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Krieger

11-03-2006, 10:21 AM

Yea so I'm getting real bored of being single. Im 18 years old finishing up highschool, I dont talk to more then a handfull of people that are left in the school, only one is a girl and I dont like her like that. I suck at meeting new people, Im am SEVERELY shy , even more so since i hardly have any friends left in the school still. I only have 5 periods and theres only a handful of them that are attractive. There's a girl in my Health Class, she's into punk and she's kinda like me i can see where i know she's a shy girl too because she's just as quiet. I See the girl now i just need to find out how to get her. I know im good looking enough , and we probally share similar music tastes. I just have to "meet" her now, Im way to shy to just talk to her out of no where. Everyday the teacher comes late to class so the whole class has to wait outside. I was told to give smiles by my friends. I found her myspace but that'd be kinda creepy to just start talking to her online rather then inschool or whatever. I have no clue anymore. This is just some lame ass highschool thing , all i know is that i better start trying to get a girl before i end up like my uncle bobby....IM NOT PLAYING GOLF AND SITTING IN MY ROOM ALL DAY ALONE!!! (Uncle bobby is real btw)__________________________________________________ ____________Update 11/24/06I think she likes me now. On this upcoming saturday she just so happens to be going to a show that im going to also (to see a friends band) so its an excuse for me and her to hang out for the first time out of school. Making progress :p 

This message was edited by Angry Kevin on 11-24-06 @ 2:49 AM

Furtherman

11-03-2006, 10:24 AM

You're 18.. relax.  Going to college?  It'll get easier.

phixion

11-03-2006, 10:39 AM

kid listen you dont want to deal with the girls at that age anyway. trust me they all like assholes. so if ur a decent guy just hang out and bide your time til your mid twenties women realize that most guys they like are assholes and they change. and im like shy to the point of not talking. and whats worse im not really a drinker so trust me enjoy your youth, u dont wnat to be bogged down by a girl right now anyway. do drugs get wasted enjoy what seems to be your senior year and realize that focusing too much ona girl is just counterproductive. to quote my fuck buddy 'just let it happen it will' then she walks back to her boyfriends dorm.

johnniewalker

11-03-2006, 11:02 AM

You have to know what your shooting for.  Find a comfort level, even shy people have a comfort level talking to some people.  Live by the rules of George Costanza,  get in and get out.   Make a quick statement and don't let the mood get stale and awkward.  Always be thinking of that transition to bail yourself out of a bad conversation.  You have to find a way to never be in any awkward moments.  If you go out to a movie with her you have the ride there and the ride back, and the time before the movie starts.  I say start with studying together.  You almost always have something to talk and its not based on you asking questions about her or talking about yourself.  You can kind of work in personal conversation that way little by little and work up the comfort factor.  From studying you can cheat your way into a first date.  Transition studying into watching a movie or tv, shes at your house and probably won't leave.  Do you realize by doing this you have bamboozled your way into a date and you are one on one with her in a personal enviorment(not a theater)?  You have to start somewhere by letting her know you are aware of her, you sound like your not the type of guy to be real forward about it.  Its cool not many people have the confidence or the type of personality to do that.  That doesn't mean your weird just that you have to attack it from a different angle.

Dougie Brootal

11-03-2006, 11:10 AM

phixion wrote: to quote my fuck buddy 'just let it happen it will' then she walks back to her boyfriends dorm.  STOP FUCKING MY GIRLFRIEND!                                                                              just kidding, thats words to live by!hahahahahaa!

This message was edited by douggrasso on 11-3-06 @ 3:13 PM

Bulldogcakes

11-03-2006, 03:19 PM

Well, first thing I'd do is lose the "angry" name and tone to your post. Frustrated and pissed off doesn't send the ladies off all dreamy eyed. Try being more friendly and see where it leads.

Krieger

11-03-2006, 09:59 PM

I only picked the name angry kevin because I was angry i couldn't think of any good names for the forum. Im quite mellow actually nothing really bothers me except some stuff and even if i was i doubt this girl would care. Uhhhhh whats the max age distance that a guy and girl can have. Im 18 but strangely look way to young like 15.....

Krieger

11-07-2006, 10:24 PM

good she knows good punk and ska bands :) thats fucking great.

