i Haven't eaten since Sunday

[bigtim666]

this chick i am trying to get with, started making out with our mutual friend(a Dude), i feel like such shit, gettig rejected is the worst shit in life.

[JPMNICK]

this chick i am trying to get with, started making out with our mutual friend(a Dude), i feel like such shit, gettig rejected is the worst shit in life.

dude get over it. it is just a girl. and you were not even dating her, just trying to make it happen. move past it. be happy for your friend, and go find another chick. and in the future, stop trying to get with girls who you are friends with because it always ends in a mess

[Dougie Brootal]

(board gossip voice) sounds like bigtime666 is...STARVING for attentionnnnnn.....(board gossip voice)


sorry dude. i know how ya feel rejection is the worssssssssssst. hang in there, itll get better.

[Judge Smails]

There's plenty of fish in the sea. I suggest you eat one.

[Fezticle98]

(board gossip voice) sounds like bigtime666 is...STARVING for attentionnnnnn.....(board gossip voice)


sorry dude. i know how ya feel rejection is the worssssssssssst. hang in there, itll get better.

[Carpenters drop]

[Kevin]

Remember what Forum you are in guys.


Hang in there dude, It is har, i have been there before. Just have to give it time and move on.

Did she know fully how you felt, and did the friend know?

Beceause if the answer is no, you should have been up front.

And if the answer is Yes, then you have to live with it, she just was not into you. Does not mean there is anything wrong with you, it just means you are not for her.

[bigtim666]

now were going to hang out friday, just me and the chick and i have no idea what i am going to do ...... i do not want to make it weird .... and the three of us work together.... i am a complete disaster but i do feel alittle better getting it out their

[Judge Smails]

Remember what Forum you are in guys.

Not to be a dick, since I do feel bad for the guy as I'm sure that we've all been there before, but it's The Confessional, which as far as I know has no "rules". So, I stand by my fish comment.

[walking joint]

Remember what Forum you are in guys.

our mods rule. oh wait, its Kevin.

When did the Confessional fall under the no jokes rule?

[SatCam]

now were going to hang out friday, just me and the chick and i have no idea what i am going to do ...... i do not want to make it weird .... and the three of us work together.... i am a complete disaster but i do feel alittle better getting it out their

You guys should get dinner together

[TheMojoPin]

When did the Confessional fall under the no jokes rule?

It doesn't.

Tim, do you want this thread here or in the serious forum?

[Kevin]

It doesn't.

Tim, do you want this thread here or in the serious forum?

Yea, i thought it was the serious forum, since it was in thats life section, the subject seemed to be anyway.

[Furtherman]

now were going to hang out friday, just me and the chick and i have no idea what i am going to do ...... i do not want to make it weird .... and the three of us work together.... i am a complete disaster but i do feel alittle better getting it out their

You work together? You're just asking for trouble. Do not hang with her on Friday if you feel this way. If you do, it will be weird. Move on quickly and quietly. Treat yourself to a big meal.

[LaBoob]

Girls are terrible...

If you never came out and told her you were interested, even if you think you were making your feelings known in "subtle" ways, trust me, you need to either come out and say it or get out of there. Now it might be too late because she might be into this other guy, or some other complications might come up as a result of her hooking up with him it might not be the best timing.

As for your date coming up, I wouldn't do it. Give her a call or write her an email and explain that something came up. It'll buy you some time to figure out your next step or see what's going on with this guy.

In the future, make your intentions clear! Ask a girl out on a date and make it clear that you intend it to be a date. It saves everyone a lot of trouble and complications.

No go eat a pint of Ben and Jerry's and buck up!!!

:smile:

[ralphbxny]

Girls are terrible...

If you never came out and told her you were interested, even if you think you were making your feelings known in "subtle" ways, trust me, you need to either come out and say it or get out of there. Now it might be too late because she might be into this other guy, or some other complications might come up as a result of her hooking up with him it might not be the best timing.

As for your date coming up, I wouldn't do it. Give her a call or write her an email and explain that something came up. It'll buy you some time to figure out your next step or see what's going on with this guy.

In the future, make your intentions clear! Ask a girl out on a date and make it clear that you intend it to be a date. It saves everyone a lot of trouble and complications.

No go eat a pint of Ben and Jerry's and buck up!!!

:smile:

Her womanly advice is very true!

