bad day getting worse

[BooBooKittyFuck]

i just get back from vacation and get back to work. why does everyone need to have an attitude? on top of it all my husband own's a business and i do the paperwork. i am thinking everything is okay and i can relax after 9 hours of work then coming home, cleaning my apartment and cooking and my in-laws drop by. my father in law looks over my paperwork and tells me it is all wrong then procedes to show me how to do it right. (this i appreciate in a way because i want it right) but he wants me to do it tonight and its 3 months worth of paperwork. i convince him that it can wait to the weekend because it is getting late and i have to go to work tomorrow.

i am so overwhelmed with this paperwork on top of trying to be patient with the b.s. i deal with at work. aaaaaaaaaggggggggggghhhhhhhhh!!

the only reason why i am still working there is because i have benifits.

so now i have considered 2 options..
1) try to get it all caught up this weekend and wait until we are better off to quit my job. keeping my benifits and working on starting a family

2) quit now and devote all my time to hubby's business and getting the apt. and dinners etc fixed up. but i will no longer have benifits and my plans of having a baby within the next year is down the tubes.

i am so frusterated and confused, any words of advise?






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[furie]

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[BooBooKittyFuck]

thanx furie for your response, i am just on a rant. why do inlaws get under your skin so easily?

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[sr71blackbird]

Youll need the benefits if you decide to have kids, unless the business can afford to pay for insurance. Women where I work (you know the company) all work there just for the benefits, so I think its better to try and work on getting his paperwork dont right and put up with it just for the sake of the benefits.
Sometimes the inlaws advice can help, so dont discount it entirely. But take it with a grain of salt
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[FUNKMAN]

hot bath and a glass of wine

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[BooBooKittyFuck]

hot bath and bottle of whiskey sounds better, thnx for the advise.

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[FUNKMAN]

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[mdr55]

Keeping the benefits is the most important thing. So I guess you have to put up with the job. Unless you find another one with similar benefits.

[PanterA]

I say 3

3) Give everyone the finger, empty the bank account and make a run to AC! Roll the dice and either become rich, or more likely lose it all and become a bum on the streets.

Look at it this way, you win, you wont have to do the paper work.

You lose you wont have to do the paper work.

it's a win win situation!

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[reeshy]

Shit...that reminds me when I first got married.....my wife wanted kids right away...I only had a few years on the PD.....I worked my ass off with overtime and court appearences....When I had enough money in the bank.....she says.....why don't we wait to have kids....so I banged her and got her pregnant.....shut up!!!!!!!!!!!

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[JohnnyCash]

I say go with option 1. Today will pass. Maybe tomorrow will be better.

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[keithy_19]

so I banged her and got her pregnant.....shut up!!!!!!!!!!!


You sir, are my hero.

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[ADF]

Why not hire somebody to do the books?

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[BooBooKittyFuck]

it seems to be a little better now that the in laws are leaving me alone. the paperwork is almost done but i would love to have someone come in and check things over. but money is tight right now with the business and i think i will be all caught up this weekend.


thank you all for your advise and help.

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