Alice S. Fuzzybutt

11-07-2006, 11:18 PM

Should I offer her my old ipod (after i get the
battery replaced) as a gift to her along with some of my cd's? Or is
that stupid, or should i wait a week or two before i give that to her.
Idk , im thinking to much of the  situation. Yes, you're thinking too hard.Yes, give her the old ipod and just mention you have to replace the batteries first before you give it to her. That's some kudo points. I'd wait til you lend the CDs. That's another step.  If you give her the ipod and the CDs you might not get the CDs back. Just sayin...

Krieger

11-07-2006, 11:53 PM

Alice S. Fuzzybutt wrote: Should I offer her my old ipod (after i get the battery replaced) as a gift to her along with some of my cd's? Or is that stupid, or should i wait a week or two before i give that to her. Idk , im thinking to much of the  situation. Yes, you're thinking too hard.Yes, give her the old ipod and just mention you have to replace the batteries first before you give it to her. That's some kudo points. I'd wait til you lend the CDs. That's another step.  If you give her the ipod and the CDs you might not get the CDs back. Just sayin...    I have to clean my room out anyways so its either i throw the old ipod in a drawer to never be seen again or i do a nice thing for a chick i happen to like and just throw a few bucks into getting the battery repaired not mentioning i fixed it before. That'll be a big + , but im gonna wait a week after talking to her then ill probally give the ipod away. lol im gonna laugh if things turn bad a week later or two and she gives it away to a friend or something.. lol.

Alice S. Fuzzybutt

11-07-2006, 11:59 PM

im gonna laugh if things turn badThat's all you can do. You will be THAT MUCH ahead for the next relationship. You seem like a sweet kid (with some awesome taste in music). I really hope it works out for you! 

This message was edited by Alice S. Fuzzybutt on 11-8-06 @ 4:00 AM

lintpit

11-08-2006, 12:23 AM

Kevin, to be honest, you think that you are lonely now. Just wait until you are tied up in the motel bathroom and your insanely sexy wife is humping the stranger who abducted you...wait a minute,that sounds like a great storyline for a movie!!   Get an education, make baskets of $$$$$$, buy nice things. You will find women find YOU hard to resist.

Krieger

11-08-2006, 08:28 AM

lol thanks, i dont see anything yet in this girl. If we get to the point were theres a cross road between being good friends or the other "more then friends" then ill pick the better long-term one. Am I a lonely person? Obviosly , my friends say im never happy and people ive know for a month or two notice it too. I just need to get a girl that'll make me happy. This girl has everything i want , she knows alot about music, she doesn't take shit from people , she's cute and she's not a fake like the last girl i liked... Im gonna wait a while see how things go then ill probally make another thread about what should i do after me and her are good friends and theres signs of chemistry between us. I just wanna hurry up a bit before some other guy comes along, though i shouldn't worry and there wont be.

SatCam

11-08-2006, 03:38 PM

Enjoy being single

for realsies

Bossanova

11-08-2006, 03:47 PM

Seriously.  Don't become good friends.  That will likely lead to a great friendship.  The ipod is cool, and her being into punk is good.  That means she isnt into the same old bullshit.  I love punkj girls, that especially makes it easier to ask her out.  They dont pull punches, just be yourself.  If she digs you awesome, if not your only 18.

This message was edited by RonIsHankAaron on 11-8-06 @ 7:47 PM

Krieger

11-08-2006, 04:15 PM

Yea i think my chances are good. Im kinda of a older guy, im just about on the road with a car (lazy me should've been driving a loong time ago) , she gets my points of view well, we get angry at the same things, she hates her old ex because he didn't care and ive given hints that im a guy that does care. So i just gotta keep it up for 2 weeks and she'll be mine. And i can show off to my single loser friends that im not as much of a loser as them any more. lol

lintpit

11-09-2006, 10:34 PM

soooo, how's it going with dream girl? need an update budday

Krieger

11-10-2006, 03:53 PM

Things are going ok so far. Im giving her some cd's on monday in class so thats sorta a + , she told me how much of a dick her last bf was (she dumped him like a week ago so this is gonna be awhile before i think she'll be ready for a new bf). She also lost her best friend like a year ago then i told her the story about how i lost my best friend because he's a dickhead drugee now. Right now i just gotta impress her and make her think im cool then ill make the move when or if she's ever ready. Until then im just making friends.

lintpit

11-10-2006, 09:15 PM

Bro. no amount of gifts or swag or anything else is going to impress the girl.If it does, she shallow and superficial . Just be true to yourself. Thats all the cool you are gonna need.Hint... you will get further in 10 minutes by being interested in her than you will in 10 years trying to get her interested in you.

