Sexually Aggressive Women - Hot/Not?

[sr71blackbird]

<p>My own personal opinion- Maybe I am &quot;old fashioned&quot;, or behind the times, but I don't find it attractive when a girl is the aggressor or initiator of sexual advances.&nbsp; I prefer them to me kind of coy and reserved with just a slight desire to&nbsp;be obvious.&nbsp; If I see a girl who is aggressive, it actually turns me off.&nbsp; So, I wanted to know how others feel about this, so I made this poll.&nbsp; Here is the question..</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p align="center"><font size="4">Are sexually aggressive women Hot or Not?</font></p><p align="center">&nbsp;</p><p align="center"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0762419520.01._AA240_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" width="240" height="240" /></p>
<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by sr71blackbird on 1-14-07 @ 7:35 AM</span>

[OGC]

<p><font face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">As far as I'm concerned, any woman who is interested in sex is hot. </font></p><p><font face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">I guess this is a corollary to the Bennington doctrine.</font></p>

[Snacks]

why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to always do all the work.

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Snacks on 1-14-07 @ 7:56 AM</span>

[jetdog]

I guess it depends on if they are hot or not.<br />

[Bulldogcakes]

<strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br />why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to <strong>always </strong>do all the work.&nbsp;<span class="post_edited"></span><p>&quot;Always&quot; being the key word there. Guys generally like it to be their idea, and most women like being led there. Thats not to say if a woman is occasionally aggressive it can be very hot, and alot of fun. However, if she's ALWAYS aggressive, it can really wear you out. Unless you're a nebish who needs that sort of thing. Then it can work for you.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;</p>

[Snacks]

<strong>Bulldogcakes</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br />why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to <strong>always </strong>do all the work.&nbsp;<span class="post_edited"></span> <p>&quot;Always&quot; being the key word there. Guys generally like it to be their idea, and most women like being led there. Thats not to say if a woman is occasionally aggressive it can be very hot, and alot of fun.<font style="background-color: #ffff00"> However, if she's ALWAYS aggressive, it can really wear you out.</font> Unless you're a nebish who needs that sort of thing. Then it can work for you.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;</p><p>so wouldnt it wear a women out if men were always the aggressive one? By your statement then yes</p>

[sr71blackbird]

<p>Like I said, I just dont find it appealing.&nbsp; I think it's because I was brought up to think of men as the aggressor, and when I see a woman being aggressive, it turns me off.&nbsp; I have had situations where women will come onto me and every time, I rejected it.&nbsp; <br />I am not saying its &quot;wrong&quot;, I am saying it doesnt &quot;do it&quot; for me.</p>

[burrben]

hot. 100% hot

[Gvac]

<p>It's <em>how</em> they show their aggressiveness that determines whether they come off as sexy or slutty.&nbsp; </p><p>Some women just know how to &quot;play the game&quot; better than others, and the ones who can show their interest in a more subtle way excite me a lot more than a chick who's blatantly hitting on you.&nbsp; Sometimes they come off as desperate if they're too overt. </p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Bulldogcakes]

<strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Bulldogcakes</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br />why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to <strong>always </strong>do all the work. <span class="post_edited"></span> <p>&quot;Always&quot; being the key word there. Guys generally like it to be their idea, and most women like being led there. Thats not to say if a woman is occasionally aggressive it can be very hot, and alot of fun.<font style="background-color: #ffff00"> However, if she's ALWAYS aggressive, it can really wear you out.</font> Unless you're a nebish who needs that sort of thing. Then it can work for you. </p><p>so wouldnt it wear a women out if men were always the aggressive one? By your statement then yes</p>Absolutely. Again, &quot;always&quot; being the key word here. &nbsp;<p>&nbsp;</p>

[sr71blackbird]

<strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><p>It's <em>how</em> they show their aggressiveness that determines whether they come off as sexy or slutty.&nbsp; </p><p>Some women just know how to &quot;play the game&quot; better than others, and the ones who can show their interest in a more subtle way excite me a lot more than a chick who's blatantly hitting on you.&nbsp; Sometimes they come off as desperate if they're too overt. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Exactamundo!</p>

[shittyhambrgers]

<strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br />why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to always do all the work. <span class="post_edited">This message was edited by Snacks on 1-14-07 @ 7:56 AM</span><p>&nbsp;</p>

[sailor]

<font size="2">super hott!<br /></font>

[lleeder]

Any level of interest from none to too much is hot.

