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douchebagsean

01-05-2007, 08:18 PM

ok so here it goes, ill try to keep the back story short.  im posting this mostly to vent about whats going on right now in my life.  feel free to respond with comments both helpful and caustic since laughter can only help this situation, any and all advice is also appreciated.  A month ago i was home online working on some stuff for school (im a teacher), during a break i decided to go into one of those aol chatrooms (bad idea i know).  those that know me from the board i tend to be a lurker, im not actively searching for anything just hanging out trying to enjoy life.  anyways this chick im's me and we start chatting.  out of nowhere she gives me her number and asks me to call her sometime.  a few days latter we chat and weve talked everyday since then.  i dont normally meet people from the internet unless its at an o&a or ron/fez function.  shes very busy and thus far hasnt made any time to actually want to go out with me even though she says she wants too.  the more we talk the more i like her and according to her vice/versa.  so where does this lead us, well tonight we were chatting and shes been working since 7am this morning and she wont be home till 1-2 am sat morning and even though she said she was going to call me i told her theres no need to call.  she got all upset saying she feels no obligation to me and that i should stop trying to discourage her from talking to me.  i guess where im confused is should i continue to wait for this chick to come around and make time for me or should i just cut loose while the getting is good and move on?  its weird cause weve never met and i feel a 'connection' with her and that what bugs me the most, im not above this love at first sight shit but come on how can i feel strongly about a chick ive never met, its bugging the shit out of me.  again have fun with this and if anyone can offer any advice, super sweet.  thanks for letting me vent and c-ya sean

reeshy

01-05-2007, 08:30 PM

Wow....I can understand what you're saying...it's like this board...when I first came here over 5 years ago...it was beacause I liked the Boys.....then I started talking to people on the board....then I met them....I have some pretty nice friends from this board.....in your situation....it's a little different.....this is a chick you like...I say meet her for coffee one day and see where it goes from there....whatever....good luck wherever it takes you Sean!!!! Good luck,Kevin

Kevin

01-05-2007, 08:31 PM

reeshy wrote: Wow....I can understand what you're saying...it's like this board...when I first came here over 5 years ago...it was beacause I liked the Boys.....then I started talking to people on the board....then I met them....I have some pretty nice friends from this board.....in your situation....it's a little different.....this is a chick you like...I say meet her for coffee one day and see where it goes from there....whatever....good luck wherever it takes you Sean!!!! Good luck,Kevin Did i give you permission to use my name to sign your posts Reeshy???

This message was edited by Kevin on 1-6-07 @ 12:33 AM

douchebagsean

01-05-2007, 08:34 PM

see this is why i love this board, always making me chuckle on the inside.  ive offered to meet her for cofee but her work interferes.  so its weird all around and i dont know what to do. part of me wants to never talk to her again and part wants to pick up everytime she calls.

Kevin

01-05-2007, 08:37 PM

All kidding aside.... She may have a low opinion of herself and is afraid u won't like her if you see her.... Or she is a 70 year old fat dude..... Toss up!

Gvac

01-05-2007, 08:39 PM

I'm going to wait until morning when I'm a bit more clear headed before I give you any advice, but right now I just had to tell you that your board name has always been my all time favorite.  I giggle every single time I read it.

douchebagsean

01-05-2007, 08:41 PM

Gvac wrote: I'm going to wait until morning when I'm a bit more clear headed before I give you any advice, but right now I just had to tell you that your board name has always been my all time favorite. I giggle every single time I read it.  aww shucks, they like me they really like me.  gvac i must honestly say my only regret so far in life is i havent been to a ron/fez function to meet any of you.  you are all trully wonderful people