Krieger

11-10-2006, 11:46 PM

I told her that im the kinda guy that wont buy some stupid really expensive gift that has no meaning but a gift that has meaning , but if it costs a "pretty penny" as said in my elderly word dictionary then thats something to get but im not the kind of guy to shower a chick in gifts. Oh and she has interest in me now i think , i think i might actually get her :)

Burky

11-11-2006, 12:23 PM

You are too young to be worried about being single.  You live in one of the most populated city in America.  Go out, have fun, wear rubbers, you'll find someone.  Don't rush, there is a cunt out there to marry that will suck the fun out of you and deny you of sex later.  RELAX! 

Krieger

11-11-2006, 01:11 PM

I live on the island and i dont wanna live in the city. I only worry now because im not a outgoing person and pretty much a anti social/ afflicted with social anxiety person. I think i almost got this girl. I dont wanna jinx it though.

keithy_19

11-11-2006, 04:22 PM

It sounds like the worst thing that can happen is her finding this thread. Even if she does though it shows that you care. Or she'll think your crazy and obsessed.I only speak frome xperience. This pot smoking girl found the thread about her and boy did things get awkward. <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/unsure.gif" border="0" />

Krieger

11-11-2006, 08:16 PM

she doesnt know who ron and fez are though she said her parents have xm radio all they do is listen to is country music and she gets bored while in the car with them. That'd be cool if i get her hooked on ron and fez.

Krieger

11-14-2006, 11:42 AM

Uhhh I think she dressed up today for me, I havent seen her "dress up" before. And the last time i talked to her "online" she said something about liking the cd's i handed her (no real convo in person yet) And today when she gave one back we both only said one word and there was an awkard silence as we waited for the teacher to come and let the class in. Im gonna ask her "who's the lucky guy , you dressed up today?" just to see her response.

Krieger

12-02-2006, 10:40 AM

Update: December 02So far things are going ok. I wont be driving for a month so I cant ask her out to the movies yet but I think next weekend im gonna invite her to hang out with some friends at this place called sports plus or something lame like that. When I get my tat in a few weeks i think she said she's gonna come watch me cry. So yea, things are going ok so far i guess...

lleeder

12-02-2006, 12:46 PM

Try getting her name tattooed on you that will impress her way more than CD's

led37zep

12-02-2006, 08:19 PM

Have you thought about getting her drunk? Keep this in mind, till a chick gets fucked over really bad she's always gonna go after the "bad" guys.  Just be prepared for that.

Team_Ramrod

12-02-2006, 08:27 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: Yea so I'm getting real bored of being single. Im 18 years old finishing up highschool, I dont talk to more then a handfull of people that are left in the school, only one is a girl and I dont like her like that. I suck at meeting new people, Im am SEVERELY shy , even more so since i hardly have any friends left in the school still. I only have 5 periods and theres only a handful of them that are attractive. There's a girl in my Health Class, she's into punk and she's kinda like me i can see where i know she's a shy girl too because she's just as quiet. I See the girl now i just need to find out how to get her. I know im good looking enough , and we probally share similar music tastes. I just have to "meet" her now, Im way to shy to just talk to her out of no where. Everyday the teacher comes late to class so the whole class has to wait outside. I was told to give smiles by my friends. I found her myspace but that'd be kinda creepy to just start talking to her online rather then inschool or whatever. I have no clue anymore. This is just some lame ass highschool thing , all i know is that i better start trying to get a girl before i end up like my uncle bobby....IM NOT PLAYING GOLF AND SITTING IN MY ROOM ALL DAY ALONE!!! (Uncle bobby is real btw)__________________________________________________ ____________Update 11/24/06I think she likes me now. On this upcoming saturday she just so happens to be going to a show that im going to also (to see a friends band) so its an excuse for me and her to hang out for the first time out of school. Making progress <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/images/smilesillytongue.gif" border="0" width="15" height="15" /> This message was edited by Angry Kevin on 11-24-06 @ 2:49 AM If you like her this much and want her then build her a cake.

