconcious they cant wake up and wind up asphyxiating.

I saw that on Breaking Bad.

[Jayw]

I saw that on Breaking Bad.

That scene was deeeeeeep.

[Tenbatsuzen]

That's a good point BUT she actually pulled up a photo on google of a percoset pill and compared it to the one in her hand and it matched up. That's how stupid she is.
Had she not done that I would have thought the same thing you did.

Did she TELL you the image was a perc or was there information on the page you saw it on that it was a perc?

Because it sounds to me she's trying to lie or some sort of weird behavior to get attention.

[CaptainBlowhole]

I wouldnt get involved Tom, these things self destruct on their own.

[jonyrotn]

Unless you're her probation officer or she's a close friend I say, stand fast..
These situations tend to either unfold neatly on their own or explode like that Japanese whale..The latter being the one we're shooting for in this scenario..
You know..cuz it's much funnier..

[JPMNICK]

this reeks of attention whore. who puts up a picture of a pill online to match up? at the same time, you need to not be standing at her desk like an audience when she does this. I bet she pulls that bit with every guy in the place looking for attention

[spoon]

this reeks of attention whore. who puts up a picture of a pill online to match up? at the same time, you need to not be standing at her desk like an audience when she does this. I bet she pulls that bit with every guy in the place looking for attention

The problem is, and Tom still can't see this, he's the moth and fucked up situations you shouldn't get involved in is his porch light.

[Justice4all]

Did she TELL you the image was a perc or was there information on the page you saw it on that it was a perc?

Because it sounds to me she's trying to lie or some sort of weird behavior to get attention.


I stood right there with her as she held the pill in her hand and it matched up with the one on the screen when we typed in the info to Google.
So I saw it myself.

[Justice4all]

I wouldnt get involved Tom, these things self destruct on their own.

Nope. Not getting involved. Spending as little time conversing with this person as I can.

[Justice4all]

this reeks of attention whore. who puts up a picture of a pill online to match up? at the same time, you need to not be standing at her desk like an audience when she does this. I bet she pulls that bit with every guy in the place looking for attention


That's the problem. Part of my job requires me to greet any new guests that come into the club. So for part (thank god) of my day I have to be up there with her.

But yes she is a major attention whore. She's now BACK with her hubby. The one, only weeks ago, she couldn't stand and wanted him out. She just wanted to fuck my co-worker, guilt free.

Here's something interesting though. Her breath REEKS. I can stand about 4 feet away from her and still smell it. I wonder if any other addiction other than alcoholism can be a cause of that effect? The only other reason I would think it smells that bad is because of really bad dental hygiene.

[Justice4all]

The problem is, and Tom still can't see this, he's the moth and fucked up situations you shouldn't get involved in is his porch light.

Sorry professor...not this time.

[Gutter]

That's the problem. Part of my job requires me to greet any new guests that come into the club. So for part (thank god) of my day I have to be up there with her.

But yes she is a major attention whore. She's now BACK with her hubby. The one, only weeks ago, she couldn't stand and wanted him out. She just wanted to fuck my co-worker, guilt free.

Here's something interesting though. Her breath REEKS. I can stand about 4 feet away from her and still smell it. I wonder if any other addiction other than alcoholism can be a cause of that effect? The only other reason I would think it smells that bad is because of really bad dental hygiene.

maybe she has meth mouth?

[Jayw]

You don't have to have drug/alcohol problem to have bad breath. Just lazy, a pack of dentyne ice would solve that problem, if she remembered to take them. Put a perc or two in one of the gum slots and give it to her.

[Contra]

Did she TELL you the image was a perc or was there information on the page you saw it on that it was a perc?

Because it sounds to me she's trying to lie or some sort of weird behavior to get attention.

I agree this is a very strange thing to happen. Red flags all up in that

[JPMNICK]

That's the problem. Part of my job requires me to greet any new guests that come into the club. So for part (thank god) of my day I have to be up there with her.

