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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 02:03 PM

There might be a thread already about this subject, and if there is, lock it up.

What's a good first date? Like, what would you reccomend for a guy around my age, no license, limited cash, to do for a first date.

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furie

12-08-2004, 02:13 PM

well, don't just hang out at yours or her house, that's not a date.

See a movie and depending on cash, buy her dinner.
second date should be the fun date. carnival or festival if there's one in town. an arcade (not the dark ones with friendless pale geeks) but something with say a go-kart track you can ride together, something like that. Horeseback riding to a good date idea too, cheap, probable unique, and takes a while.

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Iamnotatool

12-08-2004, 02:16 PM

Dinner and a movie??? Yaaaawn....yeah, she's never done that before.

KeithyboDatingnow, try something you think you both might like, but that she might not thinking of doing herself. Minigolf, arcade, rollerskating, depending on your age. Be creative, dont bring her a rose, bring her a stuffed animal.

Be a guy she'll remember, one way or another.

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angie101

12-08-2004, 02:17 PM

meet at the movies but make sure that ur there first..dont keep ladies waitin ...take her to a movie she will want to see on first date...

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whiteboy1457

12-08-2004, 02:22 PM

take her to a strip club and make her get on the pole

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furie

12-08-2004, 02:42 PM

Dinner and a movie??? Yaaaawn....yeah, she's never done that before.

considering these are kids, then it's a good chance not.

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mikeyboy

12-08-2004, 02:45 PM

Dinner and a movie??? Yaaaawn....yeah, she's never done that before.

considering these are kids, then it's a good chance not.

Did Keithy mention that the girl is 38?

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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 02:46 PM

Ok...Dinner and a movie sounds good. I remember someone saying that that's not good because it takes no personality. It's dark and you don't talk and shit. I personally think that is a good date idea.

The thing is, the closest movie theatre is a town over, and where doyou go to eat?

Did Keithy mention that the girl is 38?

Isn't that against the law? I mean, hell, if she's hot, I'd do it. So manly I am.

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Iamnotatool

12-08-2004, 03:32 PM

Take her to an Applebees or something.

I think Movie dates before the 3rd or 4th date suck.

If I wanted to sit in the dark with her and not talk, I'da thrown her in the closet/trunk.

You're trying to get to know this skeezer, take her somewhere you can get to know her.

By date 3 or 4, your ready for the popcorn trick.

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Jennitalia

12-08-2004, 03:44 PM

i agree with the dinner and a movie thing being lame.

how about dinner and ice skating?

and, at the end of the date, pull out your lil fellow and ask her, "now what are we going to do about this?"

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mikeyboy

12-08-2004, 03:44 PM

By date 3 or 4, your ready for the popcorn trick.

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JPMNICK

12-08-2004, 03:59 PM

keith are you going to the movie theather in Roselle Park?

If you want, take her to millburn. its not TO far of a drive from you, and they have a really nice center of town (minus the thugs from R.P.). While their, you can take her to eat any many fine restaurants such as Samari Sushi (if she likes that) for Italian try GianMarco trattoria or for even a little less casual try LaStrada. All good places to eat.

If you stay local, why not eat at one of the restuarsnts in kenilworth, their are like a million.

Also maybe go to westfield for a movie and grab something to eat over there.

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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 04:11 PM

If you stay local, why not eat at one of the restuarsnts in kenilworth, their are like a million.

And I don't find them to be that good.

Also maybe go to westfield for a movie and grab something to eat over there.

That's actually a good idea. We could eat at Panera or something. You sir, are smart.

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JPMNICK

12-08-2004, 04:33 PM

yea panera is a good idea.

there is also the brick oven there which is good, but maybe to expensive,

roberto's in kenilworth it very good.

so is that french place and LaGriglia

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TheGameHHH

12-08-2004, 04:51 PM

Panera is amazing, if you took me there, i'd so put out on our first date.

Don't take her to Applebee's unless you want her to vomit from how horrible the food is.

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 05:38 PM

i had a terrible first date. somebody through a rock through the window and hit my date in the breast...

broke three of my fingers

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Katylina

12-08-2004, 05:54 PM

Why don't you take her pumpkin picking... oh wait.

Whatever you do, don't bring her to a place that serves potentially dangerous messy meals.

Can you go to a pool hall or something?

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12-08-2004, 05:55 PM

If you're in Westfield, stop by the Williams-Sonoma and say hi.

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 06:01 PM

The rock or the gal?

the rock... but she got me later that night

i went to kiss her good night but she closed her legs and broke my glasses...

it was a tough night for sure...

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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 06:13 PM

FunkMan, I love you to no end. And I think you should know that.

A poolhall is a good idea.

But, what if I let her decide?

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 06:21 PM

as boring as it sounds to some people just go to a movie of her choice and stop by a diner afterwards for a bowl of jello or pudding...

