Single again

[WRESTLINGFAN]

I was dating someone for about 2 and a half months, things were going great, I really thought she was the one but it all came to a screeching halt last night. Bascially she started talking to her ex again and last night she finally came clean and told me. The hard part is that she said she still loves me. I basically told her that I need time to myself. I really think I should just cut my losses, If I decide to still be with her I'm gonna feel like "the other guy". Am I doing the right thing?

[Dougie Brootal]

cut her loose. trust me.



thoughts and prayers bro.

[Fezticle98]

I was dating someone for about 2 and a half months, things were going great, I really thought she was the one but it all came to a screeching halt last night. Bascially she started talking to her ex again and last night she finally came clean and told me. The hard part is that she said she still loves me. I basically told her that I need time to myself. I really think I should just cut my losses, If I decide to still be with her I'm gonna feel like "the other guy". Am I doing the right thing?

Sounds like it. The right thing and the easy thing are usually the opposite. Give yourself some time, no need to rush into a decision right now.

[Don Stugots]

you are doing the right thing. better to learn about it now than after a ring is purchased and/or weddings happen.

chin up. there are other woman out there. trust me.

[WRESTLINGFAN]

She has left a ton of voicemails for me but I really don't feel like talking to her right now. I have a feeling that things between her and her ex will go sour again, but I really can't deal with it now.

[Don Stugots]

and you shouldnt. you asked her for some time and space, and she is now doing her best at damage control. stay strong.

[Gvac]

You said you basically told her you need time to yourself. Did you tell her you were unwilling to play games and that you refused to play second fiddle to anyone? Did you tell her you knew how good of a man you are and that before you invest any more time and emotions into this relationship she has to make a choice?

That's the only way to handle it.

Lay down the law, and if she's unwilling to follow the rules, there's your answer.

[WRESTLINGFAN]

You said you basically told her you need time to yourself. Did you tell her you were unwilling to play games and that you refused to play second fiddle to anyone? Did you tell her you knew how good of a man you are and that before you invest any more time and emotions into this relationship she has to make a choice?

That's the only way to handle it.

Lay down the law, and if she's unwilling to follow the rules, there's your answer.

I was so pissed at the time that I didn't tell her the part about the playing games part, I guess at the time my emotions were going full circle. But I definitely am not going to play the role as the guy she wants to keep on a string.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

change your name to JUSTINTIMERLAKEFAN, you will become a chick magnet

:king:

[Ritalin]

Isn't "Single Again" the next Judd Apatow project?

Should be.

[reeshy]

Stop crying....I lost my wife of 22 years in 1999....been sing lr since!!!!! stop crying, Pussy!!!!

[outlawfrank]

I think I would say to her the next time we spoke, What's it going to be. Need an answer right now. And "I don't know" is the wrong answer. If she doesn't have diffinitive conviction for you then it's a place you don't want to invest your time.

[Ritalin]

Stop crying....I lost my wife of 22 years in 1999....been sing lr since!!!!! stop crying, Pussy!!!!

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[sailor]

maybe i'm the crazy one here, but she's talking to him, not fucking him. if you're confident in what you're bringing to the table i don't see the big deal.

[lleeder]

maybe i'm the crazy one here, but she's talking to him, not fucking him. if you're confident in what you're bringing to the table i don't see the big deal.

Yeah but she admitted to "talking to him". Who knows what she actually did? He might be saving himself future heartache by ending it now.

[FUNKMAN]

maybe it was a sign she wanted you to come on stronger?

maybe things were not as good as you thought they might have been between the two of you? or is that just stating the obvious due to this change in events?

gotta make a decision whether you still want her or not. gotta sit down and have a face to face heart to heart talk and hash it out. see where her head is at and where your head is at. At the very least it shows you care or cared about the relationship!

[Chainsaw]

problems 2 and 1/2 months into a relationship= not a good sign....cut your losses. There are girls out there who will meet you and not want to deal with their ex anymore

[Fat_Sunny]

Stop crying....I lost my wife of 22 years in 1999....been sing lr since!!!!! stop crying, Pussy!!!!

Reeshy, You Just Gave Fat His First Big Belly Laugh Of The Day!!

[Cleophus James]

I'm 1.5 weeks out of a 4.5 year relationship myself.

[RockinRob]

Been with my current girl almost 2 years. She's talking marriage. I just started a new gig roughly a year ago. Im trying to wait until I get a promotion and get my career on track. None of my friends like her, in fact she's cost me some friends. She doesn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. BUT...she's great to me, very caring and supportive, helps with chores in my house and with buying groceries, cooks, cleans. We have had a jealous psycho ex on me, saying she will do whatever it takes to break us up, trying to convince her I'm a liar and a womanizer, she was served with a restraining order, yet wants the case to go to court, so that when the truth comes out, I'll be lonely and broke, and that's how I deserve to "spend my final years" (for the record, I'm 37). The biggest critics are my folks, who say I can do better (friends say that as well). Yes, the poo-hah is good, so no complaints there. Did I mention she's an O&A/R&F fan???

What to do, buddays??????

[OneEyeJack]

let the Jiven inside you blossum.

[Friday]

let the Jiven inside you blossum.

or Blossom, even...

[Poochie]

I was dating someone for about 2 and a half months, things were going great, I really thought she was the one but it all came to a screeching halt last night. Bascially she started talking to her ex again and last night she finally came clean and told me. The hard part is that she said she still loves me. I basically told her that I need time to myself. I really think I should just cut my losses, If I decide to still be with her I'm gonna feel like "the other guy". Am I doing the right thing?

Sorry to hear about this W_F..but cut your losses. I myself just became single a couple days ago after I too thought he was 'the one'..You gotta move on, you don't want to be the other guy, and now the ex will always be in the back of your mind and that does not make for a good relationship..Good luck and welcome to the single club!

[RogerPodacter]

Been with my current girl almost 2 years. She's talking marriage. I just started a new gig roughly a year ago. Im trying to wait until I get a promotion and get my career on track. None of my friends like her, in fact she's cost me some friends. She doesn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. BUT...she's great to me, very caring and supportive, helps with chores in my house and with buying groceries, cooks, cleans. We have had a jealous psycho ex on me, saying she will do whatever it takes to break us up, trying to convince her I'm a liar and a womanizer, she was served with a restraining order, yet wants the case to go to court, so that when the truth comes out, I'll be lonely and broke, and that's how I deserve to "spend my final years" (for the record, I'm 37). The biggest critics are my folks, who say I can do better (friends say that as well). Yes, the poo-hah is good, so no complaints there. Did I mention she's an O&A/R&F fan???

What to do, buddays??????

Similar to my ex situation. I say do what makes you happy and forget everyone else's view. Love is blind, and if you like being with her then do it. I made the mistake of listening to others who said i could do better, and now i want to be back with the ex. Go figure.

[JustJon]

let the Jiven inside you blossum.or Blossom, even...
or Jivin, even...