So I almost had a one night stand...

[keithy_19]

...with my friend who has a boyfriend.

Me and her dated 2 years ago, and it didn't last long for a multitude of reasons, and we stopped talking and I was pretty sure she hated me. We started talking to each other again about a year ago and found that we were even closer now than when we dated.

So, somehow our conversations always got sexually aggresive. I stopped talking to her for a little because I was in a relationship and felt guilty about wanting another girl almost as much as I wanted my own. Needless to say, nothing happened and life moved on.

We started talking very sexual again over the summer, and eventually, it got very heated all the time.

This continued up until now when I suddenly had an epiphany. I was going to go over to her house to seal the deal, fully knowing she had a boyfriend, but I stopped myself and decided I couldn't do that to someone. Especially after it just happened to me.

I feel like a douche even thinking about it. Least I didn't got hrough with it.

[BalzacWB]

this may be an unpopular opinion on here but if you arent friends with this guy then fuck em...

IF she's gonna fuck you she most likely is gonna cheat on him anyway with soemone else (not a dig at you) so you might as well be the guy to do it. Especially since you have wanted to for a while.

[ChrisTheCop]

I guess I agree with the WB.

He's not your friend, so by the guy code youd be doing nothing wrong.
Besides, he's apparently not gonna be around forever, cuz he's not doing it for her if she's looking elsewhere.

[Fallon]

If you got burned recently I can't see how you'd do it knowing how bad that made you feel and you're interested in her tell her that she has to lose the boyfriend.

[keithy_19]

If you got burned recently I can't see how you'd do it knowing how bad that made you feel and you're interested in her tell her that she has to lose the boyfriend.

She talked about going on a break with the guy. But, that's exactly what happened with me. My ex went on a break with me and was blowing her now current boyfriend.

I couldn't do it to him after I realized how bad that hurts. Unless he was a total dickhead to her, but he's not. He seems like a stand up guy.

[ChrisTheCop]

I couldn't do it to him after I realized how bad that hurts. Unless he was a total dickhead to her, but he's not. He seems like a stand up guy.

even more reason to do it
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[keithy_19]

And for the record, I'm not asking if I should do it. Merely pointing out how big of a scumbag I feel like for almost doing it, and letting it enter my mind.

[PapaBear]

And for the record, I'm not asking if I should do it. Merely pointing out how big of a scumbag I feel like for almost doing it, and letting it enter my mind.
You're never a scumbag for thinking about doing something that's very tempting, then choosing not to do it. You're an adult.

[sailor]

does this mean you don't love the other chick anymore?

[PapaBear]

does this mean you don't love the other chick anymore?
No. It means he wants to finally get laid.

[keithy_19]

does this mean you don't love the other chick anymore?

No. It means she's been very busy, and I've been talking to this girl more, and I was feeling lonely since the other girl was incredibly busy and I just missed being intimate with someone. Total lust. Stupid lust.

I saw the other girl today for her birthday, and I wouldn't want to do anything that would potentially hurt her. I know how i'd feel if she went and did that shit with someone else.

[keithy_19]

No. It means he wants to finally get laid.

:flush:

[BalzacWB]

You're never a scumbag for thinking about doing something that's very tempting, then choosing not to do it. You're an adult.

EXACTLY!!


Thoughts and "almosts" dont mean shit in this world.. its actions

And fallon has a pretty good idea, if you are uncomfortable or find it morally wrong to do anything with this girl while she is with another guy then tell her how you feel. Let her know you would like to pursue something with her but not while she is in a relationship.


Personally I think you should bang her

[patsopinion]

its not a one night stand if uve fucked her before or if you know that she is cheating on her boy friend

one night stands are more like vics vapor rub
rub it on
in the morning its gone


im keeping that none of you can have it without quoting me

[keithy_19]

I never fucked her. We didnt do much with each other. The relationship was incredibly pointless and stupid and didn't grow into anything.

And, she's not cheating on him. Apparently she only would fuck me, and no one else, besides her bf, though she wants it from me more.

[PapaBear]

You're never a scumbag for thinking about doing something that's very tempting, then choosing not to do it. You're an adult.

EXACTLY!!

You're a great asset to the board, but I'd just like fill you in on something they keep forgetting to put in the FAQ's.

When quoting PapaBear, the proper response is "What PapaBear said".

Don't worry, Balzac. You'll get it right eventually.

[sailor]

what papabear said.

[patsopinion]

i think if we had pics we could better help you make a decision

[BalzacWB]

And, she's not cheating on him. Apparently she only would fuck me, and no one else, besides her bf, though she wants it from me more.

