Single Vs. Relationship Question

[Gvac]

Would you rather be in a committed relationship/married and have sex with the same partner 200 times a year or be single and have sex with a different partner 20 times a year?

It's a hypothetical scenario, so PLEASE don't start with the "I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!" stuff.

Let's just say these are the numbers.

Thanks.

[biggirl]

I am not gonna vote, but I will give you my 2 cents....less sex is way more exciting.

[Jujubees2]

I am not gonna vote, but I will give you my 2 cents....less sex is way more exciting.

Must be a woman thing...

[Aggie]

Definitely more sex with the same person. When you get to know what each other likes by practicing you can't beat that.

[hammersavage]

Definitely more sex with the same person. When you get to know what each other likes by practicing you can't beat that.

Sure you can. Mastering one person then moving onto the next and trying to figure them out. I know that's not the case in this scenario.

[Aggie]

Sure you can. Mastering one person then moving onto the next and trying to figure them out. I know that's not the case in this scenario.

And in MY opinion you can't.

Why don't you worry about bedding one person first before you try to figure out these scenarios.

[hammersavage]

Bedding?

[Marc with a c]

Bedding?

wrong thread.

[JerseyRich]

You can't possibly expect to have good sexual chemistry with 20 different people in a year...

I pick good sexual chemistry with one person.

[Donnie Iris]

This is all dictated by the partner(s) in my opinion.

[~Katja~]

It's great when you find one person you have that chemistry with where sex is absolutely exciting and fantastic and you find yourself day dreaming about the next time...
I am always in some sort of a relationship when I do have sex, it's just better that way.

[ToiletCrusher]

20 partners a year?

Fucking crazy.

Disease free is the way to be.

[underdog]

I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!

[Jujubees2]

I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!

There has to be one in every thread...

[~Katja~]

I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!
why? the 600 times is starting to wear you out?

[JerseyRich]

I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!

There has to be one in every thread...

OH YOU GUYS!

[Gvac]

While there's nothing like the excitement of getting to know someone intimately, I agree with the majority here that having someone you're comfortable with is the best.

[Marc with a c]

I'm married and I WISH I had sex 200 times a year!

i'm sure you do rummy. thinking back naming your dick captain morgan hasn't really worked out for you.

[strawberrypop]

I named mine Captain and Tenille.

[hammersavage]

I named mine Captain and Tenille.

your balls?

[Jujubees2]

I named mine Captain and Tenille.

Does the captain wear that funny hat?

[underdog]

i'm sure you do rummy. thinking back naming your dick captain morgan hasn't really worked out for you.

I hate that you make me laugh at insults directed at me.

[strawberrypop]

your balls?

My teeth.

[JPMNICK]

this is the typical grass is always greener question. no matter what side you are on, inevitably you will be wishing you were on the other side. when you are single and go a few weeks or months without sex you wish you were in a relationship. when you have be banging the same chick for a couple years and see a hot girl walk by, you will wish you could be with her just once.

[Ritalin]

Set aside all the "I've found that one person I want to spend the rest of my time with lalala" sentiment.

I like being attached to the same person, it suits me. I look at my single friends and think: what a pain in the ass, having to find someone you like over and over again and do the silly ritual in order to get them in bed. Because that's what you have to do when you're single and you're not looking for a long term relationship.

Fuck that.

[biggirl]

Sex isn't everything....I happen to like talking to my spouse more. Sex is just a bonus.

[JerseyRich]

Sex isn't everything....I happen to like talking to my spouse more. Sex is just a bonus.

Into dirty talkin' eh?

[biggirl]

Into dirty talkin' eh?

why? you interested?

[strawberrypop]

Sex isn't everything....I happen to like talking to my spouse more. Sex is just a bonus.

This is why men hate women.

[boosterp]

Definitely more sex with the same person. When you get to know what each other likes by practicing you can't beat that.

I agree totally.

[biggirl]

This is why men hate women.

Maybe some men....not the good ones though.

[MetalAcorna]

I am not gonna vote, but I will give you my 2 cents....less sex is way more exciting.

I'm sorry, but I can't see how less sex would ever be more exciting.

Definitely more sex with the same person. When you get to know what each other likes by practicing you can't beat that.

I completely agree with you on this. It's great knowing what each other likes because you get more enjoyment out of the experience as a whole. Personally, I enjoy the thought of being with one person for the rest of your life, if you actually want to be with that person. For me, feelings for that person goes hand in hand with sex.

Plus, it just makes sense that more (great) sex = awesome.

[lleeder]

the first one i need lots and lots of release

[~Katja~]

the first one i need lots and lots of release
did your wife leave the room?

[lleeder]

did your wife leave the room?

i had a different response at first but that was just bad reading comprehension.

[biggirl]

I'm sorry, but I can't see how less sex would ever be more exciting.

.

Try having fertility issues and having to have sex every goddamned day...anyone would get sick of it! Not to be too personal or anything.:wink:

[lleeder]

Try having fertility issues and having to have sex every goddamned day...anyone would get sick of it! Not to be too personal or anything.:wink:

must be gays.

[biggirl]

must be gays.

No I am not gay...thanks for asking though.

[Dell]

more is always better...except for chemotherapy...

[Jujubees2]

more is always better...except for chemotherapy...

and nuclear bombs...

[TripleSkeet]

Im married and I love being married, but as a single guy nothing was better then new pussy. Especially when nailing two different women on the same day. Variety = Spice of Life.

[Jujubees2]

Im married and I love being married, but as a single guy nothing was better then new pussy. Especially when nailing two different women on the same day. Variety = Spice of Life.

Braggart. I don't think I "nailed" two different women in the same year!

