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babaz

09-21-2005, 07:54 PM

Okay I want this musician...really want him!He lives with a guy that I know of, but don't really know.  I could get my info to him pretty easily, or just drop by their house.... but that's a little stalker-like right??I've just been waiting for him to have another gig so I could introduce myself, but it's already been like a month...What should my next move be?

PapaBear

09-21-2005, 07:59 PM

Unless he's gay, he's not going to be too worried about stalking, if a girl walks right up to him and says she likes him. Especially a musician...

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Snoogans

09-21-2005, 08:04 PM

i told you to leave me alone bitch 

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mikeyboy

09-21-2005, 08:09 PM

I can't speak for musicians (and I'm about the furthest thing from a musician), but personally I might be a little creeped out if someone just showed up at my residence.  My advice is to hang back a bit.

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FUNKMAN

09-21-2005, 08:19 PM

quote: but personally I might be a little creeped out if someone just showed up at my residence.  My advice is to hang back a bit.  just don't look at Mikeyboys sigpic.... you may get mixed messages<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/rolleyes.gif" border="0" />edit: well at least the John Belushi one<img src="http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0UQCRAl4WyHLYmr7dmRaNq9LkFDSutySVXtZT!2DBFo9cdLLOy T0wW*F93FRtcPlf*xMPhVXRGqhe6SJySdgLcTKyu!jrvKbU!du NFBLOnRJxEbhL0qxR9qln3GX9xzMO/FUNKMAN.JPG?dc=4675521713262985004" border="0" />

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Mike Teacher

09-22-2005, 01:30 AM

what boldness?

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Bulldogcakes

09-22-2005, 02:50 AM

quote:What should my next move be?

 Boil his Cat. <img width="250" height="171" border="0" src="http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/Fatal%20Attraction%20-%20Disarming%20encounter%20(250w).jpg" />   And try to stay out of his bathtub.   

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MrPink

09-22-2005, 03:24 AM

Go for it, what can ya lose?

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A.J.

09-22-2005, 03:36 AM

When does boldness become stalking? When a restraining order is issued.

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Evilpete

09-22-2005, 06:00 AM

quote:Okay I want this musician...really want him!He
lives with a guy that I know of, but don't really know. I could get my
info to him pretty easily, or just drop by their house.... but that's a
little stalker-like right??I've just been waiting for him to have another gig so I could introduce myself, but it's already been like a month...What should my next move be?

 here's the thing about this senerio, chick does shit like this it's bold (unless she's doing it after the guy said he wasn't interested, then it's stalker) guy does it it's more likely to be considered creepy and stalking trust
me I wanted to do this with a girl I've been talking to, but I didntt
want to send the wrong message by getting her address and sending her
something/showing up at her place 


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zentraed

09-22-2005, 06:00 AM

quote:What should my next move be?

 Find out when they
rehearse. Most bands have people hang when they get together. Showing
up at his door might be ok, if you bring drugs. "Wanna get high?" is
music to the ears

JPMNICK

09-22-2005, 06:09 AM

it all depends on how good looking you are.  Fat chick = stalkinghot chick = you will get banged, but do not get attached because I am sure he bangs 100 other girls. The stalking for a hot chick comes into play when she will not leave him alone after the sex and he is sleeping with other girls. A hot girl can not be a stalker until you bang her

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furie

09-22-2005, 07:51 AM

quote: quote:What should my next move be?

 Boil his Cat. <img width="250" height="171" border="0" src="http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/Fatal%20Attraction%20-%20Disarming%20encounter%20%28250w%29.jpg" /> And try to stay out of his bathtub. 

 It was a rabbit 

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Death Metal Moe

09-22-2005, 08:07 AM

What kind of music does he play?  If it's not METAL, there's a hightened chance he might love the C.What instrument does he play?  If it's not drums, there's also a better chance he may sign for all his packages around back.

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TheMojoPin

09-22-2005, 08:25 AM

If he's not a drummer, then there's a heightened chance he may not be retarded.When does boldness become stalking?See any John Cusack movie.

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Death Metal Moe

09-22-2005, 08:27 AM

See any John Cusack movie.The to punish yourself, see and JOAN Cusack movie.

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Bulldogcakes

09-22-2005, 04:11 PM

quote:It was a rabbit 
It was his Cat. He didn't have a pet rabbit.  Plus
I've eaten rabbit. Thats not even creepy. And that scene was real
creepy. Had to be his cat. Or Dog. But no way was it a rabbit. None.
 

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ADF

09-22-2005, 04:51 PM

I'm pretty sure it was a rabbit.  Also, you've gone bad when you start drinking black coffee for the rich, stalking flavor. 

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Evilpete

09-22-2005, 05:23 PM

it was a rabbit. 