:wallbash::wallbash::wallbash:

You're a great asset to the board, but I'd just like fill you in on something they keep forgetting to put in the FAQ's.

When quoting PapaBear, the proper response is "What PapaBear said".

Don't worry, Balzac. You'll get it right eventually.


What papabear said
:smile:

[ChrisTheCop]

What papebear said
:smile:

what papalbear said.

http://www.custommadebears.com/images/bears/pope_bear.jpg

[StupidGirlllll]

I love all of Keithy_19 threads...Its like James at 16,17 all over again.. I think Keithy you are a really sweet caring guy & you have nothing to feel guilty about cause nothing happened, its like getting really mad at someone & thinking about killing them. Only thoughts we all have them its an adults imagination call it. As time goes on you will be able to deal with your feeling..Live & take in every thing that happens & you learn. Thats most likely why you felt the way you did cause something similair once happened to you, but instead of taking the Fuck It Attitude, like it was done to me so why can't I do it to..You took the right approach...You sound like a stand up guy stay just the way you are & have fun.

[sailor]

i think everyone's giving you too much of a pass on this one (and i'm prepared to be crucified for saying it). kudos for not going thru with it, but put yourself in the shoes of the other parties. what if a friend of your came up to you and said "dude, i was totally going to fuck your girl last weekend, but at the last minute i decided it was wrong." you'd kill him. or if your girl said she was seriously considering going outside to get some and changed her mind at the end. there's a good chance you'd dump her.

i'm not saying you're a bad person, i don't think that's the case at all. it's just you feel bad about this incident and i think everyone is wrong to tell you not to.

[topless_mike]

fuck that
hit that shit raw-dog then bail....

[Bellyfullasnot]

Keithy, if you are really 19, think with the " little head" while you can. No one will fault you for it. Well I guess the boyfriend might have something to say about it.

[drjoek]

If you are 19 years old you should sleep with as many chicks above the age of 18 that you can get your hands on

No love with out the glove though..


Ive got a question or two.
If you joined in 2002 were you Keithy_14 then? do you have to change your name to Keithy_20 on your next birthday? Or is this the perfect storm your board name caught up with your actual age?

Keep up the threads I always enjoy them

Oh and
What Papabear said

[Dougie Brootal]

this may be an unpopular opinion on here but if you arent friends with this guy then fuck em...

IF she's gonna fuck you she most likely is gonna cheat on him anyway with soemone else (not a dig at you) so you might as well be the guy to do it. Especially since you have wanted to for a while.

i, personally, agree with balzac. if it were me, id go that route. BUT... if you feel like this....

If you got burned recently I can't see how you'd do it knowing how bad that made you feel and you're interested in her tell her that she has to lose the boyfriend.

She talked about going on a break with the guy. But, that's exactly what happened with me. My ex went on a break with me and was blowing her now current boyfriend.

I couldn't do it to him after I realized how bad that hurts. Unless he was a total dickhead to her, but he's not. He seems like a stand up guy.


then i would say you should tell her you are interested if she loses the boyfriend. and "going on a break" doesnt seem like it would be acceptable for you. you seem like a guy who is interested in a long term relationship with a girl you care about, not flings and one night stands and such. so id say if she cant commit to dropping him and giving you a chance...seeyuh!!

[Dude!]

seriously you need to get yourself some male friends just to hang out with and talk sports and small talk and fill the void you have
it is almost impossible for a man (boy) in a relationship with a woman to have other women as 'friends'
it always leads to trouble
the only exception is you can have another woman 'friend' if she is butt-ugly and there is no chance you will fall for her

[JerseyRich]

You made a wise decision.

Cheaters never win, and winners never cheat.

:innocent:

[keithy_19]

Ive got a question or two.
If you joined in 2002 were you Keithy_14 then? do you have to change your name to Keithy_20 on your next birthday? Or is this the perfect storm your board name caught up with your actual age?



I was born on the 19th of may. And when I joined in 2002 I was actually KeithBoBeefy. Considering the fact it doesnt rhyme, it was changed to KeithyBoBeefy. Then I considered the fact I am not beefy at all, so I changed my name to Electric_Sex, which seemed like a good idea at the time. It was then changed into Electric_Sax with not desire of my own. I giggled a bit though.

Then I went t Keithy_19 and I've been like this for awhile

I also don't want a relationship from her. I just want the physical aspect, but the more I think about it the less appealing it becomes.