Krieger

12-02-2006, 09:49 PM

Lmfao im not getting her name tattoo'ed on myself unless i knew that i'd be with this chick for "LIFE". And no im not building her a cake , im not a poorly speaking mexican. And im not getting a girl drunk unless she doesn't know my identity.

lleeder

12-03-2006, 04:38 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: Lmfao im not getting her name tattoo'ed on myself unless i knew that i'd be with this chick for "LIFE". And no im not building her a cake , im not a poorly speaking mexican. And im not getting a girl drunk unless she doesn't know my identity. All you need is a brick to the head or an ether rag if you want to be a gentleman about it.

Duke

12-03-2006, 09:14 PM

umm as a sophmore in high school and who had an extremly attractive freshmen blonde girlfriend till recently (I broke up with her if your wondering)..the best advice i can give you (i didnt read any other posts besdies the 1st)   is just keep doing what your doing establish a good realtionship and go from there     

This message was edited by Duke on 12-4-06 @ 1:18 AM

kevcala

12-04-2006, 08:38 AM

Angry Kevin wrote: Right now i just gotta impress her and make her think im cool then ill make the move when or if she's ever ready.       Just be yourself.

Krieger

12-04-2006, 05:26 PM

Lets see if she hangs out with me this saturday and goes with me to get my tat after christmas ill ask her about a relationship..

johnniewalker

12-04-2006, 05:44 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: Lets see if she hangs out with me this saturday and goes with me to get my tat after christmas ill ask her about a relationship.. Smart man, start a relationship on the date furthest away from a mandatory gift giving date.  I like your style.

Krieger

12-05-2006, 11:30 AM

I was gonna ask after because thats when ill be driving , the 27th if i pass the roadtest. Its kinda sad to have dates where we both have to get our own rides... I have no problems with getting a girl a gift. Ha ha but now that you speak of it , maybe i can save a few bucks this year :P (just kidding)

Duke

12-05-2006, 11:44 AM

well once you got a car...you can fuck her.. end of story

Krieger

12-05-2006, 12:19 PM

Duke wrote: well once you got a car...you can fuck her.. end of story ha ha nice , what if one of us is 3 years younger and is a minor where the other one isnt a minor but looks like one and might biologically be one but had a secret age change kept from him as a kid where probally is really only 2 years older but doesnt officially know it.

Krieger

12-05-2006, 04:04 PM

Uh uh i mean wrong forum!

Duke

12-05-2006, 06:35 PM

what grade is she in?

Krieger

12-06-2006, 10:57 AM

She's in 10th im in 12th.

Duke

12-06-2006, 11:43 AM

Angry Kevin wrote: She's in 10th im in 12th.  ah thats not bad, with my ex gf she was a grade lower (freshmen and im a sophmore) but since the way my b-day falls  she was only 6 months younger.. have u met her parents yet?

Mike Teacher

12-06-2006, 11:57 AM

Furtherman wrote: You're 18.. relax.  Going to college?  It'll get easier. Even if you aren't going to college, actually no matter what, furtherman is correct, it'll get easier.Indeed relax too, coz everything, I mean everything is gonna change for you, on the short, and especially the long term. I sound like Grandpa Mike again but 18 is an alligator of an age, for just about everyone. In three years this entire life your have, friends, loves, jobs, hobbies, career path, location, etc. may quite possibly be just a shadow of a memory. The pace of change, especially now, is, well, it's all gonna change, that's about it, and no matter what you do, it's still gonna change. The key? Don't make bad decisions. =Lines form on my face and hands lines form from the ups and downs I'm in the middle without any plans I'm a boy and I'm a man I'm eighteen and I don't know what I want eighteen I just don't know what I want Eighteen I gotta get away I gotta get out of this place I'll go runnin' in outer space oh yeah I got a baby's brain and an old man's heart took eighteen years to get this far Don't always know what I'm talkin' about feels like I'm livin' in the middle of doubt 'cause I'm eighteen I get confused every day eighteen I just don't know what to say eighteen I gotta get away Whoa lines form on my face and my hands lines form on the left and right I'm in the middle the middle of life I'm a boy and I'm a man I'm eighteen and I like it yes I like it oh I like it love it like it love it Eighteen eighteen eighteen eighteen and I like it

