My Ex-Wife has no clue

[razorboy]

Okay. I haven't talked to her in three years, we didn't part on good terms, but she still felt the need to call me and tell me she is geting remarried. I honestly wish her the best, but I didn't think we needed any contact after the way that we parted ways. Before this call the last time I saw her was at a friends wedding, and she paid me no mind whatsoever. She is getting married to an old friend of mine. This doesn't bother me so much, but the fact that she is getting in touch with me under these circumstances, when she was aware that I already knew, and I was alright with that, seems a little passive aggressive. I don't know. I guess I'm just venting.

[JPMNICK]

she did it to rub it your face. she just wanted to let you know she has moved on with your friend.

it's good that you are over her. do you think she will invite you to the wedding?

[razorboy]

She already did. I will probably go. I Don't hate my friend & I don't hate her. It is just beyond me that she would re-establish communication for something like this

[Fez4PrezN2008]

She already did. I will probably go. I Don't hate my friend & I don't hate her. It is just beyond me that she would re-establish communication for something like this
Send Tax Cuntz instead

[Justice4all]

She already did. I will probably go. I Don't hate my friend & I don't hate her. It is just beyond me that she would re-establish communication for something like this

Razor...seriously. DON'T GO. Nick is right. She is doing it to rub it in your face.
If my ex-wife ever called ME up to say she was getting re-married I would ask "Who's the lucky coma patient?"

You seem like a good guy to try to do the right thing. But it is best to close that chapter and just write them off from your life.

After several years you should just keep in the past.

[foodcourtdruide]

Okay. I haven't talked to her in three years, we didn't part on good terms, but she still felt the need to call me and tell me she is geting remarried. I honestly wish her the best, but I didn't think we needed any contact after the way that we parted ways. Before this call the last time I saw her was at a friends wedding, and she paid me no mind whatsoever. She is getting married to an old friend of mine. This doesn't bother me so much, but the fact that she is getting in touch with me under these circumstances, when she was aware that I already knew, and I was alright with that, seems a little passive aggressive. I don't know. I guess I'm just venting.

Very strange. I can't think of a logical reason that she would call you, but I could see why you're annoyed. I'd say you're lucky that you don't have to deal with this type of nonsense anymore.

[ChimneyFish]

My ex called me last Saturday.
When the conversation finally turned to if I knew that she had gotten married, I told her I didn't.
She seemed suprised and almost a little disappointed that none of my friends had told me.
(one of her good friends is my friend's wife. I guess my friends were just trying to "protect" me)

They just enjoy fucking with your head. I don't know why.

If you think you can mentally handle it, why not go????
You'd be a stronger man than me.

[Dingbat_Charlie]

I'd suggest that you only go if you think you'll have fun, or if you are honestly happy for the people getting married.


If not, why bother?

[DolaMight]

Razor...seriously. DON'T GO. Nick is right. She is doing it to rub it in your face.

She probably is, but that seems like the perfect reason to go. If you really are ok with the whole scene nothing would bother her more than to see in person that it doesn't bother you and that you're actually happy. If you didn't go she would assume you couldn't handle the situation.

[angietxtech]

I'd say don't go. Even if you are comfortable with the marriage, the wedding would be uncomfortable, as everyone would be staring at you, waiting to see how you'll react.

Send a present, but don't attend

[ScottFromGA]

Okay. I haven't talked to her in three years, we didn't part on good terms, but she still felt the need to call me and tell me she is geting remarried. I honestly wish her the best, but I didn't think we needed any contact after the way that we parted ways. Before this call the last time I saw her was at a friends wedding, and she paid me no mind whatsoever. She is getting married to an old friend of mine. This doesn't bother me so much, but the fact that she is getting in touch with me under these circumstances, when she was aware that I already knew, and I was alright with that, seems a little passive aggressive. I don't know. I guess I'm just venting.

honestly....I say "Fuck the Bitch".

if she made you unhappy and she moved on to some other schmuck, then laugh about it. He's getting that burden now and you know what he's in store for.

be happy for her...but laugh at him.

[Bulldogcakes]

Razor...seriously. DON'T GO. Nick is right. She is doing it to rub it in your face.
If my ex-wife ever called ME up to say she was getting re-married I would ask "Who's the lucky coma patient?"

You seem like a good guy to try to do the right thing. But it is best to close that chapter and just write them off from your life.

After several years you should just keep in the past.

Ding ding ding.

Nick should write a "Dear Abbey" column for guys. He's usually dead on about this stuff.

[MellySmelly]

Maybe she wanted you to talk her out of marrying him.