[biggirl]

Im married and I love being married, but as a single guy nothing was better then new pussy. Especially when nailing two different women on the same day. Variety = Spice of Life.

You must of been one of those "naughty kids" I was talking about....:laugh:

[epo]

Im married and I love being married, but as a single guy nothing was better then new pussy. Especially when nailing two different women on the same day. Variety = Spice of Life.

As awesome as new pussy is, I would rather be in a relationship. Although...I cannot express how awesome new pussy is.

[TripleSkeet]

You must of been one of those "naughty kids" I was talking about....:laugh:

LOL

Those were actually in my prime single bartending years.

But I did have a serious girlfriend when I met my wife. And I wasnt going to break up with her until I was sure my wife wasnt just playing games. So for about 2 months (December and January for Xmas AND my birthday) I kept both. For awhile my apartment looked like a typical 3's Company episode, where Id have to get rid of one before the other one got there. Meanwhile my friends lived across the street and would constantly look out their window hoping to see me finally get caught.

[biggirl]

LOL

Those were actually in my prime single bartending years.

But I did have a serious girlfriend when I met my wife. And I wasnt going to break up with her until I was sure my wife wasnt just playing games. So for about 2 months (December and January for Xmas AND my birthday) I kept both. For awhile my apartment looked like a typical 3's Company episode, where Id have to get rid of one before the other one got there. Meanwhile my friends lived across the street and would constantly look out their window hoping to see me finally get caught.

So did your wife ever find out? Or are you still keeping it a secret?:wink:

[biggirl]

As awesome as new pussy is, I would rather be in a relationship. Although...I cannot express how awesome new pussy is.

How awesome? Really, I want to know...I can't get a mental picture.

[TripleSkeet]

How awesome? Really, I want to know...I can't get a mental picture.

Theres no words that could do justice to how awesome new pussy is.


And I told her 1 year into the relationship. She laughed.

[epo]

How awesome? Really, I want to know...I can't get a mental picture.

Wasn't I clear? IT CAN'T BE EXPRESSED!

[Gmann]

As awesome as new pussy is, I would rather be in a relationship. Although...I cannot express how awesome new pussy is.

Theres nothing like that magical feeling when a new chick 1st puts her hand down your pants. To me its the equivalent of when youre a little kid and waking up Christmas morning and seeing all the presents around the tree.

[Marc with a c]

hj's are better than transformers. sorry gmann.

[Marc with a c]

i get the analogy, i just wanted to use 'hj' in a sentence.

[biggirl]

Wasn't I clear? IT CAN'T BE EXPRESSED!

Oh sorry...I can't read very well...I understand...but was hoping for a little more...I get it...don't get mad...please....I would be devastated.

[biggirl]

Theres no words that could do justice to how awesome new pussy is.


And I told her 1 year into the relationship. She laughed.

wow...your wife sounds really wonderful and totally cool....:wacko:

[Dirtbag]

hj's are better than transformers. sorry gmann.

Doubtful.

[A.J.]

Would you rather be in a committed relationship/married and have sex with the same partner 200 times a year or be single and have sex with a different partner 20 times a year?

I'm single and I haven't had sex 20 times in my LIFE.

[disneyspy]

im single and i havent had sex 20,000 times in my life

[Contra]

Wow this is a real conundrum for me. On one hand I like the stability of a relationship, but on the other hand I like sex with different girls. I've always been kind of a loner, so being single is sort of in my nature. However, being with one person and knowing the you have someone all to yourself is a great feeling.

As far as "getting to know what they like", I hit the clit in various ways and that's all I've ever needed to know!

[biggirl]

im single and i havent had sex 20,000 times in my life

That is too bad...It was one of my greater accomplishments.

[~Katja~]

I'm single and I haven't had sex 20 times in my LIFE.
I find that hard to believe... are you the 40 year old virgin?

[Gmann]

i get the analogy, i just wanted to use 'hj' in a sentence.

You worry me sometimes.

[epo]

im single and i havent had sex 20,000 times in my life

That's obvious.

[Marc with a c]

That's obvious.

the single part?

[A.J.]

I find that hard to believe... are you the 40 year old virgin?

No, the 39 year old loner.

[~Katja~]

No, the 39 year old loner.
such a waste... now I don't feel as bad about my dry spells anymore

[hammersavage]

now I don't feel as bad about my dry spells anymore

use lube

[disneyspy]

such a waste... now I don't feel as bad about my dry spells anymore

edit,damn hammer

[hammersavage]

lube?

what a hack

[~Katja~]

no wonder you all have no relationships with all that head bumping!

[hammersavage]

no wonder you all have no relationships with all that head bumping!

speaking of head bumping......sup?

[~Katja~]

speaking of head bumping......sup?
so smooth

[west milly Tom]

speaking of head bumping......sup?



Hands off she's spoken for, her heart belongs to a man from Michigan

[Gvac]

Hands off she's spoken for, her heart belongs to a man from Michigan

Although I root for the Red Wings, I'm from New Jersey.

[west milly Tom]

Although I root for the Red Wings, I'm from New Jersey.



I knew from jump street that this thread was just another veiled attempt by you to woo the German broad. Kudosto you sir

[A.J.]

I find that hard to believe...

Also, sometimes I inadvertently put my foot in my mouth.

[boosterp]

Theres nothing like that magical feeling when a new chick 1st puts her hand down your pants. To me its the equivalent of when youre a little kid and waking up Christmas morning and seeing all the presents around the tree.

Yea, but when you reciprocate it can also be like christmas gifts in that half of them are always disappointing.

[SatCam]

Would rather be with one girl, but not necessarily in a relationship