This message was edited by Mike Teacher on 12-6-06 @ 3:58 PM

Krieger

12-06-2006, 01:35 PM

Duke wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: She's in 10th im in 12th.   ah thats not bad, with my ex gf she was a grade lower (freshmen and im a sophmore) but since the way my b-day falls  she was only 6 months younger.. have u met her parents yet? Well theres also the fact that im 18. I havent seen her out of school besides at a show 2 weeks ago. She lives on the other side of town which technically is the neighboring town of mine but really shouldnt even be another town. Im sure if i met her parents they wouldnt know unless they saw me driving. But there lyes another problem , what if she doesnt care that im older but her parents do. Maybe i just have to not blurt out that im kinda older , let them get to know me then like me then when they find out they wont care as much. Idk... I also think i might biologically be 17 because when i was little my neighbor friend's mom had his age changed one year older so he could go to school at biologically 4. Maybe its a secret kept from me from my mother but my neighbors mother didnt care if her son knew...Idk about this though. Its probally false.

SouthSideJohnny

12-06-2006, 02:13 PM

Mike Teacher wrote:Indeed relax too, coz everything, I mean everything is gonna change for you, on the short, and especially the long term. I sound like Grandpa Mike again but 18 is an alligator of an age, for just about everyone. In three years this entire life your have, friends, loves, jobs, hobbies, career path, location, etc. may quite possibly be just a shadow of a memory. The pace of change, especially now, is, well, it's all gonna change, that's about it, and no matter what you do, it's still gonna change. The key? Don't make bad decisions.Mike is absolutely right!  Take it from someone who has been exactly where you are - don't rush it and don't overthink it.  Be yourself (Great advice from Big AAAA), hang out with her, and have fun doing what you like to do (music etc. . ).  That's it.  Don't worry about the age difference or asking about relationships.  You can deal with those issues if, or when, they happen.  Also, don't try to impress her.  Once she starts hanging out with you, if she wants it to be something more, it will happen on its own. I will give you a warning though.  It sounds like you might become the dreaded 'f' word - no, the other one - 'friend'.  My young lad, that is when you find a hot chick that you want to be with, and she has no interest in being in a relationship with you, other than to have you as a good 'friend' so she can tell you about different guys she is doing or what a huge asshole boyfriend she has (while she consistently goes back to him for more mistreatment).  When you finally try to get something happening with her, she will tell you that she would not want to ruin your great friendship.  I was there several times, and it sucks!   It's a fine line you have to walk.  You want to be interested and friendly, but slightly aloof at the same time.  You just have to experience it to understand it.  Good luck my friend, and keep us posted.

Krieger

12-06-2006, 07:03 PM

My friend named matt his gf said something to him like "i heard one of your friends like my friends" and if its that obvious i like this girl then theres gotta be something there. Hopefully , ha ha.

Duke

12-08-2006, 12:41 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: Duke wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: She's in 10th im in 12th.   ah thats not bad, with my ex gf she was a grade lower (freshmen and im a sophmore) but since the way my b-day falls she was only 6 months younger.. have u met her parents yet? Well theres also the fact that im 18. I havent seen her out of school besides at a show 2 weeks ago. She lives on the other side of town which technically is the neighboring town of mine but really shouldnt even be another town. Im sure if i met her parents they wouldnt know unless they saw me driving. But there lyes another problem , what if she doesnt care that im older but her parents do. Maybe i just have to not blurt out that im kinda older , let them get to know me then like me then when they find out they wont care as much. Idk... I also think i might biologically be 17 because when i was little my neighbor friend's mom had his age changed one year older so he could go to school at biologically 4. Maybe its a secret kept from me from my mother but my neighbors mother didnt care if her son knew...Idk about this though. Its probally false.   im suppose to be a freshmen and ppl say i act and kinda look like a junior

