My best friend turned on me

[Brujo]

I just found out that a very close friend of mine has been hitting on my girlfriend, and now he's an ex-best friend. He blames alcohol, but my girl told me that he IMs her and even talks bad about me by telling her that I'm interested in other chicks. He's apologized but I think it's too late. Any opinions? Should I forgive him?

[spoon]

Yah, fuck that he's done.

[torker]

<p>oooops!!!!!!!!1</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by torker on 12-16-06 @ 6:01 PM</span>

[Rockvillejoe]

don't let a piece of pussy get in the way of a great friendship. he apologized. let it go. don't lend him any money, don't have him babysit your daughter, but accept his apology and move on. unconditional friendship will pay off in the long run.

[lleeder]

He was just testing your girlfriend you should be happy now you know shes a good girl.

[TheGameHHH]

slit his throat, teach him a lesson.

[reillyluck]

if you cant trust him especially with your girlfriend, then you cant trust him at all NO friend does that.&nbsp; Drop his ass

[Snacks]

<p>thats fucked up. </p><p>You should post pictures of your girl just so we can get an idea of why he would do something like this.</p>

[cozzie]

<strong>Brujo</strong> wrote:<br />I just found out that a very close friend of mine has been hitting on my girlfriend, and now he's an ex-best friend. He blames alcohol, but my girl told me that he IMs her and even talks bad about me by telling her that I'm interested in other chicks. He's apologized but I think it's too late. Any opinions? Should I forgive him?<p>&nbsp;he's just being a man, we all hit on whatever moves. You've done it and have the rest of us. If he's a great freind let&nbsp; him slide , and tap your girl. If he's a half ass freind , let him have that girl, thatway you'll be rid of&nbsp; them both. </p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br /><p>thats fucked up. </p><p>You should post pictures of your girl just so we can get an idea of why he would do something like this.</p><p>i agree, im looking to pass the torch on that gimmick!</p>

[johnniewalker]

Never turn your back on your friends.&nbsp;&nbsp; You don't know, maybe he was drunk.&nbsp; I don't like your girlfriend telling you about this anyways.&nbsp; I think it comes off as petty to rat someone out like that.&nbsp; If she likes you enough she should be able to respect your friendship, deal with it herself, and keep it quiet.&nbsp; <br />

[Bulldogcakes]

<p>The way I always saw it was its the women that come and go, friends should stick together. </p><p>Only trouble is, friends dont do shit like this to each other. Can you imagine if your girlfriend wasn't honest with you, or if the two of you were having problems and you found her with your friend in the sack together? Thats what he was trying to do, he just wasn't able to. Maybe next time. . . . </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I think the best friend you have in this equation is your girlfriend.&nbsp;<br /> </p>

[reeshy]

Kill the fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sr71blackbird]

Your friend, is NOT

[Febreeze]

<p>Oh I'm sorry. I thought that the name of the thread was &quot;My best friend turned me on&quot;.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I was just wondering if it was about good drugs or gay stuff.&nbsp;</p>

[jsmigley]

hmmm.... Who do you believe....your chick or your buddy? Your gut will tell you what to do.

[Davios]

You don't think it is odd that through all of the IMs and passes at your girl, she just suddenly told you this now? I have had friends in very similar situations and 80% of the time it is the girl simply attempting to cause drama.

[K.C.]

<p>It really depends on how well you know your chick. </p><p>Does your chick dislike your friend, or does she act jealous of if you spend time with him over her? Because there could be some underlying motives in her saying what she did...</p><p>...just sayin'</p>

[Justice4all]

<strong>cozzie</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Brujo</strong> wrote:<br />I just found out that a very close friend of mine has been hitting on my girlfriend, and now he's an ex-best friend. He blames alcohol, but my girl told me that he IMs her and even talks bad about me by telling her that I'm interested in other chicks. He's apologized but I think it's too late. Any opinions? Should I forgive him? <p>&nbsp;he's just being a man, we all hit on whatever moves. You've done it and have the rest of us. If he's a great freind let&nbsp; him slide , and tap your girl. If he's a half ass freind , let him have that girl, thatway you'll be rid of&nbsp; them both. </p><p>Sorry Man, I have to disagree. Any man who would bad-mouth you behind your back is not only NOT your friend but a fucking coward to boot.</p><p>I would not trust that guy with a used condom much less around my girl. He is worthless. Drop his ass and move the fuck on with your gal. </p><p>For believing her she owes you anal I would think.</p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>Justice4all</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>cozzie</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Brujo</strong> wrote:<br />I just found out that a very close friend of mine has been hitting on my girlfriend, and now he's an ex-best friend. He blames alcohol, but my girl told me that he IMs her and even talks bad about me by telling her that I'm interested in other chicks. He's apologized but I think it's too late. Any opinions? Should I forgive him? <p>&nbsp;he's just being a man, we all hit on whatever moves. You've done it and have the rest of us. If he's a great freind let&nbsp; him slide , and tap your girl. If he's a half ass freind , let him have that girl, thatway you'll be rid of&nbsp; them both. </p><p>Sorry Man, I have to disagree. Any man who would bad-mouth you behind your back is not only NOT your friend but a fucking coward to boot.</p><p>I would not trust that guy with a used condom much less around my girl. He is worthless. Drop his ass and move the fuck on with your gal. </p><p><font style="background-color: #ffff00">For believing her she owes you anal I would think.</font></p><p>thats how it goes at my house!!!!</p>