But yes she is a major attention whore. She's now BACK with her hubby. The one, only weeks ago, she couldn't stand and wanted him out. She just wanted to fuck my co-worker, guilt free.

Here's something interesting though. Her breath REEKS. I can stand about 4 feet away from her and still smell it. I wonder if any other addiction other than alcoholism can be a cause of that effect? The only other reason I would think it smells that bad is because of really bad dental hygiene.

take a different route, go to management and just say she is not good at her job, and as someone in sales who brings in revenue, you don't think she is a good Representative to give potential clients a first impression. mention she looks/sounds unprofessional. Do not mention the pills

[Justice4all]

take a different route, go to management and just say she is not good at her job, and as someone in sales who brings in revenue, you don't think she is a good Representative to give potential clients a first impression. mention she looks/sounds unprofessional. Do not mention the pills

So now you're saying to tell someone instead of keeping quiet and minding my business???

[spoon]

So now you're saying to tell someone instead of keeping quiet and minding my business???

dammit Nick, all he's been waiting for was one person to say rat

[Justice4all]

dammit Nick, all he's been waiting for was one person to say rat

Trust me professor, I'm not saying shit to anyone. Let her do her own downfall. One person telling me to say something vs. the other 12-15 telling me to say nothing? Majority rules.

[dereckfishboy]

The only other reason I would think it smells that bad is because of really bad dental hygiene.

That's probably actually it. I used to work with a broad that I was convinced had to be a lush because her breath was always rancid, almost sickly sweet. I asked someone who knew her better than I did if she had a drinking problem and it turns out she had halitosis. I would have put down money that the bitch was throwing back a few before work, but nope. Just fucked-up choppers.

[spoon]

Trust me professor, I'm not saying shit to anyone. Let her do her own downfall. One person telling me to say something vs. the other 12-15 telling me to say nothing? Majority rules.

Good to see you've grown of late chlamydia.

[Justice4all]

That's probably actually it. I used to work with a broad that I was convinced had to be a lush because her breath was always rancid, almost sickly sweet. I asked someone who knew her better than I did if she had a drinking problem and it turns out she had halitosis. I would have put down money that the bitch was throwing back a few before work, but nope. Just fucked-up choppers.


Well considering this chicks other problem I could be 50/50 with halitosis vs. addiction.
Doesn't matter...either way her breath is like her work attitude...shit.

[JPMNICK]

So now you're saying to tell someone instead of keeping quiet and minding my business???

thinking of it from a work thing, if everyone hates her, and you think it impacts your sales numbers, tell them to dump her.

[spoon]

If everyone hates her and it's impacting sales she'll be gone soon without your help.

[Justice4all]

If everyone hates her and it's impacting sales she'll be gone soon without your help.

I'm hoping you're right. Time will tell. Some of the people, typically, act all buddy-buddy with her then, when she walks away, talks about her.
I am polite but don't go out of my way to help her with anything.

[Justice4all]

Good to see you've grown of late chlamydia.

Whatever.

[Justice4all]

Overheard her at the desk talking to her off-again on-again Hubby and the words Child Services and her kids were spoken about. I know it's about her. Just sat back and bit my tongue. As soon as I could get out of there I did.

[Tenbatsuzen]

Overheard her at the desk talking to her off-again on-again Hubby and the words Child Services and her kids were spoken about. I know it's about her. Just sat back and bit my tongue. As soon as I could get out of there I did.

What the fuck? Child Services has NOTHING to do with how she performs her job. You report that to HR and you WILL get in trouble. Forget you even heard that conversation.

[Gutter]

What the fuck? Child Services has NOTHING to do with how she performs her job. You report that to HR and you WILL get in trouble. Forget you even heard that conversation.

i think he just meant thats what he heard from her end of the conversation she was having with the hubby

[Tenbatsuzen]

i think he just meant thats what he heard from her end of the conversation she was having with the hubby

Still, it doesn't matter. This entire thread is seemingly filled with anecdotes about to build a case against the girl. Which is fine; but as the woman's job does not require her to work closely with children, anything that has to do with DYFS or Child Services UNLESS IT SPILLS OVER INTO HER ABILITY TO DO HER JOB has nothing to do with her current job duties.