[Tenbatsuzen]

<p>I like women who are sexually aggressive, but I don't like a woman who outwardly flaunts her sexuality to everyone.&nbsp; There's a major difference between being sexy and being an attention whore/glory cunt.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[johnniewalker]

<strong>Bulldogcakes</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Snacks</strong> wrote:<br />why would that turn you off? How can you not like an aggresive women? To me it makes you feel like your girl wants you and that your turning her on. Its nice to not have to <strong>always </strong>do all the work. <span class="post_edited"></span><p>&quot;Always&quot; being the key word there. Guys generally like it to be their idea, and most women like being led there. Thats not to say if a woman is occasionally aggressive it can be very hot, and alot of fun. However, if she's ALWAYS aggressive, it can really wear you out. Unless you're a nebish who needs that sort of thing. Then it can work for you. </p><p>&nbsp;I totally agree, it reflects a girls character. &nbsp; It might be cool for a night, but she'll probably be really controlling and probably psycho.&nbsp; &nbsp; </p>

[narc]

<p>If you don't find it hot, then, I'm sorry, but you're 100% gay. I'm usually shy enough on my own end that I can use a kick in the ass every once in a while.</p><p>If she's crazy otherwise, then that's a separate issue from just being sexually aggressive. &nbsp;</p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>I kind of feel like Dave by doing this and airing out my sexual 'laundry' but...</p><p>I like girls who are sexually agressive, I like girls who are comfortable with thier bodies and who aren't afraid of 'getting to know themselves'.</p><p>Aside from my very first girlfriend, I haven't had a chick who would be comfortable enough to get themselves off. Neither in front of me or on thier own. I thought it was so wicked awesome! My wife is the anti-touch. She says that if she did that then I wouldn't be needed...good I guess.</p><p>The only time I got my wife to do anything remotely close to that was about 3 years ago... I was between he legs rubbing with my unit and she liked it so I started to miss the spot on purpose. My plan came into play!She grabbed the hog and rubbed herself off with Killer. I had to use mind control to do it but it is the most memorable event to date.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I also like when a chick grabs you by the hair and throws you on the bed on the stomach and says &quot;My turn, you're gonna pay now bitch&quot;! I start to cry and become very scared in an arroused kind of way.</p>

[A.J.]

I wouldn't know.

[cougarjake13]

<p>no questions</p><p>they are completely hot</p>

[hyperspace]

there is nothing like being on my kness at a leather wearing female completely at her mercy!!

[Reephdweller]

<p>I happen like women who are either way, aggressive or more submissive - like some others said whatever way you can get it. Though more to SR71's and GVAC's and even Matty's point I also agree that there are some women who try too hard and it comes off not attractive. I like an agressive woman who is so in a way that says she is really into you and wants you in a animal-like way, to me that is hot. But there are some women I've encountered who either don't know how to work that or come off more desperate than anything else and it loses it's appeal to me. </p>

[Marc with a c]

i like women who for whatever reason find me somewhat attractive.

[sr71blackbird]

I am kind of shocked I am in this minority

[GwEnYpOo]

i dont know about women,&nbsp; i mean i can be both , but an extremely agressive guy (sexually) is like the the sexiest thing in the world. . . . but thats just my opinion . . . . .

[SatCam]

<strong>A.J.</strong> wrote:<br>I wouldn't know.<p></p>

because all the women you've been with were tied up and gagged

[Ritalin]

<strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><p>It's <em>how</em> they show their aggressiveness that determines whether they come off as sexy or slutty. </p><p>Some women just know how to &quot;play the game&quot; better than others, and the ones who can show their interest in a more subtle way excite me a lot more than a chick who's blatantly hitting on you. Sometimes they come off as <span style="background-color: #ffff00">desperate if they're too overt.</span> </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;And <u>why</u> would it be a bad thing if a woman was desperate to have sex with me?<br /> </p>

[sr71blackbird]