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kevcala

12-08-2004, 06:23 PM

EDIT:But, what if I let her decide?Letting her decide is cool, but try to have a back up plan. It gets real awkward real fast if you guys have no ideas and you're just standing around staring at your shoes.

I think ice-skating is cool. Personally I like places like flea markets, always tons of things to make fun of and just the general tendancy to act silly. I'm not saying take her to the flea market, just trying to think of fun places where you can talk to each other and joke around about stuff.

Movies are awkard until you know where you can put your hands.

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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 06:24 PM

I don't know. Doesn't seem to boring for a first date.

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mikeyboy

12-08-2004, 06:29 PM

But, what if I let her decide?

That can work, just make sure that you present her with options and ask her which one she likes. If you just ask her what she wants to do, it could come off as kind of weak.

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 06:36 PM

Movies are awkard until you know where you can put your hands

could be... just be cool and be a gentleman. it's an intimate setting where you can have some physical contact such as arms resting against each other or holding hands. If she is comfortable she may lean her head on your shoulder. Play it cool and make sure your breath is clean.

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WNEWstinks

12-08-2004, 06:53 PM

I had the exact same question here when I was your age. Infact if you go bact to 04-04-02 in the old threads you can read it. (can someone please link it).

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 06:54 PM

somebody through a rock through the window

somebody cut this guy off
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keithy_19

12-08-2004, 07:15 PM

Play it cool and make sure your breath is clean.

I chew gum like it's going out of style.

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FUNKMAN

12-08-2004, 07:20 PM

I chew gum like it's going out of style.

no gum... mints and remember to share

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Bulldogcakes

12-09-2004, 04:25 AM

But, what if I let her decide?

Bad idea. She wants YOU to decide, so she can make fun of whatever you chose.
What do you like to do?
Besides spanking your monkey, what else?
Just do the things you really like, and invite her to come along.
If she's into it too, true love.
PS Use a little discretion. Don't make the 1st date a visit to your house to look at ratemypoo.com
Wait till the second date for that.

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Jack_Doff

12-09-2004, 06:29 AM

Definitely don't let her pick. If you don't have a plan for the first date, or at least a few options, she'll think you are a pussy. Then you'll get none of her's. The movie isn't necessarily a bad idea, because after it's done, if you have nothing else to talk about, you can talk about the movie.

keithy_19

12-09-2004, 03:56 PM

Hmm...I'm leaning towards the movie thing.

EDIT:But we're gunna go t a pool hall instead. HUZZAH!

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JPMNICK

12-09-2004, 05:17 PM

a pool hall may not be the best idea due to wait times. sometimes the lines are really long. which pool hall are yuo going to go to?

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Iamnotatool

12-09-2004, 05:20 PM

When I first saw this thread, Keithy's post read "Turns out I'm not gonna need these ideas anyway" as if the chick shot him down. Now he gets the girl? What gives? She finally came to her sences I guess.

Atta girl KeithyBoBangsalot.

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12-09-2004, 05:37 PM

keithy_19

12-09-2004, 06:10 PM

When I first saw this thread, Keithy's post read "Turns out I'm not gonna need these ideas anyway" as if the chick shot him down. Now he gets the girl? What gives? She finally came to her sences I guess.

Had two girls in my head. One shot me down, the other(better body, both nice girls) said yes. I've been turned down so much it doesn't phas me anymore. I just feel bad for a little bit and go to the enxt girl. But I had her in mind for awhile, I just never went for it because I was a pussy. Getting rejected by the other girl made me have a I don't give a fuck attitude, so I jsut went and id it. Nicey nice.

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Ryan Kulik

06-16-2009, 02:45 PM

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06-16-2009, 03:31 PM

JPMNICK

06-16-2009, 03:59 PM

I'm going out on a date tomorrow (well, not an official date, were meeting for coffee) and I'm willing to listen to any advice on what are some dos and don'ts for this kind of situation. She's a really cute girl.

don't tell her how cute she is more then 1 time, if that. make a lot of eye contact, comment and compliment on a part of her outfit that is an accessory, like jewelry or weird shoes. listen when she talks, don't interupt, don't talk about an ex (even if she does and the situation is perfect). don't keep mentioning how much fun you are having, don't ask her right away to hang out again and put her on the stop. do slip her a roofie and smash it in the bathroom

WampusCrandle

06-16-2009, 04:02 PM

i say don't murder her. For some reason, girls don't appreciate getting murdered.

JPMNICK

06-16-2009, 04:07 PM

i say don't murder her. For some reason, girls don't appreciate getting murdered.

you must get a lot of ass with smooth moves and talk like that

hammersavage

06-16-2009, 04:11 PM

if its not going well, ask to go to the bathroom and when you come back to the table, trip and fall into her tits.

its how my dad got my mother. she thought that meant she was pregnant.

SatCam

06-16-2009, 04:11 PM

i say don't murder her. For some reason, girls don't appreciate getting murdered.

well not on the first date at the very least

such a turn off, you know?

Ryan Kulik

06-16-2009, 04:24 PM

If things go well, should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Is that too much for a first meeting? Some female input would be appreciated as well.