If it's reported or talked about and gets back to her, she can immediately fight back with people trying to create a hostile work environment for her by either starting rumors or bringing up personal matters.

[Gutter]

Still, it doesn't matter. This entire thread is seemingly filled with anecdotes about to build a case against the girl. Which is fine; but as the woman's job does not require her to work closely with children, anything that has to do with DYFS or Child Services UNLESS IT SPILLS OVER INTO HER ABILITY TO DO HER JOB has nothing to do with her current job duties.

If it's reported or talked about and gets back to her, she can immediately fight back with people trying to create a hostile work environment for her by either starting rumors or bringing up personal matters.

true true.....everyone here is in agreement that justice should just keep his trap shut and let nature take its course. i just hope he listens.

[Contra]

So, thread over?

[mdr55]

No good without pics. The girl or the pills.

[Justice4all]

i think he just meant thats what he heard from her end of the conversation she was having with the hubby

yep. you got it

[Justice4all]

true true.....everyone here is in agreement that justice should just keep his trap shut and let nature take its course. i just hope he listens.

have been

[Justice4all]

So, thread over?

far from

[Justice4all]

Looks like I didn't have to say anything. It seems other people knew all about it all along. One of my other co-workers 'outed' the drama queen on Facebook.

Now to just sit back and watch the fireworks happen.

[Jayw]

Good things come to those who wait.

Your cliche of the day folks.

[TripleSkeet]

Good things come to those who wait.

Your cliche of the day folks.

But only whats left by those that hustle. FACE!

[TripleSkeet]

Looks like I didn't have to say anything. It seems other people knew all about it all along. One of my other co-workers 'outed' the drama queen on Facebook.

Now to just sit back and watch the fireworks happen.

I hope you remember that that woman is a rat for any future work discretions you may encounter.

[weekapaugjz]

I hope you remember that that woman is a rat for any future work discretions you may encounter.

exactly.

[jennysmurf]

I hope you remember that that woman is a rat for any future work discretions you may encounter.

Ooooo...good point.

[Misteriosa]

Looks like I didn't have to say anything. It seems other people knew all about it all along. One of my other co-workers 'outed' the drama queen on Facebook.Now to just sit back and watch the fireworks happen.

*caution: off topic post*

shit like this is why i hate facebook. im glad that maybe this woman's issues may be addressed, but i feel that a social networking site isnt the place to air dirty laundry.

*end of off topic post*

that woman is a snitch.

http://www.theblogmocracy.com/wp-content/uploads/Snitch.jpg

[CaptainBlowhole]

http://f00.inventorspot.com/images/1559606_340_1116081430036-spam.jpg

[Snacks]

spam

Could you have found an uglier disaster to be the "model" for your site?

[spe5150]

Finally, MorananyFox sums up the very essence of what this discussion was all about from the start.

Большое спасибо, comrade!

[Justice4all]

I hope you remember that that woman is a rat for any future work discretions you may encounter.

It was actually done by a GUY. But yea, I wouldn't give too much info to this guy to use against me. But it was more of a I-can't-take-this-bitch-anymore kind of rant. And he still didn't go to the bosses with this...he just did a public rant on FB

[Justice4all]

*caution: off topic post*

shit like this is why i hate facebook. im glad that maybe this woman's issues may be addressed, but i feel that a social networking site isnt the place to air dirty laundry.

*end of off topic post*

that woman is a snitch.

http://www.theblogmocracy.com/wp-content/uploads/Snitch.jpg


Well nobody knew it was a guy who did it. And he was blowing off HIS steam about this girl. (I hesitate to call any 26 year old who acts the way she does a woman), but, as I said below, the bosses STILL don't know. But overall the sad fact is that the pill-popper still doesn't see her role in all of this and thinks she is fine the way she is.

We still haven't seen the end of all this. I wonder if she will ever have a drug test done to her.

[keithy_19]

The spammers kind of work here...