<strong>Ritalin</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><p>It's <em>how</em> they show their aggressiveness that determines whether they come off as sexy or slutty. </p><p>Some women just know how to &quot;play the game&quot; better than others, and the ones who can show their interest in a more subtle way excite me a lot more than a chick who's blatantly hitting on you. Sometimes they come off as <span style="background-color: #ffff00">desperate if they're too overt.</span> </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;And <u>why</u> would it be a bad thing if a woman was desperate to have sex with me?</p><p>You'd<strong><em> want</em></strong> to have sex with a desperate woman?</p>

[SatCam]

Sexually Aggressive Women - Hot/Not?

depends on how lazy im feeling

[ShelleBink]

I like being sexually agressive, takes out waiting for the guy to make the first move.&nbsp; Plus just getting a guy excited and enjoying certain things makes me get a bit hotter.

[BLZBUBBA]

<p>Sometimes the chase is better than the catch.&nbsp;&nbsp;And it's&nbsp;always better than something that smells like catch-o-the-day...from&nbsp;last week.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>If she's a lady and keeps it clean down there she deserves respect.&nbsp; It's not that complicated.&nbsp; Some are worth the extra effort.&nbsp;Some aren't.</p>

[reeshy]

I love when a woman pulls my pants downs and punches me has hard as she can in the old sack.....that's hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ShelleBink]

<strong>reeshy</strong> wrote:<br />I love when a woman pulls my pants downs and punches me has hard as she can in the old sack.....that's hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<p>&nbsp;reeshy why are you telling people my special tricks? </p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />I like being sexually agressive, takes out waiting for the guy to make the first move.&nbsp; Plus just getting a guy excited and enjoying certain things makes me get a bit hotter. <p>That's pretty cool, I think it takes until a guy gets 3 or 4 women under his belt before he gets confident enough to make the first move.</p><p>I used to wait until the girl made the first move to get with her but eventually I picked up on the signs and moved in when they were made.....you know, like when she takes a deep breath. That's a pretty obvious sign for a guy to move in.... or when she clears her throat or looks at you. Obvious.</p>

[Snacks]

<strong>BLZBUBBA</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font style="background-color: #ffff00">Sometimes the chase is better than the catch</font>.&nbsp;&nbsp;And it's&nbsp;always better than something that smells like catch-o-the-day...from&nbsp;last week.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>If she's a lady and keeps it clean down there she deserves respect.&nbsp; It's not that complicated.&nbsp; Some are worth the extra effort.&nbsp;Some aren't.</p><p>that is very true</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Ritalin]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Ritalin</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><p>It's <em>how</em> they show their aggressiveness that determines whether they come off as sexy or slutty. </p><p>Some women just know how to &quot;play the game&quot; better than others, and the ones who can show their interest in a more subtle way excite me a lot more than a chick who's blatantly hitting on you. Sometimes they come off as <span style="background-color: #ffff00">desperate if they're too overt.</span> </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> And <u>why</u> would it be a bad thing if a woman was desperate to have sex with me?</p><p>You'd<strong><em> want</em></strong> to have sex with a desperate woman?</p><p>Why not? Am I supposed to want to have sex with shy, withholding women? See, this is the whole thing, I think. Desperate means bad, slutty, trashy to you. I'm saying it doesn't have to be. </p>

[ShelleBink]

<strong>Team_Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />I like being sexually agressive, takes out waiting for the guy to make the first move. Plus just getting a guy excited and enjoying certain things makes me get a bit hotter. <p>That's pretty cool, I think it takes until a guy gets 3 or 4 women under his belt before he gets confident enough to make the first move.</p><p>I used to wait until the girl made the first move to get with her but eventually I picked up on the signs and moved in when they were made.....you know, like when she takes a deep breath. That's a pretty obvious sign for a guy to move in.... or when she clears her throat or looks at you. Obvious.</p><p>&nbsp;I always found looking at the guy saying &quot;fuck me now&quot; or taking off his pants usually was able to get the point across.</p>

[RoseBlood]

Whether the girl is making sexual advances towards an unwilling acquantaince/stranger or her boyfriend/husband makes a world a difference between being labeled crazy, desperate and needy. Versus just wanting to show adoration for your man in an affectionate or physical manner. There are times to be romantic and times you just wanna fuck, when a girl (or a guy) can't decipher the two and continue to cling to you like a parasite then it gets ugly. I think I speak for all when I say there's no sadder scene then watching a girl (or guy)&nbsp;fawn over another who clearly isn't interested. I didn't vote in this poll: I see alot of grey areas, plus I'm female so would my vote even matter?

