my grandma died and i've been drinking

[Adolf]

i'm 34

i have 1 grandparent left now, as of 2 days ago

and 1 parent, as of 4 years ago


what a drag it is getting old


thanks for letting me vent :grouphug:



i dont know what i'll do when ma dies :help:

i hope i go before she does . or do i...

it's amazing how fast time goes by

in the last 5 years i've lost 5 friends and the coolest cat ive ever known


there's more to this than earth, right............... this cant be it




party on garth

[sexy bastard]

i am sorry for your loss.
I dont think drinking can help all it can do is hurt you, i learned this from my own experience

[Adolf]

oh i know it doesn't help, believe me..... it's a terrible path to take. 2 days til yet another funeral...................

i aint looking for sympathy or whatever, im just typing............ it aint easy living



i like this forum :drunk:

[epo]

Sorry to hear about your loss.

I hope you find solace in the wonderful time you had together.

[underdog]

I have no guidance, but I can sort of sympathize. I'm 30, I've had no grandparents for at least 4 years and today, I spent all day moving my 60+ year old parents out of my childhood home that they have lost because they went broke.

And drinking helps.

[tanless1]

None of know what we will do...
What we can do is time....it means so much.
Potery, meals, museums,and hugs. Stoke the fires of the living, strengthen the memories of the future. Open your heart to the joy , as the sadness is centerd in self.

[tanless1]

Jesus underdog, that is rough. I'm addressing my financail failings now so I'm able to focus on that very issue.

[underdog]

Jesus underdog, that is rough. I'm addressing my financail failings now so I'm able to focus on that very issue.

My wife and my family financial issues are the main reason we both have 401Ks.

[Adolf]

ouch, yeah that had to be rough. i hear ya. it's weird that our payoff for longevity is to watch our friends and family die off........ it's like why would you want to live to be 100, when everyone you knew has died and only the kids will remember you

ya ever wonder if once you get to 'heaven' you ask yourself why you took so long to get there..? maybe this is a shitty chapter in the book we're writing....... shrug

bottoms up


'and eddie i miss you more than all the others, and i salute you brother

those are people who died, died'

[jennysmurf]

Sorry, buddy. My Grandma is 92, not looking forward to getting that call. You're right, getting older sucks.:glurps:

[Adolf]

'that call' will change your life

you won't even remember who you were before it



ok, i might punch out now............ 7 more beers and im done


wait til a parent dies.... ooofda

[DOHO@HOME]

Dying is easy living is the hard part,live as today is your last!
Sorry about your loss and you can only think of the good times you had with the people that pass along.

[Penelope]

2010 so far has been a terrible year for almost everyone I know. People dying, getting diseases, going broke, etc. . . .
I really wish I could help everyone, but I've gone kind of loopy this year myself. A big hug for everyone here that is in pain.

[CYYYFYYY]

Just don;t make drinking an everyday thing. Drinking can just add to your problems it does not solve but for a little while it can be a good thing