WampusCrandle

06-16-2009, 04:49 PM

well not on the first date at the very least

such a turn off, you know?

ha, i wouldn't know. When you leave a girl toothless, it's hard for them to tell me their turn on's and off's

If things go well, should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Is that too much for a first meeting?

i say offer your number. it could be seen that you are willing to give up apart of yourself to her, rather than demanding her to give part of herself to you. but, before any of that, you should ask her if she wants to meet again.

keithy_19

06-16-2009, 05:14 PM

Wow. I started this awhile ago.

Foster

06-16-2009, 05:23 PM

If things go well, should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Is that too much for a first meeting? Some female input would be appreciated as well.

offer your number even if things don't seem to go that well, exchanging phone numbers isn't a big deal any more, since most people just use cells.

Foster

06-16-2009, 05:24 PM

Wow. I started this awhile ago.

did it help at all?

biggirl

06-16-2009, 07:28 PM

I'm going out on a date tomorrow (well, not an official date, were meeting for coffee) and I'm willing to listen to any advice on what are some dos and don'ts for this kind of situation. She's a really cute girl.

If things go well, should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Is that too much for a first meeting? Some female input would be appreciated as well.

I hope it turns out good. Since I am a girl...I'll just let you know...don't brag, it is a real turn off. Just be honest and nice. Also, make sure you actually talk...I think going out for coffee would be an extremely hard first date, opposed to a movie where you don't have to talk. There could be a lot of awkward silences. I hope all goes well. And do ask for her number.

Gosh, I miss dating...all that newness is a real high.

keithy_19

06-16-2009, 09:07 PM

did it help at all?

I guess. I don't cut myself anymore...:thumbdown:

tanless1

06-16-2009, 09:17 PM

consider painting somthing- somtimes theres a cool place near the coffee shop- you can paint and watch traffic- make's it a play date sorta.

Ryan Kulik

06-17-2009, 11:49 AM

Aggie

06-17-2009, 12:11 PM

It went pretty well this afternoon. No long awkward silences and some pretty organic conversation. And I got the digits.

I'm kinda new at this whole dating thing, I was with the same girl all through college and even some of high school. I don't have a whole lot of practice at the whole adult dating scene.

congrats! getting the number is a good sign. i hope all goes well. i have no advice on the adult dating scene either. i met my husband when i was 17.

Thomas Merton

06-17-2009, 02:10 PM

It went pretty well this afternoon. No long awkward silences and some pretty organic conversation. And I got the digits.

I'm kinda new at this whole dating thing, I was with the same girl all through college and even some of high school. I don't have a whole lot of practice at the whole adult dating scene.

Dating is dating...you're trying to get laid and possibly start a relationship

Only the circumstances change. I would suggest going old school from here on out and pay for any activity

britneypablo

06-17-2009, 02:20 PM

I always say humblemumbo on the first date bc then youll know if you want a second date or not.....i mean thats what i do anyways

Ryan Kulik

06-17-2009, 02:30 PM

Dating is dating...you're trying to get laid and possibly start a relationship

Only the circumstances change. I would suggest going old school from here on out and pay for any activity

I tried to pay today but she insisted on paying for herself. I can kind of respect that on a first encounter; she doesn't want to feel like she owes me something. Things went well though and there's a great chance I could see her a second time. I just need a really solid activity that we could both enjoy.

And even thought I got her number, I'm not going to text/call right away. Even I know that seems desperate.

Foster

06-17-2009, 03:12 PM

I tried to pay today but she insisted on paying for herself. I can kind of respect that on a first encounter; she doesn't want to feel like she owes me something. Things went well though and there's a great chance I could see her a second time. I just need a really solid activity that we could both enjoy.

And even thought I got her number, I'm not going to text/call right away. Even I know that seems desperate.

take her to Crossroads this Saturday night, you can say your friends with the band

zildjian361

06-17-2009, 03:19 PM

GET HER DRUNK RENT A ROOM AND BANG HER:wallbash:

OneEyeJack

06-17-2009, 04:21 PM

if your close to New York city, take her or him to see the Calvin Klein billboard.

red_red_red

06-17-2009, 05:12 PM

whatever happened to just hanging out, having a drink, and then some good food? good food is a party no matter who cooks it. over think much?

boosterp

06-17-2009, 05:30 PM

whatever happened to just hanging out, having a drink, and then some good food? good food is a party no matter who cooks it. over think much?

Perfect.

Ryan Kulik

06-17-2009, 05:58 PM

whatever happened to just hanging out, having a drink, and then some good food? good food is a party no matter who cooks it. over think much?

unstructured time is a thing of the past. just hanging out doesn't cut it. i'm much better at making appetizers and dips and things of that nature, i dunno if i could swing an entire meal. i like the idea, though.

PapaBear

06-17-2009, 06:06 PM

Amusement park.

TripleSkeet

06-17-2009, 09:00 PM