AM I AN ASSHOLE?

[Dougie Brootal]

<p>BACKGROUND: </p><p>my brothers girlfriend, kristi, is a bossy, mean cunt. no one in my family likes her. they tolorate her so they dont piss off my brother. and she is very vindictive. my brother tried to break up with her once and she called his boss and our parents and said my brother was on drugs and such, and he almost got kicked out of his house and fired.</p><p>REAL STORY:</p><p>over the course of the last 2 weeks kristi has been arguing with my girlfriend, christin,&nbsp;because she admitted to christin that she checks my brothers voice mail and deletes messages she doesnt want him to hear from people she doesnt like. my bro already suspected this and asked me about it, so we told him she said it. kristi proceeds to send several threatning emails to christin saying that she had better tell my brother that she lied, and that kristi doesnt check his voicemail. 2 days ago i asked my brother to tell his girl to back off and stop trying to involve us in her fights with him and he said ok.</p><p>that didnt stop it. she continued to threaten christin throughout the day and when i got home from work christin calls me in tears because kristi is threatening to get revenge and throwing it in her face about <a href="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm/Forum/81/Topic/52501/page/MY_GIRLFRIEND_MADE_OUT_WITH_ANOTHER_GUY.htm" target="_blank">the problem christin and i had a month or so ago</a>. so now&nbsp;i am forced to act. i called kristi and told her that i wanted it to stop and that its none of her business what happens with my girlfriend, i also told her that i am sick of how she treats me at our family events and i am not attending anymore because of her. i then said that i am not afraid of her and neither is christin, and if she attempts to slander either of us i will seek legal action. </p><p>so now my brother is all pissed off at me and thinks i should have let kristi and christin take care of it.</p><p>am i an asshole or did i do the right thing?</p><p>it all seems so highschool to me!</p>

[Tall_James]

<p>No.&nbsp; You are not an asshole and I think you realize that already.&nbsp; This woman is a Grade A psycho hosebeast.&nbsp; And shame on your brother for not seeing it for himself.&nbsp; </p>

[MadMatt]

<p><font size="2"><strong>You absolutely did the right thing!</strong>&nbsp; Sometimes you can't just stand aside.</font></p><p><font size="2">Your brother will eventually get over it - he may be pissed now but he will eventually realize that his girlfriend is a C and things will get back to normal.&nbsp; Hopefully he will also dump her.&nbsp; I was in a similar situation (although apparently not as serious as yours) and things ended up working out for the best; my brother even apologized to me for ever dating that shrew.</font></p><p><font size="2">The girlfriend is psycho and you should never have to put up with being threatened like that.&nbsp; I would even take it one step further - keep the voicemails she is sending your girlfriend and report her to the police.</font></p>

[bobrobot]

<p><strong><font color="#000099">There is absolutely NO REASON you hafta tolerate that kinda behavior!!!</font></strong></p><p><img height="359" src="http://www.infojur.ufsc.br/aires/fotos/ensaios/interessantes/crazy%20woman!.gif" width="452" border="0" /></p>

[Dougie Brootal]

yeah i told her to keep the voicemails and emails in case we needed to get a lawyer or the cops involved.

[MilkmanDann]

<p>A stern raised voice warning without using any threats always gets the point across in these situations for me. It sounds like she's trying to dominate everyone she's around, let her know she can't. It may already be too late for that since the &quot;legal&quot; thing you said to her, but she may thrive off the controversy.</p>

[feralBoy]

<strong>douggrasso</strong> wrote:<br />yeah i told her to keep the voicemails and emails in case we needed to get a lawyer or the cops involved. <p>Yeah, that's a pretty good idea, because harassing somebody over the phone isn't a good idea, because when you use an electrical device, it's considered aggravated harassment.&nbsp; </p>

[angelinad128]

No your not an asshole.