[drjoek]

I was born on the 19th of may. And when I joined in 2002 I was actually KeithBoBeefy. Considering the fact it doesnt rhyme, it was changed to KeithyBoBeefy. Then I considered the fact I am not beefy at all, so I changed my name to Electric_Sex, which seemed like a good idea at the time. It was then changed into Electric_Sax with not desire of my own. I giggled a bit though.

Then I went t Keithy_19 and I've been like this for awhile

I also don't want a relationship from her. I just want the physical aspect, but the more I think about it the less appealing it becomes.

Thanks bro:thumbup:

Keep posting I enjoy your threads. Makes me feel young again

[Death Metal Moe]

You worry about way too many things.

[Midkiff]

And for the record, I'm not asking if I should do it. Merely pointing out how big of a scumbag I feel like for almost doing it, and letting it enter my mind.

I say you're a scumbag for not fucking her.

[keithy_19]

You worry about way too many things.

Perhaps you worry about to litlle.

Or maybe you're right.

[Gmann]

I miss Soundboard KeithyBoBeefy.

[patsopinion]

Perhaps you worry about to litlle.

Or maybe you're right.

im telling you man
you needz to relax and tone down the thinking engine a little
but in this situation you were right to do what you did

[lleeder]

You worry about way too many things.

I agree with Moe. You seem to over think every aspect of your life. You should go out there and fuck random girls and not worry about it so much. You confessed thinking about doing something...:wacko:

[led37zep]

You confessed thinking about doing something...:wacko:

Holy shit, thats a good point. We'd all be fucked if we had to confessed over thoughts.


In fact I'm going to go ahead and apologize now to Marc with a c....just in case.

[JPMNICK]

i am bookmarking this thread and I will post the link in 2 months when the girl who last month you were asking when you should tell her you loved her breaks your heart.

at least now you know the answer, you do not love that other girl, so the right time to say it is def not now.

[BalzacWB]

fuck that
hit that shit raw-dog then bail....

I say you're a scumbag for not fucking her.

HIGH FIVE X2

[patsopinion]

this lleeder/pix thing is unacceptable

[Devo37]

its not a one night stand if uve f@cked her before or if you know that she is cheating on her boy friend


came here to say that. booty-call != one-night-stand

[keithy_19]

i am bookmarking this thread and I will post the link in 2 months when the girl who last month you were asking when you should tell her you loved her breaks your heart.

at least now you know the answer, you do not love that other girl, so the right time to say it is def not now.

So, you can't love someone and want someone else in a strictly physical aspect?

And, she won't break my heart because, well, I won't let her.

[Gmann]

this lleeder/pix thing is unacceptable

Yeah I didnt notice that till you pointed it out. Whats up with that ?

[sailor]

Yeah I didnt notice that till you pointed it out. Whats up with that ?

pixie's a dirty drunk.

[Death Metal Moe]

Perhaps you worry about to litlle.

Or maybe you're right.

I didn't mean it as a dig or even a joke. Everytime I see your threads you are over thinking every aspect of your life. I think you should live by the seat of your pants a little more, but live by feelings. Sometimes the most illogical stuff is what you need, so when you overthink everything you miss out.

I personally think you did the right thing NOT getting involved with a girl who is going out with someone else. That's one thing I never fuck with under any circumstances. Yes, if she's willing to fuck you she's probably unhappy and going to go find another cock, but you have to live with yourself. I couldn't be the one to break someone up and I hate cheaters more than anything so I couldn't be involved with all that.

[JerseySean]

...with my friend who has a boyfriend.

Me and her dated 2 years ago, and it didn't last long for a multitude of reasons, and we stopped talking and I was pretty sure she hated me. We started talking to each other again about a year ago and found that we were even closer now than when we dated.

So, somehow our conversations always got sexually aggresive. I stopped talking to her for a little because I was in a relationship and felt guilty about wanting another girl almost as much as I wanted my own. Needless to say, nothing happened and life moved on.

We started talking very sexual again over the summer, and eventually, it got very heated all the time.

This continued up until now when I suddenly had an epiphany. I was going to go over to her house to seal the deal, fully knowing she had a boyfriend, but I stopped myself and decided I couldn't do that to someone. Especially after it just happened to me.

I feel like a douche even thinking about it. Least I didn't got hrough with it.

Keith, I dont know you and I would fuck your girl. Guy code only works amongst friends and family. Some random guy, fuck em

[IamPixie]

pixie's a dirty drunk.

whatever, satchel.:tongue:

[ralphbxny]

I miss Soundboard KeithyBoBeefy.

