Post-Trauma Ain't Fun

[busybeeman]

<p>For me it was the divorce.&nbsp; I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (there are other tortures that I'd wish on them...but not divorce).&nbsp; It is messy.&nbsp; It is unfair (especially if you are a man in NJ).&nbsp; It is a complete waste of time and life.&nbsp; And then there is the money.&nbsp; Instead of getting married again, I'll just randomly pick some broad off the street who I don't like and just give her a house.</p><p><a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/memories_trauma_dc;_ylt=AlMtPnx7aFPG1ZcuYuYt_ZYDW7 oF">http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/memories_trauma_dc;_ylt=AlMtPnx7aFPG1ZcuYuYt_ZYDW7 oF</a></p>

[led37zep]

Pre-Trauma is the funnest!!!!!

[Jughead]

<font size="5">Ramone............</font>

[busybeeman]

<strong>led37zep</strong> wrote:<br />Pre-Trauma is the funnest!!!!! <p>Pre-Drama is the worstest.</p><p>Consider this:&nbsp; A fool and his money...are a girl's best friend.</p>

[torker]

<p><a href="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm/Forum/81/Topic/52177/page/About_This_Forum.htm" target="_blank">Thoughts and prayers... thoughts and prayers.</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[led37zep]

<strong>busybeeman</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>led37zep</strong> wrote:<br />Pre-Trauma is the funnest!!!!! <p>Pre-Drama is the worstest.</p><p>Consider this: A fool and his money...are a girl's best friend.</p><p> My friend had a horrible divorce that totally destroyed him. Its been 4 years and he's just now starting to get back into the dating scene. Sorry to hear you're going through the same thing bro. Best advice is to just talk it out with your friends and try to find that silver lining out of the whole thing. Hope you didn't think my little line was making fun of your situation, I was just trying to lighten the thread up a little bit, I try and not focus on the negative things in life. </p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by led37zep on 2-23-07 @ 5:36 PM</span>

[busybeeman]

Making fun is why were here, right?&nbsp; Seriously, post-trauma is a scar on your mind.&nbsp; It never goes away and just sits there waiting for you to recall it and then...BAM...it's all there...ALL of it.&nbsp; To take you through the entire story would be too exhausting...for you.&nbsp; Let's just put it this way: she did a serious mind-f**k on me.&nbsp;&nbsp;

[led37zep]

They all do in some form or another.&nbsp;

[busybeeman]

<strong>led37zep</strong> wrote:<br />They all do in some form or another.&nbsp; <p>I'd like to believe that there are some women out there who ain't into mind games.&nbsp; </p>

[Jughead]

Sorry Busybeeman Hope things get better....<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/rolleyes.gif" border="0" />

[busybeeman]

Thanks.&nbsp; I'm doing a lot better than before.&nbsp; Only when I traipse down memory lane.