[RoseBlood]

<p>C'mere big fella:</p><p><img src="http://www.rotten.com/library/bio/sports/chyna/chyna1.jpg" border="0" width="200" height="252" /></p>

[Snacks]

<strong>RoseBlood</strong> wrote:<br />Whether the girl is making sexual advances towards an unwilling acquantaince/stranger or her boyfriend/husband makes a world a difference between being labeled crazy, desperate and needy. Versus just wanting to show adoration for your man in an affectionate or physical manner. There are times to be romantic and times you just wanna fuck, when a girl (or a guy) can't decipher the two and continue to cling to you like a parasite then it gets ugly. I think I speak for all when I say there's no sadder scene then watching a girl (or guy)&nbsp;fawn over another who clearly isn't interested. I didn't vote in this poll: <font style="background-color: #ffff00">I see alot of grey areas, plus I'm female so would my vote even matter? </font><p>In general I would agree, but I think within this thread he is talking about a girl he is dating. I could be wrong or misread his question.</p><p>I like it when the girl I'm dating or interested in is the aggressie one.</p>

[dolemyte]

<p>Hot for the night/moment</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Gets old fast though... but when im drunk, its a god send..drunk chicks dig the goatee for some reason&nbsp;</p>

[Poochie]

I absolutely like being aggressive at times, but i also like to know the guy wants it as bad as i do and shows some unexpected initiative.&nbsp;

[dolemyte]

<strong>Poochie</strong> wrote:<br />I absolutely like being aggressive at times, but i also like to know the guy wants it as bad as i do and shows some unexpected initiative.&nbsp;<p>&nbsp;<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/bye.gif" border="0" /> i think i love u ..lol</p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Team_Ramrod</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote:<br />I like being sexually agressive, takes out waiting for the guy to make the first move. Plus just getting a guy excited and enjoying certain things makes me get a bit hotter. <p>That's pretty cool, I think it takes until a guy gets 3 or 4 women under his belt before he gets confident enough to make the first move.</p><p>I used to wait until the girl made the first move to get with her but eventually I picked up on the signs and moved in when they were made.....you know, like when she takes a deep breath. That's a pretty obvious sign for a guy to move in.... or when she clears her throat or looks at you. Obvious.</p><p>&nbsp;I always found looking at the guy saying &quot;fuck me now&quot; or taking off his pants usually was able to get the point across.</p><p>Ah for Christ Sake! I didn't even know that was a sign. When that happened I'd cover my boobies, start to cry and run home to have a hot shower feeling all violated.</p><p>If I only knew.</p>

[Yerdaddy]

<strong>[Inside Patty's trailer]<br /><em>Navin</em></strong> What a great place! You know, you can tell so much about a person from the way they live. Just looking around here I can tell you're a genuinely dirty person. What do I do with this? <em>(Patty takes the helmet and throws it across the trailer)</em> Oh, you keep it there. Where's your garbage? <em>(Patty takes Navin's corn dog and throws it across the trailer as well)</em><br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> <em>(she lies down on the bed)</em> You know what I'd like to do?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> What?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Guess your weight.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Hey, that would be interesting for me, no one has tried to guess my weight! You see, I guess their weights...<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Put your arms up.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> This will give me a whole different perspective on this. <em>(Patty squeezes Navin's backside)</em> Hey! You're really trying to be accurate! Is it getting hot in here? Wait a minute - what's happening to my special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> What's your special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Well when I was a kid my mom told me... there goes my special purpose! And someday I'd find out what my special purpose was!<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Today's the day!<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> <em>(the whole trailer shakes)</em> Hey, this is like a ride!