Yeah he was the best.

[TheStonedAnt]

Since you're not going to do it, could I have her number?...:king:

She's legal right?...


Stoned!

[foodcourtdruide]

this may be an unpopular opinion on here but if you arent friends with this guy then fuck em...

IF she's gonna fuck you she most likely is gonna cheat on him anyway with soemone else (not a dig at you) so you might as well be the guy to do it. Especially since you have wanted to for a while.

Eh, I think this is a cop out. This is like someone robbing a store with poor security and saying, "The security is terrible! If I didn't rob it someone else would have. I didn't hurt someone, so in reality I'm doing them a favor!"

My view on cheating has always been: don't cheat or be with someone who is cheating unless you are willing to be cheated on.

Also, Keithy_19, I don't think this makes you a scumbag either way. We all have our vices and temptations.

[Terry-Two]

You seem like a nice kid Keithy, but turn the drama down a notch. Your threads are more angst-ridden than a saturday afternoon marathon of Dawson's Creek.

[Leticia]

Aren't you in a relationship Keithy? What happened to that other girl that you thought you were falling in love with?

I think it's good that you didn't go through with it (I only read the first page so i hope nothing has changed since then).

You don't want to get sucked inot her problems with her boyfriend...

Even if you think it'll only be a one night thing, the fact that you've been together makes it complicated.

By the way I agree with what people are saying about you worrying too much.

You'tre going from thinking you're in love to wanting to fuck yoyur ex.

Relax... you're gonna look back at how much you worried and wish you could spend those moments enjoying life...

[Dougie Brootal]

Aren't you in a relationship Keithy? What happened to that other girl that you thought you were falling in love with?

I think it's good that you didn't go through with it (I only read the first page so i hope nothing has changed since then).

You don't want to get sucked inot her problems with her boyfriend...

Even if you think it'll only be a one night thing, the fact that you've been together makes it complicated.

By the way I agree with what people are saying about you worrying too much.

You'tre going from thinking you're in love to wanting to fuck yoyur ex.

Relax... you're gonna look back at how much you worried and wish you could spend those moments enjoying life...

shouldnt you be on the radio right now or something?

[keithy_19]

Aren't you in a relationship Keithy? What happened to that other girl that you thought you were falling in love with?


It's an icnredibly open relationship. We're not together, as much as we're seeing each other.

And, I do think I love this girl.

But, someone putting out seems inviting right now too. Though I couldnt go through with it because of 1)the cheating thing and knowing how it feels.

And 2) I care way to much about the girl I'm seeing to fuck it up. I was letting my cock think for me for the moment.

[Dougie Brootal]

It's an icnredibly open relationship. We're not together, as much as we're seeing each other.

And, I do think I love this girl.

But, someone putting out seems inviting right now too. Though I couldnt go through with it because of 1)the cheating thing and knowing how it feels.

And 2) I care way to much about the girl I'm seeing to fuck it up. I was letting my cock think for me for the moment.

why dont you fuck your new chick then?

[keithy_19]

why dont you fuck your new chick then?

Because she doesn't want to introduce sex into the relationship yet. She feels sex fucks up things when it's introduced to soon. I happen to agree with her.

[AlabamaMan]

why dont you fuck your new chick then?

See, thats the idea of the whole thread.

[Dougie Brootal]

Because she doesn't want to introduce sex into the relationship yet. She feels sex fucks up things when it's introduced to soon. I happen to agree with her.

oh, sorry, i musta missed that part. was it in a different thread?

[keithy_19]

oh, sorry, i musta missed that part. was it in a different thread?

Everything is in a thread.

[Dougie Brootal]

Everything is in a thread.

this one? or the other ones?:huh:

[Kris10]

He's not your friend, so by the guy code youd be doing nothing wrong.
Besides, he's apparently not gonna be around forever, cuz he's not doing it for her if she's looking elsewhere.

This makes me feel soooo much better!!!!! But change the he to a she. Only thing is the other chick is pregnant! Ugh! :wallbash:

[lleeder]

This makes me feel soooo much better!!!!! But change the he to a she. Only thing is the other chick is pregnant! Ugh! :wallbash:

Who's the father?:huh:

[cougarjake13]

Who's the father?:huh:

http://i.a.cnn.net/si/2006/writers/bill_syken/02/23/scorecard.daily/p1_mcmahon.jpg

[Kris10]

lol Not Vince McMahon.

Someone I work with

[grlNIN]

Don't do it Keith, bicuriousity is so 10 years ago.