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torker

09-22-2005, 05:25 PM

Tell me about the rabbits, George.<img height="191" src="http://www.meredy.com/vinbw/ofmice.jpg" width="358" border="0" /> 

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TheMojoPin

09-22-2005, 07:41 PM

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Death Metal Moe

09-22-2005, 07:47 PM

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JerryTaker

09-23-2005, 10:37 AM

Universal truth: Attractive people are persistant, Ugly people are stalkersLook
in the mirror and be honest with yourself. I know most people in our
society today have a huge problem with that, but I realized long ago
that I have all the sex appeal of a month old dead bird, so I'm not
going to put out this pseudo-cool phoney "self confidence" lie that I
have any value whatsoever, because I know it's false.I guess
what I'm saying is know your limits. Being female you start with a 30%
advantage, but know that the rest is the disparity between you and him,
if any. 


 
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Snoogans

09-23-2005, 10:42 AM

I know most people in our
society today have a huge problem with that, but I realized long ago
that I have all the sex appeal of a month old dead birdno,
the problem isnt being honest with ourselves. Part of people's sex
appeal is confidence. No one wants to deal with you cause you are a
drag with no confidence, not because we cant deal with people being
honest with themselves 

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JerryTaker

09-23-2005, 10:59 AM

Part of people's sex appeal is confidenceah,
but every night I meet single moms younger than 20 wading in old
people's feces for chicken scratch wages because they met someone with
all the self confidence in the world... and nothing to back it up but a
sackfull of semen. One girl I met may be dying because of it, leaving
her kid an orpahan. People simply need to look outside of themselves
for a change. It's called maturity, and it's sorely lacking around here. 


 
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I hope your thoughts don't drift to me
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Snoogans

09-23-2005, 11:02 AM

ah, but every night I meet
single moms younger than 20 wading in old people's feces for chicken
scratch wages because they met someone with all the self confidence in
the world... and nothing to back it up but a sackfull of semen. One
girl I met may be dying because of it, leaving her kid an orpahan.
People simply need to look outside of themselves for a change. It's
called maturity, and it's sorely lacking around here. so
you try to use the bad things that can happen if you are irresponsible
about sex as an excuse for you throwing yourself a constant pity party?
Yea way to be up front and honest about why things happen. 

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JerryTaker

09-23-2005, 11:07 AM

This has nothing to do with me. It was my advice.Stop stalking my posts 

 
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Snoogans

09-23-2005, 11:12 AM

will the people on this board get over themselves. I dont stalk anyones
posts, i dont care enough about any of you. You just happen to be the
last post in all the active discussions. Dont post in so many threads
if you dont want people responding 

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Furtherman

09-23-2005, 11:18 AM

quote: i dont care enough about any of you. <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/glurps.gif" border="0" /> 

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Snoogans

09-23-2005, 11:20 AM

sorry to break your heart, but no one online gets to me that much that
i would purposely seek out their posts to bash them. If someone happens
to post in 3 threads and they all stink, what can i do? 

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Death Metal Moe

09-23-2005, 03:23 PM

Look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. I know most people in our society today have a huge problem with that, but I realized long ago that I have all the sex appeal of a month old dead bird, so I'm not going to put out this pseudo-cool phoney "self confidence" lie that I have any value whatsoever, because I know it's false. Unbelivable.So by your little formula here, I shouldn't be confident, right?  I'm overweight and don't have an extensive dating history.  My job isn't that great.  I certianly didn't make the most out of my time at college or fall into the industry I wanted.Ooooh, but wait.  I DO HAVE CONFIDENCE.  Any do you know why?  Because I know who and what I am.  I know that I am there for my family, friends and loved ones all the time I can.  I know I don't cheat anyone out of anything.  I know that when I say something, I'm speaking the truth and not just bullshitting someone or stroking someone's ego.  I'm not the best looking guy, but I also know that there are still people out there that do judge you by your character and aren't just shallow assholes like we see on TV.I am confident in the fact that I am the best Death Metal Moe I can be.  I try to understand my weaknesses, minimize them and deal with them.  I am aware of all my positive traits as well and make sure people see them and understand them.Lastly, it sounds to me like you're putting WAY TOO MUCH STOCK in what someone else thinks of you.  You cannot depend on others to make you happy.  People are only human and will let you down eventually.  You create your own happiness, and you hope to bring someone special along with you.  But you can't be dependent on them for your happiness in life.But you're just going to dismiss all of what I said as "false confidence."  A nice front I put up.  Well you can be proud of one thing.  Your responses enfuriated me enough to actually say something to you.Plus, don't blame Snoogans for "stalking" you.  All you ever do is come in and pull this shit in a thread, dragging it down like the human cold shower you are.  I understand you, that's what pisses me off even more.

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TheMojoPin

09-23-2005, 05:11 PM

Jerry, that's horseshit.  Of course there are people shallow enough to just dismiss others based on what's on the surface...that's life.  But you don't have to dictate YOUR life according to THEM.

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Frosty_Sacknuts

09-24-2005, 01:20 AM

If he doesnt recieve you well and you bother him after he makes that point known, its stalking.

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