[angelinad128]

<strong>Poochie</strong> wrote:<br />I absolutely like being aggressive at times, but i also like to know the guy wants it as bad as i do and shows some unexpected initiative.&nbsp; <p>Yes agreed. I think most women think this way.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by angelinad128 on 1-15-07 @ 10:29 AM</span>

[narc]

<p>The thing I've noticed is that every woman, in my experience, has a certain look that they give when they want you to make a move (kiss them). But every woman is different, so I sort of have to learn what it is before I'll know to make a move. Until then, I just assume that no woman wants anything to do with me. </p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[sr71blackbird]

I didnt mean to come off as if I am tunrned off by any sexual agressiveness, I meant that I do not want a woman making moves on me when we first meet.&nbsp;

[angelinad128]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote:<br />I didnt mean to come off as if I am tunrned off by any sexual agressiveness, I meant that I do not want a woman making moves on me<font style="background-color: #ffff00"> when we first meet</font>.&nbsp; <p>You should have said that from the start. On first meeting, yes the man should be the one to make the first move. Then from there on, it goes both ways for sure.</p>

[A.J.]

<strong>SatCam</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>A.J.</strong> wrote:<br />I wouldn't know. <p>because all the women you've been with were tied up and gagged </p><p>And inflatable.</p>

[PapaBear]

Would an aggressive woman, who's gagged, be hot or frightening? I'm voting for hot.

[Team_Ramrod]

<strong>PapaBear</strong> wrote:<br />Would an aggressive woman, who's gagged, be hot or frightening? I'm voting for hot. <p>It wouldn't be as hot if it was part of a game. Now if she is aggressive because you're keeping her there against her will, well......</p>

[weekapaugjz]

<strong>Yerdaddy</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>[Inside Patty's trailer]<br /><em>Navin</em></strong> What a great place! You know, you can tell so much about a person from the way they live. Just looking around here I can tell you're a genuinely dirty person. What do I do with this? <em>(Patty takes the helmet and throws it across the trailer)</em> Oh, you keep it there. Where's your garbage? <em>(Patty takes Navin's corn dog and throws it across the trailer as well)</em><br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> <em>(she lies down on the bed)</em> You know what I'd like to do?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> What?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Guess your weight.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Hey, that would be interesting for me, no one has tried to guess my weight! You see, I guess their weights...<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Put your arms up.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> This will give me a whole different perspective on this. <em>(Patty squeezes Navin's backside)</em> Hey! You're really trying to be accurate! Is it getting hot in here? Wait a minute - what's happening to my special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> What's your special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Well when I was a kid my mom told me... there goes my special purpose! And someday I'd find out what my special purpose was!<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Today's the day!<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> <em>(the whole trailer shakes)</em> Hey, this is like a ride!<p>one of my favorite scenes from that movie, fucking great post. </p>

[GwEnYpOo]

<strong>Yerdaddy</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>[Inside Patty's trailer]<br /><em>Navin</em></strong> What a great place! You know, you can tell so much about a person from the way they live. Just looking around here I can tell you're a genuinely dirty person. What do I do with this? <em>(Patty takes the helmet and throws it across the trailer)</em> Oh, you keep it there. Where's your garbage? <em>(Patty takes Navin's corn dog and throws it across the trailer as well)</em><br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> <em>(she lies down on the bed)</em> You know what I'd like to do?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> What?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Guess your weight.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Hey, that would be interesting for me, no one has tried to guess my weight! You see, I guess their weights...<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Put your arms up.<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> This will give me a whole different perspective on this. <em>(Patty squeezes Navin's backside)</em> Hey! You're really trying to be accurate! Is it getting hot in here? Wait a minute - what's happening to my special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> What's your special purpose?<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> Well when I was a kid my mom told me... there goes my special purpose! And someday I'd find out what my special purpose was!<br /><strong><em>Patty</em></strong> Today's the day!<br /><strong><em>Navin</em></strong> <em>(the whole trailer shakes)</em> Hey, this is like a ride! <p>hahaha great steve martin movie reference . . . i fuckin love that movie.</p>

[Yerdaddy]

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<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Yerdaddy on 1-16-07 @ 6:14 AM</span>

[NewYorkDragons80]

I think it's hot when the woman takes charge once in a while, but it's good to shake things up at all times.&nbsp; There shouldn't be one aggressor in the bedroom, IMO.

[ralphbxny]

<strong>PapaBear</strong> wrote:<br />Would an aggressive woman, who's gagged, be hot or frightening? I'm voting for hot. <p>HOT!</p><p>Very!</p>