[boeman]

you don't need that shit... a friend like that is not trustworthy.

[Don Stugots]

<strong>Rockvillejoe</strong> wrote:<br />don't let a piece of pussy get in the way of a great friendship. he apologized. let it go. don't lend him any money, don't have him babysit your daughter, but accept his apology and move on. unconditional friendship will pay off in the long run. <p>bullshit.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>when in doubt, knock him out.&nbsp; </p>

[epo]

I've never met the man, but he's already dead to me.&nbsp;

[Gaia]

Thats fucked up is right. Most people cant be trusted, be happy she told you about him now, instead of you finding out on your own and aftewr something REALLY fucked up happened. So what if he apologized? Hes fucking you and thats all there is to it.

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>How long were you friend with him?&nbsp; What kind of stuff have you been through together?</p><p>But whatever the answer is, I guess the friendship you 2 had didn't mean that much to him.</p><p>I despise cheaters and people who help people cheat.&nbsp; It's probably the easiet thing to avoid in a relationship but people do it all the time and pay for it later.</p><p>If you're not happy with who you're with, leave them like an adult.&nbsp; Don't get married too quickly so you're not stuck with someone you don't know that well.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>My opinion since you asked for them is fucking drop the low life piece of shit.</p>

[mendyweiss]

I sure hope it wasn't&nbsp; your neighbor's teen age son !! that bum

[SatCam]

this is exactly why I don't like to have friends

yea thats it

[Don Stugots]

<strong>SatCam</strong> wrote:<br />this is exactly why I don't like to have friends yea thats it<p>&nbsp;yeah me too</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Lumber]

Tell him you'd like to speak to him then &quot;clean his clock&quot;.&nbsp;

[Tall_James]

He should be dead to you.&nbsp;

[Marc with a c]

threesome

[Furtherman]

<p>What your &quot;best&quot; friend did was inexcusable.</p><p>You just don't do that to another man - especially a friend.&nbsp; Drop him.</p>

[UnknownPD]

<strong>Furtherman</strong> wrote:<br /><p>What your &quot;best&quot; friend did was inexcusable.</p><p>You just don't do that to another man - especially a friend.&nbsp; Drop him.</p><p><font size="2">and you gotta dump your chick cause she ratted out your friend</font></p>

[Furtherman]

<strong>UnknownPD</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Furtherman</strong> wrote:<br /><p>What your &quot;best&quot; friend did was inexcusable.</p><p>You just don't do that to another man - especially a friend.&nbsp; Drop him.</p><p><font size="2">and you gotta dump your chick cause she ratted out your friend</font></p><p>No, she sounds like one you can trust.</p>

[spoon]

<strong>Don Stugots</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Rockvillejoe</strong> wrote:<br />don't let a piece of pussy get in the way of a great friendship. he apologized. let it go. don't lend him any money, don't have him babysit your daughter, but accept his apology and move on. unconditional friendship will pay off in the long run. <p>bullshit.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>when in doubt, knock him out.&nbsp; </p><p>Truer words have never been spoken.&nbsp; That was very Ron-esque right their my friend.</p>

[UnknownPD]

<strong>Furtherman</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>UnknownPD</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Furtherman</strong> wrote:<br /><p>What your &quot;best&quot; friend did was inexcusable.</p><p>You just don't do that to another man - especially a friend.&nbsp; Drop him.</p><p><font size="2">and you gotta dump your chick cause she ratted out your friend</font></p><p>No, she sounds like one you can trust.</p><p><font size="2">Say that now, but wait until she feel the need to be honest to a cop and you'll change your mind</font></p>

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>Marc with a c</strong> wrote:<br />threesome <p>i guess we now know who that best friend is/was&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; HORSEPANTS!</p><p>you're an animal</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[torker]

I like the way she dips.