Krieger

12-08-2006, 07:38 PM

Duke wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: Duke wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: She's in 10th im in 12th.   ah thats not bad, with my ex gf she was a grade lower (freshmen and im a sophmore) but since the way my b-day falls she was only 6 months younger.. have u met her parents yet? Well theres also the fact that im 18. I havent seen her out of school besides at a show 2 weeks ago. She lives on the other side of town which technically is the neighboring town of mine but really shouldnt even be another town. Im sure if i met her parents they wouldnt know unless they saw me driving. But there lyes another problem , what if she doesnt care that im older but her parents do. Maybe i just have to not blurt out that im kinda older , let them get to know me then like me then when they find out they wont care as much. Idk... I also think i might biologically be 17 because when i was little my neighbor friend's mom had his age changed one year older so he could go to school at biologically 4. Maybe its a secret kept from me from my mother but my neighbors mother didnt care if her son knew...Idk about this though. Its probally false.   im suppose to be a freshmen and ppl say i act and kinda look like a junior  Back in 2004-2005 I was kinda hit by Depression so I didn't care about school so basically that year was a waste. Last year I was supposed to graduate but thats why im only there for half the day this year. It makes no difference to me really , ill still go to college and stuff. So basically i'd be a college student dating a 10th grader. But then again im not and im not like any other 18 year olds. I really dont think im really 18 , i think ive been lied to all these years.

Krieger

12-16-2006, 11:20 AM

Yesterday I was supposed to go to a school even sorta...I didnt go though so im not sure how she felt about that..I invited her to see a punk show this weekend, she said she couldnt go to todays but tommorow she "might" so hopefully ill get to hang out with her tommorow.

keithy_19

12-16-2006, 07:10 PM

Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect.

Snacks

12-16-2006, 07:13 PM

your only 18 dont worry about it. Good luck and let things work itself out

Krieger

12-17-2006, 07:48 PM

keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.-  , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her.

led37zep

12-17-2006, 08:31 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.- , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her. What was her excuse for bailing on you?  That might give some insight if this is worth your time.

keithy_19

12-17-2006, 08:50 PM

Krieger

12-17-2006, 09:46 PM

keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. Just out of curiosity, like who?She's able to like Sense's Fail , My Chemical Romance, ect ect. I hate those pussbag bands but for her I wont bash them but rather block them out and think about a 'good' band I like.

keithy_19

12-18-2006, 01:16 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. Just out of curiosity, like who?She's able to like Sense's Fail , My Chemical Romance, ect ect. I hate those pussbag bands but for her I wont bash them but rather block them out and think about a 'good' band I like.HYPOCRITE! YOUR PUNK ROCK STANDINGS HAVE GONE DOWN CONSIDERABLY! Kidding of course. She's a teenage girl. Of course she's going to like senses fail and mcr. I wish you the best of luck.

lleeder

12-18-2006, 01:23 PM

led37zep wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.- , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her. What was her excuse for bailing on you?  That might give some insight if this is worth your time.Be careful...it better be a good excuse..don't make yourself beleive it if its not true

Krieger

12-20-2006, 07:11 PM

lleeder wrote: led37zep wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.- , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her. What was her excuse for bailing on you?  That might give some insight if this is worth your time.Be careful...it better be a good excuse..don't make yourself beleive it if its not true I might invite her once more to do something during the holdiay break hopefully she'll be able to go to this one. If not and I feel she's blowing me off then I'll look somewhere else.

Duke

12-30-2006, 03:12 AM

Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.- , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her.  if your into 90s punk (they are more late 80s but)....do you like reagan youth?

sailor

12-30-2006, 03:33 AM

keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. Just out of curiosity, like who?She's able to like Sense's Fail , My Chemical Romance, ect ect. I hate those pussbag bands but for her I wont bash them but rather block them out and think about a 'good' band I like.HYPOCRITE! YOUR PUNK ROCK STANDINGS HAVE GONE DOWN CONSIDERABLY! Kidding of course. She's a teenage girl. Of course she's going to like senses fail and mcr. I wish you the best of luck.  isn't mcr emo or am i mixing up my crappy-music styles.

Duke

12-30-2006, 03:36 AM

yeah im pretty sure my chemical romance is emo ....stupid em0 kids

Krieger

12-31-2006, 09:14 PM

Duke wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. But we both hate emo. __________________________________________________ ______________________ I hate to write this but , she wasnt able to go to the show with me -.- , ill have to find out somewhere to hang out with her.  if your into 90s punk (they are more late 80s but)....do you like reagan youth? Ive heard of them but not any of theyre music. ill look into them, i still have tons of cds to listen to that my brother gave me.

