I need a good cry

[SatCam]

This weekend has just been a terrible weekend for me. Not because of anything big, just all the small shitty things seemed to have piled up...... work.... love..... work again......... and now I feel like the next bad thing is going to give me a breakdown

anyone know that feeling?

[A.J.]

Yes.

[disneyspy]

hell yes,it sucks but you know things will even out sooner or later,just take 5 minutes to yourself and go cry,then you'll realize that thats not doin any good any go do somethin for yourself that actually makes you feel good,mine is homemade tacos with cherry tomatoes,speaking of which...

[Foster]

it's the worst when little thing build up on you, because you can't put the blame on one thing as to why things are crappy.

take DS's advice, just find something to take your mind off of things and it will help you look at things with a new perspective afterwards.

[Doctor Z]

A healthy dose of this should do the trick...

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cxEYagC8foY/SGBSTlt58QI/AAAAAAAABFI/IghQl-7BBSw/s320/Coldplay-A_Rush_Of_Blood_To_The_Head.jpg

[SatCam]

I feel like every time I try to do something new, try to do something bigger than im doing.... I fail...... its real discouraging, I guess you have to fail to succeed......

What pisses me off is that I got upset that the chinese place I go to was closed today for no reason. The lights were off, they didnt pick up the phone.......... and I count that as my "bad" thing for today.

I have confidence tomorrow will be a better day.

[disneyspy]

wow sat,try writin a gratitude list,you know things you're grateful for.just try it and post back to tell us how you're feelin

[~Katja~]

a good cry sometimes is better than having no emotions at all...

of course you can live my life... no work and no love... so you have no reason to feel emotional... until you get emotional that you miss a good reason to cry a little

[Foster]

I feel like every time I try to do something new, try to do something bigger than im doing.... I fail...... its real discouraging, I guess you have to fail to succeed......

What pisses me off is that I got upset that the chinese place I go to was closed today for no reason. The lights were off, they didnt pick up the phone.......... and I count that as my "bad" thing for today.

I have confidence tomorrow will be a better day.

if it makes you feel any better, you bringing up chinese food helped me decide what to have for dinner

thanks budday!

[lleeder]

my chinese place was closed for 2 days i know the struggle

[Foster]

my chinese place was closed for 2 days i know the struggle

now I'm scared...

I better call first

[SatCam]

if it makes you feel any better, you bringing up chinese food helped me decide what to have for dinner

thanks budday!

if you need any ideas, i was gonna get boneless spare ribs with pork fried rice. I built myself up so much for that... it was going to make me feel a lot better about things, then I show up and the lights are off. I ended up getting panera bread and eating alone. I think that would have been the perfect time to start welling up.

[Foster]

if you need any ideas, i was gonna get boneless spare ribs with pork fried rice. I built myself up so much for that... it was going to make me feel a lot better about things, then I show up and the lights are off. I ended up getting panera bread and eating alone. I think that would have been the perfect time to start welling up.

I had Panera for lunch

[SatCam]

I had Panera for lunch

maybe I should try the chinese place again

[Foster's Blackberry]

YES!!!

They're open!!!

[Dude!]

you should hook up
with keithy_19

[DolaMight]

I'm sorry I contributed when I called you a urine expert.

I was using my mobile and it looked like you started the urine drinking thread, when you were merely a participant. By the time I realized my mistake, it was too late, feeling were hurt.

[SatCam]

you should hook up
with keithy_19

if he was up for it... i dont think he's ready for another relationship yet

I'm sorry I contributed when I called you a urine expert.

I was using my mobile and it looked like you started the urine drinking thread, when you were merely a participant. By the time I realized my mistake, it was too late, feeling were hurt.

i took that as a compliment actually. now im sad youre taking it back

[DolaMight]

if he was up for it... i dont think he's ready for another relationship yet



i took that as a compliment actually. now im sad youre taking it back

i can't do anything right. now i'm sad

[biggirl]

I have these days all of the time. I feel for you. I hope you feel better soon. I can't even give you any advice because I am not sure how I make myself feel better....maybe just like the little things that brought you done, there are little things that bring you up too. For me it can be a little giggle from my daughter, or nice snuggle with my dog, a joke from my son, or sometimes just a good cry is all I need.

