View Full Version : I secretly loathe my entire family
ecobag2
05-21-2009, 06:00 PM
Anyone else?
I mean outside of my boy.
then there's ummm...
well...
that's about it.
Anyone?
Kris10
05-21-2009, 06:01 PM
Sign me up!
Well, I can count on 2 fingers the those I can tolerate. And it's for short amounts of time.
Ritalin
05-21-2009, 06:32 PM
For me it's not much of a secret.
biggestmexi
05-21-2009, 06:34 PM
For me it's not much of a secret.
yuppers.
not the immediate family but everyone that doesnt live with me.
other than a few cousins my same age.
Devo37
05-21-2009, 06:41 PM
i don't loathe them, and i even get along with them cordially enough, but aside from the fact that we're related, i can't imagine i'd ever hang out with any of them.
bunch of goodie-goodies, if you ask me.
~Katja~
05-21-2009, 06:42 PM
I moved thousands of miles away... I think that settles it
Death Metal Moe
05-21-2009, 06:45 PM
I don't hate my extended family because I hardly know a lot of them. There's a very few close family I know but the rest are just kinda out there somewhere.
landarch
05-21-2009, 06:55 PM
My daughter and one of my grandmothers is about all I have time for. The rest of them I am cordial with but they don't like me and I don't like them. Oh, and my wife is OK too. I much prefer her and her family to my own.
Marc with a c
05-21-2009, 07:02 PM
i miss sheepy.
boosterp
05-21-2009, 08:16 PM
I love my family to death, they are truly the greatest but I am still the outsider. Aside from my brother I can do with just talking to them on the phone twice a month, and my parents live less than 10 minutes from me. At holiday shit fests I am the one outside drinking heavily alone.
I loathe my father's side of the family.
RoseBlood
05-22-2009, 07:39 AM
I loathe a good handful of my family, but thankfully adore and love an equal if not more members of my family. But it doesn't just happen, you have to learn to find the good qualities in them if you want them in your life.
JerseyRich
05-22-2009, 07:41 AM
I'm an orphan.
RoseBlood
05-22-2009, 07:50 AM
I'm an orphan.
Riiicchhh.. I am your Fahjah!
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JerseyRich
05-22-2009, 08:00 AM
Riiicchhh.. I am your Fahjah!
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No...no...nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
But really, his hair does resemble mine in High School.
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KatPw
05-22-2009, 08:10 AM
My family abandoned me once my parents both died. I don't know if I loathe them necessarily, I kinda feel nothing for them.
Misteriosa
05-22-2009, 08:23 AM
my father's side of the family is almost nonexistent to me. they are not loathed, but they never tried to make a connection with my mom or my sisters (they hated my mom) and they treated my dad like garbage when he needed them most.
im not killing myself to make a connection with them.
TheGameHHH
05-22-2009, 08:25 AM
I don't hate my extended family because I hardly know a lot of them. There's a very few close family I know but the rest are just kinda out there somewhere.
Nevermind
KatPw
05-22-2009, 08:27 AM
my father's side of the family is almost nonexistent to me. they are not loathed, but they never tried to make a connection with my mom or my sisters (they hated my mom) and they treated my dad like garbage when he needed them most.
im not killing myself to make a connection with them.
Misti, stop living a parallel life to me :lol: When my dad was diagnosed with cancer my aunt told him she couldn't wait for him to die so she could dance and piss on his grave. And yet she knew just who to call whenever she wanted plumbing work done and didn't want to pay for it, including parts.
west milly Tom
05-22-2009, 08:37 AM
My family (mom's side) and all my buddays with whom I grew up all live within 20 miles of me, and each other. I have lots of cousins (15), brother, sister, both parents, both grandparents, and a brand new baby niece. We all get along. We go to church together, spend every holiday together, play softball, drink beers, and genuinely love one another. I'm the oldest cousin and everybody is getting married and having babies. I still have dinner with my parents on sunday nights. I'm pretty blessed this way.
Misteriosa
05-22-2009, 08:58 AM
Misti, stop living a parallel life to me :lol: When my dad was diagnosed with cancer my aunt told him she couldn't wait for him to die so she could dance and piss on his grave. And yet she knew just who to call whenever she wanted plumbing work done and didn't want to pay for it, including parts.
heh.. the reasons are not so parallel... my mom had to get a restraining order aginast my dad b/c he was an alcoholic who had a wife beating problem... he was basically left homeless because of that. he has 4 bros and 1 sister. only his sister and one brother even entertained the idea of him staying with their fam for a while. he ended up with my aunt. this is coming from people who lived in MY MOTHER'S HOUSE (we had a 3 fam house attatched to his fam's house).
im not shedding tears over not seeing them. i only talk to the family of that aunt and uncle who offered.
I'm very lucky and love my entire, but I kinda feel guilty for it after reading the above posts. There are some in the extended family I could do without, but that's a very small percentage.
Thebazile78
05-22-2009, 11:27 AM
I'm very lucky and love my entire, but I kinda feel guilty for it after reading the above posts. There are some in the extended family I could do without, but that's a very small percentage.
Don't feel guilty about loving your entire family if that's how you feel. You're very fortunate!
SatCam
05-22-2009, 02:38 PM
Everyone is cool and down to earth but I dont think im close with anyone in my family including my immediate family. but they laugh at my jokes and I pretend to laugh at theirs. i think I come from the most unfunny family ever
ToiletCrusher
05-22-2009, 03:08 PM
agreed.
my father's side of the family is almost nonexistent to me. they are not loathed, but they never tried to make a connection with my mom or my sisters (they hated my mom) and they treated my dad like garbage when he needed them most.
im not killing myself to make a connection with them.
Sounds familiar.
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