Just Moved In Together

[Leticia]

How much do you argue.. or is it normal to argue about the stupidest shit, when you've recently moved in together...

[MrPink]

I would assume it's normal. I never lived with a girl yet, but I have had relationships where we fought over stupid shit. You'll probably work it out over time.

[Leticia]

I had actually always been against moving in with someone your dating but I did it this time cause I thought it would be different(i'm sure that's how it happens for most people...) Well... it is pretty early in the move, but I'm afraid of all my fears about living with someone coming true.

[ralphbxny]

<p>when I was young...I moved in with a chick we did. Fought for the hell of it and screwed angry. Eventually&nbsp;it was just angry sex...then just angry. Be careful. It should&nbsp;not be that hard... all things should be worked out.</p>

[FUNKMAN]

you both have to bend and be flexible

[cupcakelove]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />you both have to bend and be flexible<p>But like <font face="andale mono,times" size="1" color="black">ralphbxny said, it eventually just turns to angry.</font></p><p>I moved in with my last girlfriend, it took me a month to realize it wasn't going to work.&nbsp; We made it about 5 months into our 1 year lease, and then I was left trying to find a new&nbsp; roommate.&nbsp; Good luck.&nbsp;</p>

[Bossanova]

Iwent through this.&nbsp; I think its as simple as you are so used to haveing your own space.&nbsp; You love who you are with, but you need to be alone sometimes.&nbsp; Its tough, but it works its way out. (most of the time, I think f it , I have no idea)

[Leticia]

<strong>Bossanova</strong> wrote:<br />Iwent through this. I think its as simple as you are so used to haveing your own space. You love who you are with, but you need to be alone sometimes. Its tough, but it works its way out. (most of the time, I think f it , I have no idea)<p>&nbsp;</p><p>Yea, you're right. It def. was about wanting my own space. It's actually better now cause we talked about a whole bunch of stuff today and decided we've got to know what's worth arguing(or discussing) about and what is only a fear coming out as something else. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Thanx guys for helping me out. I valued all of your advice. :)&nbsp;</p>

[FMJeff]

<strong>Leticia</strong> wrote:<br />How much do you argue.. or is it normal to argue about the stupidest shit, when you've recently moved in together...<p>&nbsp;</p><p>i think its a bad sign and you should break up right now. missy and i never fight because we're so fucking perfect.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Bob Impact]

<strong>Leticia</strong> wrote:<br />How much do you argue.. or is it normal to argue about the stupidest shit, when you've recently moved in together...<p>&nbsp;I'm sure its fairly normal, but Sarah and I rarely argue, usually the only thing that comes between us is the massive disconnect between our sheepy points.</p><p>All couples are built differently, if you're happy and she's happy then it doesn't matter how much you argue with each other.&nbsp; Give it some time and see if you settle in to a routine living in the same space.&nbsp;</p>

[King Hippos Bandaid]

I did not Move in with my Wife&nbsp; until&nbsp; after our honeymoon.&nbsp; Its still new to me , this is the first time I moved away from home. But when you lived in a Dysfunctional Home, anything is better than living at home

[Jennitalia]

<p>i've lived with two guys.&nbsp; i used to fight all the time with the first guy.&nbsp; call it being immature about some things, and not knowing how to deal with some of the voices in my head, and not communicating in the healthiest way.&nbsp; my current guy and i have been living together for about a year now.&nbsp; we havent fought or argued at all.&nbsp;</p>

[led37zep]

I just moved in with my chick and we would argue over the dumbest shit.&nbsp; I wanted my TV in this spot, she didn't like where I put the microwave, and dumb shit like that.&nbsp; Once we realized how stupid these arguements were we would make sure we talked about everything to avoid the fights.&nbsp; We both realize we aren't going to have everything we are used to and its ok to let some shit go for the sake of the relationship.

[sailor]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />you both have to bend and be flexible<p>&nbsp;<font size="2">hott!!&nbsp; (i know...too easy...but someone had to do it!) </font></p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>Leticia</strong> wrote:<br />How much do you argue.. or is it normal to argue about the stupidest shit, when you've recently moved in together... <p>sounds like marriage to me!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>o wait, you didnt say anything about fantasizing about murdering and torturing eachother did you? ok well than its not marriage yet, its still living together.</p>

[MONICA5579]

<p>I have learned that relationships, living together or not, all need to be worked at.&nbsp; There will always be times where things aren't perfect and you think to yourself, &quot;What the fuck did I get myself into,&quot; but if you really&nbsp;care enough about each other it can work.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;Good luck Leticia!!</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by MONICA5579 on 2-22-07 @ 6:44 PM</span>

[Dirtybird12]

<strong>MONICA5579</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I have learned that relationships, living together or not, all need to be worked at.&nbsp; There will always be times where things aren't perfect and you think to yourself, &quot;What the fuck did I get myself into,&quot; but if you really&nbsp;care enough about each other it can work. </p><p>thanks dr.phil </p><p>maybe what you should learn how to log off a computer once in a while and cook? </p><p>&nbsp;</p>