[bobrobot]

<strong>feralBoy</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>douggrasso</strong> wrote:<br />yeah i told her to keep the voicemails and emails in case we needed to get a lawyer or the cops involved. <p>Yeah, that's a pretty good idea, because harassing somebody over the phone isn't a good idea, <font style="background-color: #ffff00">because when you use an electrical device, it's considered aggravated harassment.&nbsp; </font></p><p><strong><font color="#000099">Does that include giant vibrating dildoes???</font></strong></p><p><img height="200" src="http://www.sextoys.co.uk/modules/images/N3504-chi_chi_la_rue_electric_blue_dildo.jpg" width="200" border="0" /></p>

[Gaia]

<p>I will offer my services to you like I did for Shelle. She sounds like a crazy, stupid, filthy, vindictive bitch. </p><p>For a small fee I will totally beat the snot out of her. I feel bad for you and your GF......Sorry to hear what's going on. </p>

[feralBoy]

<strong>bobogolem</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>feralBoy</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>douggrasso</strong> wrote:<br />yeah i told her to keep the voicemails and emails in case we needed to get a lawyer or the cops involved. <p>Yeah, that's a pretty good idea, because harassing somebody over the phone isn't a good idea, <font style="background-color: #ffff00">because when you use an electrical device, it's considered aggravated harassment.&nbsp; </font></p><p><strong><font color="#000099">Does that include giant vibrating dildoes???</font></strong></p><p><img height="200" src="http://www.sextoys.co.uk/modules/images/N3504-chi_chi_la_rue_electric_blue_dildo.jpg" width="200" border="0" /></p><p>I thought that was true love.</p>

[Yerdaddy]

Oh, there's a backstory. I was ready to answer when I came in here but now... nevermind.

[FUNKMAN]

tell your bro to get a set of balls and tell his girl to act like a&nbsp;decent human being...&nbsp;

[Fezticle98]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />tell your bro to get a set of balls and tell his girl to <strike>act like a&nbsp;decent human being</strike>...<strong>hit the road</strong> <p>There, fixed it for ya. Some people are beyond repair. How miserable it must be to live with that cunt. Hope he gets out before it's too late.</p>

[Gaia]

<span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Another thing.....Don't let this dirty slut prevent you from going to family functions. <p>&nbsp;</p></span><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">SHE IS AN OUTSIDER AND NOT BLOOD. Therefore; don't let her ruin the gatherings yourself and your family may have. If nobody likes her, and everyone feels the same way, you should talk to everyone in the family and make sure that you all stick together. When it's time for a family gathering; and she starts her shit, you ALL need to voice your opinion. <p>&nbsp;</p></span><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">If she see's that all the people in the family oppose her behavior, and let her know, she will either change her ways, OR she will bail because she truly is a horrible person. Take it from someone who knows just how horrible people can be, there is strength in numbers, and there is nothing stronger than a blood link.<p>&nbsp;</p></span><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">&nbsp;Fuck her and her games. If your brother isn't willing to straighten her ass out or dump her, then maybe the family should also have a talk with him, because ultimately it's his decision to be with her, and if that decision is ruining life for everyone else, he needs to do something about it. <p>&nbsp;</p></span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: arial"><p>&nbsp;</p></span>

[LordJezo]

<p>Wow, your post made me furious and brought back horrible memories of an ex girlfriend I had.</p><p> </p><p>Rock on for doing what you did, but Gaia is right, do not let her keep you from going to family events, if your brother wants to be with that person then he needs to be the one to stay away if he is causing the rest of your family stress. You're going to need to tell him that and get your parents to back you up on it. And screw your brother if he is mad at you for this, he's in a bad place right now and most likely has no idea what's going on around him, I mean, he knows, but his mental state is messed up. He'll realize it eventually when he either breaks up with the girl or all of a sudden notices that he has pushed his family away. Although if your parents accept it and let them all come to every event then it's going to be your loss because you'll be the one who wont be around, and I am sure she'll just use that against you by pointing out how horrible of a person you are by ignoring your family.</p><p> </p><p>But yeah, if that's the person your brother wants to date then that is his choice. You guys just need to back off and let him live the way he wants to live. He'll come around eventually but it's out of your hands, you can't convince someone not to be with someone. Sucks.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Oh, and I read your post again, didn't see that break up part.&nbsp; Anyone who stays with someone like that is as nutty as the person they are dating.&nbsp; If his girlfriend has the power to get him fired and kicked out of the house.. that doesnt say much for him and the people he is around.&nbsp; Everyone has the ability to get out of a relationship and him going back to someone who would lie to everyone around her just to blackmail him into staying with her is a sad person.</p><p>This whole thread has made me angry.&nbsp; Ugh.&nbsp;</p>