Really hope things starting looking up for you.

[biggestmexi]

This weekend has just been a terrible weekend for me. Not because of anything big, just all the small shitty things seemed to have piled up...... work.... love..... work again......... and now I feel like the next bad thing is going to give me a breakdown

anyone know that feeling?

yup

[SatCam]

well I tied up a few loose ends with the lady, that helped a lot. in fact women seem to be the root of all problems.......


all the other issues.. are quite manageable. in fact they're barely on my mind now. im looking forward to spending the day with a wash mitt and my car tomorrow. thats probably the most therapeutic thing I know

[biggirl]

well I tied up a few loose ends with the lady, that helped a lot. in fact women seem to be the root of all problems.......


all the other issues.. are quite manageable. in fact they're barely on my mind now. im looking forward to spending the day with a wash mitt and my car tomorrow. thats probably the most therapeutic thing I know

I couldn't agree with you more, and I am a woman. Seriously.

[~Katja~]

nah, if you know yourself and you know your women they aren't all that troublesome!
Just need to be able to trust and be open and not make her feel like she needs to be mysterious as much as she needs to take you the way you are and not make you feel like you need to hide any side of you.

Trust and honesty and being completely raw!

[Charlie_Don't_Surf]

nah, if you know yourself and you know your women they aren't all that troublesome!
Just need to be able to trust and be open and not make her feel like she needs to be mysterious as much as she needs to take you the way you are and not make you feel like you need to hide any side of you.

Trust and honesty and being completely raw!

Completely raw? Cuz I prefer to be safe.

[~Katja~]

Completely raw? Cuz I prefer to be safe.
I knew someone had to go there...lol

and if ya know and can trust there is nothing better than "raw"...lol even if that also applies to your knee caps :P

[Charlie_Don't_Surf]

I knew someone had to go there...lol

and if ya know and can trust there is nothing better than "raw"...lol even if that also applies to your knee caps :P

How have you not been canonized yet? You're a living saint. :wub:

[SatCam]

nah, if you know yourself and you know your women they aren't all that troublesome!
Just need to be able to trust and be open and not make her feel like she needs to be mysterious as much as she needs to take you the way you are and not make you feel like you need to hide any side of you.

Trust and honesty and being completely raw!

im not sure what youre saying i hold up my end of the deal

[~Katja~]

im not sure what youre saying i hold up my end of the deal
well I obviously don't know what the troubles you guys have are about, but usually they are caused by misunderstandings or finding out things about the other person that displease in some way or another. When you feel like you can talk about it no matter what (and that goes for both ends) they are quickly resolved and don't really cause these uncomfortable moments or days to begin with...

[SatCam]

ok i didnt think id ever have to bump this thread again but today i almost left work and drove off into the sunset never to return to this part of the country......... i feel like everything i know is coming crashing down on me. I cant even remember why I started this thread in the first place but it couldnt be more relevent in my life right now

[IamFogHat]

ok i didnt think id ever have to bump this thread again but today i almost left work and drove off into the sunset never to return to this part of the country......... i feel like everything i know is coming crashing down on me. I cant even remember why I started this thread in the first place but it couldnt be more relevent in my life right now

So it's not good that I feel like this every day then?:sad:

[DolaMight]

ok i didnt think id ever have to bump this thread again but today i almost left work and drove off into the sunset never to return to this part of the country......... i feel like everything i know is coming crashing down on me. I cant even remember why I started this thread in the first place but it couldnt be more relevent in my life right now

bad news, you can run to the other side of the country but ronfez.net will be there too. waiting in mediocrity. it's even here in canada. you can't escape.

[SatCam]

bad news, you can run to the other side of the country but ronfez.net will be there too. waiting in mediocrity. it's even here in canada. you can't escape.
this site is the only thing i have that has never done me wrong

my parents my friends my job........at what point do i realize that maybe its me and not them??