[King Hippos Bandaid]

dude I wouldn't starve myself for civil disobedience , I have to be held back when fasting for a medical test


no skirt should stop u from eating

[grlNIN]

It's not the girl's fault if she didn't know you liked her, if anything it is your mutual "Dude" friend's fault.

Be pissed at him, if he's your bro he would've known you liked her and wouldn't have fucked you over. So in saying that i guess it's clear that he's not a good friend.

[TheMojoPin]

I'm waiting for Hippo's "I haven't stopped eating since Sunday" thread.

[JPMNICK]

fixed it

I'm waiting for Hippo's "I haven't stopped eating BACON since Sunday" thread.

[jeffdwright2001]

Have you considered trying "Ethnic" food?

[bigtim666]

It doesn't.

Tim, do you want this thread here or in the serious forum?

I guess you could leave it here, thanks for the advice/support

[Tall_James]

Have you considered trying "Ethnic" food?

Quick! Call Ghostbusters! A spirit from the past is haunting this thread!!!!!

[JPMNICK]

Quick! Call Ghostbusters! A spirit from the past is haunting this thread!!!!!

i am so glad he is back, he can haunt my threads anytime

[KingGeno]

Current U.S. Population: 304,036,112
Current World Population: 6,666,382,732
As of: 19:16 GMT (EST+5) May 08, 2008

At minimum, over 60% are women I would say. I dunno.

Sorry about your "not loss", but take it as an awakening. This girl obviously didn't care much about you. Now you know. Lick your wounds, and get back out there slugger.

Best of luck. Plenty of better women out there.

[sr71blackbird]

This reminds me when I was a senior in high school and I was dating this 9th grade girl. She had a reputation as being a whore, but I kind of looked passed it when I decided to date her. But it was always in my mind and wherever we would go, she would find these guys she knew and would start hanging with them while I looked on. One time we went to my other friends house and we were all hanging around getting stoned, and I noticed she was not in the room, so I walked around and found her making out with him in his bedroom! It knocked the wind out of me and I walked out and was very hurt. She tried calling me a few times after that, but I didn't return her calls. I know what you are feeling man! I would just get it in your mind that shes "gone" and you need to move on, because there is never a real reason to hold a candle for someone who doesn't love you back.

[sr71blackbird]

Oh, and I went to Ranch1 (http://www.ranch1.com/) today and man was it good! I had a chicken fajita and the chicken rice? Awesome! I got a small container of BBQ sauce and it really hit the spot, so go get something to eat!

[led37zep]

I think this weekend you need the three B's.
Bro's
Beer
Bitches

Listen to Laboobs advice and blow this chick off. We've all been where you are and that's why we all think its not worth stressing over.
It will all work out bro, it always does.

[Enabler]

One time we went to my other friends house and we were all hanging around getting stoned, and I noticed she was not in the room, so I walked around and found her making out with him in his bedroom! It knocked the wind out of me and I walked out and was very hurt. She tried calling me a few times after that, but I didn't return her calls.


Wow. Almost exact same thing happened to me senior year. I almost passed out with shock. If its any conselation, that same girl eventually BEGGED me to go to prom with her. I didnt. In hindsight, it is very true that you have to let your feelings be known. Women wont wait around for you.

[KnoxHarrington]

I ordinarily would not recommend the buffet at a titty bar, but I think it would solve two of your problems in one fell swoop.

[bigtim666]

well I took your advice and I ate 2 slices of pizza. I am going to blow off our plans, I feel alittle better, but stupid

[walking joint]

Wow. Almost exact same thing happened to me senior year. I almost passed out with shock. If its any conselation, that same girl eventually BEGGED me to go to prom with her. I didnt. In hindsight, it is very true that you have to let your feelings be known. Women wont wait around for you.

if that happened to him he could have bought his group beer..legally.

[walking joint]

well I took your advice and I ate 2 slices of pizza. I am going to blow off our plans, I feel alittle better, but stupid

hmm...was thinking almost 5 days of no eating would mean at least 5 or so slices. learn something new every day.

[LaBoob]

well I took your advice and I ate 2 slices of pizza. I am going to blow off our plans, I feel alittle better, but stupid

Don't feel stupid. Nobody knows it all when it comes to love. It's always easier to offer someone else outside perspective than it is to see your own situation clearly.

You'll feel a little bit better every day and before you know it you'll look back at this and, while I can't promise you'll feel 100% better about it, you'll definitely feel better about it. Try to look past the pain you feel now and imagine that end result, say 6 months from now.