<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by LordJezo on 10-19-06 @ 2:13 PM</span>

[DJEvelEd]

<p>If she comes to your family's functions, I would be&nbsp;RELENTLESS and just totally rip into her all day. Make fun of her and make up an awful name for her and use it all day. Like &quot;Fatty&quot; if she's fat. &quot;Bucky Beaver&quot; if she has funky teeth. (even if she's not fat, tell her you&nbsp;like her spare tire just to&nbsp;make her&nbsp;uneasy)&nbsp;I would even stoop to the level of making fun of her dead family members just to make her leave in tears. I hate people like these.</p><p>I call my future brother in law &quot;Fredo&quot; when I see him. (long story but he is&nbsp;DEAD to me) I bust his balls every time he is in my sight. He is truly a piece of crap. He beat up his 64 year old Dad (who pays his rent &amp; truck payments), calls my fiance a &quot;C&quot;, ripped us off with a job, is verbally abusive, psychopathic and did I mention the tattoo of the swastika on his arm? He's a big fat&nbsp;loser and I can't wait to make fun of&nbsp;the second DWI he just got.</p><p>Some people need to get what they deserve. I'm more than happy to get people what they need.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Punch your brother in the teeth for even going out with her.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 10-19-06 @ 2:37 PM</span>

[TheStonedAnt]

<p><font face="times new roman,times,serif" size="4">Is this bitch like really hot looking and/or is your brother like a geek or something?</font></p><p><font face="times new roman,times,serif"><font size="4">I'm just wondering why's he clinging onto her so badly, is he afraid he won't find anyone else as &quot;good&quot; as her</font>?</font></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>PS: If my chick ever did that to me or my family, I'd slap that biatch!!!!!!!</p><p>Yes hunny, I'll clean the garage today.</p><p>Ha! Showed her who's the boss!</p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>bobogolem</strong> wrote:<br /><p><strong><font color="#000099">There is absolutely NO REASON you hafta tolerate that kinda behavior!!!</font></strong></p><p><img height="359" src="http://www.infojur.ufsc.br/aires/fotos/ensaios/interessantes/crazy%20woman!.gif" width="452" border="0" /></p><p>dude, i made this pic my myspace default cuz kristi is first on my brothers myspace top friends, and im second! so its a picture of her then this picture right next to it pointing at her! hahahahaa!!</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Fuck that bitch.&nbsp; Bros before Ho's yo.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Bitches aint shit but ho's and tricks.</p>

[suggums]

i was about to post i wonder what moe thinks.&nbsp; good thing i scrolled to the bottom.; welcome back budday!<br />

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>suggums</strong> wrote:<br />i was about to post i wonder what moe thinks.&nbsp; good thing i scrolled to the bottom.; welcome back budday!<br /><p>Thank you sir.</p><p>My above post was kind of a joke, but my feelings on this girl are the same.&nbsp; Sure, your brother is all in love (or at least likes getting his bag wacked on a regular basis) so he's not going to react rationally to anything here.</p><p>But if she's going to do this kind of shit, then you might have to cut off your brother for awhile to show him&nbsp;you're serious.&nbsp; I don't want to see your family broken up, but you kinda need to show him what this cunt is doing to your family and your relationship with him.</p>

[sailor]

<p><font size="2">she sounds totally psycho and in the wrong.&nbsp; however, if she was posting her version of events, we'd likely see things her way.&nbsp; without knowing the people involved you really can't judge from just one side of the story.</font></p><p><font size="2">-ann landers</font> <br /></p><font size="2" />

[DJEvelEd]

Thats a great idea! Send her an e-mail and link this thread so she can see it. We'll all listen to her side....