DJEvelEd

12-31-2006, 10:11 PM

Butthole SurfersAnti-Nowhere-LeagueFearTurn her on to the GOOD shit. You're too young to worry about this shit. I'm shy too but luckily I'm not ugly and all my good, long term relationships came to ME. Every time, EVERY time I chased some ass, it never worked out. I wouldn't be so nice as you're being. I gave away a boatload of stuff to girls that wouldn't piss on me if my ass was on fire. Then there were girls that cooked & cleaned for me that I just wasn't into.My fiance is older than me and we were set up by a mutual friend who couldn't believe that the both of us were single. We owe her big time. I was about to give my life & paycheck over to the Spanish hookers of Newark until I found salvation in Sweety.  We work in the same building of 5,000 people. I've seen her around and always thought she was hot but never talked to her. I figured she was married and beyond my reach. Well, 7 years later we get set up. I really wish I knew her years ago but everything happens for a reason...

This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 1-1-07 @ 2:12 AM

ralphbxny

01-01-2007, 05:09 PM

Smoke pot and have sex its what I did at 18 with a chick!

keithy_19

01-01-2007, 09:59 PM

sailor wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Angry Kevin wrote: keithy_19 wrote: Just a quick question that may have been already covered that I'm to lazy to look for. What does she like? What kind of music, fashion, movies, ect. She's a punk rock chick kinda. She's not the kind that dresses up in 1970's punk stuff but she wears band tees like anyone else i guess. We both love 1990's punk . Except she's able to accept this new stuff labeled punk but i cannot kinda. Just out of curiosity, like who?She's able to like Sense's Fail , My Chemical Romance, ect ect. I hate those pussbag bands but for her I wont bash them but rather block them out and think about a 'good' band I like.HYPOCRITE! YOUR PUNK ROCK STANDINGS HAVE GONE DOWN CONSIDERABLY! Kidding of course. She's a teenage girl. Of course she's going to like senses fail and mcr. I wish you the best of luck.  isn't mcr emo or am i mixing up my crappy-music styles. No. They get grouped into there by people, but they're not. More metal than emo. At least, that'smy humble opinion.

DJEvelEd

01-01-2007, 10:10 PM

Yeah try smoking some pot with her. If that doesn't work, try harder drugs like Rufies.

Krieger

02-22-2007, 05:03 PM

Yea so I haven't posted any updates in a month. On jan 23rd I told her over myspace how I felt , she said she didnt like me like that , and she was still numb over her ex (who she dumped 4 months ago) Its been a month since the message. We still talk on aim and I see her at shows. Tomm she wants me to pick her and a friend up after her mom drops her off at where she (her mom) thinks the show is gonna be. Then I have to take them like 3 towns over to a hardcore/punk show. (This kinda has me worried , since im not a minor and they are if somehow this backfires wont I get hauled off in cuffs like a monster?) But yea, I didn't give up but Im not trying as hard as I was before.

lleeder

02-22-2007, 05:08 PM

Don't be her taxi. Find someone else. Your wasting time with a girl thats not into you when you could be putting that energy into meeting new people.

Krieger

02-22-2007, 05:11 PM

I asked her before hand if she wanted to go to the show with me. She said then she didnt know whether her parents would let her since im not a "experienced" driver thats had years and years of exp. I won't be taken advantage of.

riverofpiss

02-22-2007, 05:44 PM

DJEvelEd wrote: Butthole SurfersAnti-Nowhere-LeagueFearTurn her on to the GOOD shit. Nice picks.  Butthole Surfers ruled until Electriclarryland.  Psychic Powerless...Another Man's Sac, Locust Abortion Technician, and Hairway to Steven are punk classics.

narc

02-22-2007, 05:48 PM

Angry Kevin wrote: I asked her before hand if she wanted to go to the show with me. She said then she didnt know whether her parents would let her since im not a "experienced" driver thats had years and years of exp. I won't be taken advantage of. You should come to the fight and meet a nice rf.net girl to bring you into the fold. As it were.

Krieger

02-22-2007, 05:59 PM

As a 18 year old boy I am of the age minority of the ron and fez audience I thinks.

narc

02-22-2007, 10:18 PM

Not necessarily. You might have to find someone to vouch for you, but since you post here I bet you could. There are plenty of nice girls out there, and I know it's hard, but sometimes, you gotta force yourself to do things you're not comfortable with. You'd be surprised. I'm pretty shy too, but I'll go talk to people and then afterwards you'll realize it's not so hard. Also, I don't know about your comfort level with this but alcohol does help. If you don't want to drink though, then that's fine. Think for yourself.