[disneyspy]

you shoulda tried the gratitude list,when i get really bothered by something i say the serenity prayer 10 times and feel better(you have to have a belief in a higher power tho)

[DolaMight]

this site is the only thing i have that has never done me wrong

my parents my friends my job........at what point do i realize that maybe its me and not them??

I don't know what to say, it's not you it's me..... no that doesn't help.

Fuck it.... pull a Kramerica and move to Calli. If they care about you they will come. George and Jerry did.

[Lady Resin]

I know the feeling. The bank accoutant is dwindling down and bills are piling up. I cry and have nightmares every night.:down:

[SatCam]

you shoulda tried the gratitude list,when i get really bothered by something i say the serenity prayer 10 times and feel better(you have to have a belief in a higher power tho)

haha the serenity prayer is what gets me thru the day, i dont know where id be without it

[Dougie Brootal]

serenity now!

[keithy_19]

if he was up for it... i dont think he's ready for another relationship yet


I spent the last few nights desperately clining to a relatiosnhip that was perfect for me after completely fucking it up.

I'm not really up for it, but I could use a rebound to make me feel slightly better, then even worse.

[keith richard]

Don't get mad at me , Keithy....but yout got to give it up....if you fucked it up...give it up....I've gone throug that

[keithy_19]

Don't get mad at me , Keithy....but yout got to give it up....if you fucked it up...give it up....I've gone throug that

I had a few months where I just sucked. Lied about stupid shit because I didn't want her to be mad (not that I did anything wrong that I needed to lie about). Then the lie got bigger and I couldn't stop. Now I have no clue how it began.

One thing I lied about though was buying her a ring for Christmas. She had bought me one that hadn't come in yet and told me. I had been looking to get her one for awhile and I had it picked out so I said I had already ordered it since I had every intention of ordering it when I got my next paycheck. I get my paycheck and then my car breaks down. I have to empty my bank account to fix my car. In the meantime, I find another ring that costs more money that I know she'll like more. So I save up my money in order to get her that ring which I plan to give her on valentines day.

Eventually the ring came in and she gives it to me, though we had been getting progessively worse and she didn't know if she wanted to give it to me anymore. She does though and asks whatever happened to the ring I ordered her. I fumble with my words, and I really don't know why I couldn't tell her that I was saving up for a better one. I froze.

That fucked it up. She said she could be my friend for now but since she couldn't trust me and that she wasn't sure if she could be anything else.

I also went to a Devils game (my brother had an extra ticket) one night when things were really bad between us and I told her that I did and she can't let go that I was at a hockey game having fun while she was crying at home.

Guess I'm an asshole.

[keithy_19]

So anyway, lots of liquor in the future and I'll drink to you satcam. :drunk:

[keith richard]

You know, Keith,,,you sounded pretty cool there....you told us the truth...maybe if you told er what you just told us...who knows????

[SatCam]

Im glad we could bring reeshy out of the woodwork for this thread...

Sorry to hear about your girl keithy, you do sound like an asshole but I have the same problem with telling the truth.... except i just keep a lot of my life a secret from people instead of lying about it. I was thinking lately about how no one in my life really knows who I am. I tell bits and pieces about myself to different people

Regarding the drinking.......thats one thing I avoid......my life is bad enough as it is

[keithy_19]

Im glad we could bring reeshy out of the woodwork for this thread...

Sorry to hear about your girl keithy, you do sound like an asshole but I have the same problem with telling the truth.... except i just keep a lot of my life a secret from people instead of lying about it. I was thinking lately about how no one in my life really knows who I am. I tell bits and pieces about myself to different people

Regarding the drinking.......thats one thing I avoid......my life is bad enough as it is

I fucked up. I was always very open to my feelings and told her everything. Then things got kind of bad between us, and I got hurt, and I started keeping my feelings to myself. I always told her I loved her, but I kind of closed off.