Team_Ramrod

01-05-2007, 09:00 PM

You're a Mormon?No reason to bring religion here.    ~Colin~

nevnut

01-05-2007, 10:07 PM

[quote]douchebagsean wrote: Ok so here it goes, I'll try to keep the back story short.  I'm posting this mostly to vent about what's going on right now in my life.  Feel free to respond with comments both helpful and caustic since laughter can only help this situation, any and all advice is also appreciated.  A month ago I was home online working on some stuff for school (I'm a teacher), during a break I decided to go into one of those aol chatrooms (bad idea I know).  Those that know me from the board I tend to be a lurker, I'm not actively searching for anything just hanging out trying to enjoy life.  Anyways this chick im's me and we start chatting.  Out of nowhere she gives me her number and asks me to call her sometime.  A few days latter we chat and weve talked everyday since then.  I don't normally meet people from the internet unless its at an O&A or Ron/Fez function.  She's very busy and thus far hasn't made any time to actually want to go out with me even though she says she wants too.  The more we talk the more I like her and according to her vice/versa.  So where does this lead us, well tonight we were chatting and she's been working since 7am this morning and she won't be home till 1-2 am Sat. morning and even though she said she was going to call me, I told her there's no need to call.  She got all upset saying she feels no obligation to me and that I should stop trying to discourage her from talking to me.  I guess where I'm confused is should I continue to wait for this chick to come around and make time for me or should I just cut loose while the getting is good and move on?  It's weird cause weve never met and I feel a 'connection' with her and that what bugs me the most, I'm not above this love at first sight shit but come on how can I feel strongly about a chick I've never met, it'

boeman

01-06-2007, 12:33 AM

<img src="http://img440.imageshack.us/img440/5162/dtlhansenpred02051216smko4.jpg" border="0" width="198" height="149" />  watch your back.

Mike Teacher

01-06-2007, 12:52 AM

...and you're a teacher?!? =Fixed it for ya.

Bulldogcakes

01-06-2007, 04:28 AM

Gvac wrote:I just had to tell you that your board name has always been my all time favorite. I giggle every single time I read it. Me too. Best name since Boobookittyfuck. As far as your post goes, I'd think of it this way. Ask yourself "Is anyone currently giving me regular blowjobs? (Pros dont count)" If the answer is no, you should call her. Even if she is starting to act like a psycho. Sometimes psycho babes are the best lays. If you're serious about all this "feelings" stuff, then you're either overthinking this, or as your name implies, a douchebag.

Poochie

01-06-2007, 04:40 AM

Kevin wrote: All kidding aside.... She may have a low opinion of herself and is afraid u won't like her if you see her.... Or she is a 70 year old fat dude..... Toss up! I gotta agree with Kevin..she never sent you a pic either? Ask her, see whats up then.

angelinad128

01-06-2007, 05:50 AM

So you guys have only talked online? You have her #, does she have yours?  Call her, see if you like what her voice sounds like.  If she gave you her number first without asking, then she isn't shy and insecure.Go fot it.

moochcassidy

01-06-2007, 06:34 AM

pics?

cougarjake13

01-06-2007, 07:18 AM

i see it as win winyou keep talking online and on the phone and if it evolves then you winif all that happens is you occasionally talk or chat but it never progresses you still win b/c for at least a little while some chick was paying attention and maybe showing some form of affection

douchebagsean

01-06-2007, 07:31 AM

she sent pics and we talked almost every day since the 16th of december

cougarjake13

01-06-2007, 08:08 AM

what kind of a work schedule does she have that she cant make time for a half hour or so to have coffee ???

WhistlePig

01-06-2007, 08:09 AM

Hmm. She might be married or in a relationship and is just playing with you
online and that's why she doesn't want to meet in person. She might just
want an online affair. I hate to be negative but if she keeps making excuses
about why she can't meet you I'd cut and run.

douchebagsean

01-15-2007, 07:55 AM

update:well its been a few weeks and there have been some more phone calls and emails then she said she needed space so its been a week and nothing, ive seen her online a few times and weve exchanged pleasantries but other than that i think this plane is gonna crash and burn.  thanks to all those who gave advice.

FUNKMAN

01-15-2007, 08:01 AM

did you at least tongue the phone a little bit?  <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" width="20" height="20" />don't sweat it budday. just can't get too caught up and it's a learning experience...

douchebagsean

01-15-2007, 08:04 AM

nice funk...eh im not caught up in it i just get confused easily, shes the one who initiated everything then shes the one who ended it, just so weird is all

douchebagsean

01-15-2007, 08:05 AM

by the way yes i did tounge the phone

Jujubees2

01-15-2007, 08:10 AM

She needs space?  Jesus, you never even met her in person.  I say, run, don't walk, away from her!Man, I'm glad I dated in the days before the internet and chat rooms and IMs.  I dated the old fashioned way, by actaully talking to someone in person.  Of course, I didn't get many dates <img src="/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/happy.gif" border="0" width="20" height="20" />

lleeder

01-15-2007, 11:36 AM

I wish I had seen this earlier. I had done this sort of thing in the past and it is a complete waste. Nothing tangible will ever come out of it. Don't talk to women on the computer that you don't hang out with in person. Most of them are damaged.