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 10-19-06 @ 5:48 PM</span>

[DJEvelEd]

<p>Damn cunt made me double post!!!! Now she really pissed me off!</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 10-19-06 @ 5:49 PM</span>

[FezPaul]

<strong>Death Metal Moe</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>suggums</strong> wrote:<br />i was about to post i wonder what moe thinks.&nbsp; good thing i scrolled to the bottom.; welcome back budday!<br /><p>Thank you sir.</p><p>My above post was kind of a joke, but my feelings on this girl are the same.&nbsp; Sure, your brother is all in love (or at least likes getting his <strong><font size="2">bag wacked</font></strong> on a regular basis) so he's not going to react rationally to anything here.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><strong><font face="courier new,courier,monospace" size="2"></font></strong><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier,monospace" size="2">You had to work wackbag into the conversation didn't you? <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/tongue.gif" border="0" />&nbsp;<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wink.gif" border="0" /></font></strong></p><p><strong><font face="Courier New" size="2">Welcome back sweetpants.</font></strong></p>

[Mike from Bklyn]

Your brother needs to take control. <br />

[Dougie Brootal]

<p>i think im gonna take djeveled's advice and rip her apart! but im not going to go unless some one calls and asks me to. i wont go back on my word unless they ask me to or ill look like a puss.</p><p>she posted a blog a few months ago attacking my brother because of some fight they had and totally put him on blast for the world to see and refused to take it down for like a month....i think we're gonna try something like that. im starting to feel like i should be the vindictive cunt this time.</p><p>thank you everyone for your advice and welcome back moe...we missed you!</p>

[sr71blackbird]

<p>she posted a blog a few months ago attacking my brother because of some fight they had and totally put him on blast for the world to see and refused to take it down for like a month....</p><p>Wait, she ripped him a new one on the internet and he is still with her..???<br />He <em>really</em> either got to get away from her, or her out of his life!</p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote:<br /><p>&nbsp;</p>she posted a blog a few months ago attacking my brother because of some fight they had and totally put him on blast for the world to see and refused to take it down for like a month.... <p>&nbsp;</p><p>Wait, she ripped him a new one on the internet and he is still with her..???<br />He <em>really</em> either got to get away from her, or her out of his life!</p><p>no fuckin shit budday! thats why i really laid into her in the beginning of this battle.... hes been asking me how to get away from her for a loooooong time. so i thought this fight might give him an option out...as well as bring her&nbsp; tresspasses to light. but he continually goes back and tries to save the relationship even though he has told me that he wants out...i dont know where he really stands on it...that is why im so torn up and asking everyones opinion.</p>

[Fallon]

<p>Give her one of these.</p><p><img width="180" height="266" border="0" src="http://pr0n.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/thumb/9/9f/Cunt_Punt.jpg/180px-Cunt_Punt.jpg" />&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>Fallon</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Give her one of these.</p><p><img height="266" src="http://pr0n.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/thumb/9/9f/Cunt_Punt.jpg/180px-Cunt_Punt.jpg" width="180" border="0" />&nbsp;</p><p>Fallon never dissappoints!&nbsp; that is fucking hillarious...</p>

[Marc with a c]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Fallon</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Give her one of these.</p><p><img width="180" height="266" border="0" src="http://pr0n.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/thumb/9/9f/Cunt_Punt.jpg/180px-Cunt_Punt.jpg" /> </p><p>Fallon never dissappoints! that is fucking hillarious...</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>i agree.&nbsp; fallon is funny.</p><p>gvacs gay?&nbsp;</p>

[watson]

you're not an asshole. you surround yourself with assholes tho, so by default you are an asshole<br />

[Fez4PrezN2008]

<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Another thing.....Don't let this dirty slut prevent you from going to family functions. <p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">SHE IS AN OUTSIDER AND NOT BLOOD. Therefore; don't let her ruin the gatherings yourself and your family may have. If nobody likes her, and everyone feels the same way, you should talk to everyone in the family and make sure that you all stick together. When it's time for a family gathering; and she starts her shit, you ALL need to voice your opinion. </span></p></span><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I second that !,[and Moe's advice too]&nbsp;and you are not an a-hole. Good luck. </p>