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all through my life all I keep having is this awfull luck with woman. (no offence to anyone on the board that is) Its either they arent into a realtionship, or they have "baggage" Met this one girl a few weeks ago. I told her dead up that Im looking for a serious realtionship. She was all for it. Got to know her a little more and she tells me her parents are going through a rought time yada yada yada. So no bog deal we keep hanging out. Last week she doesnt call me for a week straight despite me calling her every 2 days and leaving messages. So she left me a voice message last night just telling me to call her. Non the less my land phone want working and I was at my beach house where I had really bad reception and really couldnt hear her. She proceeds to tell me that even though shes the nicest and sweetest guy shes ever met she's not ready for a realtionship. The truth is I wasnt mad when she said it. Only cause it takes me a day for the feeling to set in. At this point Im so tired of trying to pick up woman. Not to say Im turning gay but I think im done for a while. Ill look and stare at the beautifull woman but at this point I have NO confidece in myself for a long time
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mdr55
07-27-2003, 07:11 PM
She proceeds to tell me that even though shes the nicest and sweetest guy shes ever met she's not ready for a realtionship.
Dude...."it's you, not me". But a rejection none the less.
So if you were a Jerk, would she be ready for a relationship, just to see if it might work?
Keep looking. You'll eventually find that Special girl in your life.......but then again, Nice guys finish last.
Good luck.
stickyfingers
07-27-2003, 10:51 PM
to start off telling someone that you are looking for a long term relationship may not be the best approach...see, if you want something to be long term its gonna take, well, time
when I first met my girlfriend, i had pretty much come to terms that I didn't want a long term-relationship b/c of previous failed ones....also I didn't know that 2 years later(happened today) I would overhear her parents talking about how big of a wedding they are gonna throw us if/when we decide to take it to that level
sort of like when you are trying to find something and you can't and then like 2hours later when you are doing something else you end up finding what you were originally looking for...that kinda thing
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FUNKMAN
07-28-2003, 06:07 AM
i thought you were gonna say that everytime you have anal the girl is 'packin' sort-of-speak...
anyway, you'll be fine. you're a young, lean, firm, good looking guy with a great smile(no i'm not gay, it's just what i saw at the softball game)
I'm not quite convinced that you are looking for that "serious relationship" although you say you are. i think you want a girl that will fuck your brains out.
but then again I've been wrong before,,,,twice
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high fly
07-28-2003, 10:43 AM
"...Sometimes you're the windshield,
Sometimes you're the bug.
Sometimes it all comes together
Sometimes you're just a fool in love.
Sometimes you're a Louisville Slugger
Sometimes you're the ball.
Sometimes it all comes together
Sometimes you're gonna lose it all..."
----Emmylou Harris (sorry, I can't remember the name of the song)
You'll be fine, bro'.
Shake it off! [slaps butt] Now get back in there!
" and they ask me why I drink"
LatinSpiceXoX
08-03-2003, 09:18 AM
aww sweetie.. I'm sorry 'bout all that's been going on with you.
The only advise I can give you is to stop LOOKING for it.
Just let it happen on it's own.
When you least expect it, one girl will come to you outta left field and it will slowly develop into a sweet friendly thing... the "thing" you've been wanting for a while.
Just be patient darling.. you're young, in the meantime have your fun with "the boyz" and go out, party and worry about fulfilling your summer needs (aka beaches, parties, bars, amusement parks)
:p
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Doogie
08-03-2003, 10:00 AM
Casey Stengel once said: "You make your own luck in life. Some people have bad luck all their lives"
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high fly
08-04-2003, 11:20 AM
Listen to Latin Spice.
You probably have more opportunities than you think.
Get around them, hell, they're everywhere, talk talk talk and don't let the conversation Dr0p. When you meet a new one, get her number and be sure to call. Even if she's taken or not that interested, she's gonna have friends.
Play the percentages- the more you meet and are around, the more chances you have for finding the one you want.
You don't have to push things toward a relationship, it'll just evolve that way.
If you get uptight about it and dwell on it too much, you'll give off a sort of air of desperation that chix pick up on.
You'll be fine.
" and they ask me why I drink"
ShelleBink
08-06-2003, 04:35 PM
Just let it happen on it's own.
once i stopped trying to find someone, he found me...
i couldn't be happier... so, let HER find YOU!! :)
Katylina
08-11-2003, 03:49 PM
i think you want a girl that will fuck your brains out.
::cough cough:: dreams can come true...
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::cough cough:: dreams can come true...
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FUNKMAN
08-11-2003, 03:57 PM
HEY! What's going on with all the coughing... Sounds like some people got a tickle in their throat?
HMMMMM!
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Katylina
08-11-2003, 04:13 PM
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Damn kids-- get me sick every time!
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This weather is fucking me up Im getting sick from it
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Katylina
08-11-2003, 04:43 PM
coughcoughitsyouandmeandyourbigslowfriendcoughcoug hcough
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