[sailor]

<strong>spoon</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Don Stugots</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Rockvillejoe</strong> wrote:<br />don't let a piece of pussy get in the way of a great friendship. he apologized. let it go. don't lend him any money, don't have him babysit your daughter, but accept his apology and move on. unconditional friendship will pay off in the long run. <p>bullshit. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>when in doubt, knock him out. </p><p>Truer words have never been spoken. That was very Ron-esque right their my friend.</p><p>&nbsp;<font size="2">didn't ron say a week or two ago, if your friend didn't try it would mean he was gay?&nbsp; in response to others, if a friend of mine hit on my girl i'd much rather hear it from her than find out about it later from someone else.&nbsp; that would just make you wonder why she never mentioned it. </font></p>

[CofyCrakCocaine]

<p>Screw your 'friend'. If any of my friends tried that, I would have a few harsh words with them, and then they'd be out. If they persisted, I would make them kiss my fist. They're not reliable if they're trying to hit on your woman.&nbsp;</p>

[Ogre]

The questions&nbsp;are: Did she return his IMs ?&nbsp; If so for how long?&nbsp;&nbsp;How long was he smack talking about you before she ratted him out?&nbsp; Why did this come to light?&nbsp; Did you catch him in the act?&nbsp; If booze was truly to blame that might excuse one occurence, but continued&nbsp;is a pattern of being a rat.&nbsp;Trust niether.&nbsp; She might have been playing with him too.&nbsp; In that case can she be trusted?&nbsp; I say an unfortunate and untimely accident might be in order for the parties involved.&nbsp; Trust no one.

[Duke]

<p>shove a beer bottle up his ass then burn him with his crack pipe</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>damn junkies....&nbsp;</p>

[pennington]

<strong>Ogre</strong> wrote:<br />The questions&nbsp;are: Did she return his IMs ?&nbsp; If so for how long?&nbsp;&nbsp;How long was he smack talking about you before she ratted him out?&nbsp; Why did this come to light?&nbsp; <p>Exactly.</p><p>I had two friends, one was screwing the other guy's fiance, even took pictures and showed them around.&nbsp;They stayed friends. I lost respect for both of them.</p><p>I don't buy the alcohol excuse for a second. If your girlfriend looked like Rosie O'Donnell, would it have still happened? I would start putting distance between you and this &quot;friend&quot;</p>

[Gvac]

<strong>torker</strong> wrote:<br />I like the way she dips.<p>Three cheers for a Cars reference. &nbsp;</p>

[Bulldogcakes]

<strong>Ogre</strong> wrote:<br />The questions are: Did she return his IMs ? If so for how long? How long was he smack talking about you before she ratted him out? Why did this come to light? Did you catch him in the act? If booze was truly to blame that might excuse one occurence, but continued is a pattern of being a rat. Trust niether. She might have been playing with him too. In that case can she be trusted? I say an unfortunate and untimely accident might be in order for the parties involved. Trust no one.I have to admit the same thing crossed my mind as well. Is there any reason why your girlfriend might be trying to drive a wedge between you and your friend. Did she often complain that you spend too much time with him, and not enough with her? Or did something mutual happen between them, and now she doesn't want it to get back to you? Or not. But I'd try to eliminate those possibilities before believing anyone.&nbsp;&nbsp;EDIT-Since you confronted your friend with this and he admitted it already, your girlfriend is pretty much in the clear.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<p>&nbsp;</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Bulldogcakes on 12-30-06 @ 7:32 PM</span>

[ralphbxny]

Id forgive him just to keep him close but he is never to be trusted! Your girlfriend is a stand up chick !

[FezPaul]

<strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>torker</strong> wrote:<br />I like the way she dips. <p>Three cheers for a Cars reference. &nbsp;</p><p><strong><font face="courier new,courier" size="2">torker always delivers.</font></strong></p>

[nwm]

Women tend to stretch the truth, I doubt your friend would bad mouth you behind your back and certainly not to your girlfriend.&nbsp;&nbsp; This is why I trust women about as far as I can throw them, and since I like fat women, that becomes a problem

[dereckfishboy]

Once trust is sullied, it's never as strong as it once was. Honor and loyalty aren't emotions that lapse after a few drinks, they're character traits and either you have them or you don't. Your boy proved he didn't when he decided that the possibility of nailing your chick was worth more to him than the risk of losing your friendship.

[dereckfishboy]

<strong>Ogre</strong> wrote:<br />Trust no one.<p>&nbsp;I think &quot;question everything&quot; is just as smart and maybe a touch bit healthier&nbsp; </p>

[nwm]

<p>I think its just time to turn gay</p><p>&nbsp;</p>